girls ... do you mind if your men go to strip clubs?

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  • samanthanic0le
    samanthanic0le Posts: 81 Member
    Haha lol good luck, I got bashed sooo badly on my own thread under chitchat because I had a shaving related question & brought up the fact that I shave so often bc I am a dancer at I was insulted by a overweight women whos display picture was her giant boobs hanging out (yet she's so holy holy she can call me a slut? lol) calling me a slut/ugly/stupid etc all bc I said I danced. So yeah I think most dancers are to scared to even mention their jobs on here... even though its a 18+ website, oh well, I am super NOT ashamed of mine, its fun, great money & great exercise c:

    Wow, must've really bothered you if you keep talking about it to other people a week later, but couldn't respond to me directly. Like I said before, showing cleavage is not the same as being mostly naked on stage.

    And huge boobs? Since when is C huge?! Lol.

    You complain about people judging you before they know you, but you do the same. You don't know how much I weigh, or what my goals are. I'm not some obese person on here making fun of you, but if you want to keep thinking that you can. You contradict yourself quite a bit. You say that you wouldn't want to make someone feel bad, and you say I'm insecure and jealous. So, because I'm "insecure" it's okay for you to keep bashing me on random board posts? I thought you were so nice and had better morals than that?
  • Fieldsy
    Fieldsy Posts: 1,105 Member
    /gets popcorn
  • samanthanic0le
    samanthanic0le Posts: 81 Member
    /gets popcorn

    Lol! Don't worry, there won't be a show on this. It should've been over a week ago, and now it is.
  • Marper8521
    Marper8521 Posts: 158 Member
    My buddie like them so much he moved right behind one!!! Now I love going to his house parties, they are always over there hanging out!!! His pool parties are super cool also!
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,749 Member
    My buddie like them so much he moved right behind one!!! Now I love going to his house parties, they are always over there hanging out!!! His pool parties are super cool also!

    Can I be your friend! Lol!
  • chickentunashake
    chickentunashake Posts: 164 Member
    Guys think about other women sexually ALL THE TIME. I'm sure some even think about that hot girl from the office while banging their wife. Is that cheating? Those of you who say watching a stripper and porn is cheating must think that your man merely THINKING of another woman sexually means he is cheating?

    I know men are visual and think about sex numerous times a day. I do not live under a rock. I do not think that looking at or thinking about another woman is cheating...

    My BF may sometimes think of other women when we are together... But I'll be darned if he's going to TELL me he's thinking about the stripper that he just paid to watch. And I'll be triple darned if I would say "ooohhh, yay, that's so sexy and normal", can I come with you next time?

    Never. Gonna. Happen.

    I so agree with you. Man will be always looking at women, but they don't have to lust after them if the wife or GF is doing her job, making sure that he does not have to think of other women. Isn't it why we are here,on mfp, to lose weight,get in shape,to get our confidence back and be sexy for our husbands? We are their women,we are the mothers of their children and we DO deserve some respect . To me it would be very disrespectful if my husband would have to go somewhere first to get his appetite.
  • Fieldsy
    Fieldsy Posts: 1,105 Member
    nvm
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,749 Member
    I have a hunch that a some girls on here saying that they are all for it and would love to go too are sorta trying to impress their guy or put on an act. I guess people like to pretend more online than in real life.

    I think that's awesome that you know what other people are thinking or how they feel. I never have to put on an act for my husband. I willingly go to strip clubs with him because it's fun and an incredible turn on for me. It's not something we do all the time but when we do? Damn but it's a hot ride home for sure!
  • Fieldsy
    Fieldsy Posts: 1,105 Member
    nvm
  • Fieldsy
    Fieldsy Posts: 1,105 Member
    I have a hunch that a some girls on here saying that they are all for it and would love to go too are sorta trying to impress their guy or put on an act. I guess people like to pretend more online than in real life.

    I think that's awesome that you know what other people are thinking or how they feel. I never have to put on an act for my husband. I willingly go to strip clubs with him because it's fun and an incredible turn on for me. It's not something we do all the time but when we do? Damn but it's a hot ride home for sure!

    I said I have a hunch, and I said some girls. People don't want to display their insecurities and I don't blame them.
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,749 Member
    Guys think about other women sexually ALL THE TIME. I'm sure some even think about that hot girl from the office while banging their wife. Is that cheating? Those of you who say watching a stripper and porn is cheating must think that your man merely THINKING of another woman sexually means he is cheating?

    I know men are visual and think about sex numerous times a day. I do not live under a rock. I do not think that looking at or thinking about another woman is cheating...

    My BF may sometimes think of other women when we are together... But I'll be darned if he's going to TELL me he's thinking about the stripper that he just paid to watch. And I'll be triple darned if I would say "ooohhh, yay, that's so sexy and normal", can I come with you next time?

    Never. Gonna. Happen.

    I so agree with you. Man will be always looking at women, but they don't have to lust after them if the wife or GF is doing her job, making sure that he does not have to think of other women. Isn't it why we are here,on mfp, to lose weight,get in shape,to get our confidence back and be sexy for our husbands? We are their women,we are the mothers of their children and we DO deserve some respect . To me it would be very disrespectful if my husband would have to go somewhere first to get his appetite.

    I am in shape, sexy and confident. I "do my job" as you so eloquently put it and my husband still goes to strip clubs and *gasp* FANTASIZES ABOUT OTHER WOMEN! He doesn't have to go to a strip club to get his appetite but the few times he does! Oh my! It's a damn good thing our neighbors aren't close that's for sure!

    If you think your man doesn't think about other women you're living in a fantasy world.
  • Fieldsy
    Fieldsy Posts: 1,105 Member
    Theres a difference between thinking a girl is hot and going to a club, spending a lot of money to have girls take their clothes off and shove titties in your face.
  • Alma_Sana
    Alma_Sana Posts: 453 Member
    Not my cup of tea, but to each his own I guess
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