girls with muscle - sexy or turn off?

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  • secretlobster
    secretlobster Posts: 3,566 Member
    you have to be kidding. The envy is just oozing out of some of you photoshop police.

    Because the only way someone could actually not aspire to look like another person is because they're too jealous to admit it, right?

    Women just felt her boobs were ridiculous, and some of us are wary of aspiring to airbrushed photos. That makes us realistic, not jealous.
  • shammxo
    shammxo Posts: 1,432 Member
    sexy! mine would probably be better if I didn't eat so much ice cream.
  • MrsRipdizzle
    MrsRipdizzle Posts: 490 Member
    THIS THREAD, AGAIN!?!?!? *bangs head on desk*
  • threnners
    threnners Posts: 175 Member
    I wouldn't find it attractive on me, but more power to anyone else who wants to do it.
  • trojanbb
    trojanbb Posts: 1,297 Member
    you have to be kidding. The envy is just oozing out of some of you photoshop police.

    Because the only way someone could actually not aspire to look like another person is because they're too jealous to admit it, right?

    Women just felt her boobs were ridiculous, and some of us are wary of aspiring to airbrushed photos. That makes us realistic, not jealous.

    Has nothing to with aspirations. But saying her obliques are shopped is absurdity. Anyone who's ever dieted knows that lighting, carb loading, water levels, bf etc etc all make dramatic differences in appearance.

    And it's fcking petty. You two werent stating you didnt aspire to look like her. You were picking her apart, obliques and bad boob job?! Really?! That screams envy and insecurity.
  • shoobz
    shoobz Posts: 119
    This isn't just a question for the guys, I wanna hear what the other ladies think too.

    I love sculpting and building muscle. But my mom and my sister tell me that muscle looks "ugly" on a girl, or that it will make me too "manly". (They say that too because their men tell them that they don't need muscle)

    What do YOU think? Are girls with muscle sexy? or does it become a turn off?

    Your mother and sister's "men" are the disgusting ones. They want super-skinny *****es, but don't want them working out? That's just stupidity. I like women with muscle tone. Even women who might even look a little ripped. Under normal circumstances it's simply not possible for women to be as "body-builder-like" as men, and as long as she still looks female, I'm fine with it, and so are most men.
  • Charloo1990
    Charloo1990 Posts: 619 Member
    My idea of the perfect amouint of muscles on a woman is someone like Jillian Michael's. Im not highly into wanting muscles but if i had a body like hers, especially her arms, i'd be extremely happy :happy:
  • Josie_lifting_cats
    Josie_lifting_cats Posts: 949 Member
    For me: No way. I like food too much, and have other interests that take priority over lifting weights/being fit. I'm happy with a healthy weight and being able to do the things I want, like bike riding, etc., and getting time to do all the other {nerdy} things I like to do.

    For other women: More power to you. That kind of time and devotion deserves respect. And I will give it!

    If I was a guy: Yeah, I'm not really into the photos posted on the first page. But that's me. I'm just not into sculpted bodies on women or men. But that's me.

    Body is secondary to being funny and having a great smile and laughing eyes. Also, passion about anything is hot. Those are the things I look for before looking at physique.
  • annabellj
    annabellj Posts: 1,337 Member
    I'm gonna go against the current here...

    I've been scrolling the thread looking at the pictures, and so far I don't find any of those pictures attractive, and some of them repulse me. It's not a judgement on how I believe women "should be," because I don't think we consciously choose what we're attracted to. I'm attracted to feminine looking women who are fit and have a flat stomach, but I find that big abs (and especially big arms) on a woman look too masculine, which to me is repulsive. However, other men clearly like it.

    Bottom line:

    a) decide the kind of body you want
    b) work hard toward obtaining it
    c) find a partner that is attracted to your body
    d) ignore everyone else's opinion
    I think Im in love...
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    I'm gonna go against the current here...

    I've been scrolling the thread looking at the pictures, and so far I don't find any of those pictures attractive, and some of them repulse me. It's not a judgement on how I believe women "should be," because I don't think we consciously choose what we're attracted to. I'm attracted to feminine looking women who are fit and have a flat stomach, but I find that big abs (and especially big arms) on a woman look too masculine, which to me is repulsive. However, other men clearly like it.

    Bottom line:

    a) decide the kind of body you want
    b) work hard toward obtaining it
    c) find a partner that is attracted to your body
    d) ignore everyone else's opinion
    Plenty of men think like yourself, no shame in that. I show my fiance pictures of those women and they gross him out as well. Which I guess is good, because I don't have the dietarty discipline.
    People like what they like, there isn't one definition of perfect. That's why these threads can get monotonous.
  • DieVixen
    DieVixen Posts: 790 Member
    Extremely Sexy!:love: With the exception of a few olympic powerlifters, women with muscles are very hot. Can't figure out why anyone would say otherwise. Maybe women like to sabotage each other? Some women and a few DB guys with self-esteem issues seem to be the only ones who say "Oh, that is just not attractive!"

    Really so if someone has a personal preferance it automaticly means they are insecure or trying to sabotage? REALLY?!
    So if someone does not like girls with glasses,girls with red hair ect ect are they also insecure DB
    I didnt know we were ALL supposed to find the exact same things attractive.
  • secretlobster
    secretlobster Posts: 3,566 Member
    And it's fcking petty. You two werent stating you didnt aspire to look like her. You were picking her apart, obliques and bad boob job?! Really?! That screams envy and insecurity.

    When did I say anything about her obliques?

    She's lifting her shirt up to show off her massive fake tits, and it's petty to laugh at her boob job?

    "You're just jealous!" "You're insecure!" - Personal attacks on my personality. This is grade-school level defensiveness when someone doesn't agree with you. Since this is a thread about personal physical preference, can't we just agree to disagree without it being a contest of who has healthier self-esteem?
  • terpsoccer
    terpsoccer Posts: 22 Member
    Athletic girls are very sexy
  • trojanbb
    trojanbb Posts: 1,297 Member
    And it's fcking petty. You two werent stating you didnt aspire to look like her. You were picking her apart, obliques and bad boob job?! Really?! That screams envy and insecurity.

    When did I say anything about her obliques?

    She's lifting her shirt up to show off her massive fake tits, and it's petty to laugh at her boob job?

    In English, "you" can be second person plural. I wasn't talking about you, read the quote chain you called me out on.

    And yes, that's petty.
    And yes, that's petty.

    So is your personal judgment, have a great day

    dear lord, must be that time of the month
  • ItsMeRebekah
    ItsMeRebekah Posts: 909 Member
    it can put age on you, really quick. JMO
  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
    it can put age on you, really quick. JMO

    Are you saying having muscles makes women look older?
  • secretlobster
    secretlobster Posts: 3,566 Member
    And yes, that's petty.

    So is your personal judgment, have a great day
  • Carpaydeeum
    Carpaydeeum Posts: 116
    its sexy up until it pushes the woman's look into masculine territory.

    though i don't know that i've ever seen a strong woman's legs that ever turned me off so its very subjective.
  • Laces_0ut
    Laces_0ut Posts: 3,750 Member
    muscles/athleticism is super duper sexy.
  • PantalaNagaPampa
    PantalaNagaPampa Posts: 1,031 Member
    strong, muscular sexy women for me, please. I love all the amazingingly fit and uber sexy women at my Crossfitt box. also love being able to go up to a girl and tell her "nice snatch" and she high fives you!
  • 76pounds
    76pounds Posts: 31 Member
    I think girls who are toned, to be attractive. Flat stomach, long legs, strong arms (not bulky/broad shoulders). I don't really find body builder women attractive. But hey, that's just me.
  • shivaslives
    shivaslives Posts: 279 Member
    It doesn't matter what we think or what your mom or sister think either. What's important is what you think. If you like the look and feel of building muscle, that all that matters. The sexiest thing on a women is confidence.

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  • JennyLisT
    JennyLisT Posts: 402 Member
    For me personally, I tend to find both men and women more attractive when they aren't extremely muscular. It's not that it grosses me out or anything- it's just something that I'm not attracted to. Definition is gorgeous, but I mostly want to get healthy and be with someone who is healthy.
  • runfatmanrun
    runfatmanrun Posts: 1,090 Member
    Some are sexy.
  • TadaGanIarracht
    TadaGanIarracht Posts: 2,615 Member
    Personally I like some jiggle to my women. For my men, as long as you don't look like you're on steroids we're good.
  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
    I am pretty muscular, and would like to get more so, but I am starting to notice some guys responding negatively to it. Oh well... I'm used to being a "freak" - so bring it on baby!!! Haha
  • KissMyAx
    KissMyAx Posts: 129 Member
    Totally sexy!
  • PantalaNagaPampa
    PantalaNagaPampa Posts: 1,031 Member
    I am pretty muscular, and would like to get more so, but I am starting to notice some guys responding negatively to it. Oh well... I'm used to being a "freak" - so bring it on baby!!! Haha
    Negatively, really? You look effin amazing! Rocking the shiz out of that black bikini... I for one say thank you for being as hot as you are and sharing it with us.
  • EmCarroll1990
    EmCarroll1990 Posts: 2,832 Member
    Nicely defined muscles are so hot to me. But overly defined, slightly bulky muscles, not so much. Will I tell a girl with them they don't look good? HELL NO. That's a crazy amount of work, dedication and self control that I refuse to put down.
  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
    I am pretty muscular, and would like to get more so, but I am starting to notice some guys responding negatively to it. Oh well... I'm used to being a "freak" - so bring it on baby!!! Haha
    Negatively, really? You look effin amazing! Rocking the shiz out of that black bikini... I for one say thank you for being as hot as you are and sharing it with us.

    Thank you so very much!!! :-D
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