Do you think you're attractive?

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  • 2stepz
    2stepz Posts: 814 Member
    Considering I'm single, no. I don't seem to be "attractive." (semantics)

    I will NEVER be Hot.

    On my best days I can pass for cute.

    Doesn't keep me from being an awesome person...
  • emmiee921
    emmiee921 Posts: 224
    usually when I'm eating really healthy for the week , i think i look good, that being said i always have to wear makeup and do my hair.
    on days i binge i feel horribly fat and gross
  • I don't think I'm ugly by any means. According to other people, I'm very attractive, I just don't see it a lot of the time. I try not too look in the mirror and if I do, I'm usually pinching my fat and such. I have a very unhealthy body image.
  • rebecca_lc28
    rebecca_lc28 Posts: 93 Member
    i never feel attractive because i always seams to pic out something wrong.. like the stretch marks on my stomach or my nose my bum i always find something wrong even though i have lost weight.. i have cute days but never "man i am attractive days"! even when my bf tells me i ma hot!
  • dckim
    dckim Posts: 311 Member
    I think we live in a youth and beauty obsessed hyper consumption culture. Way we look (superficial vanity) is a small part of what makes us unique. :flowerforyou:
    I think you are absolutely right. they go hand in hand as we women help drive the economy with our beauty products and accessories.

    I am a dude but I get it. :wink:
  • I mostly love the way I look, and my weight loss makes me more confident every day.
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
    For the most part, pleased.
    But I am a woman, lol.
  • Fatchickslim
    Fatchickslim Posts: 396 Member
    Nope and I don't particular care anymore, I'm more concerned with my health and wellbeing.
  • fteale
    fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
    I've been thinking more about this (because I'm that kind of self obsessed), and I know I am not classically beautiful, but I know that I am attractive. Men find me attractive. They don't find me beautiful, I'm not the kind of person that gets pointed out in the street, but men seem to fall for me. Someone once told me I am not the kind of girl people get crushes on, I am the type they fall in love with, and that seems to be true. I seem to attract obsession.
    However, not being beautiful, other women never think I am attractive to men. Or don't notice that I am. Men and women definitely look at very different things to describe attractiveness.
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
    I think we live in a youth and beauty obsessed hyper consumption culture. Way we look (superficial vanity) is a small part of what makes us unique. :flowerforyou:
    I think you are absolutely right. they go hand in hand as we women help drive the economy with our beauty products and accessories.

    I am a dude but I get it. :wink:
    I said "we" as in "myself and womankind" I knew you were a dude. I was afraid you might misconstrue that, but I was to lazy to reword it.
  • onefitdiva
    onefitdiva Posts: 331 Member
    Good question! While I do not think I am hot I do not think I am ugly so I guess attractive would be a good one, I am happy with how I look. I had not been for a long time but recently I do. I dunno, kinda weird liking yourself lol.
  • LeeKetty1176
    LeeKetty1176 Posts: 881 Member
    its hard to think as yourself as attractive........... you hear or feel bad things for so long.......... it takes much much longer to come out the other side

    so no
  • MassiveDelta
    MassiveDelta Posts: 3,271 Member
    nope... Its hard to forget everything and think otherwise.
  • LeSsOvMe
    LeSsOvMe Posts: 115 Member
    nope... Its hard to forget everything and think otherwise.

    I wish you could see what I see. I think you are so sexy, and think about how much you have changed. I'm so proud of you.
  • Liquid741
    Liquid741 Posts: 292 Member
    <---meh...sometimes.
  • SunLovin1
    SunLovin1 Posts: 682 Member
    Oh HELL yeah! I'm very proud of how far I've come!
  • lizdavis07
    lizdavis07 Posts: 766 Member
    truth be told, losing weight has lowered my self confidence and im finding problems with the way i look now more than ever.

    it's all psychological im sure....just something i need to work on
  • Captain_Mal
    Captain_Mal Posts: 945 Member
    I think I'm okay most days. I definitely look better now than I have in a long time.
  • ilovedeadlifts
    ilovedeadlifts Posts: 2,923 Member
    i suppose so.
    depends on the day.
  • BeeElMarvin
    BeeElMarvin Posts: 2,086 Member
    not especially
  • liftingbro
    liftingbro Posts: 2,029 Member
    After reading some of these posts:

    I think I'm attractive on personality level as I seem to be able to make people laugh and I don't know of anyone who hates me. I'm easy to get along with but not boring.

    Physically.....not so much but I'm working on that.
  • No, I don't...
  • tkn11
    tkn11 Posts: 276 Member
    i think i am. but then again when i was 60 pounds heavier i thought i was damn hot then too. lol. my feeling that im attractive comes from my confidence, so it's possible to feel that you are attractive, despite a number on the scale or the size of your jeans. For people that don't feel they are attractive, i'd say to work on boosting your confidence (outside of the gym), along with working out, and it will come.
  • Salpica
    Salpica Posts: 205 Member
    I'm a damn sexy beast. Confidence is one of the top things people need in life. If you aren't confident and don't think positive about yourself it's reflected by everything you do.
  • Izable2011
    Izable2011 Posts: 755 Member
    For my size I think I am pretty but I also think I have the potential to be much more. :happy:
  • MiekeJ
    MiekeJ Posts: 139
    ohhhh, meh! I dont turn that many heads! :-)
  • martini83
    martini83 Posts: 113 Member
    Plain and simply, no i dont!
  • chrisdavey
    chrisdavey Posts: 9,834 Member
    ohhhh, meh! I dont turn that many heads! :-)

    dayum those feet are sexy :love:
  • pain_is_weakness
    pain_is_weakness Posts: 798 Member
    think i am ok, nothing special but not ugly either
  • pain_is_weakness
    pain_is_weakness Posts: 798 Member
    I have confidence, but as far as looks go, I feel ok, not ugly but not a model either. I do not feel that losing weight will change that, i am what i am and it is ok
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