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  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
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    I think it's still going to be equal. The taking by the hand scenario will work better for women than men BUT if his approach is right a guy will get the girl. He may have to be more smooth about it but it'll happen. Hung out with the guys in my younger days. The right approach is a panty dropper every time.

    But your argument contends that he "has to be smooth" to be successful. This means he has to have an added skill beyond gender to equal that of a woman's mere presence.

    So your saying if I just walked up to you. Grabbed your hand and said "lets f##k". You would get up and say lets go. No convo before

    You probably wouldn't even have to ask...in general. No man will likely 'admit' this, just like no woman would. Doesn't mean they wouldn't do it.
  • leynak
    leynak Posts: 963 Member
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    I agree that a woman has the advantage.

    I personally would not be up to it if some guy approached me- hot or not. :laugh: But I have known plenty of guys that would not think twice if a woman propositioned them.
  • bbrat333
    bbrat333 Posts: 158 Member
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    You are right girls have the upper hand, but they also have the risk of a bad reputation if they give it up too easy.
  • mamamudbug
    mamamudbug Posts: 572 Member
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    This is the topic that will most likely bring up the slut vs. stud debate (men sleeping with multiple = stud, women sleeping around = slut)

    Everytime a man sleeps with a lot of women he is called a stud and if a woman sleeps with a lot of men shes called a slut and people think this is unfair. Nah, Its completely fair and ill tell you why. It’s easy to be a slut but its hard to be a stud. To be a stud you have to be witty charming well dressed have nice shoes and have a fake job, to be a slut you just have to be…there

    So in short. Yes, it is easier for women to get laid

    Not necessarily
  • Trail_Addict
    Trail_Addict Posts: 1,350 Member
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    I think it's still going to be equal. The taking by the hand scenario will work better for women than men BUT if his approach is right a guy will get the girl. He may have to be more smooth about it but it'll happen. Hung out with the guys in my younger days. The right approach is a panty dropper every time.

    But your argument contends that he "has to be smooth" to be successful. This means he has to have an added skill beyond gender to equal that of a woman's mere presence.

    So your saying if I just walked up to you. Grabbed your hand and said "lets f##k". You would get up and say lets go. No convo before

    In a room of equal amounts of men and women, your "Yes" answers would likely be significantly higher than if I was doing the asking.

    Or are you just flirting with me? :wink:
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
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    In general, women hold the prize. Men are trying to get the prize. It's a genetics thing.

    A guy has to jump through hoops, fit the bill, perform magic.
    A woman just has to say "yes".

    A guy usually only has to jump through hoops because a girl doesn't want to feel or be perceived as a *kitten*. Men have less of a problem with a more direct approach and at times it's a huge turn on for them.

    Perceived by who?? The guy is the only one who knows what happened. They may never meet or speak again.

    Mainly herself and/or the guy but in your scenario they are in a group of people.

    The group doesn't know what's going on...I mean lets assume a bit of discretion here lol. But you've brought up the self respect point...which doesn't play on the 'gender power' point.
  • ChantalGG
    ChantalGG Posts: 2,404 Member
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    I also this ladies are a bit pickier so it would take somewaht longer to decide who to jump on.
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,267 Member
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    in this said bathroom adventure, who is getting satisfied?
  • harlanJEN
    harlanJEN Posts: 1,089 Member
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    Without veering off topic ...
    To answer your question with the scenario you outlined

    The woman

    You are indeed correct
  • nas24
    nas24 Posts: 880 Member
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    in this said bathroom adventure, who is getting satisfied?

    Bathroom adventure would NEVER even happen it were me. Too many germs, eww!!
  • tobnrn
    tobnrn Posts: 477 Member
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    I think if we polled who is getting more it would b the guys. I think they have it easier.

    I cant believe you made a topic of our discussion. Hilarious
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
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    This is the topic that will most likely bring up the slut vs. stud debate (men sleeping with multiple = stud, women sleeping around = slut)

    Everytime a man sleeps with a lot of women he is called a stud and if a woman sleeps with a lot of men shes called a slut and people think this is unfair. Nah, Its completely fair and ill tell you why. It’s easy to be a slut but its hard to be a stud. To be a stud you have to be witty charming well dressed have nice shoes and have a fake job, to be a slut you just have to be…there

    So in short. Yes, it is easier for women to get laid

    Not necessarily

    Well, I am fairly overweight. I don't have the Brad Pitt looks where women drop their pants just looking at me. So yes, for men like me, we HAVE to jump through those hoops
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
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    in this said bathroom adventure, who is getting satisfied?

    If she's brazen enough to drag him to the bathroom, I'm sure she wouldn't hesitate to make the dumb azz do whatever was necessary for her to enjoy it lol.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
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    I think if we polled who is getting more it would b the guys. I think they have it easier.

    I cant believe you made a topic of our discussion. Hilarious

    This wasn't about who was getting more lol. This was about who can get it easier!
  • Sarauk2sf
    Sarauk2sf Posts: 28,072 Member
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    Looking at it from the other angle of "are guys more likely to 'put out'?' - generally yes (in very generalized terms though), and as such, it is easier for a female to get her lovin' on, so to speak.
  • robot_potato
    robot_potato Posts: 1,535 Member
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    We have boobs. Men like boobs. Penises aren't attractive, no matter what face you paint on them. It's not rocket science.
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
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    I think if we polled who is getting more it would b the guys. I think they have it easier.

    I cant believe you made a topic of our discussion. Hilarious

    No....women just don't admit that they get more because of the whole being called a slut by the society thing and men brag about it because society calls them stud for it.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
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    This is the topic that will most likely bring up the slut vs. stud debate (men sleeping with multiple = stud, women sleeping around = slut)

    Everytime a man sleeps with a lot of women he is called a stud and if a woman sleeps with a lot of men shes called a slut and people think this is unfair. Nah, Its completely fair and ill tell you why. It’s easy to be a slut but its hard to be a stud. To be a stud you have to be witty charming well dressed have nice shoes and have a fake job, to be a slut you just have to be…there

    So in short. Yes, it is easier for women to get laid

    Not necessarily

    Well, I am fairly overweight. I don't have the Brad Pitt looks where women drop their pants just looking at me. So yes, for men like me, we HAVE to jump through those hoops

    It's not just you man. Trust me.
  • kristalfrissy
    kristalfrissy Posts: 158 Member
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    In general, women hold the prize. Men are trying to get the prize. It's a genetics thing.

    A guy has to jump through hoops, fit the bill, perform magic.
    A woman just has to say "yes".

    A guy usually only has to jump through hoops because a girl doesn't want to feel or be perceived as a *kitten*. Men have less of a problem with a more direct approach and at times it's a huge turn on for them.

    Perceived by who?? The guy is the only one who knows what happened. They may never meet or speak again.


    also perceived by anybody that walks into the bathroom! ;) but I do agree with you. Alhough--I didn't realize that we held that much power that we could drag you into a bathroom without much resistance. Even if I wanted to do that I would never actually do it for fear of being rejected!!
  • mrs_deg1983
    mrs_deg1983 Posts: 157
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    Yes agreed. A woman would have it first.

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