Women with abs, attractive or not?

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  • Kristhin
    Kristhin Posts: 442 Member
    Do what makes YOU happy, don't worry about what someone else thinks is attractive or not. Its your body and you're the only person who will always be with you at all times, your whole life. You're what matters most.

    My personal feelings on women with abs, or any other major muscle definition, is that I do not find it attractive. The softness of a woman is one of the main things that is attractive about them. To me. Everybody likes something different though, so who cares?
  • Grimmerick
    Grimmerick Posts: 3,342 Member
    I'm female, I would like abs to the point where my stomache is nite and flat, but I don't want the full on definition of a six pack. My own personal preference on what is attractive on a woman is toned and firm, but I don't like the stringy defined look like say... Madonna or something like that - I feel like it looks 'harsh'.

    I feel this way too, I like the bodies of the pinups from the 50's, firm but feminine. Not saying abs aren't nice looking on a woman but I just don't want my body to be like that.
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    the nice toned abs you see on an "athletic" body type is hot!!

    The full on six pack that the roided out chick body builder has is not!

    This for me as well! Veiny is gross, fit and muscular is hot!
  • PeachyKeene
    PeachyKeene Posts: 1,645 Member
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    I want abs like Jillian Michaels. I want her entire body as a matter of fact. I think she is extremely sexy and attractive all the way.
  • datguy2011
    datguy2011 Posts: 477 Member
    I think it's hot... but nothing crazy....
  • Ralstonk2
    Ralstonk2 Posts: 345 Member
    I want a flat tummy! I don't want a 6 pack, where you can see every bone in my stomach but if it's flat and soft I'm okay with that. I just want my "mommy pouch" gone! I think a flat stomach on men/women is very attractive. But I don't care for hard abs on my man, my man has a belly and I like it that way! :) Just me though.
  • kerri007
    kerri007 Posts: 123
    i think abs on a chick is hott!! thats what im stiving for. and my hubby loves it. a strong stomach helps other areas in the body too. i have a couple gf that they think its gross, but wtf does their opion matter to me? not one single bit
  • VeganInTraining
    VeganInTraining Posts: 1,319 Member
    There are plenty of guys who like any and everything... just do what you like and then pick the guy YOU want.

    Great advice!

    As for me, I think they are not hot! A little definition yes, but a 6 pack no! I had a slight 4 pack when I got out of boot camp and that is what I'd like to get back to
  • adjones5
    adjones5 Posts: 938 Member
    I have abs and I've never had a guy say "ew put your shirt back on"
  • StaceyL76
    StaceyL76 Posts: 711 Member
    What matters most is what you want. If you want abs and your find it attractive that is all that truly matters.
  • rybo
    rybo Posts: 5,424 Member
    Depends. Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Having abs doesn't automatically = more sexy.
  • LickyNees
    LickyNees Posts: 101 Member
    It's a matter of opinion. Current population of Earth: 6,775,235,700 people. That's a lot of opinions but yours is the only that matters =o)
  • brit49
    brit49 Posts: 461 Member
    I want abs,
  • bcattoes
    bcattoes Posts: 17,299 Member
    I have abs and I've never had a guy say "ew put your shirt back on"

    :laugh: I doubt men say that to many women who have their shirt off, whether they can see their ab muscles or not. Guys are guys!
  • Sweet13_Princess
    Sweet13_Princess Posts: 1,207 Member
    I think it's all a question of personal preference. I myself would LOVE flat abs... they don't need to be defined into a 6 pack, though. Some guys like girls with big boobs or a big booty, so it makes sense that some guys would like abs and some wouldn't.*shrugs*

    Shannon
  • Jade_Butterfly
    Jade_Butterfly Posts: 2,963 Member
    There is nothing wrong with getting tone and definition in your abs, but I agree with some of the other posts in saying that to be bulging and veiny . . then it is discusting!
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    I want a flat tummy! I don't want a 6 pack, where you can see every bone in my stomach but if it's flat and soft I'm okay with that.

    Yeah. Stomach bones are gross.
  • LegzyK
    LegzyK Posts: 172 Member
    Very Sexy! Coming from "Miss Muffin Top"...I want abs badly!!! There under there somewhere, hopefully I'll find them soon! :ohwell:
  • CaptainGordo
    CaptainGordo Posts: 4,437 Member
    I want a flat tummy! I don't want a 6 pack, where you can see every bone in my stomach but if it's flat and soft I'm okay with that.
    Yeah. Stomach bones are gross.
    Perhaps avoiding calcium-rich foods will help to assure that your stomach bones stay soft.

    Another solution would be surgical intervention. Rumor has it that Raquel Welch had a couple of her stomach bones removed to help give her that spectacular figure.
  • FauxNinja
    FauxNinja Posts: 77
    Hope Solo
  • char2009
    char2009 Posts: 68
    I don't care for them at all on women. They make a women look masculine.

    My husband thinks the same as do all of his friends...I think Zuzana from Bodyrock.tv looks amazing and love her body, but all the guys that I have talked to about her think if you cut off her head and chest she looks like a man and they don't like it!!
  • erickirb
    erickirb Posts: 12,294 Member
    I don't care for them at all on women. They make a women look masculine.

    My husband thinks the same as do all of his friends...I think Zuzana from Bodyrock.tv looks amazing and love her body, but all the guys that I have talked to about her think if you cut off her head and chest she looks like a man and they don't like it!!

    They must be blind, as she would be the thinnest man ever, nothing on her looks masculine.
  • Stooooo
    Stooooo Posts: 1,191 Member
    I don't care for them at all on women. They make a women look masculine.

    My husband thinks the same as do all of his friends...I think Zuzana from Bodyrock.tv looks amazing and love her body, but all the guys that I have talked to about her think if you cut off her head and chest she looks like a man and they don't like it!!

    They must be blind, as she would be the thinnest man ever, nothing on her looks masculine.

    Amen!!!
  • saajidah93
    saajidah93 Posts: 15
    Just take a look at Nicole Scherzinger!!!! HOTTTT- I want abs!!
  • Jeff92se
    Jeff92se Posts: 3,369 Member
    Abs because some woman decides to starve herself aka Nicole Richie = ugly.

    Abs because a woman is in great shape, has some muscle and works hard to get it = very hot/sexy.

    Respect the work that it takes to achieve it.
  • blazergrad
    blazergrad Posts: 603 Member
    Look at siabevis's profile photo here on MFP .... those are some NICE abs!
  • tofuslayer
    tofuslayer Posts: 2
    as long as you feel good and look in the mirror and feel sexy, people will gravitate towards that confidence. also, i don't think anyone likes the roided out, unnatural look, but i think as women our estrogen makes it pretty damn hard to get to a point where you look strange or manly or anything.

    my boyfriend loves that toned and athletic look, and he compliments me every day on how my abs are getting more defined and he loves my v cuts. in my opinion a guy who wants you to look weak and frail has his own issues that he's projecting onto your body (obviously this is an opinion and is not meant to piss anyone off).
  • Jeff92se
    Jeff92se Posts: 3,369 Member
    I don't care for them at all on women. They make a women look masculine.

    My husband thinks the same as do all of his friends...I think Zuzana from Bodyrock.tv looks amazing and love her body, but all the guys that I have talked to about her think if you cut off her head and chest she looks like a man and they don't like it!!

    Maybe they need a basic review of anatomy? hehe
  • dmpizza
    dmpizza Posts: 3,321 Member
    Its totally hot, but not everyone can actually achieve that.
  • drift
    drift Posts: 143 Member
    Attractive both to aspire to for self and to look at on others
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