Anyone else NOT have a Valentine?

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  • xcrushx28
    xcrushx28 Posts: 182 Member
    Have been single for about 13 months now so yeah no Valentines for me. Plus, If I had a girlfriend I wouldn't need to rely on a holiday such as Valentines day to show her my love ;)
  • jaks97
    jaks97 Posts: 179 Member
    Just another day. I think it's the day I have to take the garbage can to the curb. So that makes it a little special.

    The day I "took the trash to the curb" was special for me, too, so I bought myself flowers then, too! :flowerforyou:

    Good for you! I used to joke that I lost 260 pounds with one stroke of the pen. :wink:

    I agree, people would say you lost weight, I said Yes 275 lbs :) 25 lbs on me, 250 of him. Best thing ever :)
  • repoman150
    repoman150 Posts: 42 Member
    Nope...no valentine for me either!!!
  • adavis59
    adavis59 Posts: 285 Member
    No valentines for me. I've been widowed for 1 year. I would love to meet someone to love and romance me and do likewise in return and be able to grow old together. But let's make the best of it you guys!! LOVE YOURSELF!- get yourself some flowers, treat yourself to a massage, manicure/ pedicure, go shopping for your new smaller sized clothes. Make yourself a favorite dinner, have a movie night with some wine at home. You work hard- you deserve to pamper yourself!! CELEBRATE YOU! :love:
  • Sister_Someone
    Sister_Someone Posts: 567 Member
    No date - just a little treat for me, from me.
  • The_new_me_76
    The_new_me_76 Posts: 70 Member
    No valentine but hey oh !
  • airlily
    airlily Posts: 212 Member
    Yeah, I don't have one, either. I guess I suck. Meh, I'll do something nice with my students that day. Candy for everyone! Maybe a pop quiz. >:)
  • turntechBiologist
    turntechBiologist Posts: 374 Member
    No Valentine at all :grumble:

    Been like that for YEARS. But I'm only 23, so I guess I shouldn't complain too much :frown:
  • BondBomb
    BondBomb Posts: 1,781 Member
    Just me and my favorite little man.
    Never cared much about it when I was married. But now I would love to have a Valentine.
  • jlynwhet
    jlynwhet Posts: 38 Member
    I'll be spending Valentine's Day alone (after working all day) for the 5th year since losing my husband of 41 years to cancer on February 3rd. For the first time, I'm not sad and can spend more time realizing how grateful I am for having been married to a good guy for that long. He was truly a "gentle" man and an gentleman.
  • jlynwhet
    jlynwhet Posts: 38 Member
    Amen....very wise words. You have to like yourself before you can truly like others.
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
    I didn't have a Valentine...I felt bad, but then I asked my guy friend (who I like) to hang out and he said yes. ^^

    I never thought I would ask a guy out like that （笑）but...to all the women out there: Maybe ask too! ^^ Good luck!
  • BV1980
    BV1980 Posts: 272 Member
    No Valentine for me. I'm almost 32 years old and it's been the same thing every year. I would give anything to be able to celebrate with someone special, but I have not been lucky enough to experience love or a relationship despite my efforts. I tried speed dating last week in the hopes of maybe getting a date, but no one marked me as a match. :ohwell:
  • shanlynt
    shanlynt Posts: 718 Member
    No Valentine despite being married. Gotta change that I guess.
  • lmvinc0
    lmvinc0 Posts: 3
    No Valentine here. Same ole thing, different year! But I will be at the gym, workin on my fitness, and not feeling sorry for myself! Who's with me?!!!
  • wbgolden
    wbgolden Posts: 2,066 Member
    I don't. I seem to better without one.
  • capaxinfiniti
    capaxinfiniti Posts: 367 Member
    I have physical therapy and my boyfriend has a bunch of army stuff he needs to do tomorrow. I'll be spending it by myself, I guess. I think I might just buy myself a little sweet and rent a redbox movie (can't workout with a torn ACL and a shoulder I just recently had surgery on)
  • Fretzy
    Fretzy Posts: 9
    Not this year, I got a hot date with homework!! Maybe I'll treat myself to something. But I have lost 5 lbs do I can keep the ball rolling. Go for a longer jog.
  • ejohndrow
    ejohndrow Posts: 1,399 Member
    I don't have one, and like so many others I just don't care. I work that night and I have someone to hang out with on wed. instead. The date on the calendar isn't a big deal.

    Except, remember guys; March 14th is Steak and a BJ day.
  • Monti_e_lmt
    Monti_e_lmt Posts: 189 Member
    I haven't either, not for several years. Mom and I started a tradition of being each others Valentines since my Daddy died, but nothing compares to a romantic Valentine. Last year was the best Valentines day of my life. My mom surprised me with another Pug puppy, my Yoda is such a blessing. I loved him ever so much. So if it makes me pathetic then so be it, but I love my canine Valentine :) But I do miss having a human companion :( My last relationship was over 4 years. He destroyed me. And now I can't find a guy that doesn't want to get in my pants right away. I was raised to have self respect with Christian values. And I have tried Christian dating sites, and I guess they judge me by my looks, because not even they want anything to do with me.
  • aphoru
    aphoru Posts: 12 Member
    No Valentine here, can't even say that I have a hot date with homework...lol! But I will be spending the day shopping with one of my close friends. :-) I am looking forward to it! Hoping to find a lovely dress to wear to a friend's wedding. Wish me luck!
  • Trail_Addict
    Trail_Addict Posts: 1,340 Member
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    Add me to the heap. At least I'll have my little boy to keep me company.
  • nukehiker
    nukehiker Posts: 457
    none here
  • snewsome7
    snewsome7 Posts: 189
    I feel like I don't have one because my boyfriend is in basic training in the army. Not the same not being able to actually talk to someone! Hope you still have a nice day though regardless! It is just another day!
  • Kohadre
    Kohadre Posts: 316
    Yes to the no.....or no to the yes. Point being I don't have one.
  • Monti_e_lmt
    Monti_e_lmt Posts: 189 Member
    Yep, my MAMA!

    My fiance has to work, my sister and her boyfriend want to take the kiddo out with them for some reason (I'll take a kid-free night and not question them), and my dad has meetings, so I'm going over to spend the evening with my mom. =)


    ME TOO ha ha! I have been my mommy's valentine since my daddy passed away and I haven't dated since I broke up with my pervert fiancee like 4 years ago :/
  • irisheyes1977
    irisheyes1977 Posts: 86
    my valentine?? is work i get to work from 1-1030 tomorrow night lucky me..lol though i would rather be happily single then in a cold relationship
  • MoLove2025
    MoLove2025 Posts: 135 Member
    Just another day :heart:

    WHAT HE SAID!!!
  • trishf100
    trishf100 Posts: 1
    I didnt get any valentines either, met a guy about a month ago thought he may have but no.
  • bigjeffyc105_deleted
    bigjeffyc105_deleted Posts: 64
    I work and it's going to be busy, domestic violence always seems to show it's ugly head on this day for some reason..
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