Guys say they want a Nice/Good girl but go for Sl*ts?
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Hmmmm.Most self proclaimed 'good girls' tend to be self-centered and controlling. Guys have feelings too, and on one wants to be told how to think and act.
This is true. The "good-girls" tend to be the babysitters.
I think I fall somewhere in the middle. lol
I was a little wild when I was younger and I regret it. But I'm not a prude, either.
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Hmmmm.Most self proclaimed 'good girls' tend to be self-centered and controlling. Guys have feelings too, and on one wants to be told how to think and act.
This is true. The "good-girls" tend to be the babysitters.
I think I fall somewhere in the middle. lol
I was a little wild when I was younger and I regret it. But I'm not a prude, either.
I was on the wild side when I was a teenager but I don't regret it. I had a lot of fun. I've been for 7 years though soooo.... I get to be both a slut and a non-babysitter. Winning.
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Hmmmm.Most self proclaimed 'good girls' tend to be self-centered and controlling. Guys have feelings too, and on one wants to be told how to think and act.
This is true. The "good-girls" tend to be the babysitters.
I think I fall somewhere in the middle. lol
I was a little wild when I was younger and I regret it. But I'm not a prude, either.
I was on the wild side when I was a teenager but I don't regret it. I had a lot of fun. I've been for 7 years though soooo.... I get to be both a slut and a non-babysitter. Winning.
I don't regret everything. I had a lot of fun. I just think sex is special and I regret sharing that with boys/men who were not. I don't judge anyone for their sexual history. That's their own business. I just wish I'd been more selective myself.
What's done is done, though. In the last 10 years, there has only been one. And we've only been together for eight, so you can all do your own math! lol0 -
Thare are no good girls gone wrong, just bad girls found out. Women are sneaky, not all, they know how to hide a secret. Most of us guys are idiots, we tend to brag about how many girls we've "hit".0
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I wasn't going to comment but this is why I love MFP. Long distance relationships are hard and I'm not usually a jealous a-hole but my logic is "I can't see him why should you". This is a really pointless post but I just wanted to thank you guys for the things I needed to hear..
Oh, and on topic of discussion, I personally stay out of people's personal lives because I'm a boring nice person lol. As long as you're with someone who's going to treat you right then who cares, but as some people mentioned you have to watch for the idiots who just say they care just to get in you're pants. It goes both ways.0 -
I believe Ludacris said it best...0
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They want a lady in the streets but a freak in the bed!I believe Ludacris said it best...
I don't know it all, but I think men don't want to deal with all the drama involved with a woman calling others s;*ts. Who wants somebody always so dang worried about what others are doing?0 -
Guys want a good girl who knows how to be a bad, slutty girl in bed! Nothing wrong with that. Its fun, hot and makes for an amazing sex life. That is all!0
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They like good girls too. Promise.0
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I'm sure not all guys but it's kind of upsetting.
Guys who claim to be God fearing, guys claiming to want a nice girl and etc
but then go after and flirt with skanks........
I mean women who take naked pictures and are rolling blunts....... come on.
Maybe these guys are not "men" but what the hell
Hum, I can't say that I've ever dated a man (or even a boy) who would rather have the slut. Maybe it has to do with the type of person you are attracted to or the way you are defining other women?0 -
they have this thing called a penis, and the penis can rule the brain - duh!0
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In the short term at least...the single most attractive feature in a woman is sexual availability.
It will always be so.
A man's first impulse is to satisfy his physical needs and spread his seed. Eventually, he may or may not decide to commit. If he does, the criteria for a life long partner is much more demanding and extensive than simple sexual availability.0 -
Every man and woman on this planet has the big S inside them.
We are all sluts.
Some hide it and some deny it, but in the end we are all sluts.
Live and let live.
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The old saying "Chef in the kitchen, lady in the parlor, and slut in the bedroom" comes to mind. Just leave the first part off to update from the 50's.0
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choosing the "bad boy" over the "good guy" so it'm noy just gender specific ,but we all are guilty of doing one thing and saying another at some point or arena of ourlives...0
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<--- sklut.0
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Oh, look. Misogyny. Must be a Wednesday.0
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I think this can be broken down even further.
Guys...want girls?! No way!
Not one for stereotypes myself. 'They say' that good girls want bad boys too. I think we just want what we want and it can be summed up by that alone.0 -
Those are the practice girls!
Be thankful for them, cause your man is perfecting the technique for the future...
If there were no practice girls then your man might not know what he's doing..if you get what im sayin..
Ummmmmm.... STDs are BoP..
No thanks.0 -
I was starting to feel like I was getting too smart.
Then I read this thread...
problem solved.0 -
I'm not mad at anyone
2. I have seen with a number of my male friends.... they quote bible verses... all over their FB, Instagram and etc but then next minute they're flirting with a girl taking half naked pictures. and Ya I'd say a girl taking a pic of her rolling a blunt is trashy....
chances are they're losers that's why they like trash
and taking a picture naked and posting it on instagram does make you a slut.........
Religious people tend not to apply the same morals to the decisions they make but generally like to look moral and judge others.. I blame the deiety for setting that double standard.0 -
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ETA: Don't judge or you'll be judge. The measure you use to judge with is what you will be measured against. (paraphrased Matt 7:1-2)Be the person you want as your partner because like attracts like.
If you want someone who's fit, be fit.
If you want someone who's smart, take some extra classes.
If you want someone who's kind, be nice.
If you want someone who's generous, give without holding back.
Keep that up, and the kind of person you want will want YOU, too.
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Totally disagree with 90% of this.
If you want someone who is smart don't waste your time with dumbasses.
If you want someone who is educated well then start looking at classes.
Plenty of smart women who aren't in school.
Nice guys do tend to finish last. Ya know why? Beacuse they are boring as hell to women.
Better standard.. If you want a nice girl. (And there are a number of definitions on what constitues being 'nice) don't date a woman who's a total *****. Being nice doesn't lead to landing someone who is also nice.
Oh and BTW if you want someone who is generious, don't just start giving out for nothing.. You need to hold back and be certain you aren't wasting your time/money/efforts.ETA: Don't judge or you'll be judge. The measure you use to judge with is what you will be measured against. (paraphrased Matt 7:1-2)
Here is some truth. You are going to be judged regardless of what you do. You are going to judge others. From the first post of this topic it is pretty clear you don't want a girl who is into pot or apparently confident enough to take risque pictures of herself. I wouldn't go so far as to call someone like that a slut as it's not even close to the actual definition of what a sult is. But that is aside from the point.. Point being is that while you are judging others they are judging just as much as you, if not more so.
You have two choices.. Be someone that is a person of value and somoene that a respectable woman might actually want to be with or not.0 -
it's possible to be both with the right balance :bigsmile:0
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The girls like that are the ones that are easy to get. Guys have to work to hard for a real woman so they settle for those girls that they don't have to work for. Guys are lazy... We all know that.
100% they can settle. For every "loser" there is a decent guy out there........ :laugh:
Yeah and most of the time the decent guy wasn't attractive to her so she settled for the one you think is a "loser", yet he is the one with a girl and you are the "decent guy" griping on the internet.
Coincidence? I think not.0 -
Men are visual creatures. They go for the aesthetically appealing. Its just in their DNA. I know plenty of great guys who still drool at an awesome pair of bewbz. Just cause a guy is paying attention to a female because of how she looks doesn't make him a bad guy. Men have defects. So do femalez. Being overly sensitive and jealous of the attention that other women get is one of them.
This! Spot on!0 -
As for the 'nice guys' thing
Yes, there are some nice guys who genuinely get a raw deal. But a hell of a lot of guys are actually in one of two situations
1. You are a nice guy who likes a girl, but she doesn't have those feelings for you. You can be as nice as you like, sometimes the chemistry just isn't there. So while you're stuck in the 'friend zone' every other guy she dates is an assh0le because he's NOT YOU.
2. You are trying to date a girl who has dated plenty of "nice guys" every guy is "nice" when they want to do the horizontal boogie with you. It isn't always easy to spot those who aren't so nice afterwards
So true.. Especially #1
Fact of the matter is that nobody should waste their time if the feelings aren't mutual.. Just move on and hey maybe she'll come arround after a bit or after she's dated a couple of *kitten* and give you a shot.. You can't make someone be interested in you. Either it's there or it's not.. Pure and simple..0 -
I think you need to watch out on how you label people."sl*t" is such a dangerouss word. By your definition it's a woman who will take naked pics of herself and roll joints. I'm not going to touch the joint thing because I think you're more bothered by the naked pics - that's part of what a "sl*t" is, right?
Just because a woman is comfortable in her sexuality and is OK with taking naked pics of herself, that doesn't make her a bad person. It may be outside of your limit of comfort, but I don't think you should think down on her for being comfortable with her body that way. No matter what her body looks like, it takes guts to take a pic like that.
Stop worrying about them and just focus on you. If the guys you are interested are going after the women you don't respect, maybe you need to redefine who you are looking for.0 -
it's possible to be both with the right balance :bigsmile:
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it's possible to be both with the right balance :bigsmile:
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If youre anything like me, just make sure you practice that whole Lady in the Streets part!0
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