MFP Meanies :(

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  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,468 Member
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    I see many people saying that the "meanies" or "bullies" are insecure, miserable deep down, have nothing better to do, jealous, etc...isn't that "bullying" too? If I'm mean, it's ok to say those things about me because, well, I'm mean and I have it coming to me? So, it's ok to make up assumptions about a person and talk down about them if they were mean first? Is that the message I'm getting here?

    At least I admit that I'm mean. And admitting you have a problem is the first step to recovery. Or the first step to finding like-minded people to be your friends. Or whatever.

    I like the "finding like minded people" side of that...
  • Axels91
    Axels91 Posts: 213
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    Insecure. They try to laugh at you as a show of superiority as in "ha you're an idiot, I've been doing this longer and am therefore better".

    Somewhere, someone made them feel the way they are making you feel. The people who are in the best shape, in my experience are the most helpful. The intermediate mediocre losers are the ones being jerks.

    ....Says the one insulting people.

    We are all hypocrites. Even you.
    unless you are jesus christ himself, yes. don't play dumb.
    Am I?

    So you're calling me dumb now? You're so mean.

    i told you not to play dumb. meaning don't pretend you don't know what i am talking about. you aren't really that funny.
  • BAMFMeredith
    BAMFMeredith Posts: 2,829 Member
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    EVERYBODY GO EAT A COOKIE! Your blood sugar is too low and you're all cranky.
  • Axels91
    Axels91 Posts: 213
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    We are all hypocrites. Even you.

    Am I?
    unless you are jesus christ himself, yes. don't play dumb.


    oHHHH GOD. Someone brought up religion. Here we go.
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    i forgot that sarcasm doesn't go over well on the netz. womp.
  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,468 Member
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    i told you not to play dumb. meaning don't pretend you don't know what i am talking about. you aren't really that funny.

    Actually she is... She's pretty fantastic
  • 0AmyMarie0
    0AmyMarie0 Posts: 315
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    You got a lot of good replies on that thread too and a lot of people that stood up for you, just ignore the rude ones and move on. Hard when someone outright insults you, but that's all we can do sometimes!
  • EmCarroll1990
    EmCarroll1990 Posts: 2,849 Member
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    Insecure. They try to laugh at you as a show of superiority as in "ha you're an idiot, I've been doing this longer and am therefore better".

    Somewhere, someone made them feel the way they are making you feel. The people who are in the best shape, in my experience are the most helpful. The intermediate mediocre losers are the ones being jerks.

    ....Says the one insulting people.

    We are all hypocrites. Even you.
    unless you are jesus christ himself, yes. don't play dumb.
    Am I?

    So you're calling me dumb now? You're so mean.

    i told you not to play dumb. meaning don't pretend you don't know what i am talking about. you aren't really that funny.

    Oh honey, I'm not trying to be that funny.
  • Pocket_Pixi
    Pocket_Pixi Posts: 1,167 Member
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    EVERYBODY GO EAT A COOKIE! Your blood sugar is too low and you're all cranky.

    Actually I just did eat a cookie because my blood sugar was low lol but I wasn't cranky I was dizzy..
  • Axels91
    Axels91 Posts: 213
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    I see many people saying that the "meanies" or "bullies" are insecure, miserable deep down, have nothing better to do, jealous, etc...isn't that "bullying" too? If I'm mean, it's ok to say those things about me because, well, I'm mean and I have it coming to me? So, it's ok to make up assumptions about a person and talk down about them if they were mean first? Is that the message I'm getting here?

    At least I admit that I'm mean. And admitting you have a problem is the first step to recovery. Or the first step to finding like-minded people to be your friends. Or whatever.

    if they are anywhere near as tough as they pretend to be, it should roll right off their backs :)
  • EmCarroll1990
    EmCarroll1990 Posts: 2,849 Member
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    EVERYBODY GO EAT A COOKIE! Your blood sugar is too low and you're all cranky.

    If it fit into my remaining calories, I so would.
  • Flippiefloppies
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    Insecure. They try to laugh at you as a show of superiority as in "ha you're an idiot, I've been doing this longer and am therefore better".

    Somewhere, someone made them feel the way they are making you feel. The people who are in the best shape, in my experience are the most helpful. The intermediate mediocre losers are the ones being jerks.

    ....Says the one insulting people.

    We are all hypocrites. Even you.
    unless you are jesus christ himself, yes. don't play dumb.
    Am I?

    So you're calling me dumb now? You're so mean.

    i told you not to play dumb. meaning don't pretend you don't know what i am talking about. you aren't really that funny.

    Actually Emily is pretty freaking halarious.That is why she is my friend. Just saying.
  • Flippiefloppies
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    EVERYBODY GO EAT A COOKIE! Your blood sugar is too low and you're all cranky.


    Mer, you just killed me. I died laughing.
  • j4nash
    j4nash Posts: 1,719 Member
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    Keyboard warriors.
  • Chipmaniac
    Chipmaniac Posts: 642 Member
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    I see many people saying that the "meanies" or "bullies" are insecure, miserable deep down, have nothing better to do, jealous, etc...isn't that "bullying" too? If I'm mean, it's ok to say those things about me because, well, I'm mean and I have it coming to me? So, it's ok to make up assumptions about a person and talk down about them if they were mean first? Is that the message I'm getting here?

    At least I admit that I'm mean. And admitting you have a problem is the first step to recovery. Or the first step to finding like-minded people to be your friends. Or whatever.
    Yeah. Right. It's bullying to call a bully what they are: A bully. Uh huh.
  • BAMFMeredith
    BAMFMeredith Posts: 2,829 Member
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    I see many people saying that the "meanies" or "bullies" are insecure, miserable deep down, have nothing better to do, jealous, etc...isn't that "bullying" too? If I'm mean, it's ok to say those things about me because, well, I'm mean and I have it coming to me? So, it's ok to make up assumptions about a person and talk down about them if they were mean first? Is that the message I'm getting here?

    At least I admit that I'm mean. And admitting you have a problem is the first step to recovery. Or the first step to finding like-minded people to be your friends. Or whatever.

    if they are anywhere near as tough as they pretend to be, it should roll right off their backs :)

    You're so right. I'm putting up such a front and I'm SO hurt right now. I was making a point. We're all mean. Some of us are just more honest about it.
  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,468 Member
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    I see many people saying that the "meanies" or "bullies" are insecure, miserable deep down, have nothing better to do, jealous, etc...isn't that "bullying" too? If I'm mean, it's ok to say those things about me because, well, I'm mean and I have it coming to me? So, it's ok to make up assumptions about a person and talk down about them if they were mean first? Is that the message I'm getting here?

    At least I admit that I'm mean. And admitting you have a problem is the first step to recovery. Or the first step to finding like-minded people to be your friends. Or whatever.

    if they are anywhere near as tough as they pretend to be, it should roll right off their backs :)

    You're so right. I'm putting up such a front and I'm SO hurt right now. I was making a point. We're all mean. Some of us are just more honest about it.

    A-frikkin-MEN! I tell everyone, I'm brutally honest, If you can't handle that, we won't be friends.
  • Flippiefloppies
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    I see many people saying that the "meanies" or "bullies" are insecure, miserable deep down, have nothing better to do, jealous, etc...isn't that "bullying" too? If I'm mean, it's ok to say those things about me because, well, I'm mean and I have it coming to me? So, it's ok to make up assumptions about a person and talk down about them if they were mean first? Is that the message I'm getting here?

    At least I admit that I'm mean. And admitting you have a problem is the first step to recovery. Or the first step to finding like-minded people to be your friends. Or whatever.
    Yeah. Right. It's bullying to call a bully what they are: A bully. Uh huh.


    wow, that was a good one.
  • Axels91
    Axels91 Posts: 213
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    Keyboard warriors.

    everyone is a bad as online. you can even be the leader of a clique! just be really snarky and then some other weak minded minions will hop on, cuz they're like so totally funneh n cool and have great senses of humor and can like totally take a joke cuz theyre all "not babeez" about it.

    its just the internet until someone takes their clothes off. then everyone runs to report.
  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,468 Member
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    Keyboard warriors.

    everyone is a bad as online. you can even be the leader of a clique! just be really snarky and then some other weak minded minions will hop on, cuz they're like so totally funneh n cool and have great senses of humor and can like totally take a joke cuz theyre all "not babeez" about it.

    its just the internet until someone takes their clothes off. then everyone runs to report.

    Is it lonely?
  • BAMFMeredith
    BAMFMeredith Posts: 2,829 Member
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    I see many people saying that the "meanies" or "bullies" are insecure, miserable deep down, have nothing better to do, jealous, etc...isn't that "bullying" too? If I'm mean, it's ok to say those things about me because, well, I'm mean and I have it coming to me? So, it's ok to make up assumptions about a person and talk down about them if they were mean first? Is that the message I'm getting here?

    At least I admit that I'm mean. And admitting you have a problem is the first step to recovery. Or the first step to finding like-minded people to be your friends. Or whatever.
    Yeah. Right. It's bullying to call a bully what they are: A bully. Uh huh.

    Please re-read what I posted. Nowhere did I say it was bullying to call someone a bully. Reading comprehension is your friend.
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