Girls- Getting sexually frusterated?

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  • fasttrack27
    fasttrack27 Posts: 324
    Dang! If you gals could channel even 1% of those hormones and send them my wife's direction then I'd be a happy man! It's the polar opposite around my house :sad:
  • Stefani74
    Stefani74 Posts: 448 Member
    haa...the guys popping in is cracking me up!!!!

    Yes need to get some soon or else!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :grumble: :explode: :angry: :mad: :sad:
    Of course us guys had to drop in. The title just said "Girls- " it didn't say "Girls Only"
    :laugh:

    Like "Girls" in the title had anything to do with it! :laugh: :laugh:
  • darkrider42
    darkrider42 Posts: 5,422 Member
    My ex was ALWAYS too tired...not interested...could care less. It's not that he was getting it elsewhere, it just was't a priority for him. And honestly it didn't matter what I did, he just wasn't interested in sex. My husband now....he is 44, works 60-80hrs a week and has NEVER been too tired or not interested. We have been together 7 years and still it's almost every night.

    He's a lucky guy to have a wife that is on the same page with him in enjoying it that frequently. I'm married and I'm not even sure who the President was last time I got any.... :brokenheart:

    Like someone else said earlier, it's like glue to a relationship. Without it...stuff just falls apart all around you.
  • paigemang♥
    paigemang♥ Posts: 102
    haa...the guys popping in is cracking me up!!!!

    Yes need to get some soon or else!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :grumble: :explode: :angry: :mad: :sad:
    Of course us guys had to drop in. The title just said "Girls- " it didn't say "Girls Only"
    :laugh:

    Like "Girls" in the title had anything to do with it! :laugh: :laugh:

    Yh the "Girls- Getting sexually frusterated?"....that didnt have a dangling carrot in front of them. <prob not the best visual due to the context>
  • sweetheart03622
    sweetheart03622 Posts: 928 Member

    Thank God for those massaging shower heads...

    Care to explain......hahahaa

    Show and tell? :wink:

    I call your bluff...haha

    Did you miss the part about the boyfriend with time for nothing but studying?

    Or the part about taking care of yourself and letting him watch?

    ... cuz sweetie, there's a lot of business to be taken care of here
  • darkrider42
    darkrider42 Posts: 5,422 Member
    Damn and I have an iphone!

    No problem, Fesse & Sos, they have the same app for iPhone too. ;-)


    ETA to add my good friend, sos... *wink* *wink* :bigsmile:
  • darkrider42
    darkrider42 Posts: 5,422 Member
    Yeah as mine has gotten into the mid 40 range he's started to worry...about keeping up!


    I just hope that if my situation ever improves that because I'm SO well preserved, that my window of availability, so to speak, will be open a lot later into life. :laugh:
  • ♥jewelchristian♥
    ♥jewelchristian♥ Posts: 3,666 Member
    My husband is 11 years younger than I am. Neither of us have ever had a problem keeping each other "happy"
  • crazymama2two
    crazymama2two Posts: 867
    Dam so sorry. . . . I guess Im lucky :happy:

    high five im with you...altho im the more tired one cause of the 19 month old .. my husband could be snoring and all i have to do is give him a nudge, whip out a boob, and game on..
  • darkrider42
    darkrider42 Posts: 5,422 Member
    haa...the guys popping in is cracking me up!!!!

    Yes need to get some soon or else!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :grumble: :explode: :angry: :mad: :sad:

    LMAO -- I seem to remember a trick posting that said "GUYS ONLY - WOMEN STAY OUT!" a couple of days ago, that had like *15+* pages of nothing but women posting, "LOL, ya got me....couldn't resist." :bigsmile:
  • Panda_Jack
    Panda_Jack Posts: 829 Member
    Dam so sorry. . . . I guess Im lucky :happy:

    high five im with you...altho im the more tired one cause of the 19 month old .. my husband could be snoring and all i have to do is give him a nudge, whip out a boob, and game on..

    Love it!
  • Mrs_McFadden
    Mrs_McFadden Posts: 1,139
    I just have to say, for those that are rolling in the sweat, bravo to you! Kisses!!! I am a champ at those times but respectfully- I'd like to say, stop it? When we are talking about being overweight for example you don't see a whole crowd of size 2's rolling in saying OMFG JUST EAT ONE CRACKER A DAY...LIKE DUH!!
    Get it?
    My life is complicated right now..I'm sexually frustrated yes. But I know how to work it and it shall be done.
  • erickirb
    erickirb Posts: 12,294 Member
    I just have to say, for those that are rolling in the sweat, bravo to you! Kisses!!! I am a champ at those times but respectfully- I'd like to say, stop it? When we are talking about being overweight for example you don't see a whole crowd of size 2's rolling in saying OMFG JUST EAT ONE CRACKER A DAY...LIKE DUH!!
    Get it?

    No, I don't get it ???
  • appleshells
    appleshells Posts: 165
    In my case its the computer that needs SMASHED!

    amen.

    and he is a sahd. My drive is through the roof. I have given up asking, begging etc. Maybe when I am thin he will want me again. LOL
  • milehighcritic
    milehighcritic Posts: 199
    I am enjoying reading the posts, especially from the female view.

    WOW\ Gaming or spend time with the GF\Wife---- ?? Are you serious?

    I have a Xbox360 but even I know when it's time to put down the controller :)
  • ♥Violette♥4Ever♥
    ♥Violette♥4Ever♥ Posts: 457 Member

    Thank God for those massaging shower heads...

    Best invention everrrrrrrrr!

    Oh and there is an app on the Droid phone...just sayin

    What app? Please tell me....pleeeeeeeeeese... (can you feel my desperation...lol)
  • hroush
    hroush Posts: 2,073 Member
    Dang! If you gals could channel even 1% of those hormones and send them my wife's direction then I'd be a happy man! It's the polar opposite around my house :sad:

    I'm right there with you. I think in the 3 years I've been with my wife, I could count on both hands the number of times she initiated. When things started to cool down, she would constantly laugh at me and toy with me (put lightly, but something I didn't care for at all), so I have slowed down initializing as well. We now average 2 times a month and decreasing.
  • donby
    donby Posts: 28 Member
    type in vibrator app in the search part of markets. it is free. enjoy!!
  • jenX1174
    jenX1174 Posts: 154
    My ex was ALWAYS too tired...not interested...could care less. It's not that he was getting it elsewhere, it just was't a priority for him. And honestly it didn't matter what I did, he just wasn't interested in sex. My husband now....he is 44, works 60-80hrs a week and has NEVER been too tired or not interested. We have been together 7 years and still it's almost every night.


    That's how it is with my fiance....we've been together 7 1/2 years and have 2 kids. Even in the beginning it was about once every 1-2 weeks, and then maybe twice every 1-2 months.....now it's.....I can't even remember -- i think something like 3 times since August. He never initiates, wants me to -- but I can't tell you how many times he has turned me down flat no matter what I did. Now, I just can't initiate anymore -- it's too dejecting. We've been over and over, and around and around about this. He'd rather watch porn on his pc and *kitten* in the shower. Whatever.......not sure how long I'll be able to stay in this sexless "marriage."
  • rileamoyer
    rileamoyer Posts: 2,412 Member
    If a mature woman may comment. Yep there are slow periods in life - however.......Once the kids are gone - awesome. We have more now than when the kids were home. BTW with age comes experience/skill. :love:
  • nolachick
    nolachick Posts: 3,278 Member
    Dam so sorry. . . . I guess Im lucky :happy:

    high five im with you...altho im the more tired one cause of the 19 month old .. my husband could be snoring and all i have to do is give him a nudge, whip out a boob, and game on..


    "whip out the boob" LOL too funny
  • BFab24
    BFab24 Posts: 66
    I am a little bit different. I have been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years. We did have sex from about 6 months in till about 2 months ago. But I was raised in a very religious home and my conscience was kicking in. Even though there are times we both want to, we refrain now. Not because I think it's bad or anything but we are choosing to keep it special for us and very possibly wait till we are married to do it again. We are even moving in together and this is still our thought process.

    That being said I don't believe that sex always is the "glue" that holds relationships together. Yes if it is becoming an issue with keeping a couple together it should be addressed. But there are many other ways that a couple can relate to each other and hold the relationship together if it's not a high sex drive time for either person. It's important but not the end all.

    Yes I'm old fashioned and my boyfriend may not be "normal" in guy terms but we make it work for us. To each their own. Make it work for you!

    Hugs :)
  • pammbroo
    pammbroo Posts: 550 Member
    Toys and a special showerhead baby...must-have's in a single girl's repertoire.....but oh how much fun it is to share!! :wink:
  • RachVR6
    RachVR6 Posts: 3,688 Member
    I believe him. I know hes not the cheating type. I know he loves me, and i can see it in his eyes. I don't like that as an excuse either, but i have had my moments as well.

    My bf is tired a lot too. I don't fault him for it. :flowerforyou:
  • Amb1976
    Amb1976 Posts: 241 Member
    im there....guess i should have gotten a younger model.....:laugh: :tongue:
  • nolachick
    nolachick Posts: 3,278 Member
    My ex was ALWAYS too tired...not interested...could care less. It's not that he was getting it elsewhere, it just was't a priority for him. And honestly it didn't matter what I did, he just wasn't interested in sex. My husband now....he is 44, works 60-80hrs a week and has NEVER been too tired or not interested. We have been together 7 years and still it's almost every night.


    That's how it is with my fiance....we've been together 7 1/2 years and have 2 kids. Even in the beginning it was about once every 1-2 weeks, and then maybe twice every 1-2 months.....now it's.....I can't even remember -- i think something like 3 times since August. He never initiates, wants me to -- but I can't tell you how many times he has turned me down flat no matter what I did. Now, I just can't initiate anymore -- it's too dejecting. We've been over and over, and around and around about this. He'd rather watch porn on his pc and *kitten* in the shower. Whatever.......not sure how long I'll be able to stay in this sexless "marriage."

    wow, i'm not sure how much longer you can live like that either. seems like it won't get better. have u tried going to couples therapy or something to tap into why he is acting this way and why he doesnt enjoy intimacy?
  • koosdel
    koosdel Posts: 3,317 Member
    Dr. Pepper, Southern Comfort, Special K.........
  • pressica
    pressica Posts: 361
    haa...the guys popping in is cracking me up!!!!

    Yes need to get some soon or else!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :grumble: :explode: :angry: :mad: :sad:
    Of course us guys had to drop in. The title just said "Girls- " it didn't say "Girls Only"
    :laugh:

    I think that a guy's input on this discussion can be helpful. Besides, guys are making this thread way funny. Cheers! :drinker:
  • Amb1976
    Amb1976 Posts: 241 Member
    im there....guess i should have gotten a younger model.....:laugh: :tongue:

    of course...we're really only home together one day a week...diff shifts...but yeah...mines def higher than his rite now
  • Panda_Jack
    Panda_Jack Posts: 829 Member
    This thread is the best I've read in a while!
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