Anyone else NOT have a Valentine?

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  • alicepoppyh
    alicepoppyh Posts: 88
    I have a partner but no Valentine.

    I don't do Valentine's Day, I think it's bull****, just a good way of passing off generic V-day presents (chocolates, bubbly, red roses *vomit*) as romance and making money out of it.

    Not to be all judgemental of those who like it by any means, and sorry if it sounds that way, I just never GOT it. I'm not a huge chocolate person, roses aren't my favourite, I'm too old for teddies and ****...
    If my OH wants to treat me, daffodils and some good beer any other day, over red roses on Valentine's.
  • jefarrell
    jefarrell Posts: 42
    Same here, I never got a gift or a card when I was married...I'm not a materialistic person but some sign that they notice would be nice.
  • flatbellybella
    flatbellybella Posts: 303 Member
    No Valentine's. :( I broke up w/ my last boyfriend about 3 months ago, but I have an ex boyfriend who I have been spending my V-days with for a couple of years (even when we werent together)

    Yesterday he told me he's gay. :noway: :grumble: :sad: :frown:

    Yeah. Too many feelings...

    Wow...
    I was often second guessing my choice of calling it quits with my ex just so I'd have a Valentine's day (get dressed up, romanced etc lol) but couldn't do it lol Sounds selfish but not the greatest guy I think I at least deserved that
  • flatbellybella
    flatbellybella Posts: 303 Member
    No date this year but im ok with that!! My parents will be 50 yrs together this year in october and they havent had a decent valentines date....EVER!! so instead I am planning a great day for them going the whole nine with couples massage, private dinner and a show!! This is more rewarding to me than any other year :) I love them and I pray one day I can be as lucky to find someone to spend the rest of my years and love like they have!!

    That is an amazing thing you're doing for your parents! I hope they have a great time!
  • mixedfeelings
    mixedfeelings Posts: 904 Member
    I find Valentine's Day overrated, it's too planned and I hate how it can make people feel down if they haven't got someone. Spontaneous romance any other day is much better.
  • AntoniaK89
    AntoniaK89 Posts: 29
    I've got two dates that day, Cardio training in the morning and Strength training that evening. Then after all the huffing and puffing is over, I'll toast them both with a protein shake.



    Now thats more like it lolz
  • lorro
    lorro Posts: 917 Member


    Ladies, Valentines day is all about the mystery and excitement of what may be. We still have 6 whole days for Mr. Right to make an appearance. Who knows how many chance encounters of the life changing kind or secret admirers waiting in the wings there may be! :wink:


    Not sure why the quote didn't stay a "quote" oops. While I like the positive attitude of your post...the reality is life is not like the movies... if I met a guy in the next 6 days and they got all fancy on me for V-Day...I'd be weirded out, cuz we just met. :laugh: Just sayin...

    I do have someone in mind that I like, but at the moment we are just friends who've hung out a few times...not expecting to even see them on V-Day.

    So I'm still apparently going to the gym. Which would be better for me than dinner and chocolates :bigsmile:

    I see your point, to each her own. Personally I find life much more interesting and rewarding if lived as in the movies. Why not try it and see! :happy: Of course sometimes reality bites - bad timing, bad luck, the filler before the next Scene ..... Seriously, she who dares wins. Nothing good comes of low expectations when they are satisfied. I don't have a minimum allowable timescale for getting fancy on Mr. Right either. Yes that's got me in trouble before :blushing:
  • Massageu2
    Massageu2 Posts: 59
    I got the best Valentine's Day present ever a few years ago.....a DIVORCE! Yep in divorce court on V day. Not sure that the farce of a marriage could have ended any more perfectly. This year I will be celebrating with my dogs, at least they love me unconditionally.
  • LuciaLongIsland
    LuciaLongIsland Posts: 815 Member
    I've bought myself flowers for years - I enjoy flowers. Even when I was married, I had to buy my own. I don't miss him a bit, but I'd miss the flowers, so I keep buying them, lol.

    Great idea, but there so pricey on V day!!! Maybe I will get them the week later!!!
  • BeesKnees181
    BeesKnees181 Posts: 166 Member
    No Valentine, but I made it a point to send valentine's to friends and family this year. It felt nice to say I love you to my special people. My tradition (because normally I am single for this day): eat some really good chocolate, make myself a nice dinner and watch a comedy or see some live theatre. This year I will be doing yoga after my Tuesday night spin class :heart:
  • silvergurl518
    silvergurl518 Posts: 4,123 Member
    I've been single on V-day for as long as I can remember!! (we're talking years!!!!)

    So I just use it as a day to remind myself how much I LOVE me..and yes, that includes a gift :bigsmile:

    a) ditto
    b) i will ALSO be getting myself a gift ;)


    Does that gift Vibrate???

    a lady never shares her secrets ;) wink wink.
  • cygnetpro
    cygnetpro Posts: 419 Member
    Its tooo many fine women on here not to have a Valentine. Dayum. :flowerforyou:


    I was thinking the same thing-- there are some seriously gorgeous men and women on here who are completely unappreciated!
  • TwinkieDong
    TwinkieDong Posts: 1,564 Member
    as a guy I do not get a Valentine's day. Society has made it so this is a day for women. No I am not being a male chauvinist but it truly is a woman's holiday. I would much rather have a nice birthday, or Christmas, or just a simple I love you.
  • MrsCon40
    MrsCon40 Posts: 2,351 Member
    I've been single on V-day for as long as I can remember!! (we're talking years!!!!)

    So I just use it as a day to remind myself how much I LOVE me..and yes, that includes a gift :bigsmile:

    a) ditto
    b) i will ALSO be getting myself a gift ;)


    Does that gift Vibrate???
    HA HA HA!! I needed this laugh!

    Vibrating gifts=the best gifts...and they are the gifts that keep on giving. See what I did there? :bigsmile: :blushing:

    Every woman should have a date with BOB from time to time - single or married :wink:
  • Thad81
    Thad81 Posts: 138 Member
    Nope no Valentines for me either! Been single since before christmas. Not much of a story!
  • MissEmDizzle
    MissEmDizzle Posts: 20 Member
    i dont have a Valentine either...... The guy I like is a total douche but that is for another topic. hang in there atleast us here who have no valentine can save the money and buy our selves something nice for all the hard work we are doing with transforming ourselves not only physically but mentally as well.....
  • shanlynt
    shanlynt Posts: 718 Member
    No Valentine and I'm married, how sad is that. My 4 yr old is my Valentine :)
  • Topsking2010
    Topsking2010 Posts: 2,245 Member
    I had no idea so many people are
    really taken for granted.
  • andreacord
    andreacord Posts: 928
    HAH yup single and travelling home for my spring break .. my best girl friend will be my valentine I guess cause I'm surprising her :) Last year I got my wisdoms yanked on valentine's day .. ****tiest way to spend valentine's ever
  • Kara_B
    Kara_B Posts: 26
    I have seven or eight during the day, and all they're giving me is dirty diapers and slobbery kisses. I'll take what I can get.
  • lnorton84
    lnorton84 Posts: 31 Member
    Nope no Valentine for me and hadn't been for years. It's all good though. I will be spending the day kicking butt trying to lose weight, plus no date means more alone time to work on myself. I do miss romance though, but alas no romance, no drama either :) I will go out and buy myself something nice the day after (a treadmill) exactly what I want no chocolates :)
  • Cueball55
    Cueball55 Posts: 152 Member
    February 14th should be like the 13th floor in elevators... just skipped as if it weren't there.

    Was that my outside voice? Sorry. To answer your question.... I do not have a valentine. :)
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    me! i'm taking myself to see the vow.
  • cyclingben
    cyclingben Posts: 346 Member
    <---- this guy doesnt
  • buddy529
    buddy529 Posts: 41 Member
    Just another day...


    ...and my birthday.
  • jadedone
    jadedone Posts: 2,446 Member
    Yep...same story,different year. :ohwell:

    haha, me too! Oh well, maybe next year. :)
  • realrayne10
    realrayne10 Posts: 388 Member
    No valentine here either. :ohwell: I have been gun shy since dumping the crackhead....I mean ex. I have to work that night though so it will not seem so bad.
  • chickidoo1121
    chickidoo1121 Posts: 21 Member
    Just another day :heart:


    I am with you on that! Just another money making day....if you do have a special someone in your life, Valentine's Day should be everyday :) Just my thoughts....
  • paul7799
    paul7799 Posts: 98 Member
    As I recently described Valentines Day to a new friend of mine, I call it “Singles Awareness Day.” So, yes I am in the same boat as you and have been that way for a bit now.

    There’s nothing inherently wrong with Valentines Day, made up holiday that it is, but it is the day that rubs your nose in it. Ever see a couple in each others’ arms and completely lost in each other? That lonely and slightly envious pang you get when you see them and you’re single lasts about 24-48 hours, and that couple seems to be on every corner.

    That being said, I do call upon my brothers that do have a Valentine to put some effort into it and make her feel special for God’s sake. And keep it the whole year, the way ****ens (who just turned 200 BTW) said we should about Christmas.
  • airvan20
    airvan20 Posts: 17 Member
    No Valentine for me for 2 years now while being separated, but I have a potential prospect this year! :bigsmile:
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