Women... Do's n Don'ts of men approaching you!

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bigbarnold
bigbarnold Posts: 2,554 Member
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What is one best or worst way for a man to approach you to start a conversation?
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  • HerkMeOff
    HerkMeOff Posts: 1,002 Member
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    "Hello, I'm _____"
  • bigbarnold
    bigbarnold Posts: 2,554 Member
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    "Hello, I'm _____"
    Is that the best way or the worst? :laugh:
  • HerkMeOff
    HerkMeOff Posts: 1,002 Member
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    "Hello, I'm _____"
    Is that the best way or the worst? :laugh:

    The best.

    Why would it be the worst?
  • pudadough
    pudadough Posts: 1,271 Member
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    Best: make an obscure reference to a funny movie I like. Instant inside joke sort of thing. Geeky humor.

    Worst: Any variation on "Hey, girl/baby/woman." And elevator eyes. Sleazy.
  • snazzyjazzy21
    snazzyjazzy21 Posts: 1,298 Member
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    Hello is a great start. Cheesy pick up lines are very hit and miss so I wouldn't try it...If you get one worded/painfully polite responses, abort, because she just wants to be left alone.
  • giggitygoo
    giggitygoo Posts: 1,978 Member
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    Worst: Approach me and complement random body part.

    Best: Talk to me like I'm a person. Mutual interests are good.
  • Trad_Barbie
    Trad_Barbie Posts: 166 Member
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    What is one best or worst way for a man to approach you to start a conversation?

    That depends, do we have chemistry?

    The worst way would probably be while holding a roll of duct tape and a pill bottle.

    Edited to add: just walk up, offer your hand and your name, and be a gentlemen. It's hot when men are gentlemen. I had more than one man win me over without even trying by just being himself and doing his thing. And by his thing I mean was a BAMF without being a cocky jerk that thought none of us were worthy. Nothing about their walk, talk, or aura was even the least bit cocky- but they were the Alpha male in the room. Hook. Line. And sinker.
  • _celesse
    _celesse Posts: 75 Member
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    Best: Introduces self, expresses interest in some topic of relevance....for example, if I'm looking at a game, "Oh, I like that game." Or something, idk.

    Worst: Making any kind of statement about my appearance, be it positive or negative. I just get weirded out, tbh.
  • bigbarnold
    bigbarnold Posts: 2,554 Member
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    What is one best or worst way for a man to approach you to start a conversation?

    That depends, do we have chemistry?

    The worst way would probably be while holding a roll of duct tape and a pill bottle.
    I could see that being a bad way! To funny! :laugh:
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
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    Worst: Approach me and complement random body part.

    Best: Talk to me like I'm a person. Mutual interests are good.

    ^This!
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
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    Worst: honking a car horn or yelling "hey!" from afar. :noway:
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
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    best: talk about aliens
    worst:compliment my lipstick I dont give a fvck what you think of my lipstick, call me a pet name baby/sweetie/pretty lady whatever
  • Trad_Barbie
    Trad_Barbie Posts: 166 Member
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    What is one best or worst way for a man to approach you to start a conversation?

    That depends, do we have chemistry?

    The worst way would probably be while holding a roll of duct tape and a pill bottle.
    I could see that being a bad way! To funny! :laugh:

    Conversely a shotgun and a bottle of bourbon screams good time.
  • bigbarnold
    bigbarnold Posts: 2,554 Member
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    What is one best or worst way for a man to approach you to start a conversation?

    That depends, do we have chemistry?

    The worst way would probably be while holding a roll of duct tape and a pill bottle.
    I could see that being a bad way! To funny! :laugh:

    Conversely a shotgun and a bottle of bourbon screams good time.
    Hmmm. What about an AK 47 and a margarita? :laugh:
  • SpamLamb
    SpamLamb Posts: 36 Member
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    "Does this rag smell like chloroform?"
  • HerkMeOff
    HerkMeOff Posts: 1,002 Member
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    Worst: honking a car horn or yelling "hey!" from afar. :noway:

    Sorry.

    I'll stop.
  • tiana774
    tiana774 Posts: 3 Member
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    best: something of mutual interest.
    worst: calling me baby girl or something weird and just staring at my body like a piece of filler mignon lol
  • elusive_design
    elusive_design Posts: 1,095 Member
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    Worst: honking a car horn or yelling "hey!" from afar. :noway:

    I did this to a friend the other day at a red light and before she turned I could already hear the string of obscenities and reprimands leaving her lips directed towards whoever had the audacity to do something so rude. Then she saw it was me, blushed the pretties shade of crimson and bought me coffee to make up for calling me something like "Rude, river roach @#@&$^$*#*(@*^@#&(@#$^*$(#@!#$#@($@(&$#%&@!%&^!@##^$^*#&!" Moral of the story you might ask?

    One could assume it is Honk For Free Coffee, really it is don't be a ****!
  • Trad_Barbie
    Trad_Barbie Posts: 166 Member
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    Worst: honking a car horn or yelling "hey!" from afar. :noway:

    I did this to a friend the other day at a red light and before she turned I could already hear the string of obscenities and reprimands leaving her lips directed towards whoever had the audacity to do something so rude. Then she saw it was me, blushed the pretties shade of crimson and bought me coffee to make up for calling me something like "Rude, river roach @#@&$^$*#*(@*^@#&(@#$^*$(#@!#$#@($@(&$#%&@!%&^!@##^$^*#&!" Moral of the story you might ask?

    One could assume it is Honk For Free Coffee, really it is don't be a ****!

    :laugh: I'd have yelled at you, too, and then probably bought you coffee, as well. or Lunch. Or a beer.
  • Trad_Barbie
    Trad_Barbie Posts: 166 Member
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    "Does this rag smell like chloroform?"

    ICON! :love: :heart: :love: :heart: :love: :heart:

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