Do you think you're attractive?

MIMITIME

No... I don't feel like I'm attractive at all. In fact, I feel like I'm very fat and ugly

Looking at your photo you have a beautiful face and nice hair. You sure don't look fat and ugly! I am old so I can say this - you have to love your self first and then love others.

katya73

Umm.. I think I'm okay .. I have good and bad days ... But I think it comes from within

ashheartshawaii

Absolutely. All day, every day. Make-up doesn't hurt, though.

Lift_hard_eat_big

I know I could be worse, so I know I'm decent.

Legalchica

Sometimes... most times no.

ket_the_jet

I don't *think* I'm attractive; I *know* I am.
-wtk

myofibril

I don't generally think of myself in terms of being attractive or unattractive. Realistically, there are lots of people who are more attractive and plenty who are less attractive, so thinking about where I fall on the scale of attractiveness doesn't feel very important to me most of the time. That doesn't mean I don't sometimes wish I were prettier, younger, thinner, etc., but I don't obsess about it for very long ever. When I was younger, I used to dwell on it a lot, and one day it occurred to me that my life was pretty good....{snip}

I am the same.

I haven't wondered about how attractive other people find me for the longest time or bother considering where I might find myself seated on a culturally defined scale of hotness. Some people will think I'm attractive. Others will not. That's their business.

My business and my focus is simply being the best me that I can be. That is where my attention and energy will go. If as an incidental benefit of this approach people find me appealing and want to get on it - cool bananas...

TheRoadDog

I don't think about it very often. I know I'm not what would be considered by most to be attractive.

I know there were a lot of better looking men chasing my wife when I met her. That was 23 years ago. They may or may not be better looking now, but she chose me for some reason. I'll take whatever those intangible reasons are instead of good looks any time.

I don't believe my looks have any factor whatsoever on how I relate to my friends and my family. I don't really give a *kitten* what everyone else thinks.

I'm a Rock Star in my world.

ThinspiredButterfly

hell nahh. my face looks like doggie poop xD

tmtrack

I would have to say....for the most part no! I see to many of my flaws and give that one big lump sum slap in the face each time I look in the mirror! Who ever invented mirrors is on my hit list, LOL!!

MayMaydoesntrun

OK, today, I am hot as hell.

rybo

To sum it up in the title of a song, "some girls don't like boys like me, oh but some girls do".

I am happy & confident with the way I look, but I understand that not every person's tastes are the same. One girl may take a look & think I'm hot, the next may not give me a 2nd glance.

atsteele

I don't think about it very often. I know I'm not what would be considered by most to be attractive.

I know there were a lot of better looking men chasing my wife when I met her. That was 23 years ago. They may or may not be better looking now, but she chose me for some reason. I'll take whatever those intangible reasons are instead of good looks any time.

I don't believe my looks have any factor whatsoever on how I relate to my friends and my family. I don't really give a *kitten* what everyone else thinks.

I'm a Rock Star in my world.

(re dont think about it very often) I agree. When I think about how I look to other people, that's when I feel like Im heading down the wrong line of thinking. I AM a rock star in my own mind. I take good care of myself. I eat right. I exercise. I try to have balance in my life by addressing all of my needs, ie, spiritually, intellectually, physically, and emotionally. (Ok, I have no idea how to address emotional portion. Im not perfectly in balance. hehe) And yes, I do think that Im attractive. Doesn't everyone??? If not, why the heck not?? And do something about it. Wallowing in some form of self pity about some self perceived imperfection is a complete waste of time.

foremant86

Short answer, yes.

Mostly due to the fact that I don't give a crap. I don't worry about trying to be something I'm not. I am who I am and there's no changing that so why worry about it? why waste so much time hating myself for something I'm not when i can love myself for what I am?

Too many people think they need to look a certain way to be accepted in this world and it's simply not true, it's all in our heads. People of all different sizes, ethnicity's, looks, etc. succeed in this world.

People also think they need to look a certain way to get a guy or girl but news flash, "pretty" people aren't the only ones that are in happy, loving relationships.

Are there times where I think "ugh I look like crap"? sure, but it doesn't rule my life or even my day. It's a normal human thought and i move past it.

sillygoose1977

I think I'm pretty stinkin cute.

jamiesgotagun

I am starting to think so...

Avalonis

I have days when I feel like I'm one hot b****, and other days when I can't stand to look at myself in the mirror. For the most part, though, I feel pretty average. Not too bad, but not as good I as I want to look.

THIS. For sure. I got "Fat kid in the mirror" syndrome some days really bad.

Amayrial

I think my inner beauty and outter beauty are starting to meet in the middle. I had someone say I was beautiful this past weekend, It's been a while since anyone has said that..

personally I dont think i'm ugly, just not beautiful..

chocolateandvodka

ummmm... i judge my level of attraction by the number of drinks i have to buy myself when i go out. right now i'm at 0-1.

i'd say that's a pretty good score.

Scott613

I have an amazing personality! Isn't that what really counts?

lizzie2190

i dont think im ugly but i dont think im attractive. i have been told im very self critical too... i hate more than i like ... that about sums it up

Lets_Do_It

Depends on the day. Like, one day, I'll be like, "Wow! I'm cute!" The next i feel super icky and uglyyy.

candicole007

I have days when I feel like I'm one hot b****, and other days when I can't stand to look at myself in the mirror. For the most part, though, I feel pretty average. Not too bad, but not as good I as I want to look.

What she said.

^^^^^this^^^^^

OfficialPR

Yes I think i'm attractive. I've always thought I had a decent face, but I varied with my body. Here recently I have become much more comfortable in my own skin and even on days when I don't feel as confident as others I still feel and see myself as attractive

Agree! You're a true delight on the eyes, keep up the good work

OfficialPR

Believe I'm average

PeaceLuvVeggies

Nope. I don't think I'm attractive at all.

love4fitnesslove4food_wechange

sometimes...it varies from day to day. usually i feel decent and on occasion when i get dressed up i feel SMOKIN HOT! lol. those days are rare.

evyeve21

Sometimes.....I have my good days and my bad days

Rikki444

Yes.... actually... I do.

fteale

Yeah I am totally hot*












*For a 34 year old mother of 2 student who gets 5 hours sleep a night average.