curvy girls or men who like them
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the problem is most women use the words "curvey" when they are overweight. I think "curvy" is how you are built (hourglass, pear, apple shapes, top heavy, bottom heavy, etc) and if you are carrying the right weight on the right frame you can be curvy and sexy.
I dont think "curvy" is sexy on a woman who is overweight and unhealthy.
Ultimetely healthy is the new sexy, and if that includes curves as well then it is your lucky day!
Sorry go ahead and get butt hurt and hate me.
I agree with you on the fact that the term "curvy" is often misused.
I don't think "curvy" should even be a compliment since any girl can be beautiful, even without very prominent curves.
Especially if you consider that, whatever curvy might mean, it's mostly used as a compliment only when a girl is somewhat thin or at least good looking.
Same thing goes for the term "sexy".
A girl can be sexy at any weight in my opinion.
Sexy is sexy, curvy is curvy, and healthy is healthy, you don't have to be curvy or healthy to be sexy or whatever.
Lolwut :huh:
What?
My post makes perfect sense to me. I don't get why you people don't explain yourself while disagreeing. The world is full of people that might disagree with you.0 -
the problem is most women use the words "curvey" when they are overweight. I think "curvy" is how you are built (hourglass, pear, apple shapes, top heavy, bottom heavy, etc) and if you are carrying the right weight on the right frame you can be curvy and sexy.
I dont think "curvy" is sexy on a woman who is overweight and unhealthy.
Ultimetely healthy is the new sexy, and if that includes curves as well then it is your lucky day!
Sorry go ahead and get butt hurt and hate me.
I agree with you on the fact that the term "curvy" is often misused.
I don't think "curvy" should even be a compliment since any girl can be beautiful, even without very prominent curves.
Especially if you consider that, whatever curvy might mean, it's mostly used as a compliment only when a girl is somewhat thin or at least good looking.
Same thing goes for the term "sexy".
A girl can be sexy at any weight in my opinion.
Sexy is sexy, curvy is curvy, and healthy is healthy, you don't have to be curvy or healthy to be sexy or whatever.
I don't think that a lack of curves should be an insult. But I don't see a problem with curvy as a compliment.0 -
the problem is most women use the words "curvey" when they are overweight. I think "curvy" is how you are built (hourglass, pear, apple shapes, top heavy, bottom heavy, etc) and if you are carrying the right weight on the right frame you can be curvy and sexy.
I dont think "curvy" is sexy on a woman who is overweight and unhealthy.
Ultimetely healthy is the new sexy, and if that includes curves as well then it is your lucky day!
Sorry go ahead and get butt hurt and hate me.
I agree with you on the fact that the term "curvy" is often misused.
I don't think "curvy" should even be a compliment since any girl can be beautiful, even without very prominent curves.
Especially if you consider that, whatever curvy might mean, it's mostly used as a compliment only when a girl is somewhat thin or at least good looking.
Same thing goes for the term "sexy".
A girl can be sexy at any weight in my opinion.
Sexy is sexy, curvy is curvy, and healthy is healthy, you don't have to be curvy or healthy to be sexy or whatever.
Lolwut :huh:
What?
My post makes perfect sense to me. I don't get why you people don't explain yourself while disagreeing. The world is full of people that might disagree with you.
Well of course it makes sense to you, its your post. I should hope it makes sense to you at least.
And I felt I explained my confusion with your post well enough. Do you think something can only be a compliment is all people can achieve it? Does this mean I can't compliment someone on their athletic body type or on being ripped? Can't call people intelligent as a compliment, since not all people are intelligent?0 -
the problem is most women use the words "curvey" when they are overweight. I think "curvy" is how you are built (hourglass, pear, apple shapes, top heavy, bottom heavy, etc) and if you are carrying the right weight on the right frame you can be curvy and sexy.
I dont think "curvy" is sexy on a woman who is overweight and unhealthy.
Ultimetely healthy is the new sexy, and if that includes curves as well then it is your lucky day!
Sorry go ahead and get butt hurt and hate me.
I agree with you on the fact that the term "curvy" is often misused.
I don't think "curvy" should even be a compliment since any girl can be beautiful, even without very prominent curves.
Especially if you consider that, whatever curvy might mean, it's mostly used as a compliment only when a girl is somewhat thin or at least good looking.
Same thing goes for the term "sexy".
A girl can be sexy at any weight in my opinion.
Sexy is sexy, curvy is curvy, and healthy is healthy, you don't have to be curvy or healthy to be sexy or whatever.
Lolwut :huh:
What?
My post makes perfect sense to me. I don't get why you people don't explain yourself while disagreeing. The world is full of people that might disagree with you.
I would hope it would make sense to you. It makes sense to no one else.0 -
I don't think that a lack of curves should be an insult. But I don't see a problem with curvy as a compliment.
The problem is not using "curvy" as a compliment. If you're making a compliment, that's awesome.
The problem is that the lack of curves is usually meant to be an insult. So, I think that using "curvy" as a compliment is not bad, but just counterproductive and somewhat deceiving. At least nowadays in our society.0 -
the problem is most women use the words "curvey" when they are overweight. I think "curvy" is how you are built (hourglass, pear, apple shapes, top heavy, bottom heavy, etc) and if you are carrying the right weight on the right frame you can be curvy and sexy.
I dont think "curvy" is sexy on a woman who is overweight and unhealthy.
Ultimetely healthy is the new sexy, and if that includes curves as well then it is your lucky day!
Sorry go ahead and get butt hurt and hate me.
I agree with you on the fact that the term "curvy" is often misused.
I don't think "curvy" should even be a compliment since any girl can be beautiful, even without very prominent curves.
Especially if you consider that, whatever curvy might mean, it's mostly used as a compliment only when a girl is somewhat thin or at least good looking.
Same thing goes for the term "sexy".
A girl can be sexy at any weight in my opinion.
Sexy is sexy, curvy is curvy, and healthy is healthy, you don't have to be curvy or healthy to be sexy or whatever.
Lolwut :huh:
What?
My post makes perfect sense to me. I don't get why you people don't explain yourself while disagreeing. The world is full of people that might disagree with you.
I would hope it would make sense to you. It makes sense to no one else.
Great, sorry for expressing my opinion if it makes no sense to you :flowerforyou:0 -
Girls need to have curves. I don't want to cuddle up with a ten speed at night. Too...poky. But the sexiest thing? Self-confidence. Way better to be with someone who owns her body and isn't constantly hung up on how she looks. There, I admitted it. Do I get a prize?
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I don't think that a lack of curves should be an insult. But I don't see a problem with curvy as a compliment.
The problem is not using "curvy" as a compliment. If you're making a compliment, that's awesome.
The problem is that the lack of curves is usually meant to be an insult. So, I think that using "curvy" as a compliment is not bad, but just counterproductive and somewhat deceiving. At least nowadays in our society.
Well, imo it's in the wording.
I think it's fine to say "I prefer curvy women" or "women with big butts are sexy"
I don't think it's fine to say "Women shouldn't look like teenage boys" or "meat is for men, bones are for dogs" or the like.
Preferences- fine
Insulting people who aren't your preference- not fine
eta: see post directly above mine. :noway:0 -
Girls need to have curves. I don't want to cuddle up with a ten speed at night. Too...poky. But the sexiest thing? Self-confidence. Way better to be with someone who owns her body and isn't constantly hung up on how she looks. There, I admitted it. Do I get a prize?
No. Absolutely not.0 -
Girls need to have curves. I don't want to cuddle up with a ten speed at night. Too...poky. But the sexiest thing? Self-confidence. Way better to be with someone who owns her body and isn't constantly hung up on how she looks. There, I admitted it. Do I get a prize?
Do you get a prize for comparing a girl to a 10 speed because she isn't curvy enough for you? No.0 -
Girls need to have curves. I don't want to cuddle up with a ten speed at night. Too...poky. But the sexiest thing? Self-confidence. Way better to be with someone who owns her body and isn't constantly hung up on how she looks. There, I admitted it. Do I get a prize?
No. Absolutely not.
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thisGirls need to have curves. I don't want to cuddle up with a ten speed at night. Too...poky. But the sexiest thing? Self-confidence. Way better to be with someone who owns her body and isn't constantly hung up on how she looks. There, I admitted it. Do I get a prize?
No. Absolutely not.
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My husband is a very practical man. He had a very serious conversation with me regarding my weight. As the price of propane has gone up, he has decided that I need to pile back on the 75 lbs that I lost. That way we can save money on heating costs because when I'm fat I give off a lot of heat and we are able to turn the heat down lower at night.0
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My husband is a very practical man. He had a very serious conversation with me regarding my weight. As the price of propane has gone up, he has decided that I need to pile back on the 75 lbs that I lost. That way we can save money on heating costs because when I'm fat I give off a lot of heat and we are able to turn the heat down lower at night.
I admire practicality in a man, to be honest.0 -
I have not had someone in real life compliment my curves. Quite the opposite actually. I am 42 34 43 I have got stopped on the street to be told to lose weight. I have had people tell me I am fat. But not really had that my curves are beautiful. Only on here. LOL So I am interested in what the men have to say.
For the record also, I used to wear a bikini on the beach when I was 20kg heavier, and had strangers hit me and tell me to put it away. I will never wear a bikini again. Words hurt!
OMG! I'm so sorry you had to deal with this! You didn't deserve it and I think you're stunning! It shouldn't matter what size you are and no one has the right to treat you or others like this. It sickens me how cruel people are and how some people think someone else's weight is their business. Don't let anyone make you feel low, because you're better than that.0 -
Girls need to have curves. I don't want to cuddle up with a ten speed at night. Too...poky. But the sexiest thing? Self-confidence. Way better to be with someone who owns her body and isn't constantly hung up on how she looks. There, I admitted it. Do I get a prize?
Call me crazy, but a ten speed is nothing but curves. All those round, circular things on it like wheels.0 -
Funny how men never get called 'Curvy' or 'Full Figured' etc.
I don't understand why women take it as a compliment.
If a woman says to me, 'oh don't lose weight, I really like fat guys' they would be out the door.0 -
if you have curves now, you will still have curves when you lose weight. Curves don't mean fat, curves mean shapely. It is definitely an overused word.0
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I'm "curvy" and I love my curves. I'm losing weight to be healthier, not to lose my curves (which I've always had anyway, even as a size 2). Confidence at any size is key. THAT is what is sexy. I'm gonna wear my 2 piece on the beach regardless of what other people think, because *I* think it looks good on me (husband does too, yay!) Actually it looks way better than my tankini, which covers more but loses all that curvy shape. So ladies, just be confident and rock it!0
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Funny how men never get called 'Curvy' or 'Full Figured' etc.
I don't understand why women take it as a compliment.
If a woman says to me, 'oh don't lose weight, I really like fat guys' they would be out the door.
I take it as a compliment because when people call me curvy they're referring to...you know. My body shape. And my curves. And are saying they like the way they look. My husband refers to me as curvy and, believe me, he isn't calling me 'fat'.0 -
^^^^^This. I'm curvy no matter what my weight is at the time. SURPRISE, I have an *kitten* and boobs when I'm heavier or when I'm tiny. However, per the OPs original question, my hubby always wants to make sure I keep the curves, but I seriously wonder where he thinks they are going to run off to.if you have curves now, you will still have curves when you lose weight. Curves don't mean fat, curves mean shapely. It is definitely an overused word.0 -
I don't think that a lack of curves should be an insult. But I don't see a problem with curvy as a compliment.
The problem is not using "curvy" as a compliment. If you're making a compliment, that's awesome.
The problem is that the lack of curves is usually meant to be an insult. So, I think that using "curvy" as a compliment is not bad, but just counterproductive and somewhat deceiving. At least nowadays in our society.
Well, imo it's in the wording.
I think it's fine to say "I prefer curvy women" or "women with big butts are sexy"
I don't think it's fine to say "Women shouldn't look like teenage boys" or "meat is for men, bones are for dogs" or the like.
Preferences- fine
Insulting people who aren't your preference- not fine
eta: see post directly above mine. :noway:
My intent is not to offend, and wasn't to insult, but isn't that really just semantics? I hardly think its insulting to anyone that I wouldn't be physically attracted to them. Lots of people aren't attracted to me, I don't fault them for colorfully stating the fact.0 -
Yup!:drinker:I prefer a woman who is fit and has curves!!!! To be more specific a woman who looks good in a bikini!!!0 -
^^^^^This. I'm curvy no matter what my weight is at the time. SURPRISE, I have an *kitten* and boobs when I'm heavier or when I'm tiny. However, per the OPs original question, my hubby always wants to make sure I keep the curves, but I seriously wonder where he thinks they are going to run off to.if you have curves now, you will still have curves when you lose weight. Curves don't mean fat, curves mean shapely. It is definitely an overused word.
I know, right? Fit and curvy here. I might be a size 2, but I have boobs and a butt.0 -
I don't think that a lack of curves should be an insult. But I don't see a problem with curvy as a compliment.
The problem is not using "curvy" as a compliment. If you're making a compliment, that's awesome.
The problem is that the lack of curves is usually meant to be an insult. So, I think that using "curvy" as a compliment is not bad, but just counterproductive and somewhat deceiving. At least nowadays in our society.
Well, imo it's in the wording.
I think it's fine to say "I prefer curvy women" or "women with big butts are sexy"
I don't think it's fine to say "Women shouldn't look like teenage boys" or "meat is for men, bones are for dogs" or the like.
Preferences- fine
Insulting people who aren't your preference- not fine
eta: see post directly above mine. :noway:
My intent is not to offend, and wasn't to insult, but isn't that really just semantics? I hardly think its insulting to anyone that I wouldn't be physically attracted to them. Lots of people aren't attracted to me, I don't fault them for colorfully stating the fact.
You also don't need to insult people whom you aren't particularly attracted to.0 -
I have decided that all women should be Flumpy.
Flumpy is my own term for women EXACTLY how I like them. It is a mix of fit, curvy, heavy, thin, healthy, bingeful, lonely, dull, witty, fat, young, wise, mature, and with a wisp of peppermint.
There can be no other way.0 -
hmm seems to be a common topic the last couple of days..
I do enjoy a curvy woman, but I wouldnt suggest to her that she stop trying to work out to stay a particular way for me..
there is the whole "body is a temple" maxim and that should be respected.
So do what you feel you need to..either he will accept it or not but your the one that has to be ok with YOU0 -
I don't know...I guess technically I'm "curvy." I do know that even at a size two/four I didn't lose my chest or sadly, my booty. I've been with men who wanted me traditionally skinny, and I've been with guys that liked it. I always just figured when I found the right guy, he'd like me no matter what.0
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I don't know...I guess technically I'm "curvy." I do know that even at a size two/four I didn't lose my chest or sadly, my booty. I've been with men who wanted me traditionally skinny, and I've been with guys that liked it. I always just figured when I found the right guy, he'd like me no matter what.
Right? As long as YOU are happy with YOU, that is all that matters. Whatever size, shape, weight, etc.0 -
Funny how men never get called 'Curvy' or 'Full Figured' etc.
I don't understand why women take it as a compliment.
If a woman says to me, 'oh don't lose weight, I really like fat guys' they would be out the door.
Agreed! That's because they are fat.
Although I do love a man with a nice *kitten*.
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