do you get jealous

Kara_xxx

If there is one thing my SO has absolutely zero interest in, it's celebrity culture. Never mind have a crush, he wouldn't know who 90% of the people are that are listed here. :laugh:

ndnmomma

Oh we both have celebrity crushes, and full permission to go for it if the chance ever arrives...lol. Its highly unlikely to ever happen, so really why be jealous, and if there ever is that chance well....

FrenchMob

No, although to be fair I think my husband's celebrity crush is ugly (Kate Beckinsale).

Have you lost your mind? Kate Beckinsale ugly? You're clearly jealous if you think that. Most men and women find her hot.

Mine is also Kate Beckinsale and it drives my wife nuts. Her on the other hand has a bunch like McConaughey, Tatum, etc etc and it doesn't bother me. I know that the "hook up" would never happen and it's just eye candy to look at. That's how I feel about my crush also.

brewface811

The only thing that bugs my about my boyfriends crushes is they are all blondes, and I'm brunette. Guess it just bugs me that he likes blondes and I don't understand why he's with me if I'm not a blondie.

Serenstar75

Nah. It's one of those things where if he had the chance and took it...I wouldn't be thrilled by any stretch of the imagination, but I wouldn't blame him either.

I think that's the part that gets me. I dont have any issues with her finding other people attractive. It's the reaction she has when he appears on tv or a movie is coming out. i know its slim to no chance that she would ever meet him but its that small percentage that has me feeling insecure for some reason.

My guy gets like that. Now IF my man were to get the acting career he'd love to have, yes I might be jealous. I know I would be. Right now, his many "wives" don't really intimidate me too awful much. His reaction to the guys I find attractive is kind of cute, as he'll say things like "But I have better hair" or something. Famous or not, no one could steal me away from him, so he shouldn't worry. I get jealous of living, breathing, nearby females at times though. That's just from my own history and have to remind myself that he's NOT the ex who cheated.

As for Kate Beckinsale, -I- would even date her! She's hotness.

shorty35565

LOL my hubby gets jelly of my celeb crush! I got to meet my crush, talk to him, shake his hand haha Best day ever!

curvymomo3

nope cuz I know Im waaaaay sexier!

akaporn

No, problem at all. We both have a crush on the same guy, David Beckham.... different reason, though.

DrMAvDPhD

No, although to be fair I think my husband's celebrity crush is ugly (Kate Beckinsale).

Have you lost your mind? Kate Beckinsale ugly? You're clearly jealous if you think that. Most men and women find her hot.

Nope, she just doesn't do it for me. I think she is very bland when she isn't in pleather, fake contacts, and 6 lb of make-up. I find women like Angelina Jolie and Megan Fox much sexier.

ESVABelle

No. No need to be jealous of the intangible. Now someone else? Uhm, yeah, maybe a little? I'm a bit possessive when I consider something "mine" :-P

weighlossforbaby

not really. My hubby has a thing for redheads. He loves Christina Hendricks and since her body is a realistic goal for me I think he will be happy.

She is pretty and she does have a great body I already have her body type already :laugh:

jyuubi

I wouldn't call them crushes, but anyone he finds attractive, male and female, I find pretty attractive too. I like just males, but I think ladies can be pretty gorgeous. We pretty much share the same "crushes" and drool over the same people.

sjsosu

I have told the woman I love that if she were standing side by side with ANY woman in the world, I would choose her every time. Not that there aren't women I find attractive, but given the opportunity to be with any of them, I wouldn't, even if she would never know.

She is my fantasy, and I do everything I can to let her know and make her feel as sexy as I can. I think that's made all the difference in how free she feels to express anything emotionally or sexually without inhibition or fear of judgement. That level of intimacy has been self perpetuating in the sense that I'm absolutely fascinated by her and just love her more and more every day.

Renae_Nae

Nope...he says he rather sleep with me Now if that's true or not I'm not sure but I'll take it! lol

TaintedVampyre

My ex had one on Madonna... he gave me a great mental image of what he wanted to do with her. I was more into what he was going to do with than I was over the fact that his celeb crush was Madonna lol

Renae_Nae

I have told the woman I love that if she were standing side by side with ANY woman in the world, I would choose her every time. Not that there aren't women I find attractive, but given the opportunity to be with any of them, I wouldn't, even if she would never know.

She is my fantasy, and I do everything I can to let her know and make her feel as sexy as I can. I think that's made all the difference in how free she feels to express anything emotionally or sexually without inhibition or fear of judgement. That level of intimacy has been self perpetuating in the sense that I'm absolutely fascinated by her and just love her more and more every day.

That's what my fiance says It's so nice to know that there are awesome guys in this world!

Josie_lifting_cats

I hope my husband isn't jealous. If Ryan Gosling showed up and took off his shirt, I would start giggling uncontrollably, back away slowly, trip and fall over something, and then run away, terrified.

I might have a celebrity "crush", but I would never act on it. I'm just too much of a loser that way.

monipie

no because he doesn't tell me he has crushes and honestly i would be more turned off with him than jealous. what would the point be? why would he share this with me. i am sure he thinks other women are attractive. i find other men attractive as well. i just don't see the point in sharing it with him. why? to make him feel insecure? i don't want him to feel insecure. the only reason i would want him to feel insecure is if i felt insecure. now, if we are talking sexual fantasies well, that is completely different. then it's all about sex and objectifying people and just raw carnal stuff. crushes? what the hell are those anyway? i am married and have no time for such nonsense.

xxxTiaxxx

no because he doesn't tell me he has crushes and honestly i would be more turned off with him than jealous. what would the point be? why would he share this with me. i am sure he thinks other women are attractive. i find other men attractive as well. i just don't see the point in sharing it with him. why? to make him feel insecure? i don't want him to feel insecure. the only reason i would want him to feel insecure is if i felt insecure. now, if we are talking sexual fantasies well, that is completely different. then it's all about sex and objectifying people and just raw carnal stuff. crushes? what the hell are those anyway? i am married and have no time for such nonsense.

Thats totally it!! I agree 100% we do the same thing.

starla5881

My fiancée has several (and I think they are all gorgeous, so I approve). I'm resigned to the fact that he would throw me over in a heartbeat if Christina Hendricks appeared on our doorstep, but he has promised that he would invite me to join in the fun. ;-)
But no, I really don't get jealous, nor is he jealous of my celebrity crushes. They're fantasies, and when directed appropriately, fantasies can improve your love life.