"MILF"... it is offensive?

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  • TadaGanIarracht
    TadaGanIarracht Posts: 2,615 Member
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    Oh do go away you ridiculous woman.
    Did I ruin your fun?
    But, does she think you're a MILF?

    Does she even know if I'm a mom?
  • penniemh
    penniemh Posts: 124 Member
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    I'd find it offensive for 2 reasons -- one I am not a mom, so there is an assumption going on with the person (IF someone) saying this to me and two, I've never been much on being told "I'd like to f'k you." I believe it objectifies women, haven't we protested that for 30+ years?
  • RunnerInVT
    RunnerInVT Posts: 226 Member
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    I am thoroughly entertained. Thank you all. :) I think the term is used mostly by High school boys showing off. Not offensive. Just juvenile. I don't mind ..... I get embarrassed though.
  • GorillaEsq
    GorillaEsq Posts: 2,198 Member
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    I know you're not looking for my approval. But that was a good one.
    Thank you, thank you, thank you. Be sure to tip your waitresses.
  • sdstargazer
    sdstargazer Posts: 27
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    I like bacon
  • lisav6
    lisav6 Posts: 56
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    I'd find it offensive for 2 reasons -- one I am not a mom, so there is an assumption going on with the person (IF someone) saying this to me and two, I've never been much on being told "I'd like to f'k you." I believe it objectifies women, haven't we protested that for 30+ years?

    This/\ I feel like we are going backwards at the moment with regards to attitudes to women.
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
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    I've been called a DILF, it didn't offend me! :laugh:
  • GorillaEsq
    GorillaEsq Posts: 2,198 Member
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    I like bacon
    BILF?
  • TadaGanIarracht
    TadaGanIarracht Posts: 2,615 Member
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    Grats.

    Want a cookie?

    HELL YEAH!
  • supahstar71
    supahstar71 Posts: 926 Member
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    :indifferent:



    I think it's tacky. I'd rather just be called pretty.

    Of course, I'm not a mom. I'm a stepmother but smilf isn't any better. :noway:
  • GorillaEsq
    GorillaEsq Posts: 2,198 Member
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    :indifferent:
    I think it's tacky. I'd rather just be called pretty.
    Of course, I'm not a mom. I'm a stepmother but smilf isn't any better. :noway:
    SMILF?
  • PhotogNerd
    PhotogNerd Posts: 420 Member
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    I think I might prefer NILF ( Nerd I'd Like to F...). :wink:
  • ndnmomma
    ndnmomma Posts: 466 Member
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    After four kids hell that's a compliment I gladly take, but I'm not sensitive about that I know its meant as a compliment and I take it as such!
  • kennethmgreen
    kennethmgreen Posts: 1,759 Member
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    Not sure who you have me mixed up with. I never said I was ignoring you. I don't recell ever posting in one of your threads before. They're all so very stupid. I just decided to finally comment in one, just for lulz.
    ahadj... The art of cross-examination...

    In the quote above, the disgruntled poster said...
    I don't recell ever posting in one of your threads before.
    Then in the very next sentence said...
    They're all so very stupid.
    Now... The only way "he" would know ALL of my threads were stupid, would be if "he" were reading all of my threads, which he just openly admitted to, even though he isn't smart enough to realize it... yet.

    But wait... it gets better.

    Interestingly enough, "he" only has three (3) "friends." And each of those three (3) friends are friends with each other. That by itself is strikingly interesting, but hold on...

    All of those three (3) "friends" have commented on my threads in the past...

    That's odd.

    Here's where it gets fun...

    All of "his" three (3) friends use the exact same grammatical context in "their" posts..
    All of "his" three (3) friends use fake, pirated pictures as their avatars...
    All of "his" three (3) friends misspell the same words, the same way...

    Hmm.. that's devastatingly coincidental. Weird.

    Would this be a true cross-examination, we would have subpoenaed the IP and ISP addresses for all three (3) friends... and I'm guessing they would all be... the same.

    Which hurts worse creepy, fake account guy? The fact that you just got owned? Or the fact that you're going to now have to reevaluate your entire online life?

    Next.

    For someone who conjures up the art of cross-examination, I expect more attention to detail.

    Stating "I've never posted in a thread of yours" is significantly different than stating "I've never read your posts."

    The conspiracy theory stuff isn't going to play out. You are welcome to try, though. I do know zaph0d pretty well, have known him for awhile. We are not the same person. And I only know one of his other friends - who I only recently became friends with. I really try not to post misspellings.

    I suppose I could be making all that up, but it's the truth.

    Also, I have always had pictures of me in my profile. Always. Since I joined. I don't believe in anonymity on the Internet. Sometimes I choose a "fake" image as my main pic, which shows next to my posts. But my profile is open (always has been), and the pics of me are real. I'm not as handsome as you are.

    As for the phrase "MILF" I don't think it's necessarily any more or less offensive than saying "Hey, that's someone I'd like to f&ck!" It's way overused, and kind of crude. But if I was describing a woman to you and I said she was "hot, in a MILF-y kind of way" you probably know exactly what I was talking about.

    So maybe it's just laziness that we (meaning mostly men) aren't more creative. I could be talking to you about a woman and simply state "she is hot." If we discussed it further, I might say she was in her 40s, had kids, was obviously a mom, and also took care of herself.

    But saying she was hot in a MILF-y way keeps more time open for high-fiving.
  • teelynn35
    teelynn35 Posts: 239 Member
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    wearing the badge and the t-shirt proudly ..at 50 years young I'll take any form of compliment :drinker:

    ^this, I'm 44. It kinda strokes my ego and makes me feel young & sexy:)
  • GorillaEsq
    GorillaEsq Posts: 2,198 Member
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    I think I might prefer NILF ( Nerd I'd Like to F...). :wink:
    That one wins.
  • LilRedRooster
    LilRedRooster Posts: 1,421 Member
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    I don't really think it's offensive, per se..

    I DO think it's unoriginal and trite, because really, f*cking someone isn't all the unique; most of the adult population does it, and it doesn't take a whole lot of special qualities except the right body parts.

    I'd prefer a personalized compliment that's directed at me and specific to individual things, because it's much more mature, but.. That's just me. If someone decided to call me a "MILF" like they genuinely thought it was a compliment I'd enjoy, we wouldn't get much past introductions.
  • PJ64
    PJ64 Posts: 866 Member
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    I do find it mildly offensive in general, but if the right guy refers to me that way
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    :tongue:
    This! It is ALWAYS who is giving the "compliment"
  • SweetJoanne
    SweetJoanne Posts: 106 Member
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    all I can say is what does this have to do with my fitness pal, go on a porn site if you want to bring something up like this, this is all about losing weight and posts just for losing weight and helpful hints for people, get a life
  • PaleoRDH
    PaleoRDH Posts: 266
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    LOL!!! I got called a MILF at work. I thought it was funny enough to share with my husband, who got mad enough to want me to report it. I guess different people translate it differently........ I don't get my feathers ruffled very often, so i dont really put too much thought into it.

    ............................ I just noticed............ there seems to be some type of wicked cat fight going on in this post....LMFAO!!!!!
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