girls ... do you mind if your men go to strip clubs?

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  • Buca412
    Buca412 Posts: 367 Member
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    I'm past due for a visit. I'm thinking tonight would be a good night to pay a visit and contribute to someone's "college fund". Anyone care to join me? :tongue: :bigsmile: :devil:
  • tiffnkailey
    tiffnkailey Posts: 150 Member
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    I would say yes it bothers me. Because I know how easily addicted people can get to strip clubs, porn, etc. And it can ruin people. I would rather be single for the rest of my life, then have my boyfriend/husband go to a strip club or watch porn. Those images that the men will get in thier head after going to the strip club, it is hard to get those images out of thier heads. Porn too. I was a prostitute at one time in my life, trying to pay the bills after my divorce. And alot of my clients were married men. Thier wives had no idea. The other thing is, do you think the strippers like what they are doing? No, but they do it for the money, the drugs, etc. They don't really know any better. I have some stripper friends, they are not strippers anymore thank God. But all of them were sexually abused as children, as teenagers got into drugs and then became strippers. Drugs are very easy to get when your a stripper. Do you really want your men spending thier hard earned money on these strippers? Dont forget thier are vip sections where they can get extra's. And some men once they have been drinking awhile. They will forget about thier wife, and they will think, hey a handjob or blow job isnt cheating, because we aren't having intercourse. Have any of you researched the sex trafficking industry? They make millions on stealing girls and women and pimping them out. Alot of these women don't want to be prostitutes but are forced into it. Keep letting your husbands induldge in strip clubs, etc. I won't be surprised when he ends up cheating on you, or giving you an std. Strip clubs are not harmless fun. They are disgusting. Open your eyes. I dare you women to go to the strip clubs by yourself. Talk to the strippers, hear thier stories, and see all the married men with rings on thier fingers, sitting thier acting like horny teenage boys. There is an epidemic, and more and more people are becoming sex addicts, because of the easy affordable sex there is out there. Porn, prostitutes, strippers, Adult personals. Yall might be normal people that don't know about this stuff. But I have lived it, and seen the devestation it causes.
  • supermom2002
    supermom2002 Posts: 180 Member
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    not at all. I've even handed over a $20 and said "here, buy yourself a lap dance" His friends were all jealous of the super cool girlfriend.

    I would have loved to go with but i was never invited. i guess he didn't want to lose me to some stripper.
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,198 Member
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    Nope...as long as he doesn't blow a huge wad of cash and he comes home to me, I'm cool. Oh & as long as the strippers stay at the club...had some friends (a couple) who went to a club together & decided to bring one of the girls home. It did not end well...
  • catattack13
    catattack13 Posts: 117
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    just not during my shift. that's awkward.
  • morganhccstudent724
    morganhccstudent724 Posts: 1,261 Member
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    I would have loved to go with but i was never invited. i guess he didn't want to lose me to some stripper.

    best. answer. ever.
  • EmCarroll1990
    EmCarroll1990 Posts: 2,849 Member
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    I could care less, as long as he takes me sometimes!

    This.
  • joejccva71
    joejccva71 Posts: 2,985 Member
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    just not during my shift. that's awkward.

    Hmm. Noted. ;-)
  • bcattoes
    bcattoes Posts: 17,299 Member
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    I don't mind it once in a while for a bachelor party or something, but I'd think it strange if he wanted to go often.
  • fatboypup
    fatboypup Posts: 1,873 Member
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    I love to go with :)

    I just want to go for the $5 steak dinner lol
  • Faintgreeneyes
    Faintgreeneyes Posts: 730 Member
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    Mine doesn't need one- I can show up any girl on a pole.


    That being said- if he wants to go, I don't have a problem with that- just as long as he comes home, alone.
  • CakeFit21
    CakeFit21 Posts: 2,521 Member
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    So, for my bachelorette party we went to vegas and hit a bunch of strip clubs. My husband went and played paintball.

    He goes with the guys for lunch from time to time, I couldn't care less. We always giggle when one of his friends asks, "won't your wife get pissed you're here?" His response: Yeah, because she didn't get to come too.

    I feel bad when when he tells me one of the guys said, "oh, no I can't ever tell my wife we came here for lunch." I swear to you at least one guy says that every single time they go. So.... all of you women who are like, "No way! Not my man!" Chew on that for a minute.
  • Lifting_chick
    Lifting_chick Posts: 275 Member
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    Nope, but he better jump me when he gets home
  • MyFeistyEvolution
    MyFeistyEvolution Posts: 1,015 Member
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    I don't think I would care...but then again, strip clubs aren't my husband's "thing"..

    I've had a few bf's in the past that went now and then and it didn't bother me.
  • swt0pie
    swt0pie Posts: 366 Member
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    of course i would mind. instead of him wanting other women, i would give him a striptease myself ;)
  • Lifting_chick
    Lifting_chick Posts: 275 Member
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    I don't care where he gets his appetite, as long as he comes home for dinner :wink:
    Great answer :)

    this
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
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    I would say yes it bothers me. Because I know how easily addicted people can get to strip clubs, porn, etc. And it can ruin people. I would rather be single for the rest of my life, then have my boyfriend/husband go to a strip club or watch porn. Those images that the men will get in thier head after going to the strip club, it is hard to get those images out of thier heads. Porn too. I was a prostitute at one time in my life, trying to pay the bills after my divorce. And alot of my clients were married men. Thier wives had no idea. The other thing is, do you think the strippers like what they are doing? No, but they do it for the money, the drugs, etc. They don't really know any better. I have some stripper friends, they are not strippers anymore thank God. But all of them were sexually abused as children, as teenagers got into drugs and then became strippers. Drugs are very easy to get when your a stripper. Do you really want your men spending thier hard earned money on these strippers? Dont forget thier are vip sections where they can get extra's. And some men once they have been drinking awhile. They will forget about thier wife, and they will think, hey a handjob or blow job isnt cheating, because we aren't having intercourse. Have any of you researched the sex trafficking industry? They make millions on stealing girls and women and pimping them out. Alot of these women don't want to be prostitutes but are forced into it. Keep letting your husbands induldge in strip clubs, etc. I won't be surprised when he ends up cheating on you, or giving you an std. Strip clubs are not harmless fun. They are disgusting. Open your eyes. I dare you women to go to the strip clubs by yourself. Talk to the strippers, hear thier stories, and see all the married men with rings on thier fingers, sitting thier acting like horny teenage boys. There is an epidemic, and more and more people are becoming sex addicts, because of the easy affordable sex there is out there. Porn, prostitutes, strippers, Adult personals. Yall might be normal people that don't know about this stuff. But I have lived it, and seen the devestation it causes.

    Your broad generalizations are ignorant. I have had strippers for friends, I have known drug addicts, I'm totally aware of the sex trafficking industry, and yet I still somehow live with myself every day while enjoying strip clubs. Everybody's gotta get paid somehow, and if strippin' keeps the lights on, I think that's great.
  • littlepinkhearts
    littlepinkhearts Posts: 1,055 Member
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    I don't care if someone elses guy goes to the strip clubs every day, or once a month or spends his whole paycheck there. That goes for Casinos or just bars in general. But that kinda guy is not my kinda guy. Don't get me wrong. I like that kinda guy, I really like that kinda guy, but he's not the type I wanna take home and have a relationship with.
  • SexyCook
    SexyCook Posts: 2,253 Member
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    I don't mind....but he doesn't like them since he use to be a bouncer.....On late night my girls and I go after the clubs closes...The Strip joints stay open all night....Actually learn alot of moves from those chick's...:happy:
  • hazelnut861
    hazelnut861 Posts: 390 Member
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    As a married stripper I like to go to out of town clubs with my husband. We know about being on both sides of the business and I enjoy seeing different talents and environments. I'm not a prostitute or drug user like someone else stated most strippers are. I'm a married woman with 2 children that enjoys taking my clothes off and swinging around a pole. The money is just a perk. Unfortunately, he had a terrible lap dance in Vegas this past weekend and the drinks at the topless place were weak. Also, only 2 girls that we saw actually danced, but i should probably cover that in a yelp review. Anyways, a good majority of the men I meet are in a relationship and don't try to.pick up on the strippers. But of course there are the sleaze ball exceptions.

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