What is the worst comment you ever got about your weight?

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  • rgohm
    rgohm Posts: 294 Member
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    I have two that stick out the most.

    The first was in elementary when some punk threw a magazine about liposuction at my head and told me I should get some,
    and the second was more recently when my coworker told me she'd put me out of my misery if I ever gained more weight.
    Ironic since she's gained a crapton since we worked together.

    Karma?
  • Cespuglio
    Cespuglio Posts: 385 Member
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    If you looked like "her" I wouldn't have had to cheat.

    Oh no he did not :explode: I sure hope you told him that if you didn't need a magnifying glass to see his penis with you'd maybe care enough to look like her....uggg some men have a huge nerve

    HAHAHAHA! This response is SO full of win!
  • rgohm
    rgohm Posts: 294 Member
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    I was working in a department store and a customer stopped me to ask if I knew the gender of my baby yet- I wasn't pregnant.

    My Dad also likes to get out old photos of me from when I was a teenager and tell me how much he wishes that girl would come back.

    And last month on a crowded plane my mum told me- fairly loudly- I was taking up too much room in the aisle when I had to stand to let the window seat person out. The next day at a family dinner my mother also informed the entire table that I wasn't permitted to have dessert and that everyone needed to keep a watchful eye on me to make sure I didn't sneak some!

    I've also been compared to my fiance's dad who weighs around 60kg more than me!

    I could go on all day... sorry.

    Geez! Sorry that your parents are like that.
  • Lone_Wolf70
    Lone_Wolf70 Posts: 2,820 Member
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    From some1 who hadnt seen me for a few years

    "what the bleep hppnd to you?"
  • rgohm
    rgohm Posts: 294 Member
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    A jerk in high school told me to effin move cuz no one could get around me. There was plenty of room, he was a jack@ss.

    My sister told me once when I was watching Say Yes To The Dress that I was too fat to wear any of those dresses.

    My sister also said I was fat and so is my fiance and she made a crude and vulgar remark comparing intimacy between us to "slabs of blubber slapping together" (shes a great sister, huh? I won't be the fat twin much longer)


    Wow I thought my siblings were bad! I guess she shouldn't expect to be in the wedding party then.
  • Lone_Wolf70
    Lone_Wolf70 Posts: 2,820 Member
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    Oh also ..."you should go on the biggest loser"
  • rgohm
    rgohm Posts: 294 Member
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    im 19 and in high school I would constantly get MOOed at.
    get things thrown at me during lunch and classes and a few times people threw food at me and shouted " eat more fat cow " or "eat more til you die nobody wants your fata** around here anyway"

    and my family wonders why I hated high school..
    gotta love the " you have such a pretty face,, if only you lost weight. " comments too
    Cant wait until I have my gastric bypass surgery and have a fantastic 2013 year and put all this crap behind me.

    Kids suck! I hope your surgery goes well.
  • Diary_Queen
    Diary_Queen Posts: 1,314 Member
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    My ex - the biological donor that helped create my children (back in the good times before he tried to beat me to death) - used to throw porn mags at me when he would catch me eating something he didn't 'approve of' or an extra helping at dinner and say "If you were skinny and looked like these women, then I wouldn't always want to F someone else you big fat b!tch". Wonder how he's liking prison these days...
  • rgohm
    rgohm Posts: 294 Member
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    Over 6 years ago I was shopping for my bridesmaid dresses at a local mall. I was walking along the sidewalk on the outside of the building next to the road, and a car pulled up along side me. The car was full of guys, probably between the ages of 20-30. The car slowed down and drove along side me as I walked. The whole time I heard laughs, and the guy in the passenger side said "Damn girl, Subway diet didn't work, huh?" They remained driving next to me, laughing, until I got into the building. I never looked at them, just kept walking.

    To this day I still remember it, and to this day it still hurts. You'd think that would have been motivation enough to lose the weight, but it wasn't.

    I'm doing it now, though. And that's all that matters.

    I agree.
  • thoseblueeyes
    thoseblueeyes Posts: 812 Member
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    Mine was interviewing for a modeling job. I was at the agency and the owner said in front of everyone that I was to fat for what their client was looking for ( I was about 107 ) . I had the face but not the body is what she said. WTF really? I wish I looked like that now even tho she said I was too fat. I was totally embarrased and cried for days ( more like weeks) I finally got the last laugh tho so it all good. I don't know if I really want to be 107 but I wish I was thinner. I'll get there.
  • rgohm
    rgohm Posts: 294 Member
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    I am literally in tears right now seeing these posts! I am sooooo sorry that people in your lives{ and mine} were so RUDE and INCONSIDERATE to you all! I wish I could be there to wipe away all the pain and hurt in your hearts!:heart:

    agreed!
  • TighteningStrings
    TighteningStrings Posts: 46
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    I was at a restaurant with my kids when a younger couple came in. They made a huge deal about walking several tables around either side of me to get to their table so they didn't "catch the fat".

    I also had a guy hang out the window of his car, call me a fatty and bark at me.
  • lizzie2190
    lizzie2190 Posts: 236 Member
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    Being asked if was pregnant ( I wasn't) oh and after weight loss being told I had a good figure considering I had kids - talk about a back handed compliment :/
  • Desdemina
    Desdemina Posts: 150 Member
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    I've had several of the same comments as some of you, the pregnancy one and kids acting like there was an earthquake when I walked by, But the worst has always been my grandmother. She has criticized me for my weight for as long as I can remember. My mom is overweight, too, and every time we went to visit, the two of us usually ended up crying ourselves to sleep over her comments. She thinks she's motivating us!

    For example, my mom told me a story that happened just recently. My parents, my grandmother, and my aunt and uncle went out to eat. There was a delay in my mom's dinner and everyone else had been served and were mostly finished and mom's dinner still hadn't arrived. My grandmother said the waiter must have taken one look at her and decided she didn't need to eat anyway.

    I hate that woman. It's a bad thing to say about your grandmother, but I do.
  • tlafrance
    tlafrance Posts: 106 Member
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    Congrats! When are you expecting...
    I was so embarass
  • Dymatized
    Dymatized Posts: 48
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    Fat *kitten*. LOL. Yes women us guys get called that too or at least I used to. Now after shedding 30 pounds and adding some meat in the right places they say why are you so skinny? Are you ok? LOL
  • rgohm
    rgohm Posts: 294 Member
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    My husband told me I was so disgusting that touching me made him vomit.

    I think I would have said "Ditto"
  • Alyssa__Lauren
    Alyssa__Lauren Posts: 148 Member
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    when my ex boyfriend flat out told me i was overweight. it just stung.
  • RobynMWilson
    RobynMWilson Posts: 1,540 Member
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    The absolute worst was when a group of boys in 9th grade called me "Big Bertha" across the lunch room and humiliated me. I was just starting to lose my weight then and that spurred me to finish what I started.

    Two of them friended me on FB back in 2009 when I joined and I declined. The one still tries to address me when commenting on mutual friends' statuses, etc and I ignore him. HA! lol
  • Fit2BeFly
    Fit2BeFly Posts: 185 Member
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    I was told, Wow, you've gained weight again. What was it this time, too much chocolate? You are too pretty to be fat.


    I am a yo-yo dieter. :(

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