girls ... do you mind if your men go to strip clubs?

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  • KickassAugust
    KickassAugust Posts: 1,430 Member
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    No. Why?
  • uniquemoves
    uniquemoves Posts: 102 Member
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    I don't care where he gets his appetite, as long as he comes home for dinner :wink:

    This!!!!! :) as a matter of fact, would love to go with him sometime!
  • lisakyle_11
    lisakyle_11 Posts: 420 Member
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    My husband is a pastor. Say no more. Say no more.

    My condolences.

    lol...

    and no...wouldn't mind. he's never gone (that i know of) since we've been together, but wouldn't bother me at all.
  • JennaM222
    JennaM222 Posts: 1,996 Member
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    As long as he takes me with every now and then!!!!

    My guy actually doesn't really like the Club.
  • mes1119
    mes1119 Posts: 1,082 Member
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    I went with my boyfriend and his friends once. Big mistake. Thought it would be fun but all it did was give me a negative self image of myself, gross me out and make me look ugly with jealousy.
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,843 Member
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    Nope. We go together. I only get annoyed when I can't go.
  • zsaoosh
    zsaoosh Posts: 402 Member
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    I would say yes it bothers me. Because I know how easily addicted people can get to strip clubs, porn, etc. And it can ruin people. I would rather be single for the rest of my life, then have my boyfriend/husband go to a strip club or watch porn. Those images that the men will get in thier head after going to the strip club, it is hard to get those images out of thier heads. Porn too. I was a prostitute at one time in my life, trying to pay the bills after my divorce. And alot of my clients were married men. Thier wives had no idea. The other thing is, do you think the strippers like what they are doing? No, but they do it for the money, the drugs, etc. They don't really know any better. I have some stripper friends, they are not strippers anymore thank God. But all of them were sexually abused as children, as teenagers got into drugs and then became strippers. Drugs are very easy to get when your a stripper. Do you really want your men spending thier hard earned money on these strippers? Dont forget thier are vip sections where they can get extra's. And some men once they have been drinking awhile. They will forget about thier wife, and they will think, hey a handjob or blow job isnt cheating, because we aren't having intercourse. Have any of you researched the sex trafficking industry? They make millions on stealing girls and women and pimping them out. Alot of these women don't want to be prostitutes but are forced into it. Keep letting your husbands induldge in strip clubs, etc. I won't be surprised when he ends up cheating on you, or giving you an std. Strip clubs are not harmless fun. They are disgusting. Open your eyes. I dare you women to go to the strip clubs by yourself. Talk to the strippers, hear thier stories, and see all the married men with rings on thier fingers, sitting thier acting like horny teenage boys. There is an epidemic, and more and more people are becoming sex addicts, because of the easy affordable sex there is out there. Porn, prostitutes, strippers, Adult personals. Yall might be normal people that don't know about this stuff. But I have lived it, and seen the devestation it causes.

    Your broad generalizations are ignorant. I have had strippers for friends, I have known drug addicts, I'm totally aware of the sex trafficking industry, and yet I still somehow live with myself every day while enjoying strip clubs. Everybody's gotta get paid somehow, and if strippin' keeps the lights on, I think that's great.

    Her information isnt ignorant. Not all woman in that situation are there against their will or being abused or on drugs, but there are ALOT that are. You just never know which one is and isnt. How can you enjoy the "show" knowing that the sex indistry is made up of mostly women that are not there by choice. BUT I guess if you would be ok with your wife or daughter up there with men lusting over them (some innocent and some not so much) then enjoy. But its not a healthy lifestyle for anyone involved.
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,843 Member
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    I don't care if someone elses guy goes to the strip clubs every day, or once a month or spends his whole paycheck there. That goes for Casinos or just bars in general. But that kinda guy is not my kinda guy. Don't get me wrong. I like that kinda guy, I really like that kinda guy, but he's not the type I wanna take home and have a relationship with.

    Why not? What makes him different than any other guy out there?
  • Dustinryan24
    Dustinryan24 Posts: 233 Member
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    my ex took me to my first strip club when i was 18.. haha
  • TeachTheGirl
    TeachTheGirl Posts: 2,091 Member
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    I went with my boyfriend and his friends once. Big mistake. Thought it would be fun but all it did was give me a negative self image of myself, gross me out and make me look ugly with jealousy.

    This is one of the things I'm honestly worried about. I think he knows I'm worried too which is why he won't take up the offer.
  • annameier8706
    annameier8706 Posts: 572 Member
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    I love going to strip clubs. With or without my man, so I can't tell him he can't go
  • sammi402
    sammi402 Posts: 232 Member
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    Hell yeah. I'll take my man to the club. I won't let him go by himself because he'd blow his whole damn paycheck. But I'll take him and he can have lap dances or whatever..as long as I can too.
  • sandra80
    sandra80 Posts: 308 Member
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    sure he can go....as long as i go to ;)
  • Buca412
    Buca412 Posts: 367 Member
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    Nope...as long as he doesn't blow a huge wad of cash and he comes home to me, I'm cool. Oh & as long as the strippers stay at the club...had some friends (a couple) who went to a club together & decided to bring one of the girls home. It did not end well...


    Soooo...basically, don't blow a huge wad of cash, don't bring home a stripper...just come home and blow a huge wad. Got it! :tongue:
  • natashamcn
    natashamcn Posts: 145 Member
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    I don't care where he gets his appetite, as long as he comes home for dinner :wink:

    LOVE THIS!
  • marynmarty
    marynmarty Posts: 89 Member
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    Nope, I don't mind if my husband goes to strip clubs. I feel if someone doesn't feel comfortable having their husbands go to strip clubs than they aren't comfortable with themselves. I know my husband is coming home to me and not the stripper. Also I went to a strip club with my girlfriends to see Chip n Dales so who am I to tell him no!!! I think Men need to have friends time to hang out with their buddies. If it means going to a strip club go for it!!! I would go with him if he wanted me to lol. If your to clingy with your spouse/BF, they will find a way to do whatever but they just won't tell you. I would rather know than have them hide it!!
  • Yolanda_85
    Yolanda_85 Posts: 143 Member
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    If a women can indulge in her fantasies (mental & emotional creatures) through romance novels, then a guy should be allowed to do the same (visual creatures), assuming it has no negative bearing on the marital aspects (cheating, spending too much money, touching the girls).

    Fully agree with this.

    My boyfriend (we live together might and as well be married) has never been to a strip club, a friend of his offered to take him on his birthday a couple years ago. I told him 'Go, have fun! Just don't bring anything back to me!' He ended up not going, but I wouldn't have a problem if he ever said he wanted to. Our neighbor and his wife suggested we go as a double date sometime, not sure if or when it will ever happen, but I'd be game for it!
  • breezymom81
    breezymom81 Posts: 499 Member
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    I've been a couple of times with my husband and it's not a big deal. But i feel the same way, if you come home covered n glitter and shame don't even think about nakey time with me! Shower or not. :wink:

    I disagree- fantasy is what makes men and women stay with one person! My husband can think about others all he wants as long as he is doing the ideas to me~ we are both happy! Lord knows I have though of other men to get really hot or read a more racey book and then drug him off to bed :love: :blushing: :wink:
  • lordsangel
    lordsangel Posts: 167
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    Yes I do mind. If he isn't happy at home then dont come back. I should be enough for him. Not to mention we are both Christians and he should not be lusting after other women. Those women dont respect themselves or anyone else. Marriage is supposed to be a sanctity. Our bodies are supposed to be temples of God's Spirit and there is no way I'd do anything like that so I expect my husband to honor me as I honor him.
  • Aureilie
    Aureilie Posts: 213 Member
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    Nope, not in the least. I like to go with him.

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