SEXUAL PREFERENCES SINCE LOSING WEIGHT?

Namaste1983
Namaste1983 Posts: 603 Member
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I AM ACTUALLY GOING TO POST A TOPIC BECAUSE I HAVEN'T SEEN IT YET. (AND YES, I KNOW MY POST IS IN CAPS)

SINCE LOSING WEIGHT HAVE YOU NOTICED A CHANGE IN YOUR PREFERENCE FOR MATES?

WHEN I WAS 400+ I LIKED MY BOYS TALL AND SKINNY.
NOW AT MY CURRENT WEIGHT I LIKE THEM IN LOTS OF SHAPES AND SIZES :)
A LITTLE TUMMY IS CUTE, LOVE A BOY WHO IS BULKING, AND WHO DOESN'T APPRECIATE A RUNNERS BODY?
IT'S ALSO WEIRD TO BE SMALLER THAN A GUY BUT I REALLY LOVE IT NOW.

ANYONE ELSE NOTICE THIS?

LETS KEEP THIS THREAD NICE :)
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  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    I always tended to go with short and chubby guys (I'm 5'10").

    As I got fit, I guess I did change to preferring men who at least take care of their bodies, whether they're in perfect shape or not.

    I had my first ever really tall guy (6'2") recently and I think I might be ruined for short men now.
    Height really does help with some things. Plus, he was quite fit, which meant plenty of strength and endurance (major points awarded for both).

    I always have had a thing for a nice *kitten*, chest hair, dark hair, and facial scruff, though - that hasn't changed and likely never will.
  • monroe61
    monroe61 Posts: 620 Member
    How about the other way around? My husband has lost 90lbs and I've only lost 30lbs so far... Now that he is fit and muscular (smaller than me...ugh) I realize how much I like a "bigger" guy! I like my man with some meat!

    Don't get me wrong I love my husband and I'm very proud of his accomplishments and that he is healthy now but I liked it when he was a little chubbier.
  • AudgePaudge
    AudgePaudge Posts: 537 Member
    It hasn't changed yet, I still prefer the mountain men type :bigsmile: Or if they look like Thor :wink:
  • BandForAlyAnne
    BandForAlyAnne Posts: 321 Member
    i've always been drawn to the lean but strong looking guys, and muscles always kind of grossed me out. but while i do still love the lean and strong, i'm starting to appreciate a more muscled body *to a point. lol
  • lesley1981
    lesley1981 Posts: 329 Member
    I've always had a thing for tall men, but since losing weight I have a thing for BIG men... and by big I mean broad shouldered, solid men! My bf is 6'5" and a rugby player, so he has big arms, big thighs and a big chest... and I'm getting a little excited just typing this as I know I'm getting those big arms wrapped around me in 50 minutes time :love:
  • BadCookieMonster
    BadCookieMonster Posts: 74
    It's all about the women having confidence.. Its always been a preference of mine.
  • bluefox9er
    bluefox9er Posts: 2,917 Member
    I AM ACTUALLY GOING TO POST A TOPIC BECAUSE I HAVEN'T SEEN IT YET. (AND YES, I KNOW MY POST IS IN CAPS)

    SINCE LOSING WEIGHT HAVE YOU NOTICED A CHANGE IN YOUR PREFERENCE FOR MATES?

    WHEN I WAS 400+ I LIKED MY BOYS TALL AND SKINNY.
    NOW AT MY CURRENT WEIGHT I LIKE THEM IN LOTS OF SHAPES AND SIZES :)
    A LITTLE TUMMY IS CUTE, LOVE A BOY WHO IS BULKING, AND WHO DOESN'T APPRECIATE A RUNNERS BODY?
    IT'S ALSO WEIRD TO BE SMALLER THAN A GUY BUT I REALLY LOVE IT NOW.

    ANYONE ELSE NOTICE THIS?

    LETS KEEP THIS THREAD NICE :)

    nope..youve always been my type, sarah :-)
  • PittShkr
    PittShkr Posts: 1,000 Member
    BUTT SEX

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  • MtnKat
    MtnKat Posts: 714
    After I lose weight, I feel hot to trot lol

    I mean HOT TO TROT

    I find myself looking at everyone sexually - at least for a little while. No, I never act on it. Especially since I work on a college campus and well, the fact that Im married lol.

    Then my libido goes back to normal and I'm back to just looking at hubby again.
  • OLFATUG
    OLFATUG Posts: 393 Member
    My preference has always been... YES!
  • emmymae22
    emmymae22 Posts: 206
    Interesting topic! Don't think my tastes have changed much though..
  • Namaste1983
    Namaste1983 Posts: 603 Member
    I AM ACTUALLY GOING TO POST A TOPIC BECAUSE I HAVEN'T SEEN IT YET. (AND YES, I KNOW MY POST IS IN CAPS)

    SINCE LOSING WEIGHT HAVE YOU NOTICED A CHANGE IN YOUR PREFERENCE FOR MATES?

    WHEN I WAS 400+ I LIKED MY BOYS TALL AND SKINNY.
    NOW AT MY CURRENT WEIGHT I LIKE THEM IN LOTS OF SHAPES AND SIZES :)
    A LITTLE TUMMY IS CUTE, LOVE A BOY WHO IS BULKING, AND WHO DOESN'T APPRECIATE A RUNNERS BODY?
    IT'S ALSO WEIRD TO BE SMALLER THAN A GUY BUT I REALLY LOVE IT NOW.

    ANYONE ELSE NOTICE THIS?

    LETS KEEP THIS THREAD NICE :)

    nope..youve always been my type, sarah :-)

    *SWOON* MWAH!!!
  • dvisser1
    dvisser1 Posts: 788 Member
    I liked women before and I still like women.

    ^^^ this

    I have always liked women who are fit but with some shape to them. The right kind of curves on a women...nothing better! :noway:
  • SofaKingRad
    SofaKingRad Posts: 1,592 Member
    Did you know your posts are in all caps? (Kidding ha ha)
  • Loko_Ino
    Loko_Ino Posts: 544 Member
    BUTT SEX

    FR sent....
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    i have always been attracted to all shapes and sizes of men. the only thing that has changed since i have started working on my fitness is that i want my partner to work on his too. i would really like for us both to be fit and sexy.
  • jessicae1aine
    jessicae1aine Posts: 885
    I haven't lost any weight yet - I had, but gained it back, and now I'm eating healthier and working on this. :P

    But, since starting to take better care of myself, I have noticed I like a little scruff on my guys, and I like them tall. (My ex husband was 5'2". Current fiance? 5'11" Boytoy? 6', maybe a little more. -and yes, they know about each other-)

    I'm not particular about weight, really.

    Girls? Well, I've discovered I'm a bit of a chubby chaser there, when before it was tiny skinny little things. O.o Idk how that works out.
  • Klamber26
    Klamber26 Posts: 212
    This is going to sound crazy, but when I look at pictures of my bf from high school when he weighed 30 pounds less and was in great shape, he just doesn't look as good as he does now. I guess I've always liked bigger guys (muscle or not) and I don't think that will ever change, regardless of how I look.
  • kfitzpa
    kfitzpa Posts: 326
    Nope, my tastes haven't changed one bit.
  • heagler870
    heagler870 Posts: 280 Member
    Physically speaking, I've always been attracted to tall muscular guys. In about 6 months when I lose another 50 pounds I'll find this thread and tell you if my tastes have changed.
  • supertracylynn
    supertracylynn Posts: 1,338 Member
    I am still attracted to men and women who take care of themselves.

    My special friend cycles, runs, hikes, swims, and has done all sorts of other interesting Active things. You can't see it, but I'm totally swooning.
  • kgprice11
    kgprice11 Posts: 749 Member
    I love women who are confident in themselves and feel comfortable with their figure
  • skinnybearlyndsay
    skinnybearlyndsay Posts: 798 Member
    It hasn't changed yet, I still prefer the mountain men type :bigsmile: Or if they look like Thor :wink:

    ^^This. I've always liked men with a perpetual 5 o'clock shadow and rough around the edges. Not necessarily country (definitely not redneck), but unpolished. Guys who groom more than me are still a no.
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
    Still eating "Tacos"
  • chachita7
    chachita7 Posts: 996 Member
    I don't have to worry about that because I am a married woman but I sure as hell like for him to look more fit than I am, lol... Mr. Chachita7 is doing a great job ;)
  • GasMasterFlash
    GasMasterFlash Posts: 2,206 Member
    Since losing weight, I cannot get enough Dungeons & Dragons.
  • blonde71
    blonde71 Posts: 955 Member
    My preferences haven't changed at all - loved my hubby before and still do. :P I do notice a lot more people's physique and yeah, I'm married but I'm not dead. Meaning that if someone is obviously in shape, I can appreciate the type of dedication and hard work it takes to get there. Whereas before, I didn't give it much thought.
  • ChristiH4000
    ChristiH4000 Posts: 531 Member
    Before this whole life change, I thought nobody decent would ever want me. When I was about 10 years old, my grandpa told me that when I went up for a plate of seconds at Christmas dinner, "No good guy is going to want a fat girl." I guess that stuck with me and I always picked broken guys that were needy addicts who put me down to make themselves feel better or were so messed up that I was in over my head before I even started. Anytime I saw what I consider to be a "hot" guy, I was too embarrassed to even approach them or attempt to make anything happen because I believed they would never want me.

    My "type" before: Needy, broke, addicts, but with great taste in music and usually good hearts messed up by their crazy life. Physically, they had to be over 6' tall so I could still feel smaller when I was next to them. They ran the weight range from very skinny to very heavy. Some were bald, some had hair, some were felons, some were sex-addicts. It was totally dysfunctional.

    My "type" now: Independent, stable, smart, loving, with my best interests at heart and awesome taste in music. I still like guys that are taller than me, and I still don't care about body type or hair/lack of hair very much. It is important that they are able to be active with me. My boyfriend doesn't go to the gym often but he is very active at work and is game to go on walks, hikes, or whatever. I still wait for the other shoe to drop with him because this is probably the first healthy relationship I've had since high school. It took me a very long time to re-train my picker and to pick a guy that could treat me the way people should be treated.

    It's a world of difference and I'm grateful to be in this relationship with this brain and this man.

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