hooking up on first date??

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  • CooperSprings
    CooperSprings Posts: 754 Member
    I don't know what it says about the guy other than he's boring.
    I wouldn't go on a second date. That's for sure.
  • anadoesit
    anadoesit Posts: 442 Member
    LadyRN76 wrote: »
    ^^^^ Let us know how the whole sex on the first date goes, guys ^^^^ :wink:

    Ugh, it's no guarantee that I put out on the first date, I'm not that kind of guy. I have feelers and prefer to get to know someone and know that I'm not going to be used.


    You come across and the metrosexual sensitive type in your posts. I think you should journal about it and take your time and make sure it's the right decision for you!
    Love yourself and others can love you. Treat yourself with respect and others will, too.

    ;)
    (tongue firmly in cheek, mind you)
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  • anadoesit
    anadoesit Posts: 442 Member
    anadoesit wrote: »
    LadyRN76 wrote: »
    ^^^^ Let us know how the whole sex on the first date goes, guys ^^^^ :wink:

    Ugh, it's no guarantee that I put out on the first date, I'm not that kind of guy. I have feelers and prefer to get to know someone and know that I'm not going to be used.


    You come across and the metrosexual sensitive type in your posts. I think you should journal about it and take your time and make sure it's the right decision for you!
    Love yourself and others can love you. Treat yourself with respect and others will, too.

    ;)
    (tongue firmly in cheek, mind you)
    Thanks for diagnosis Doc, to be honest, the way I present myself on here is actually much further from the real life truth. I come on here to have fun, kill time, but nothing more.

    Can you not spot a piss-take when you see one? :) I was JOKING...you come across as a badass MOFO...!
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  • anadoesit
    anadoesit Posts: 442 Member
    edited January 2015
    pisstake
    A satire, parody, or mockery.
    "Look at this scary fundamentalist Web site. I can't believe that anyone would say such things and mean them." "They don't. It's obviously a pisstake."

    http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=pisstake

    Sorry, the slang is UK/Irish...I meant, I was joking you. You don't come across as mushy and sensitive at all...you come across as a badass! I like it!
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  • anadoesit
    anadoesit Posts: 442 Member
    So, BLACKxLABEL, do you put out on the first date or not? :smiley:
  • myfatass78
    myfatass78 Posts: 411 Member
    Hahahah. I'm a second date kinda of gal. No hang ups here.
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  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    God, I hate phones.

    Anyway, I am not the type to just jump into bed with someone.. Relationship or gtfo.
  • Sweetsluv
    Sweetsluv Posts: 2,260 Member
    anadoesit wrote: »
    So, BLACKxLABEL, do you put out on the first date or not? :smiley:
    Yeah, then I pull out

    Quote of the day +1
  • wolfsbayne
    wolfsbayne Posts: 3,116 Member
    Sinistrous wrote: »
    God, I hate phones.

    Anyway, I am not the type to just jump into bed with someone.. Relationship or gtfo.

    Wow...zombie thread is seriously decayed.

    Anyway, this. Now, when I was younger, this didn't hold true for me. Especially when I was dating guys younger than me.
  • sentaruu
    sentaruu Posts: 2,206 Member
    If I could hook up with a girl before meeting her, I would.
  • anadoesit
    anadoesit Posts: 442 Member
    sentaruu wrote: »
    If I could hook up with a girl before meeting her, I would.

    Hmmm...you might draw out a sketch drawing of this for us?

  • Tomm88
    Tomm88 Posts: 733 Member
    hooking up on the first date is the easy part...... it's trying to figure out how the persons shower works the morning after is the hard part of it all.
  • anadoesit
    anadoesit Posts: 442 Member
    Tomm88 wrote: »
    hooking up on the first date is the easy part...... it's trying to figure out how the persons shower works the morning after is the hard part of it all.

    I am so so glad I did all of my 'hooking up' before there was the internet and mobile phones and email.

    You hooked up. They called or they didn't. You called or you didn't.
    Simples.
  • 4ever420
    4ever420 Posts: 4,088 Member
    This! ^^
  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    wolfsbayne wrote: »
    Sinistrous wrote: »
    God, I hate phones.

    Anyway, I am not the type to just jump into bed with someone.. Relationship or gtfo.

    Wow...zombie thread is seriously decayed.

    Anyway, this. Now, when I was younger, this didn't hold true for me. Especially when I was dating guys younger than me.

    I was not the necromancer in this relationship, I swear!
  • wolfsbayne
    wolfsbayne Posts: 3,116 Member
    Sinistrous wrote: »
    wolfsbayne wrote: »
    Sinistrous wrote: »
    God, I hate phones.

    Anyway, I am not the type to just jump into bed with someone.. Relationship or gtfo.

    Wow...zombie thread is seriously decayed.

    Anyway, this. Now, when I was younger, this didn't hold true for me. Especially when I was dating guys younger than me.

    I was not the necromancer in this relationship, I swear!


    Oh, I know, I was just sharing your sentiment :wink:
  • SojournerThirteen
    SojournerThirteen Posts: 28,204 Member
    We had met face-to-face at a picnic, talked on the phone quite a bit before going on the first date--First date this one time. It was mutual, then we moved in together for about a year. We broke-up and both moved-on.
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