SEXUAL PREFERENCES SINCE LOSING WEIGHT?

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  • MileyClimb
    MileyClimb Posts: 414 Member
    I have always liked guys but my taste for the underdog who has a great personality is even greater as I am slimming down. a better title would be has your taste changed. like my friend pointed out he's always loved the ladies. I've always loved the guys.
  • fiberartist219
    fiberartist219 Posts: 1,865 Member
    My preferences have not changed, but my libido is different.

    I guess it's good that I'm not too particular about body type, because the hubs has lost 70lbs, so he looks very different than he did when we first met. He helped inspire me to lose weight. (Inspire, not nag. :smile: )
  • xxempress
    xxempress Posts: 122
    I've always had a thing for tall men, but since losing weight I have a thing for BIG men... and by big I mean broad shouldered, solid men! My bf is 6'5" and a rugby player, so he has big arms, big thighs and a big chest... and I'm getting a little excited just typing this as I know I'm getting those big arms wrapped around me in 50 minutes time :love:


    Couldn't have agreed with you more. Since my weight loss, my preferances have NOT changed. I still LOVE my men tall & massive:tongue::smooched: :love:
  • mogletdeluxe
    mogletdeluxe Posts: 623 Member
    I used to be intimidated by The Man's athletic physique before I lost the weight. Now, I'm just in quiet drooly awe.
  • statickey
    statickey Posts: 309 Member
    So I'll put a spin on the sexual preference...since losing weight, I am now being approached by heavy set, middle aged (50 somethings) black women.

    I don't have a preference as for race, I've dated all colors and flavors, but WTH is going on! I even had my treasurer slip me her number and whisper, if you need me to take care of you just call me...no one has to know! She is around 55.

    Lol that is great
  • statickey
    statickey Posts: 309 Member
    Let's just say that my sexual appetite has been going crazy. The more I seem to lose, the more I crave sex. Anytime. Anywhere. :) My favorite position is the prison guard!

    LIGHTS ON, too ;)

    What Is the prison guard...
  • fatboypup
    fatboypup Posts: 1,873 Member
    I always tended to go with short and chubby guys (I'm 5'10").

    As I got fit, I guess I did change to preferring men who at least take care of their bodies, whether they're in perfect shape or not.

    I had my first ever really tall guy (6'2") recently and I think I might be ruined for short men now.
    Height really does help with some things. Plus, he was quite fit, which meant plenty of strength and endurance (major points awarded for both).

    I always have had a thing for a nice *kitten*, chest hair, dark hair, and facial scruff, though - that hasn't changed and likely never will.

    phhhhhft 6'2" is hardly really tall
  • noirnatural
    noirnatural Posts: 310 Member
    How about the other way around? My husband has lost 90lbs and I've only lost 30lbs so far... Now that he is fit and muscular (smaller than me...ugh) I realize how much I like a "bigger" guy! I like my man with some meat!

    Don't get me wrong I love my husband and I'm very proud of his accomplishments and that he is healthy now but I liked it when he was a little chubbier.
    I understand 100 percent ..
  • noirnatural
    noirnatural Posts: 310 Member
    I AM ACTUALLY GOING TO POST A TOPIC BECAUSE I HAVEN'T SEEN IT YET. (AND YES, I KNOW MY POST IS IN CAPS)

    SINCE LOSING WEIGHT HAVE YOU NOTICED A CHANGE IN YOUR PREFERENCE FOR MATES?

    WHEN I WAS 400+ I LIKED MY BOYS TALL AND SKINNY.
    NOW AT MY CURRENT WEIGHT I LIKE THEM IN LOTS OF SHAPES AND SIZES :)
    A LITTLE TUMMY IS CUTE, LOVE A BOY WHO IS BULKING, AND WHO DOESN'T APPRECIATE A RUNNERS BODY?
    IT'S ALSO WEIRD TO BE SMALLER THAN A GUY BUT I REALLY LOVE IT NOW.

    ANYONE ELSE NOTICE THIS?

    LETS KEEP THIS THREAD NICE :)

    Why did you prefer tall and skinny, when you were heavier???
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    I always tended to go with short and chubby guys (I'm 5'10").

    As I got fit, I guess I did change to preferring men who at least take care of their bodies, whether they're in perfect shape or not.

    I had my first ever really tall guy (6'2") recently and I think I might be ruined for short men now.
    Height really does help with some things. Plus, he was quite fit, which meant plenty of strength and endurance (major points awarded for both).

    I always have had a thing for a nice *kitten*, chest hair, dark hair, and facial scruff, though - that hasn't changed and likely never will.

    phhhhhft 6'2" is hardly really tall
    My ex husband was 5'5" so, by comparison, 6'2" is VERY tall.
  • fatboypup
    fatboypup Posts: 1,873 Member
    Let's just say that my sexual appetite has been going crazy. The more I seem to lose, the more I crave sex. Anytime. Anywhere. :) My favorite position is the prison guard!

    LIGHTS ON, too ;)

    What Is the prison guard...

    http://ezinearticles.com/?Have-You-Ever-Tried-the-Prison-Guard-Position-With-Your-Lover-For-Deeper-Penetration-and-Control&id=1288332
  • fatboypup
    fatboypup Posts: 1,873 Member
    I always tended to go with short and chubby guys (I'm 5'10").

    As I got fit, I guess I did change to preferring men who at least take care of their bodies, whether they're in perfect shape or not.

    I had my first ever really tall guy (6'2") recently and I think I might be ruined for short men now.
    Height really does help with some things. Plus, he was quite fit, which meant plenty of strength and endurance (major points awarded for both).

    I always have had a thing for a nice *kitten*, chest hair, dark hair, and facial scruff, though - that hasn't changed and likely never will.

    phhhhhft 6'2" is hardly really tall
    My ex husband was 5'5" so, by comparison, 6'2" is VERY tall.

    yer ex was a hobbit
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    I always tended to go with short and chubby guys (I'm 5'10").

    As I got fit, I guess I did change to preferring men who at least take care of their bodies, whether they're in perfect shape or not.

    I had my first ever really tall guy (6'2") recently and I think I might be ruined for short men now.
    Height really does help with some things. Plus, he was quite fit, which meant plenty of strength and endurance (major points awarded for both).

    I always have had a thing for a nice *kitten*, chest hair, dark hair, and facial scruff, though - that hasn't changed and likely never will.

    phhhhhft 6'2" is hardly really tall
    My ex husband was 5'5" so, by comparison, 6'2" is VERY tall.

    yer ex was a hobbit
    Now that you mention it, he *did* have big hairy feet...
  • jplord
    jplord Posts: 510 Member
    Even after losing some weight, I still prefer sex to a sammich.
  • AngelRobbie
    AngelRobbie Posts: 153 Member
    When I was in highschool, I dated shorter (5'5"-5'8" maybe), bigger guys, (I was maybe 130 when I graduated so they were prob no more then 200 lbs then..). Now, the guy I'm dating is 6'2" and 300 lbs and scruffy. And I loooove it! So I guess you could say that my general type has stayed relativly the same, but just add at least 5 inches! And I guess somewhere between 50 and 100 lbs. That's my ideal man. Big and scruffy but with the confidence to work it. Haha, just thinking about this is making me swoon! Hope he's ready when I get off workie! :blushing:
  • ValerieMartini2Olives
    ValerieMartini2Olives Posts: 3,024 Member
    It's not really about "look", it's about overall health. Even if I am with a skinny man, if he smokes a pack a day and survives on double cheeseburgers and sits around and does nothing... doesn't work for me. I'd rather have the "fat" guy who is active and conscientious about his health and what he eats.

    I do like women as well, and I still tend to find "heavier" (180-220 pounds) the most attractive. I like the boobs and the butts.
  • _the_feniks_
    _the_feniks_ Posts: 3,412 Member
    My tastes haven't changed... I just feel like I might actually have a shot with some of them now.
  • PlunderBunneh
    PlunderBunneh Posts: 1,705 Member
    Still very happily married and attracted to my husband, but before I started working out, I didn't have any appreciation for rippling muscles. Now, when I see a man with rock hard arms and pecs, there's a dirty little part of me that wants to walk up and lick his arm.
  • shearx
    shearx Posts: 19 Member
    I'm still the same when it comes to sexual preferences. I like my men taller than me and strong enough to throw me around. My women need to be very womanly. I don't like butches. Lipsticks! Woohoo!
  • lesley1981
    lesley1981 Posts: 329 Member
    I've always had a thing for tall men, but since losing weight I have a thing for BIG men... and by big I mean broad shouldered, solid men! My bf is 6'5" and a rugby player, so he has big arms, big thighs and a big chest... and I'm getting a little excited just typing this as I know I'm getting those big arms wrapped around me in 50 minutes time :love:


    Couldn't have agreed with you more. Since my weight loss, my preferances have NOT changed. I still LOVE my men tall & massive:tongue::smooched: :love:

    There's something awesome about snuggling up to a BIG man :smile:
  • mandi2r
    mandi2r Posts: 228 Member
    I don't think so.. I've always liked a bit taller and bigger guy. I like cuddle ^_^
    I do like fit guys but not with hard abs. Its weird.
  • savannahgur
    savannahgur Posts: 235 Member
    BUTT SEX

    FR sent....

    ^^ How did I know you owuld send a friend request LMAO
  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    My tastes haven't changed... I just feel like I might actually have a shot with some of them now.

    this. she doesnt need to be a fitness model. i.e. cares about her body. not a total couch potato.
  • sammniamii
    sammniamii Posts: 669 Member
    He had to be around my height but smaller, she had to be bigger but not as big as me....

    But now.... oh wait, I think I'd stay the same. Sorry, never liked anyone too small.... the weird bone thing I have
  • Bethie_B
    Bethie_B Posts: 292 Member
    I haven't lost much, yet. But my man has. I was very resistent at first, as I've always like a chubbier, bigger dude. But now that he's all fit and ripped and smokin' hot... whoof... blows my mind. Every time I see him, he drives me crazy. So yeah, HIS weight loss has changed my preference....
  • kwin91
    kwin91 Posts: 128
    I guess before I lost weight I didn't appreciate muscles and being fit or whatever. I would have dated any shape(except now I'm married). Now that I am married, I see my husband even more clearly and he's hot. Like hot hot. He's got nice sexy muscles and always have had them, I just never realized how hard it is to get there and I appreciate that he enjoys being fit.

    However my husband likes women(me) with big hips, and a big butt and boobs. That's me! So we're happy!
  • the_texreb
    the_texreb Posts: 138 Member
    It hasn't changed yet, I still prefer the mountain men type :bigsmile: Or if they look like Thor :wink:

    Mmmmmmm, Thor lol.

    Ya'll sound like my wife. Notice my clean shaven face in the pics.
  • jfrog123
    jfrog123 Posts: 432 Member
    Big or small, I like 'em all, lol! But really, I have never really had a "type". I appreciate a buff bod just as much as the next girl, but I like softer teddy bear types too.
  • monipie
    monipie Posts: 280 Member
    i definitely think what i find attractive has changed, since i have started lifting and getting more in shape. i now look at some guys and wonder if i could lift heavier than them. lol! i still find my husband as attractive since he is muscular, strong, and fit but i am less intimidated by guys in general and i know that if i were single- i would be more picky as far as body types. my husband has been along this journey with me and i think that is important. i wouldn't like it if i worked my *kitten* off and he just sat on the couch eating cheetos all day- i wouldn't find that attractive at all. so more than s, i find the motivation and hard work sexy. i hope that makes sense.
  • bellyake3
    bellyake3 Posts: 135 Member
    Nope still kinda a chubby chaser..lol

    But all in all if they are interested in getting to know me without being a pervert...i'm game.

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