"MILF"... it is offensive?

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  • Lyssa62
    Lyssa62 Posts: 930 Member
    I prefer to call myself a MYLF....Mom You'd Like to F*k ;-)

    LOL how bout MYWYCF? -- Mom You Wish You Could F*k
  • TadaGanIarracht
    TadaGanIarracht Posts: 2,615 Member

    me and plenty of other calm, level headed women.

    Who are you trying to fool?
  • TadaGanIarracht
    TadaGanIarracht Posts: 2,615 Member
    I prefer to call myself a MYLF....Mom You'd Like to F*k ;-)

    LOL how bout MYWYCF? -- Mom You Wish You Could F*k

    Pronounced - my- why- cif?
  • ahadj
    ahadj Posts: 257 Member
    Compliment. Not offensive.

    I'm not a mom, but if someone called me a LSILF (law student I'd like to...) I would take it as a compliment.

    So yeah.
    Lawyers are terribly unattractive. Trust me. ;)

    Debatable.
    Then again, I'm a law student, so I'll debate anything. Socratic method, yeah!
  • GorillaEsq
    GorillaEsq Posts: 2,198 Member
    I prefer to call myself a MYLF....Mom You'd Like to F*k ;-)

    LOL how bout MYWYCF? -- Mom You Wish You Could F*k
    Ha. That made me laugh...
  • verptwerp
    verptwerp Posts: 3,639 Member
    Totally offensive .....
  • GorillaEsq
    GorillaEsq Posts: 2,198 Member
    Debatable.
    Then again, I'm a law student, so I'll debate anything. Socratic method, yeah!
    You'll grow out of that, I promise. What year are you?
  • JenKillough
    JenKillough Posts: 474 Member
    I'm just sick of hearing milf and cougar

    Me too. Old hat. Plus... it just seems like it makes women into something raunchy. Negative connotations for me. I was called MILF by some 20-something boys and I'm not even a mom. Then I realized what they actually meant, but it just felt nasty.
  • clairerose11
    clairerose11 Posts: 95 Member
    I've had it said to me before... I take it as a compliment :) ... it's all lighthearted banter isn't it.
  • LizHowerton
    LizHowerton Posts: 329 Member
    Compliment....meaning you're hot for an old lady

    Although it''s kind of funny....since Mom can mean a 22 year old or someone much older...


    GILFs not bad either


    Take it on the light.....
  • SeaChele77
    SeaChele77 Posts: 1,103 Member
    I don't find it offensive nor to I wear it as a badge of honor. However, I do appreciate the fact that some feel that I still "got it" even after 2 kids!!


    So on the flip side is D.I.L.F offensive to men??
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    I think it's a compliment. It makes me smile. I don't think mom = old, as you're implying. I was a milf at 25, but I'm way hotter now at 31, and get called a milf way more frequently. I see no reason to take offense to it at all. Someone is simply implying that I am attractive enough that they'd want to be with me. Seems like a good thing to me. :huh:
  • Nix143
    Nix143 Posts: 522 Member
    Been called it and it wouldn't bother me if someone used it again - heck, where I am right now I'd be offering them a free eye test! ;)
  • GorillaEsq
    GorillaEsq Posts: 2,198 Member
    Me too. Old hat. Plus... it just seems like it makes women into something raunchy. Negative connotations for me. I was called MILF by some 20-something boys and I'm not even a mom. Then I realized what they actually meant, but it just felt nasty.
    So it was the sexual connotation?
  • palmerig88
    palmerig88 Posts: 623 Member
    I guess if I am ever a mom...yeah I would hope to be a mom of that variety.
  • skinnyinnotime
    skinnyinnotime Posts: 4,078 Member
    I take it as a compliment.

    Being 'older' isn't the same as being 'old'!!!
  • Lyssa62
    Lyssa62 Posts: 930 Member
    I prefer to call myself a MYLF....Mom You'd Like to F*k ;-)

    LOL how bout MYWYCF? -- Mom You Wish You Could F*k

    Pronounced - my- why- cif?

    LOL sounds chinese
  • NorthWestWildWind
    NorthWestWildWind Posts: 18
    As mentioned in my description of goals, I am going for the GILF title, since I'm a grandma! lol! I think it's a compliment personally, but I may just be low class. ;)
  • Molly_Maguire
    Molly_Maguire Posts: 1,103 Member


    if a chick reads into anything that far, just run.

    What chick DOESN'T read that far into anything??

    Ummm, myself. Because I'm not high-strung, or psychotic. Same with all the girls in my family, and the women I'm friends with.
  • sizzle92
    sizzle92 Posts: 1,015 Member
    MILF I'm ok with. I won't like cougar once I get there lol
  • hookandy
    hookandy Posts: 278 Member
    My 7 year old looked at a picture and asked "Mummy is that woman a milf?"

    My poor confused wife took a quick look at the picture of Oephelia and asked my boy what he had said.

    "Is she a milf, you know like Robin Hood, a legend..."
    "Do you mean myth?"
    "Yes that's it mummy a myth"

    Made me laugh lots
  • GorillaEsq
    GorillaEsq Posts: 2,198 Member
    So on the flip side is D.I.L.F offensive to men??
    If a female called me a DILF, I'd first ask to see her ID and proof of age before I continued the conversation.
  • crazy4lulu
    crazy4lulu Posts: 822 Member
    i dont think its offensive. its a compliment. a backhanded compliment but a compliment none the less. its better than half the other stuff i hear that is clearly offensive!!
  • kappyblu
    kappyblu Posts: 654 Member
    Mom of 4 here and 40 years young...

    I would rather not be called a MILF, but it not as offensive as being called a cougar.

    The term "cougar" is offensive to me because it implies that the woman only preys on the young guys for sex. She chews them up then spits them out, basically. That is not what I am about at all.

    So, MILF...eh, just don't say it to my face. And yes, it is overused.

    Cougar....horribly offensive. You will probably get slapped.

    :wink:
  • gailashton
    gailashton Posts: 292
    I often get called that and I really don't take offense to it. I take care of myself as best I can. I'm actually a grandmother - hum. does that make me a GILF now??? I think I prefer Cougar! (without the claws of course).
  • HarleyQuinn_12
    HarleyQuinn_12 Posts: 363 Member
    Totally not offensive....find it complimentary!
  • LizHowerton
    LizHowerton Posts: 329 Member
    MILF I'm ok with. I won't like cougar once I get there lol

    Isn't a cougar an older woman looking for a younger guy?

    Nothing to be with being hot or not, right?
  • SeaChele77
    SeaChele77 Posts: 1,103 Member
    Now I'm curious - to the women who say it *is* offensive - WHY?

    Why let such a word (acronym) bother you?

    I guess I just don't get the big deal. :indifferent:
  • JenKillough
    JenKillough Posts: 474 Member
    Me too. Old hat. Plus... it just seems like it makes women into something raunchy. Negative connotations for me. I was called MILF by some 20-something boys and I'm not even a mom. Then I realized what they actually meant, but it just felt nasty.
    So it was the sexual connotation?

    It was the age difference + sexual connotation I guess? I mean, I'm fine with being appreciated by all ages. Who isn't? I guess I associated MILF with raunchy porn... and so, it just took me by surprise to be called that once... and also that I was being considered "old"... Lol. I didn't feel old.
  • genefabes
    genefabes Posts: 132


    if a chick reads into anything that far, just run.

    What chick DOESN'T read that far into anything??

    Ummm, myself. Because I'm not high-strung, or psychotic. Same with all the girls in my family, and the women I'm friends with.

    Amen
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