What is a MILF? Should I be offended or what?

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  • ChelseaYepThatsMe
    ChelseaYepThatsMe Posts: 457
    Clearly she's older and DIDN"T know the meaning.

    ^^More or less offensive than being called a MILF? We needz a poll!

    Did i say she was OLD? no, i said she was older.
    Maybe next time quote my whole post and realize I was STICKING UP FOR HER!

    I get called a milf all the damn time.
    It's a compliment. Clearly someone finds ya attractive if that's what they are calling you.
    But to say she's fishing for compliments over asking what it is, is plain rude.

    I think it's rather rude you stick your tongue in so many of your pictures! For shame!

    Lol not sure if you're serious or?

    Don't you "lol" at me young lady!

    (: love your profile pic btw. Great smile. Love the glasses too.
  • sunsnstatheart
    sunsnstatheart Posts: 2,544 Member
    It's a compliment. That doesn't mean you shouldn't tell your son's friend to stick it. But it is a compliment. So tell him to stick it, then walk away with a smile on your face.
  • Brianna72994
    Brianna72994 Posts: 887
    It is a compliment. Just make sure you're covered up when his friends are there!
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    its a compliment Mrs. Robinson.

    Now thats something I understand :wink: :laugh:

    Um, yeah...:smile:
  • jenniferldorris
    jenniferldorris Posts: 15 Member
    Love fishing!

    Lol, exactly what I thought.... ;-)
  • RoseDarrett
    RoseDarrett Posts: 355 Member
    I don't like the term personally myself,my brother absolutely hates it.Our mother is hot and she gets it all the time...


    Ewww..


    But it just means you're very attractive.So it's a compliment.Of the graphic kind.
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    its a compliment Mrs. Robinson.

    Now thats something I understand :wink: :laugh:

    :laugh: MILF- Mrs Robinson-- same thing. he just wanted to be your Dustin Hoffman

    You think he watches Judge Wopner?
  • Danger2OneSelf
    Danger2OneSelf Posts: 883 Member
    C'mon this can't be forreal?
  • mfpcopine
    mfpcopine Posts: 3,093 Member
    You should be offended. You're not a cow to be publicly appraised, and especially not by a contemporary of your son.

    Regardless of what some men might say, they wouldn't like it if women went around sizing up men and telling them "I'd like a piece of that." They'd have the massive insecurities as women caused by constant objectification.
  • Thewatcher_66
    Thewatcher_66 Posts: 1,643 Member
    You should be offended. Your son did the right thing. You have cave men out there that throw out these back handed compliments thinking women should be flattered. I hope your son decked his punk a##.
  • 1ConcreteGirl
    1ConcreteGirl Posts: 3,677 Member
    I'm a gilf.
  • firstsip
    firstsip Posts: 8,399 Member
    Clearly she's older and DIDN"T know the meaning.

    ^^More or less offensive than being called a MILF? We needz a poll!

    Did i say she was OLD? no, i said she was older.
    Maybe next time quote my whole post and realize I was STICKING UP FOR HER!

    I get called a milf all the damn time.
    It's a compliment. Clearly someone finds ya attractive if that's what they are calling you.
    But to say she's fishing for compliments over asking what it is, is plain rude.

    I think it's rather rude you stick your tongue in so many of your pictures! For shame!

    Lol not sure if you're serious or?

    Don't you "lol" at me young lady!

    (: love your profile pic btw. Great smile. Love the glasses too.

    I am actually grimacing and in great pain.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Clearly she's older and DIDN"T know the meaning.

    ^^More or less offensive than being called a MILF? We needz a poll!

    Did i say she was OLD? no, i said she was older.
    Maybe next time quote my whole post and realize I was STICKING UP FOR HER!

    I get called a milf all the damn time.
    It's a compliment. Clearly someone finds ya attractive if that's what they are calling you.
    But to say she's fishing for compliments over asking what it is, is plain rude.

    GRRR!!!
  • prettymorbidity
    prettymorbidity Posts: 138 Member
    BWAHAHAHAHAHA! omg this is hilarious....ok : 1- its a compliment...your sons friend is saying you are a hot mom.....and 2 - its adorable cause your son doesnt want his friend thinking that about you so he was protecting you :)

    take it with a grain of salt ;)
  • sabgirls5
    sabgirls5 Posts: 46
    Compliment :)
  • Danger2OneSelf
    Danger2OneSelf Posts: 883 Member
    I'm a gilf.

    You're seriously a grandma?? I'm calling BS you look like your 20...although that would be one hell of a head start :laugh:
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    You should be offended. You're not a cow to be publicly appraised, and especially not by a contemporary of your son.

    Regardless of what some men might say, they wouldn't like it if women went around sizing up men and telling them "I'd like a piece of that." They'd have the massive insecurities as women caused by constant objectification.


    Guys? Really? You wouldn't like it?
  • WeekndOVOXO
    WeekndOVOXO Posts: 779 Member
    Anytime you hear a slang that you dont know of check out www.urbandictionary.com . It has slang all around the world not just from North America.

    MILF gets thrown around all the time now. Kind of lost its purpose.
  • DontStopB_Leakin
    DontStopB_Leakin Posts: 3,863 Member
    You should be offended. You're not a cow to be publicly appraised, and especially not by a contemporary of your son.

    Regardless of what some men might say, they wouldn't like it if women went around sizing up men and telling them "I'd like a piece of that." They'd have the massive insecurities as women caused by constant objectification.
    As someone who is frequently referred to as a "MILF", I'd like to say that I rather enjoy the compliment.

    Speak for yourself.
  • fuzzieme
    fuzzieme Posts: 454 Member
    I'm a gilf.

    Woooooow.... did your dog have puppies?! No other explanation!
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    [img]http://i1269.photobucket.com/albums/jj594/asurlygirl/Random stuff/Fursday/Fursday9_zps7bdf0d47.jpg[/img]


    :happy:
  • mfpcopine
    mfpcopine Posts: 3,093 Member
    its a compliment Mrs. Robinson.

    Now thats something I understand :wink: :laugh:

    Um, yeah...:smile:



    And how was the character of Mrs. Robinson portrayed?

    ****SPOILER ALERT IF YOU HAVE NOT SEEN THE GRADUATE.****







    She was an unhappy, sexually dissatisfied predator who went after a young man who really wasn't interested and tried to destroy him (she told her daughter that Benjamin had raped her) when the young man fell in love with her more age-appropriate daughter. Then she was shipped off at the end of the movie to some kind of hospital to "recover."

    It's a very misogynistic portrait.

    The terms "MILF" and "Cougar" are about the Culture's (men's) discomfort with attractive, sexually active, mature women. It's also another demanding standard for women to try to live up to.
  • Danger2OneSelf
    Danger2OneSelf Posts: 883 Member
    You should be offended. You're not a cow to be publicly appraised, and especially not by a contemporary of your son.

    Regardless of what some men might say, they wouldn't like it if women went around sizing up men and telling them "I'd like a piece of that." They'd have the massive insecurities as women caused by constant objectification.


    Guys? Really? You wouldn't like it?

    Umm hell ya we would. It would make figuring out whether or not they're into you really easy! Nothing wrong with that
  • firstsip
    firstsip Posts: 8,399 Member
    its a compliment Mrs. Robinson.

    Now thats something I understand :wink: :laugh:

    Um, yeah...:smile:

    And how was the character of Mrs. Robinson portrayed? She was an unhappy, sexually dissatisfied predator who went after a young man who really wasn't interested and tried to destroy him (she told her daughter that Benjamin had raped her) when the young man fell in love with her more age-appropriate daughter. Then she was shipped off at the end of the movie to some kind of hospital to "recover."

    It's a very misogynistic portrait.

    The terms "MILF" and "Cougar" are about the Culture's (men's) discomfort with attractive, sexually active, mature women. It's also another demanding standard for women to try to live up to.

    Uh, how about some "Spoiler Alerts" here?
  • Danger2OneSelf
    Danger2OneSelf Posts: 883 Member
    ^what she said
  • ChelseaYepThatsMe
    ChelseaYepThatsMe Posts: 457
    would you be upset if a 90 year old man said hey young lady you're beautiful?
    Sorry the times have changed and teens, or younger adults use slang.
    All the kid was saying is that she is beautiful.
    In his own terms.

    Mothers strive harder to look as good as they can, overcoming weight gain, stretch marks, etc.
    Yes, MILF is a compliment. Get over it. (:

    Quit being rude to the OP. She is a really nice woman, and if you could guess her age, you wouldn't be so rude and misunderstand her question.
  • 1ConcreteGirl
    1ConcreteGirl Posts: 3,677 Member
    I'm a gilf.

    You're seriously a grandma?? I'm calling BS you look like your 20...although that would be one hell of a head start :laugh:

    Well, I am in spirit.

    In my going-to-bed-early, telling-kids-to-get-off-my-lawn, falling-on-my-hip-in-the-shower spirit, I am.
  • mfpcopine
    mfpcopine Posts: 3,093 Member
    its a compliment Mrs. Robinson.

    Now thats something I understand :wink: :laugh:

    Um, yeah...:smile:

    And how was the character of Mrs. Robinson portrayed? She was an unhappy, sexually dissatisfied predator who went after a young man who really wasn't interested and tried to destroy him (she told her daughter that Benjamin had raped her) when the young man fell in love with her more age-appropriate daughter. Then she was shipped off at the end of the movie to some kind of hospital to "recover."

    It's a very misogynistic portrait.

    The terms "MILF" and "Cougar" are about the Culture's (men's) discomfort with attractive, sexually active, mature women. It's also another demanding standard for women to try to live up to.

    Uh, how about some "Spoiler Alerts" here?

    Sorry, if you're serious. It's such an iconic movie that I assumed everyone knew the plot. In fact, you wouldn't get the joke about Mrs. Robinson if you haven't seen it. But I will add some spoiler alerts because I hate to have movies ruined.
  • fuzzieme
    fuzzieme Posts: 454 Member
    its a compliment Mrs. Robinson.

    Now thats something I understand :wink: :laugh:

    Um, yeah...:smile:

    And how was the character of Mrs. Robinson portrayed? She was an unhappy, sexually dissatisfied predator who went after a young man who really wasn't interested and tried to destroy him (she told her daughter that Benjamin had raped her) when the young man fell in love with her more age-appropriate daughter. Then she was shipped off at the end of the movie to some kind of hospital to "recover."

    It's a very misogynistic portrait.

    The terms "MILF" and "Cougar" are about the Culture's (men's) discomfort with attractive, sexually active, mature women. It's also another demanding standard for women to try to live up to.

    Uh, how about some "Spoiler Alerts" here?


    Agreed, I screened this comment after reading their previous comment, so luckily if I ever see it, it's not ruined ;)
  • aross001
    aross001 Posts: 237
    its a compliment Mrs. Robinson.

    Now thats something I understand :wink: :laugh:

    Um, yeah...:smile:

    And how was the character of Mrs. Robinson portrayed? She was an unhappy, sexually dissatisfied predator who went after a young man who really wasn't interested and tried to destroy him (she told her daughter that Benjamin had raped her) when the young man fell in love with her more age-appropriate daughter. Then she was shipped off at the end of the movie to some kind of hospital to "recover."

    It's a very misogynistic portrait.

    The terms "MILF" and "Cougar" are about the Culture's (men's) discomfort with attractive, sexually active, mature women. It's also another demanding standard for women to try to live up to.

    the only discomfort I feel from sexually attractive and mature women is in my pants.

    What kind of man doesn't like sexually active and attractive women? I really am having a hard time understanding your negative spin on "milf" and "cougar". I've never once heard any young man, middle aged man or ANY man talk disparagingly about a woman and use these terms. Other terms however... sure.
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