girls ... do you mind if your men go to strip clubs?
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Watching a stripper and ****ing other girls are 2 totally different things. How do you feel about him watching porn, kylesmomy89?0
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This argument is dumb. I'm stating my opinion the same exact way everyone else has in this thread so far. Both sides. Thank goodness you are here to set me straight!
You are certainly entitled to your opinion (and for the record I don't think you are a prude for having it), but don't you think stating that other women who don't feel the way you do are letting themselves be disrespected and deserve more is a bit much?
No I really don't. I actually think it's a positive message and women deserve their husbands to treat them as though they are the sexiest, most beautiful women that they have ever laid eyes on and don't even want to have some random chick shaking her tits in their husband's face to keep him satisfied and happy.0 -
If my husband gets tired of looking at me enough to where he feels he just needs to go to a titty bar then he can head on down the road...seriously...if that's the justification.
What's next? If someone's husband gets tired of having sex with his wife, the his wife is going to just give them permission to go **** someone else just to "change things up once in a while"? Just because he's a man and men like variety? Give me a break.
A lot of people do have relationships like that. It's funny, it's almost like not everyone is you and handles their own relationship as they see fit. But thank goodness you're here to set them all straight!
This argument is dumb. I'm stating my opinion the same exact way everyone else has in this thread so far. Both sides. Thank goodness you are here to set me straight!
So when you state your opinion, that other women are pathetic and need to feel the same exact way as you do, that's fine, it's your opinion. But when I state that other people feel differently (have their own opinions) it's a dumb argument.
Damn my nose is bleeding...0 -
Ivealways dated a lady who will go with me. I have a strict no prudes policy. And to the poster, you really don't think he doesn't think about other women from time to time when Yal havel sex? If you believe that I have some MySpace stock to sell you.0
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This argument is dumb. I'm stating my opinion the same exact way everyone else has in this thread so far. Both sides. Thank goodness you are here to set me straight!
You are certainly entitled to your opinion (and for the record I don't think you are a prude for having it), but don't you think stating that other women who don't feel the way you do are letting themselves be disrespected and deserve more is a bit much?
No I really don't. I actually think it's a positive message and women deserve their husbands to treat them as though they are the sexiest, most beautiful women that they have ever laid eyes on and don't even want to have some random chick shaking her tits in their husband's face to keep him satisfied and happy.
My husband thinks I am the most sexiest, beautiful woman on the planet and tells me that about a dozen times a day.
He will also go to strip clubs with friends. He doesn't do it all the time but it something that he will do.
I will also go to strip clubs with him.
He loves and respects me.
We have an awesome relationship based on mutual trust and *gasp!* RESPECT!
We have never had an argument.
Jealousy is never an issue.
I know he would never cheat on me.
He's not having sex with the strippers that he goes to watch.
He loves women, especially naked women.
He loves my naked body and he loves to look at other naked bodies as well.
None of this means he disrespects me, doesn't love me or feels that I'm worthless.
None of this means that I don't respect myself because my husband enjoys beauty.
You don't know me or my relationship with my husband. To say that someone "Deserves Better" because he goes to a strip club is absolutely ludicrous.
You are not me.
You do not live in my house.
Do not throw out a blanket judgment on people like me.0 -
Watching a stripper and ****ing other girls are 2 totally different things. How do you feel about him watching porn, kylesmomy89?
I understand that. I was replying to the statement that men should be able to look at strippers because they are tired of looking at their wives...If that's the logic, then what's to stop a man from having sex with someone else because they are tired of having sex with the same person?
My husband rarely even has a computer when I'm not around as I take my laptop to school with me and it also serves as our family computer. If he does watch porn, he hides it very well lol. I've never found porn on my computer or in our house. If I did find it, I would be probably be pissed. I've just never had the issue with him. He's mentioned to me before that he's only really watched it when he was single.0 -
If my husband gets tired of looking at me enough to where he feels he just needs to go to a titty bar then he can head on down the road...seriously...if that's the justification.
What's next? If someone's husband gets tired of having sex with his wife, the his wife is going to just give them permission to go **** someone else just to "change things up once in a while"? Just because he's a man and men like variety? Give me a break.
A lot of people do have relationships like that. It's funny, it's almost like not everyone is you and handles their own relationship as they see fit. But thank goodness you're here to set them all straight!
This argument is dumb. I'm stating my opinion the same exact way everyone else has in this thread so far. Both sides. Thank goodness you are here to set me straight!
So when you state your opinion, that other women are pathetic and need to feel the same exact way as you do, that's fine, it's your opinion. But when I state that other people feel differently (have their own opinions) it's a dumb argument.
Damn my nose is bleeding...
Well no crap people think differently or this wouldn't be a debate! Congrats on making the point that everyone has an opinion???0 -
This argument is dumb. I'm stating my opinion the same exact way everyone else has in this thread so far. Both sides. Thank goodness you are here to set me straight!
You are certainly entitled to your opinion (and for the record I don't think you are a prude for having it), but don't you think stating that other women who don't feel the way you do are letting themselves be disrespected and deserve more is a bit much?
No I really don't. I actually think it's a positive message and women deserve their husbands to treat them as though they are the sexiest, most beautiful women that they have ever laid eyes on and don't even want to have some random chick shaking her tits in their husband's face to keep him satisfied and happy.
My husband thinks I am the most sexiest, beautiful woman on the planet and tells me that about a dozen times a day.
He will also go to strip clubs with friends. He doesn't do it all the time but it something that he will do.
I will also go to strip clubs with him.
He loves and respects me.
We have an awesome relationship based on mutual trust and *gasp!* RESPECT!
We have never had an argument.
Jealousy is never an issue.
I know he would never cheat on me.
He's not having sex with the strippers that he goes to watch.
He loves women, especially naked women.
He loves my naked body and he loves to look at other naked bodies as well.
None of this means he disrespects me, doesn't love me or feels that I'm worthless.
None of this means that I don't respect myself because my husband enjoys beauty.
You don't know me or my relationship with my husband. To say that someone "Deserves Better" because he goes to a strip club is absolutely ludicrous.
You are not me.
You do not live in my house.
Do not throw out a blanket judgment on people like me.
That's wonderful that you really do feel that way. A lot of women don't and just let their men do as they please anyway. These are the women I'm referring to.0 -
So when you state your opinion, that other women are pathetic and need to feel the same exact way as you do, that's fine, it's your opinion. But when I state that other people feel differently (have their own opinions) it's a dumb argument.
Damn my nose is bleeding...
Well no crap people think differently or this wouldn't be a debate! Congrats on making the point that everyone has an opinion???
:explode:
Nevermind. Explaining it to you clearly isn't working. I don't know how to make it any simpler.0 -
This argument is dumb. I'm stating my opinion the same exact way everyone else has in this thread so far. Both sides. Thank goodness you are here to set me straight!
You are certainly entitled to your opinion (and for the record I don't think you are a prude for having it), but don't you think stating that other women who don't feel the way you do are letting themselves be disrespected and deserve more is a bit much?
No I really don't. I actually think it's a positive message and women deserve their husbands to treat them as though they are the sexiest, most beautiful women that they have ever laid eyes on and don't even want to have some random chick shaking her tits in their husband's face to keep him satisfied and happy.
My husband thinks I am the most sexiest, beautiful woman on the planet and tells me that about a dozen times a day.
He will also go to strip clubs with friends. He doesn't do it all the time but it something that he will do.
I will also go to strip clubs with him.
He loves and respects me.
We have an awesome relationship based on mutual trust and *gasp!* RESPECT!
We have never had an argument.
Jealousy is never an issue.
I know he would never cheat on me.
He's not having sex with the strippers that he goes to watch.
He loves women, especially naked women.
He loves my naked body and he loves to look at other naked bodies as well.
None of this means he disrespects me, doesn't love me or feels that I'm worthless.
None of this means that I don't respect myself because my husband enjoys beauty.
You don't know me or my relationship with my husband. To say that someone "Deserves Better" because he goes to a strip club is absolutely ludicrous.
You are not me.
You do not live in my house.
Do not throw out a blanket judgment on people like me.
That's wonderful that you really do feel that way. A lot of women don't and just let their men do as they please anyway. These are the women I'm referring to.
Hmm. Sorry but I disagree. This clearly shows that you feel a man going to a strip club regardless of what their relationship is with their wife is disrespecting her and that she's not keeping him satisfied and happy.I actually think it's a positive message and women deserve their husbands to treat them as though they are the sexiest, most beautiful women that they have ever laid eyes on and don't even want to have some random chick shaking her tits in their husband's face to keep him satisfied and happy.0 -
So when you state your opinion, that other women are pathetic and need to feel the same exact way as you do, that's fine, it's your opinion. But when I state that other people feel differently (have their own opinions) it's a dumb argument.
Damn my nose is bleeding...
Well no crap people think differently or this wouldn't be a debate! Congrats on making the point that everyone has an opinion???
:explode:
Nevermind. Explaining it to you clearly isn't working. I don't know how to make it any simpler.
I understand it perfectly. Everyone has their own moral code and value systems and some might not feel the way I do about the situation and that's fine. I'm just saying I know that a lot of women are actually bothered by it and deep down it gets to them that their men are blatantly ogling at random skanks who shake their naked *kitten* for $ and they shouldn't HAVE to do that. It's okay to have high standards and expect certain things from your husband. THOSE are the women I'm talking about.0 -
This argument is dumb. I'm stating my opinion the same exact way everyone else has in this thread so far. Both sides. Thank goodness you are here to set me straight!
You are certainly entitled to your opinion (and for the record I don't think you are a prude for having it), but don't you think stating that other women who don't feel the way you do are letting themselves be disrespected and deserve more is a bit much?
No I really don't. I actually think it's a positive message and women deserve their husbands to treat them as though they are the sexiest, most beautiful women that they have ever laid eyes on and don't even want to have some random chick shaking her tits in their husband's face to keep him satisfied and happy.
My husband thinks I am the most sexiest, beautiful woman on the planet and tells me that about a dozen times a day.
He will also go to strip clubs with friends. He doesn't do it all the time but it something that he will do.
I will also go to strip clubs with him.
He loves and respects me.
We have an awesome relationship based on mutual trust and *gasp!* RESPECT!
We have never had an argument.
Jealousy is never an issue.
I know he would never cheat on me.
He's not having sex with the strippers that he goes to watch.
He loves women, especially naked women.
He loves my naked body and he loves to look at other naked bodies as well.
None of this means he disrespects me, doesn't love me or feels that I'm worthless.
None of this means that I don't respect myself because my husband enjoys beauty.
You don't know me or my relationship with my husband. To say that someone "Deserves Better" because he goes to a strip club is absolutely ludicrous.
You are not me.
You do not live in my house.
Do not throw out a blanket judgment on people like me.
That's wonderful that you really do feel that way. A lot of women don't and just let their men do as they please anyway. These are the women I'm referring to.
If you know these women personally, then judge away. I have a mind of my own and so does my husband. He does not control me and I do not control him. Women who "let their men" do anything are seriously over estimating their power. That or their men are just whipped.0 -
My fiance refuses to go to one, but I on the other hand have brought up the idea. So overall, no I don't mind
But my fiances sister, my best friend, etc, etc, all mind if their men go and get mad if the subject is even brought up. 0 -
As long as it is not a gay strip club, it should not be a problem. Then again, a gay strip club may be just what you need to put some spice in the relationship...lol.0
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Doesn't bother me at all......He would be coming home to me anyway:)
Or you just install a stripper pole somewhere in the house......problem solved:)
Heckkkkk yeahh! I was thinking of a pole, he refuses that too!
Come to think of it...I want to go more than he does...:happy:
Oh well! :glasses: :drinker: :smokin:0 -
I wouldn't mind a bit, but,
I've never dated the kind of men who go to strip clubs.
I did, however, date a stripper for a little wihle.
True story.
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come to think of it, between my boyfriend and I, I am WAY more likely to go to a strip club anytime soon than he is.
this. just this.0 -
i dont mind at all!0
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Doesn't bother me at all......He would be coming home to me anyway:)
Or you just install a stripper pole somewhere in the house......problem solved:)
Heckkkkk yeahh! I was thinking of a pole, he refuses hahha! Whatever either way my man is mine
My husband bought me one for my birthday a few years back and it's in our living room.0 -
My partner isnt the type to go to one and i'm quite thankful for that to be honest, I'd get ridiculously jealous unless he took me along0
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Doesn't bother me at all......He would be coming home to me anyway:)
Or you just install a stripper pole somewhere in the house......problem solved:)
Heckkkkk yeahh! I was thinking of a pole, he refuses hahha! Whatever either way my man is mine
My husband bought me one for my birthday a few years back and it's in our living room.
Lmao, did he really?
I'm going to have to present this idea to my fiance, we shall see what he says :O
But congrats, I'm jealous now !!
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