"MILF"... it is offensive?

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  • SeaChele77
    SeaChele77 Posts: 1,103 Member
    MILF I'm ok with. I won't like cougar once I get there lol

    Isn't a cougar an older woman looking for a younger guy?

    Nothing to be with being hot or not, right?

    That is my understanding of a Cougar. Nothing to do with looks, but more of an age gap (ie 50yo woman seeking 25yo male)
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,749 Member
    I don't get why it's considered offensive.

    It's a term, a phrase, a word.

    Get over it.
  • LizHowerton
    LizHowerton Posts: 329 Member
    I'm 50 I'll take being called a MILF anyday :) I work hard at looking the best 50 I can...so compliments are nice.

    A cougar I am not.
  • sizzle92
    sizzle92 Posts: 1,015 Member
    I always thought of it as (cougar) a hot old lady lol
  • TadaGanIarracht
    TadaGanIarracht Posts: 2,615 Member


    Pronounced - my- why- cif?

    LOL sounds chinese

    It very well could be. Haha.
  • LizHowerton
    LizHowerton Posts: 329 Member
    A guy calling a woman a MILF is like a guy whistling at woman....

    Enjoy it ladies......You only go around once.
  • skinnyinnotime
    skinnyinnotime Posts: 4,078 Member
    I always thought of it as (cougar) a hot old lady lol
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    I thought it meant an older woman whom young guys found attractive.

    oops I posted in the quote box.
  • LittleMiss_WillLoseIt
    LittleMiss_WillLoseIt Posts: 1,373 Member
    So on the flip side is D.I.L.F offensive to men??
    If a female called me a DILF, I'd first ask to see her ID and proof of age before I continued the conversation.

    Nice!! Hahaha
  • JenKillough
    JenKillough Posts: 474 Member
    A guy calling a woman a MILF is like a guy whistling at woman....

    Enjoy it ladies......You only go around once.

    True. We only go around once. Guess I much prefer classier comments though, even though I'm going die one day. Lol. There are classy men out there who don't feel the need to compliment a women in a slightly back handed way. Despite any age differences. An easy way to piss off a woman is to bring up age...

    There are smarter men out there, at least... I've met some.
  • GorillaEsq
    GorillaEsq Posts: 2,198 Member
    I actually have no idea from where the term "cougar" originates. I'm sure Google and/or Wikipedia has the answer somewhere.
  • HurricaneElaine
    HurricaneElaine Posts: 984 Member
    I'm not a Mom, but I would find it offensive. The sexual connotation actually kinda pizzes me off. That's just me, though.
  • mamagooskie
    mamagooskie Posts: 2,964 Member
    Doesn't bother me at all. If I was ever referred to as a MILF I'd take it as a compliment.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    I don't find it really all that offensive. Yes, it's a bit direct and there are classier ways to say things. But when you consider the age range of those who use the words, the probably aren't there yet.
  • paintlisapurple
    paintlisapurple Posts: 982 Member
    While I'm not offended by the term itself, I do find it juvenile to say the least. (Thats the part that creeps me out.)
  • JenKillough
    JenKillough Posts: 474 Member
    But when you consider the age range of those who use the words, the probably aren't there yet.

    True, point taken.
  • jrbb03092
    jrbb03092 Posts: 198 Member
    It's obviously become common usage and so people gloss over the acronym and/or honestly don't care BUT when women are offended it's generally because of the F in it. It's not just that this woman is attractive. It's that "I'd like to stick my d**k in her". It's become such a common term that it's actually said TO women, not just in referring to them and honestly? If "hey, baby, I'd like to f**k you," didn't impress when I was young and single, it's sure not going to impress now.
  • paintlisapurple
    paintlisapurple Posts: 982 Member
    It's obviously become common usage and so people gloss over the acronym and/or honestly don't care BUT when women are offended it's generally because of the F in it. It's not just that this woman is attractive. It's that "I'd like to stick my d**k in her". It's become such a common term that it's actually said TO women, not just in referring to them and honestly? If "hey, baby, I'd like to f**k you," didn't impress when I was young and single, it's sure not going to impress now.


    Very well said.
  • 126siany
    126siany Posts: 1,386 Member
    It's obviously become common usage and so people gloss over the acronym and/or honestly don't care BUT when women are offended it's generally because of the F in it. It's not just that this woman is attractive. It's that "I'd like to stick my d**k in her". It's become such a common term that it's actually said TO women, not just in referring to them and honestly? If "hey, baby, I'd like to f**k you," didn't impress when I was young and single, it's sure not going to impress now.

    Agreed.
  • meshashesha2012
    meshashesha2012 Posts: 8,329 Member
    sorry but there are far too many other horrible things going on in the world to be offended by a term like MILF. maybe if i didnt have *kitten* else going on in my life i'd have the luxury of being offended by a term like this. I'm too busy trying to bring beauty and wisdom to the world around me :laugh:
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    i am offended due to there being no acromyn for an aunt who would like to be ****ed....lol...

    i am said autie to a great 18 month old babe and i want some guy to walk down the street and give me some sort of acromyn....lol
  • skinnyinnotime
    skinnyinnotime Posts: 4,078 Member
    It's obviously become common usage and so people gloss over the acronym and/or honestly don't care BUT when women are offended it's generally because of the F in it. It's not just that this woman is attractive. It's that "I'd like to stick my d**k in her". It's become such a common term that it's actually said TO women, not just in referring to them and honestly? If "hey, baby, I'd like to f**k you," didn't impress when I was young and single, it's sure not going to impress now.

    The frog world sounds so like the human world, I'm amazed!!!
  • Sublog
    Sublog Posts: 1,296 Member
    As long as I can be considered a DILF, I don't care :drinker:
  • GorillaEsq
    GorillaEsq Posts: 2,198 Member
    It's obviously become common usage and so people gloss over the acronym and/or honestly don't care BUT when women are offended it's generally because of the F in it. It's not just that this woman is attractive. It's that "I'd like to stick my d**k in her". It's become such a common term that it's actually said TO women, not just in referring to them and honestly? If "hey, baby, I'd like to f**k you," didn't impress when I was young and single, it's sure not going to impress now.
    Agreed. I put it into the same category as a complete stranger saying "Hey, nice rack...", et al.
  • proudarmywife06
    proudarmywife06 Posts: 213 Member
    I actually want someone to call me that b/c it is a compliment. When a woman gets pregnant and has a baby, so many things change with her body. It's nice to still feel sexy afterwards :)
  • stephstar15
    stephstar15 Posts: 125
    Is it offensive? Hell naw! For me, it most definitely is a compliment and badge of honor. Having a child wreaks the most unspeakable horror on a woman's body, some women NEVER physically recover from it. It is an testament of hard work, determination and true grit to be able to train your body into something men still find f*ckable after that baby is done with you, and all women should be flattered as hell to be given the title "MILF"!

    Word.
  • Krizzo87
    Krizzo87 Posts: 14,186 Member
    I most definitely take it as a compliment!! :bigsmile:
  • JudyNader
    JudyNader Posts: 7 Member
    I think it is crude. If a man says, "You're an attractive woman. I'd like to f**k you.", that's crude and un-classy. Wrapping it up in a "cute" acronym doesn't make it OK. There are much classier and respectful ways to pay a compliment.
  • desiv2
    desiv2 Posts: 651 Member
    I think it's a compliment... but I could see some people being offended. Maybe these mothers don't like being a sex object, and rather you call them a MILTTDF (Mom i'd like to take to dinner first)..


    I'm just joking, fyi. :P
  • milk_shakes
    milk_shakes Posts: 46
    ha i don't mind being called a milf, not one bit
  • ShreddedTweet
    ShreddedTweet Posts: 1,326 Member
    Boring, self-indulgent thread is boring and self-indulgent. Granted, it is not quite as boring as 'Chocolate covered zombie elves (questions only)' but it's certainly up there.
    In addition, your use of unnecessary commas after 'because' and the fact that you have started a sentence with the word 'and' tell me you are not quite as smart as you purport to be or indeed as clever as you would like people to imagine you are.
    I will conclude by saying that your half-face photos are as ridiculous as the infamous duckface pictures teenage girls are wont to take.
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