Hot girl ugly man
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well Ive seen the opposite... a good looking guy with just an odd looking girl. It really shouldnt matter on looks so much.. i garee there has to be some attraction but to say thats the only factor would be a sad thing.0
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In one of my psychology courses, they mentioned that people tend to be attracted to/choose SOs who they feel they "deserve" or consider to be "in their league". Take that with a grain of salt obviously, but more or less it rings true to me.
I'm decently attractive, and I definitely have a very specific type who I swoon over, but I almost never end up dating the guys who are my aesthetic "type". I've been with my current boyfriend for almost four years now (and sadly have heard many comments from friends, and from my boyfriend himself, implying "why are you with someone who's obviously less attractive?"), but my last boyfriend before him was the epitome of "my type" and I still consider him to be the most attractive person I have ever met or seen in my life. That relationship wasn't going to be a healthy one though because I automatically put him up on a pedestal (and by default, knocked myself down into the position of being "the unattractive one"), and I would walk on eggshells trying to keep him around and trying not to upset him, lest he realize how much better he could do than me.
As I said though, that was four years ago, and hopefully I'd have more faith and confidence in myself now if I found myself falling for a guy who was undeniably more attractive than me. Really though, I fall for people because of who they are -- not what they look like -- and I've almost never found a guy who I was both super compatible with AND who also happened to be "my type".
(I didn't proof-read any of this -- sorry it's such a mess)
Umm...not to come off wrong here, but seriously...when it comes to appearance, you've got pretty much any man I've ever seen in my life, covered. You have absolutely zero to fear in that department.
And from all I've read, you've a pretty great personality as well...definitely nothing to worry about
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Chrisanderson2 Your back is swoon worthy.
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Ok, so the first guy's eyes are maybe a little close together but I do not see how he:
is ugly at all. Sacha Baron Cohen is attractive AND funny.
I didn't read through the whole thread. I just had to put my 2 cents in when I saw Sacha. :laugh:
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What's the deal with hot women being attracted to ugly *kitten* men? I see it everywhere. I think I'm going to let my face get run over by a truck.
"I ain't sayin' she's a gold digga..."0 -
In one of my psychology courses, they mentioned that people tend to be attracted to/choose SOs who they feel they "deserve" or consider to be "in their league". Take that with a grain of salt obviously, but more or less it rings true to me.
I'm decently attractive, and I definitely have a very specific type who I swoon over, but I almost never end up dating the guys who are my aesthetic "type". I've been with my current boyfriend for almost four years now (and sadly have heard many comments from friends, and from my boyfriend himself, implying "why are you with someone who's obviously less attractive?"), but my last boyfriend before him was the epitome of "my type" and I still consider him to be the most attractive person I have ever met or seen in my life. That relationship wasn't going to be a healthy one though because I automatically put him up on a pedestal (and by default, knocked myself down into the position of being "the unattractive one"), and I would walk on eggshells trying to keep him around and trying not to upset him, lest he realize how much better he could do than me.
As I said though, that was four years ago, and hopefully I'd have more faith and confidence in myself now if I found myself falling for a guy who was undeniably more attractive than me. Really though, I fall for people because of who they are -- not what they look like -- and I've almost never found a guy who I was both super compatible with AND who also happened to be "my type".
(I didn't proof-read any of this -- sorry it's such a mess)
Umm...not to come off wrong here, but seriously...when it comes to appearance, you've got pretty much any man I've ever seen in my life, covered. You have absolutely zero to fear in that department.
And from all I've read, you've a pretty great personality as well...definitely nothing to worry about.
Crisanderson27 Your back is swoon worthy.
/sigh...if only the rest of me were as worthy!!0 -
I would pick brains and a sense of humor over looks anyday!! Sure a little money makes ANYONE look better! LOL0
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I thought the post was funny!! I've thought about this too and I think it's because we're attracted to many different aspects men, not just looks. An average looking guy can be HOT if he's confident or funny & if a man has money there'll probably be a gorgeous woman with him no matter what he looks like! It just is what it is !! 0
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I hang out with a lot of gay people and you see a similar trend there, where there is frequently one rather unattractive partner with one total hottie!0
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In one of my psychology courses, they mentioned that people tend to be attracted to/choose SOs who they feel they "deserve" or consider to be "in their league". Take that with a grain of salt obviously, but more or less it rings true to me.
I'm decently attractive, and I definitely have a very specific type who I swoon over, but I almost never end up dating the guys who are my aesthetic "type". I've been with my current boyfriend for almost four years now (and sadly have heard many comments from friends, and from my boyfriend himself, implying "why are you with someone who's obviously less attractive?"), but my last boyfriend before him was the epitome of "my type" and I still consider him to be the most attractive person I have ever met or seen in my life. That relationship wasn't going to be a healthy one though because I automatically put him up on a pedestal (and by default, knocked myself down into the position of being "the unattractive one"), and I would walk on eggshells trying to keep him around and trying not to upset him, lest he realize how much better he could do than me.
As I said though, that was four years ago, and hopefully I'd have more faith and confidence in myself now if I found myself falling for a guy who was undeniably more attractive than me. Really though, I fall for people because of who they are -- not what they look like -- and I've almost never found a guy who I was both super compatible with AND who also happened to be "my type".
(I didn't proof-read any of this -- sorry it's such a mess)
Umm...not to come off wrong here, but seriously...when it comes to appearance, you've got pretty much any man I've ever seen in my life, covered. You have absolutely zero to fear in that department.
And from all I've read, you've a pretty great personality as well...definitely nothing to worry about.
Crisanderson27 Your back is swoon worthy.
/sigh...if only the rest of me were as worthy!!
Holy hell, i call bullsh1t!!! course i had to creep you...the cowboy hat pic is hot!0 -
Unfortunatly you cant text in a "joking" tone of voice lol, but I seen it was a joke0
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I'm a smart guy. And I'm single right now.
Yes but you still have to sleep with that every night. Don't know how they do it.Perhaps women go more for brains than looks? And men do the opposite. Having a "hot woman" shouldn't be as much of a priority as having a compatible individual as your significant other. After all, their looks wont be around forever - their personalities will.
'cause brains are SEXY!
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Hmmmm...I wonder why?????]0 -
Sacha Baron Cohen is a beautiful man.
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In one of my psychology courses, they mentioned that people tend to be attracted to/choose SOs who they feel they "deserve" or consider to be "in their league". Take that with a grain of salt obviously, but more or less it rings true to me.
I'm decently attractive, and I definitely have a very specific type who I swoon over, but I almost never end up dating the guys who are my aesthetic "type". I've been with my current boyfriend for almost four years now (and sadly have heard many comments from friends, and from my boyfriend himself, implying "why are you with someone who's obviously less attractive?"), but my last boyfriend before him was the epitome of "my type" and I still consider him to be the most attractive person I have ever met or seen in my life. That relationship wasn't going to be a healthy one though because I automatically put him up on a pedestal (and by default, knocked myself down into the position of being "the unattractive one"), and I would walk on eggshells trying to keep him around and trying not to upset him, lest he realize how much better he could do than me.
As I said though, that was four years ago, and hopefully I'd have more faith and confidence in myself now if I found myself falling for a guy who was undeniably more attractive than me. Really though, I fall for people because of who they are -- not what they look like -- and I've almost never found a guy who I was both super compatible with AND who also happened to be "my type".
(I didn't proof-read any of this -- sorry it's such a mess)
Umm...not to come off wrong here, but seriously...when it comes to appearance, you've got pretty much any man I've ever seen in my life, covered. You have absolutely zero to fear in that department.
And from all I've read, you've a pretty great personality as well...definitely nothing to worry about.
Crisanderson27 Your back is swoon worthy.
/sigh...if only the rest of me were as worthy!!
Holy hell, i call bullsh1t!!! course i had to creep you...the cowboy hat pic is hot!
That picture was a complete joke lol, but it won me a years subscription to shallow d-bag magazine.
Wait, maybe (as has been suggested previously) THAT's why I'm single?!0 -
I have always been attracted to the underdog the reason is because of how sweet they are and how they carry themself. I look at the inner beauty the guy has in his heart. looks will fade but the inner beauty will always last. I have known a lot of good looking guys but most were really conceited and their attitudes were ugly.0
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Maybe these "hot" chicks just want what's in the guys wallet?....I dunno LOL :P0
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In one of my psychology courses, they mentioned that people tend to be attracted to/choose SOs who they feel they "deserve" or consider to be "in their league". Take that with a grain of salt obviously, but more or less it rings true to me.
I'm decently attractive, and I definitely have a very specific type who I swoon over, but I almost never end up dating the guys who are my aesthetic "type". I've been with my current boyfriend for almost four years now (and sadly have heard many comments from friends, and from my boyfriend himself, implying "why are you with someone who's obviously less attractive?"), but my last boyfriend before him was the epitome of "my type" and I still consider him to be the most attractive person I have ever met or seen in my life. That relationship wasn't going to be a healthy one though because I automatically put him up on a pedestal (and by default, knocked myself down into the position of being "the unattractive one"), and I would walk on eggshells trying to keep him around and trying not to upset him, lest he realize how much better he could do than me.
As I said though, that was four years ago, and hopefully I'd have more faith and confidence in myself now if I found myself falling for a guy who was undeniably more attractive than me. Really though, I fall for people because of who they are -- not what they look like -- and I've almost never found a guy who I was both super compatible with AND who also happened to be "my type".
(I didn't proof-read any of this -- sorry it's such a mess)
Umm...not to come off wrong here, but seriously...when it comes to appearance, you've got pretty much any man I've ever seen in my life, covered. You have absolutely zero to fear in that department.
And from all I've read, you've a pretty great personality as well...definitely nothing to worry about.
Crisanderson27 Your back is swoon worthy.
/sigh...if only the rest of me were as worthy!!
Holy hell, i call bullsh1t!!! course i had to creep you...the cowboy hat pic is hot!
That picture was a complete joke lol, but it won me a years subscription to shallow d-bag magazine.
Wait, maybe (as has been suggested previously) THAT's why I'm single?!
whatever...just dont say the rest of you isnt bite worthy.0 -
Didn't read the whole thread, but I don't see anything ugly about the two guys in the photos.
The older I get, the less looks impress me. I can appreciate a good looking dude, but on the list of "must have" traits, it ranks pretty low. "Recognizably human" is pretty much the only physical requirement... well, that and "working boy parts."0 -
Sacha Baron Cohen is a beautiful man.
Yup, for me its about humor. I have a BIG crush on Seth Rogen, i want some of that now! For me its all about humor and who i can have a fun time with. I tried dating a guy because of money and eww... that just didn't work. I'm sure some girls could do that, but i only lasted one date. Not my thing.0 -
In one of my psychology courses, they mentioned that people tend to be attracted to/choose SOs who they feel they "deserve" or consider to be "in their league". Take that with a grain of salt obviously, but more or less it rings true to me.
I'm decently attractive, and I definitely have a very specific type who I swoon over, but I almost never end up dating the guys who are my aesthetic "type". I've been with my current boyfriend for almost four years now (and sadly have heard many comments from friends, and from my boyfriend himself, implying "why are you with someone who's obviously less attractive?"), but my last boyfriend before him was the epitome of "my type" and I still consider him to be the most attractive person I have ever met or seen in my life. That relationship wasn't going to be a healthy one though because I automatically put him up on a pedestal (and by default, knocked myself down into the position of being "the unattractive one"), and I would walk on eggshells trying to keep him around and trying not to upset him, lest he realize how much better he could do than me.
As I said though, that was four years ago, and hopefully I'd have more faith and confidence in myself now if I found myself falling for a guy who was undeniably more attractive than me. Really though, I fall for people because of who they are -- not what they look like -- and I've almost never found a guy who I was both super compatible with AND who also happened to be "my type".
(I didn't proof-read any of this -- sorry it's such a mess)
Umm...not to come off wrong here, but seriously...when it comes to appearance, you've got pretty much any man I've ever seen in my life, covered. You have absolutely zero to fear in that department.
And from all I've read, you've a pretty great personality as well...definitely nothing to worry about.
Crisanderson27 Your back is swoon worthy.
/sigh...if only the rest of me were as worthy!!
Holy hell, i call bullsh1t!!! course i had to creep you...the cowboy hat pic is hot!
That picture was a complete joke lol, but it won me a years subscription to shallow d-bag magazine.
Wait, maybe (as has been suggested previously) THAT's why I'm single?!
whatever...just dont say the rest of you isnt bite worthy.
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haha call someone a looser and tell them there's no need for insults?
Whatever loser. Just starting a fun discussion. No need for insults buddy!
I'm a smart guy. And I'm single right now.
Yes but you still have to sleep with that every night. Don't know how they do it.Perhaps women go more for brains than looks? And men do the opposite. Having a "hot woman" shouldn't be as much of a priority as having a compatible individual as your significant other. After all, their looks wont be around forever - their personalities will.
'cause brains are SEXY!
Smart guys don't start threads like this, brah.
A hot personality is hotter then a cocky d*k who goes around pointing out who's ugly.0 -
Maybe to them he isn't ugly? The guy in the 2nd picture isn't all that bad. A lot of women fall for a guy more then just looks. I did not fall for my husband for his looks, though in my eyes he is hot stuff, but I fell for him because of his sense of humor and personality. To me that can make or break a guy in my books. A hot *kitten* guy might have the looks but if that guy is an *kitten* then he lost my interest and is no longer considered hot.0
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Yes but you still have to sleep with that every night. Don't know how they do it.Perhaps women go more for brains than looks? And men do the opposite. Having a "hot woman" shouldn't be as much of a priority as having a compatible individual as your significant other. After all, their looks wont be around forever - their personalities will.
A hot personality is hotter then a cocky d*k who goes around pointing out who's ugly.
Some might even call a lady with a potty mouth ugly. Just sayin'0 -
some of us married men that were active, social and had brains and money.. and after years of potato chips, icecream and sugar sodas and hours and hours and hours spent on an xbox.. now are fat, unmotivated, unemployed, out of shape,and without any desire to do ANYTHING..0
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Personally I think part of it is that men tend to over-estimate their own hotness and women under-estimate theirs. So a man may appear to others to be punching above his own weight, when he probably thinks he is just as hot as the woman. I mean not to pick on the OP and I can't see any of his pics to confirm... however he is singling out these two guys and then talking about why he is single. One could infer he must think of himself as better looking than either of these men.
Just thought we need to even up the negative female stereotypes with a male one:)0 -
Whats the deal with men thinking both have to be equally attractive OR men only wanting 10/10 girls when they could barely pass for a 5 themselves? I swear...it irritates the heck out of me when I hear guys talking and saying no way to women because of small flaws when they themselves are overweight or unattractive. I've dated some overweight and unattractive men that I might not have believed I would but it is always the way they act in that case that pulls me in and they start to look better to me.0
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Nowhere did I state I was attractive lol Thanks for calling me a lady tho
Yes but you still have to sleep with that every night. Don't know how they do it.Perhaps women go more for brains than looks? And men do the opposite. Having a "hot woman" shouldn't be as much of a priority as having a compatible individual as your significant other. After all, their looks wont be around forever - their personalities will.
A hot personality is hotter then a cocky d*k who goes around pointing out who's ugly.
Some might even call a lady with a potty mouth ugly. Just sayin' 0 -
Personally I think part of it is that men tend to over-estimate their own hotness and women under-estimate theirs. So a man may appear to others to be punching above his own weight, when he probably thinks he is just as hot as the woman. I mean not to pick on the OP and I can't see any of his pics to confirm... however he is singling out these two guys and then talking about why he is single. One could infer he must think of himself as better looking than either of these men.
Just thought we need to even up the negative female stereotypes with a male one:)
I've heard of this before and it does make sense.0 -
I see the opposite all the time in the military..... And most of the time it is has nothing to do with personality..0
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Whats the deal with men thinking both have to be equally attractive OR men only wanting 10/10 girls when they could barely pass for a 5 themselves? I swear...it irritates the heck out of me when I hear guys talking and saying no way to women because of small flaws when they themselves are overweight or unattractive. I've dated some overweight and unattractive men that I might not have believed I would but it is always the way they act in that case that pulls me in and they start to look better to me.
Completely agree with this, but its certainly improved since I got older. I had a lot of male friends growing up who would always limit themselves to only dating younger hotter girls... Then they would be like "oh why can't I find a girlfriend like you Nat" blah blah... the reality is that they would never have dated me... ever. Their loss 0 -
Lol dont be so hard on yourself, youre pretty cute. And you probably know binary, guys love that right...right??? If not, i'll keep pretending they do for my own peace of mind :flowerforyou:
Nowhere did I state I was attractive lol Thanks for calling me a lady tho
Yes but you still have to sleep with that every night. Don't know how they do it.Perhaps women go more for brains than looks? And men do the opposite. Having a "hot woman" shouldn't be as much of a priority as having a compatible individual as your significant other. After all, their looks wont be around forever - their personalities will.
A hot personality is hotter then a cocky d*k who goes around pointing out who's ugly.
Some might even call a lady with a potty mouth ugly. Just sayin'0
is ugly at all. Sacha Baron Cohen is attractive AND funny.
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