do you get jealous

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  • manueljw
    manueljw Posts: 15
    My gf likes David Beckham and I'm cool with that. Every time the new Burger King commercials come on I call her over so she can watch too. I just find it funny because my celeb crush is Hope Solo, so it's just one more thing my gf and I have in common.
  • 007bondage
    007bondage Posts: 631 Member
    SO Loooves George Cluney. I've got no problem with that - it shows she has great taste in Men lol
  • xxxTiaxxx
    xxxTiaxxx Posts: 310 Member
    The only real person my bf has mentioned he "had" a thing for is Katy Perry which I bug him about here and there but we both agree she's kinda not that good looking face wise but her breasts are pretty alright. I'm not really jealous but I guess it helps that I too have big boobs and I've got confidence in my face lol. So I match her there. And the only guy that I’ve had a thing for he also likes as well and resembles so it works for me lol.

    I guess I would be a little weird if he came out and said he liked someone completely opposite to me. I dunno why but I guess my initial reaction would be.. I could never be like that and she's something completely different too me. I don't feel bad admitting that cause I know he'd feel the same way.
  • ktrn0312
    ktrn0312 Posts: 722 Member
    My husband 's celebrity crush is Sandra Bullock. I lost count how many times this man has watched "The Net." It was the first movie he ever saw her in. Jealous no way. I like her too.
  • Kityngirl
    Kityngirl Posts: 14,304 Member
    Not at all. I rarely get jealous over women he's around all of the time, I'm not going to get jealous over someone he isn't around. Lol.
  • nlhill79
    nlhill79 Posts: 60 Member
    I just tell her to go for it. If she gets lucky, send money home! :laugh:

    LoL!! That's my perspective too, HAHAHA!
  • NeedANewFocus
    NeedANewFocus Posts: 898 Member
    Thanks for all the comments and thoughts! I really appreciate all the insights and feedback!
  • kimad
    kimad Posts: 3,010 Member
    Scarlett Johansson... not jealous, I know he can't have her LOL!!
  • FitBunnyEm
    FitBunnyEm Posts: 320
    no i dont get jelous cuz i have the same type of look as who he likes
  • lizzybethclaire
    lizzybethclaire Posts: 849 Member
    not really. My hubby has a thing for redheads. He loves Christina Hendricks and since her body is a realistic goal for me I think he will be happy.
  • Kara_xxx
    Kara_xxx Posts: 635 Member
    If there is one thing my SO has absolutely zero interest in, it's celebrity culture. Never mind have a crush, he wouldn't know who 90% of the people are that are listed here. :laugh:
  • ndnmomma
    ndnmomma Posts: 466 Member
    Oh we both have celebrity crushes, and full permission to go for it if the chance ever arrives...lol. Its highly unlikely to ever happen, so really why be jealous, and if there ever is that chance well....
  • FrenchMob
    FrenchMob Posts: 1,167 Member
    No, although to be fair I think my husband's celebrity crush is ugly (Kate Beckinsale).
    Have you lost your mind? Kate Beckinsale ugly? You're clearly jealous if you think that. Most men and women find her hot.

    Mine is also Kate Beckinsale and it drives my wife nuts. Her on the other hand has a bunch like McConaughey, Tatum, etc etc and it doesn't bother me. I know that the "hook up" would never happen and it's just eye candy to look at. That's how I feel about my crush also.
  • brewface811
    brewface811 Posts: 106
    The only thing that bugs my about my boyfriends crushes is they are all blondes, and I'm brunette. Guess it just bugs me that he likes blondes ;) and I don't understand why he's with me if I'm not a blondie.
  • Serenstar75
    Serenstar75 Posts: 258 Member
    Nah. It's one of those things where if he had the chance and took it...I wouldn't be thrilled by any stretch of the imagination, but I wouldn't blame him either.

    I think that's the part that gets me. I dont have any issues with her finding other people attractive. It's the reaction she has when he appears on tv or a movie is coming out. i know its slim to no chance that she would ever meet him but its that small percentage that has me feeling insecure for some reason.

    My guy gets like that. Now IF my man were to get the acting career he'd love to have, yes I might be jealous. I know I would be. Right now, his many "wives" don't really intimidate me too awful much. His reaction to the guys I find attractive is kind of cute, as he'll say things like "But I have better hair" or something. Famous or not, no one could steal me away from him, so he shouldn't worry. I get jealous of living, breathing, nearby females at times though. That's just from my own history and have to remind myself that he's NOT the ex who cheated.

    As for Kate Beckinsale, -I- would even date her! She's hotness.
  • shorty35565
    shorty35565 Posts: 1,425 Member
    LOL my hubby gets jelly of my celeb crush! I got to meet my crush, talk to him, shake his hand haha Best day ever!
  • curvymomo3
    curvymomo3 Posts: 253 Member
    nope cuz I know Im waaaaay sexier!
  • akaporn
    akaporn Posts: 231 Member
    No, problem at all. We both have a crush on the same guy, David Beckham.... different reason, though.
  • DrMAvDPhD
    DrMAvDPhD Posts: 2,097 Member
    No, although to be fair I think my husband's celebrity crush is ugly (Kate Beckinsale).
    Have you lost your mind? Kate Beckinsale ugly? You're clearly jealous if you think that. Most men and women find her hot.

    Nope, she just doesn't do it for me. I think she is very bland when she isn't in pleather, fake contacts, and 6 lb of make-up. I find women like Angelina Jolie and Megan Fox much sexier.
  • ESVABelle
    ESVABelle Posts: 1,264 Member
    No. No need to be jealous of the intangible. Now someone else? Uhm, yeah, maybe a little? I'm a bit possessive when I consider something "mine" :-P
  • weighlossforbaby
    weighlossforbaby Posts: 847 Member
    not really. My hubby has a thing for redheads. He loves Christina Hendricks and since her body is a realistic goal for me I think he will be happy.

    She is pretty and she does have a great body :smile: I already have her body type already :laugh:
  • jyuubi
    jyuubi Posts: 109
    I wouldn't call them crushes, but anyone he finds attractive, male and female, I find pretty attractive too. I like just males, but I think ladies can be pretty gorgeous. We pretty much share the same "crushes" and drool over the same people.
  • sjsosu
    sjsosu Posts: 135 Member
    I have told the woman I love that if she were standing side by side with ANY woman in the world, I would choose her every time. Not that there aren't women I find attractive, but given the opportunity to be with any of them, I wouldn't, even if she would never know.

    She is my fantasy, and I do everything I can to let her know and make her feel as sexy as I can. I think that's made all the difference in how free she feels to express anything emotionally or sexually without inhibition or fear of judgement. That level of intimacy has been self perpetuating in the sense that I'm absolutely fascinated by her and just love her more and more every day.
  • Renae_Nae
    Renae_Nae Posts: 935 Member
    Nope...he says he rather sleep with me ;) Now if that's true or not I'm not sure but I'll take it! lol
  • TaintedVampyre
    TaintedVampyre Posts: 1,428 Member
    My ex had one on Madonna... he gave me a great mental image of what he wanted to do with her. I was more into what he was going to do with than I was over the fact that his celeb crush was Madonna lol
  • Renae_Nae
    Renae_Nae Posts: 935 Member
    I have told the woman I love that if she were standing side by side with ANY woman in the world, I would choose her every time. Not that there aren't women I find attractive, but given the opportunity to be with any of them, I wouldn't, even if she would never know.

    She is my fantasy, and I do everything I can to let her know and make her feel as sexy as I can. I think that's made all the difference in how free she feels to express anything emotionally or sexually without inhibition or fear of judgement. That level of intimacy has been self perpetuating in the sense that I'm absolutely fascinated by her and just love her more and more every day.

    That's what my fiance says :heart: It's so nice to know that there are awesome guys in this world!
  • Josie_lifting_cats
    Josie_lifting_cats Posts: 949 Member
    I hope my husband isn't jealous. If Ryan Gosling showed up and took off his shirt, I would start giggling uncontrollably, back away slowly, trip and fall over something, and then run away, terrified.

    I might have a celebrity "crush", but I would never act on it. I'm just too much of a loser that way.
  • monipie
    monipie Posts: 280 Member
    no because he doesn't tell me he has crushes and honestly i would be more turned off with him than jealous. what would the point be? why would he share this with me. i am sure he thinks other women are attractive. i find other men attractive as well. i just don't see the point in sharing it with him. why? to make him feel insecure? i don't want him to feel insecure. the only reason i would want him to feel insecure is if i felt insecure. now, if we are talking sexual fantasies well, that is completely different. then it's all about sex and objectifying people and just raw carnal stuff. crushes? what the hell are those anyway? i am married and have no time for such nonsense.
  • xxxTiaxxx
    xxxTiaxxx Posts: 310 Member
    no because he doesn't tell me he has crushes and honestly i would be more turned off with him than jealous. what would the point be? why would he share this with me. i am sure he thinks other women are attractive. i find other men attractive as well. i just don't see the point in sharing it with him. why? to make him feel insecure? i don't want him to feel insecure. the only reason i would want him to feel insecure is if i felt insecure. now, if we are talking sexual fantasies well, that is completely different. then it's all about sex and objectifying people and just raw carnal stuff. crushes? what the hell are those anyway? i am married and have no time for such nonsense.

    Thats totally it!! I agree 100% we do the same thing.
  • starla5881
    starla5881 Posts: 190 Member
    My fiancée has several (and I think they are all gorgeous, so I approve). I'm resigned to the fact that he would throw me over in a heartbeat if Christina Hendricks appeared on our doorstep, but he has promised that he would invite me to join in the fun. ;-)
    But no, I really don't get jealous, nor is he jealous of my celebrity crushes. They're fantasies, and when directed appropriately, fantasies can improve your love life.