What are your deal breakers?

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  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,574 Member
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    Being a slob and spitting...................instead of the obvious.

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  • Justjamie0418
    Justjamie0418 Posts: 1,065 Member
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    - dislike of children/treating your kids better than mine/being mean to my kids
    - controlling behavior... I'm not 2 thankyouverymuch.
    - someone whos intimidated by me and wont let me grow as a person
    -racism or homophobic.. being close-minded at all actually.
    -freeloader.. I got 5 babies I really don't need another.
    -bad hygiene or awful style.. sounds shallow but comeon now.. no one wears FUBU anymore, specially with wranglers and cowboy hats.. true story :(
  • brittanylock09
    brittanylock09 Posts: 197 Member
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    Reading these... smh... So judgmental... People need to get back into reality...
  • TheLuSir
    TheLuSir Posts: 1,674 Member
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    Being a slob and spitting...................instead of the obvious.

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  • DekkaTwoOneWizzy
    DekkaTwoOneWizzy Posts: 62
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    Thats an interesting one Ive pondered over. Ive seen it. Im not sure if perhaps the dude has insufficiently developed inter/intra personal relationship skills so he's not introducing his lady to the bros or is diverted in his attentions OR shes only good enough for his private life but not his social one...it flips both ways.
  • m8605
    m8605 Posts: 102
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    Smoking/Drugs
    Meaningless Sex
    Kissing and Telling
    Wild/Party Girls

    ... thats pretty much it at the moment
  • Justjamie0418
    Justjamie0418 Posts: 1,065 Member
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    Oh and I want to add... they CANNOT be a video game junkie.. this just doesn't work for me.. occasional play here and there ok. but hours and hours and hours a day? no.
  • TheLuSir
    TheLuSir Posts: 1,674 Member
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    Are we all adding past relationship flaws or future red flags? Or both?
  • Justjamie0418
    Justjamie0418 Posts: 1,065 Member
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    both! haha

    well for me anyway.
  • brevislux
    brevislux Posts: 1,093 Member
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    Been so long since I have had to worry about it, I dunno anymore. I guess thinking about it though...

    Don't like smoking, I know that.
    Don't like couch potatos, I know that.
    Not too particular about body composition, but I want them to be able to keep up and be active. Yup.
    No drunks, I KNOW that.
    No drugs, for sure.
    No house wife. I like them to have their own ambitions, careers, activities, etc.
    Gotta be family oriented.
    Can't be an atheist, but agnostic is all good.
    Cannot be materialistic.
    Probably not a good match for a city girl.

    Yeah, stuff like that.
    Ah yeah, just recalled a deal breaker.
    Can't be religious. :)
  • blytheandbonnie
    blytheandbonnie Posts: 3,275 Member
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    It's funny (funny, weird AND funny, haha) that once you find somebody you really love - to the point that their needs are as important as your own - a lot of the things that are non-negotiable suddenly become possible. Says me, married to an alcoholic (recovered, thanks whoever). It is not a relationship if neither is willing to compromise to some extant. Otherwise it is a dictatorship.
  • RunDoozer
    RunDoozer Posts: 1,699 Member
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    Cheating and clingy. You dont need to know where I am every 30 minutes I am not a dog on a leash.
  • taliar93
    taliar93 Posts: 111 Member
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    Animal Abusers - Hell No! hurt my cat and I'll break your legs.
    Child Abusers - Read Above, if you hurt something or someone that cannot fight back, and doesn't understand why you're hurting them, it's over.
    Anti-Kids - Go away, just go, no point even talking to you.
    Racists/Homophobes - Seriously, it's 2013 get over it :grumble:
    Must not be a player
    Must want to work
    Must be a good guy

    So much more I could add to this if I put some thought into it.
    And surprisingly, I've found the guy for me :heart:
  • FutureMrsWarby
    FutureMrsWarby Posts: 96 Member
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    Lol...reading through these makes me realize a good bit of you are pretty damn shallow. Sad. I mean, bad teeth? Come on people.
  • CherokeeBabe
    CherokeeBabe Posts: 1,704 Member
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    Dishonesty, Cheating, Self-harm (goes for drugs/addictions), Racism/ Excessive Intolerance, Abusive tendencies.
  • gym_king_carlie
    gym_king_carlie Posts: 528 Member
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    Head F***ing, my latest gal did this to me, I usually dont fall for that nonscense but I dont usually fall in love either :(
  • susheetush
    susheetush Posts: 621 Member
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    Dishonesty, Cheating, Self-harm (goes for drugs/addictions), Racism/ Excessive Intolerance, Abusive tendencies.

    I read that twice over, and both times I saw 'abusive tentacles'

    I hope bad eyesight isn't a deal breaker for anyone, I'd be gutted!
  • Jerrypeoples
    Jerrypeoples Posts: 1,541 Member
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    Dishonesty, Cheating, Self-harm (goes for drugs/addictions), Racism/ Excessive Intolerance, Abusive tendencies.

    I read that twice over, and both times I saw 'abusive tentacles'

    I hope bad eyesight isn't a deal breaker for anyone, I'd be gutted!

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  • susheetush
    susheetush Posts: 621 Member
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    Dishonesty, Cheating, Self-harm (goes for drugs/addictions), Racism/ Excessive Intolerance, Abusive tendencies.

    I read that twice over, and both times I saw 'abusive tentacles'

    I hope bad eyesight isn't a deal breaker for anyone, I'd be gutted!

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  • iLoveMyPitbull1225
    iLoveMyPitbull1225 Posts: 1,691 Member
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    1. Lying/cheating/stealing/manipulating/hot-n-cold tendencies. I lump all of these in the same category as they are signs of mental and emotional instability and lacking maturity.
    2. Abusive, mental or physical.
    3. Strip clubs/hookers/prostitutes, whatever you wanna call it, the answer is no. not now, not tomorrow, not for your bachelor party, not for your buddies bachelorette party.
    4. Anti-PDA or just non-affectionate
    5. drug dealers/substance abusers
    6. lacks regard for fitness and health
    7. not following through on plans/things you say your going to do
    8. sissy men. dont waste your time, please. I dont like a pretty, girly man. I need a rough, outdoorsy, alpha male who works with his hands. mmhmmmmm
    9. lack of intelligence or ability to hold a conversation. I need mental stimulation as well as physical.
    10. no sense of humor or fun in life
    11. lack of ambition to do more, see more, be the best you can be in life.

    That's quite a long list. But a girl has to know what she wants :)

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