Do "all men" secretly have a thing for their "female friend"
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If the man is a loser and a creep, he probably fancies all his female friends, if he is not, you probably fine. Just stick with cool guys, you be fine!xxxx0
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You are either a troll...or very naive.I have a very good male friend. I dont think he has a thing for me. He jokes alot about it, but I think its only that, jokes.
LOL. Yeah, sure. He totally has a thing.
Im gonna text him right now and ask him if he has a thing.
excuse me..what does troll mean
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Online - I think that they can be just friends, though obviously it isn't always the case.
Offline - I notice most guy friends stop talking to me once they get a girlfriend, then start up again once they're broken up. =/
That happens with everyone the guy knows. It doesn't only happen to you.
As for the original question: Yes, unless I don't find her attractive. I do have female friends where we have a mutual un-attraction to each other. Nothing would happen, even if we were butt naked in bed together.
^^I HATE PEOPLE LIKE THAT!!!
Anyway... I have some guy friends.. I'm sure they would take the opportunity if it presented itself... but even if I was single, there is only maybe 2 or 3 I would hook up with. Not date or marry..simply hook up.0 -
If the female friend is hot and the man is single, he is going to sleep with her given the opportunity.
The only real categories for this topic are:
Will actively try
Will not actively try0 -
wow. i have a ton of guy friends. I had no idea they all wanted to screw me! I'm allofasudden a lot less stressed out about this being single thing!
Thanks for all the insight into mankind, MFPers!
Question: does this also go for male coworkers?
Of course - but office relationships are recipes for trouble.0 -
wow. i have a ton of guy friends. I had no idea they all wanted to screw me! I'm allofasudden a lot less stressed out about this being single thing!
Thanks for all the insight into mankind, MFPers!
Question: does this also go for male coworkers?
Generally, yes. If you are friends, they want to sleep with you. It doesn't mean they will, or that they will make a move, but they want to.
They probably think about you when they're...you know...helping themselves. LOL.0 -
Youre post isnt very clear at least to me.
It seems like youre asking if a woman could keep a disrespectful man that would fugg anything and flirts left and rght with anyone.
Then the topic makes it seem in general do all men disrespectful or not have a thing for their female friends.
It also seems its more about "Would you remain friends with a man, that flirts left and right and would sleep with anything."
My answer is I have many male friends some will fugg any and everything, I remain friends with them because i like them, they dont speak to me like that. I think its about the way you carry yourself.. my guy friends think i'm very innocent i never talk pervy with them, and i have a boss who is a good male friend that told most of my co-workers that he had a baby out of wedlock with his neighbor, showing pictures and all and when i walked pass he quickly put the picture away and has not told me to this day about the baby. I would not judge him but he knows my personality and that is something i would comment on. so he chooses not to tell me.
Honestly i think most if not all my male friends would "smash" but would they approach me like that. NOPE. Because I dont come across as a person that would smash them, do they talk about smashing girls and who they would smash and who they like YES. It doesnt bother me. My best friend is a dude and everyone thinks hes in love with me, EWWWWWW.. hes the biggest *kitten* in town.. hes had sex with at least 10 girls i know.. he talks about them like they are sht and his current GF he talks to her like shes his property ive heard him tell her to be quiet and its not what she wants and to tell him shes sorry and she like sorry daddy and i look at him like wtf and tell him to the shut the fugg up i wish he ever speak to me in that manner and i have him cracking up while hes in his macho cave man mode and shes all timid and like yes, im sorry, i dont want you to be up set with me.. and my mind is just in dismay.. this is how you allow people talk/disrespect you.0 -
I have lots of female friends that I have never boinked or never will. I can live with that. I'm married and I've managed to keep my female friends despite closing the door on all future boinking.
I don't think I'm the norm so choose your friends carefully. It's naive to apply a blanket rule to every dude out there.
But let me ask: how much crack does she do? just a little? Nevermind. My answer is still "No, I would not smash that."0 -
It's not that men are solely friends with women in hopes that something sexual will happen, that's not it at all. Men and women can be friends but yes, there is almost always attraction happening on one end or the other. The guy might not wanna date the girl but given the opportunity to have sex? Sure. And yes, there are always exceptions but put it this way, I have yet to see one.0
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I am married but I have a lot of male friends who are "just friends". One of my best friends is male. That said....most of them including my best male friend have openly said that they respect that we are just friends but if they ever had the chance they would. I would never say that ALL men are like this. I can only tell you what I know from my experience.
Put me on the list of friends that would do you.
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If the female friend is hot and the man is single, he is going to sleep with her given the opportunity.
The only real categories for this topic are:
Will actively try
Will not actively try
Yes. I totally agree with this.0 -
You are either a troll...or very naive.I have a very good male friend. I dont think he has a thing for me. He jokes alot about it, but I think its only that, jokes.
LOL. Yeah, sure. He totally has a thing.
Im gonna text him right now and ask him if he has a thing.
Her friend wants to put it in her butt. Just saying.
<Wiping the diet dew off my monitor>0 -
True. If the opportunity presented itself, I would sleep with almost all of my female friends. However, I'm actively trying to sleep with none of them.If the female friend is hot and the man is single, he is going to sleep with her given the opportunity.
The only real categories for this topic are:
Will actively try
Will not actively try0 -
If the female friend is hot and the man is single, he is going to sleep with her given the opportunity.
The only real categories for this topic are:
Will actively try
Will not actively try
Finally you said something true0 -
what???? most men would have to have sex with u 100x or sent to the couch 100x for trying.we've even slept in the same bed together 100x.
Nah, i've slept in the same bed with a female friend several times without trying anything. Had SHE tried anything though, it would have been on.0 -
I am worried about all the men here!!! and even more so for there female friends!!!0
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I love reading these responses and the different answers given by men and women. I'll just put this out there:
My husband started out as just a friend ....
.... until I kissed him! :bigsmile:
The same with me and my boyfriend of 5 years. Except he tells me he was very interested when we first became friends, which I was unaware of at the time.0 -
I am worried about all the men here!!! and even more so for there female friends!!!
Ha, ha.0 -
I'm with the other guys in this thread (the ones who are being honest, at least). If a female friend said "let's go", I'd be on that immediately. It has never happened, though. In fact, I don't usually keep female friends around for very long because it gets to a point where it's clear they want nothing physical with me, and I can't stand the sexual frustration anymore. So I let them go and start looking for girls who *are* interested in me sexually.
Why are men and women so different in this thing? Check out laddertheory.com for a great (albeit cynical) explanation.
Seriously ?
So you're not actually look for a friend just someone to bump bones with..........
Pretty much, yeah. I have plenty of guys around me who meet my need for friendship. With women, I have different needs and desires. Not to say I couldn't be friends with a woman, because I could and have. Just saying that it usually doesn't last too long.0 -
That's what YOU think.I have a very good male friend. I dont think he has a thing for me. He jokes alot about it, but I think its only that, jokes.0
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Depends I think on if she's married or single... but maybe not even then.0
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Wil you wear those Greenbay Pumps? If so, I am all in!
Speaks the truthI am friends with all the females at the crossfit box I go to, we joke, we hang out, we do the hug hello and goodbye, and I am always a gentleman about it, but if one of them gave me the green light, it would be on like donkey kong.. you know, if I wasn't married.
Exactly. I have several males friends and we are just friends. I'm also positive they would jump at the chance if I offered. All except the gay one. And he still might.0 -
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I am married but I have a lot of male friends who are "just friends". One of my best friends is male. That said....most of them including my best male friend have openly said that they respect that we are just friends but if they ever had the chance they would. I would never say that ALL men are like this. I can only tell you what I know from my experience.
Put me on the list of friends that would do you.
LL but what about your song? "Just a Friend?"0 -
That's what YOU think.I have a very good male friend. I dont think he has a thing for me. He jokes alot about it, but I think its only that, jokes.
I have a male friend (Ex Boyfriend) I know jokes about it and I know wants me... but we are both married to other people and have a understanding that if we get single when we are older it's on0 -
If the female friend is hot and the man is single, he is going to sleep with her given the opportunity.
The only real categories for this topic are:
Will actively try
Will not actively try
Finally you said something true
I told you that you were beautiful this morning... Was that not true?0 -
My boyfriend says that girls and guys can't be friends.. with very rare exceptions. He believes that girls can be guys' friend platonically, but that in that relationship the guy always wants something or already has something better.0
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I am married but I have a lot of male friends who are "just friends". One of my best friends is male. That said....most of them including my best male friend have openly said that they respect that we are just friends but if they ever had the chance they would. I would never say that ALL men are like this. I can only tell you what I know from my experience.
Put me on the list of friends that would do you.
LL but what about your song? "Just a Friend?"
That is a Bizmarke song :grumble:0 -
the best female friend I have is a lesbian, why do we get along so well, cuz there is no sexual tension, we don't want anything from each other, we are able to just hang out and BS with each other over everyday life events. On the flip side, she is a fellow crossfitter and has one hell of a body, if she ever thoght of switching back to guys, I would be first in line.. so yeah... there it is... guys will eventually always want soemthing from a hot, sexy attactive woman, if it is an option. Obviously if both arties are single and straight, there is a better chance for that option0
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Get a grip people!
online is a little different, but
In the real world All male friends are guys just hanging around until the right time (drunk, moment of weakness, argument with significant other etc.)to DO YOU!
Unless your hideous! then they can be your friend, but then what's the point!
JUST SAYIN!
Sorry fellas it has to be said, i cannot tell a lie!0
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