Strip clubs for married men?

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AshjMusik
AshjMusik Posts: 113 Member
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Ok I don't want this thread to be shut down so plz be good :D Just curious.. A newlywed friend had this issue & it sparked a huge debate w/ my HB tonight. Do u feel strip clubs are okay for married men/women? What about a club vs. a hotel room? Would love some input from you all ;)
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  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,395 Member
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    If youre hausband has to waste money to watch other women...make it cheaper and bring one home for him...wither that, or learn to strip...the latter being the preference
  • mandeiko
    mandeiko Posts: 1,657 Member
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    Ok I don't want this thread to be shut down so plz be good :D Just curious.. A newlywed friend had this issue & it sparked a huge debate w/ my HB tonight. Do u feel strip clubs are okay for married men/women? What about a club vs. a hotel room? Would love some input from you all ;)

    Ohhhh here we go :) This is a good one.

    My personal opinion... sure it's FINE... guys watch porn all the time. BUT personal lap dances are not okay, especially behind closed doors (the dirty strip clubs.) Club is fine.. Hotel room I'm iffy about though.
  • albinogorilla
    albinogorilla Posts: 1,056 Member
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    My wife doesn't like it, but doesn't forbid it. Forbidden fruit is far to sweet to resist.
    We don't forbid each other from doing things.
  • Bob_Sugar
    Bob_Sugar Posts: 61
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    Yes sure why not? Hell sometimes my wife and go for the fun of it. in fact we're going this Sat.
  • Picklepower
    Picklepower Posts: 66 Member
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    I think it depends....If my guy wants to go out once in a while with his buddies to a strip club I'm fine with that. If I didn't trust him to hang out with his friends I wouldn't marry him. However, if he goes all the time or by himself that's a different story and there might be a problem there.
  • melizerd
    melizerd Posts: 870 Member
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    My husband and I both enjoy a strip club occasionally (together and apart). We don't care where we get the appetite as long as we eat at home. It's a fun evening for a bachelor(ette) party or an occasional wild hair type fun. No touching allowed on our parts (our rule even if the club allows it).

    Just not a big deal IMO. We've been married 10 years, have an almost 5 year old son.

    Every relationship has rules, knowing them up front and what is non-negotiable is what's important, for us this just isn't a big deal.
  • kyrstensmom
    kyrstensmom Posts: 297 Member
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    Absolutely not ok, unless of course BOTH people think its ok. It's all about respect, and if you go to a strip club to watch some other woman dance nude, then you aren't respecting your partner.
  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
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    Not on a regular basis, but for a friend's bachelor party or whatever, find. And yeah, clubs are WAY better than hotel rooms, or personal in-home strippers.
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,455 Member
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    I see nothing wrong with clubs.... you can only look.

    Why doesnt she go along? Could be fun ;)
  • Deathwithab
    Deathwithab Posts: 462 Member
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    i think its pretty lame to have to do, you could spend that money on better things and if he really wanted to see someone strip he could buy a pole to instal and some fun outfits for you and watch you shake it lol :P would have a much happyer ending
  • Kara52217
    Kara52217 Posts: 353 Member
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    I say if he is out with friends and decide to go I don't care, as long as it isn't all the time and he comes home to me no big deal.
    If he is going all the time and "working" more then we got problems but going on 9 years and no issues yet
  • slickracer
    slickracer Posts: 63
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    At the end of the day you either trust them or you don't. You don't need strip clubs to cheat.
  • bloodbank
    bloodbank Posts: 468 Member
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    My husband & I (& a number of friends) like to go. Who doesn't like to get sloshed while buck naked ladies shake it to bad music?
  • _beachgirl_
    _beachgirl_ Posts: 3,865 Member
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    I've been to strip clubs with my ex-hubby, he's been with out me, I think it becomes an issue when it starts to be a regular thing.
  • Bob_Sugar
    Bob_Sugar Posts: 61
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    I heart (.) (.)
  • AZTrailRunner
    AZTrailRunner Posts: 1,199 Member
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    If you believe your fella shouldn't be allowed to go get a lap dance from a woman at a club (who could care less about him anyways), you better not be burying your nose in love novels! That would be hypocritical.

    If he wants to go, he WILL go, with or without your knowledge. May as well make peace with the idea and consider going with him. If he has a habit about going, then you may wish to re-evaluate your relationship.

    Personally, I lost interest in going after a mere 20 or 30 visits. :tongue:
  • glockster972
    glockster972 Posts: 704 Member
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    Once in awhile, sure. Every weekend, not so much.
  • mandeiko
    mandeiko Posts: 1,657 Member
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    Awh man, this topic is getting more hits than my toilet paper debate. :grumble:
  • 1myfit
    1myfit Posts: 69
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    Watching people dance naked??? Waste of time.
  • husker_gal
    husker_gal Posts: 462 Member
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    Ok I don't want this thread to be shut down so plz be good :D Just curious.. A newlywed friend had this issue & it sparked a huge debate w/ my HB tonight. Do u feel strip clubs are okay for married men/women? What about a club vs. a hotel room? Would love some input from you all ;)

    Ohhhh here we go :) This is a good one.

    My personal opinion... sure it's FINE... guys watch porn all the time. BUT personal lap dances are not okay, especially behind closed doors (the dirty strip clubs.) Club is fine.. Hotel room I'm iffy about though.

    Agree

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