For those of you that invite others to objectify you:

SweetTeaAndCutoffs

I think it's just for fun....I don't think too much into these silly games. It's really just to pass time while I'm bored. If I was offended by it, I wouldn't be here.

Oh and clearly since you're not offended by it then I'm going to just go ahead and jump to the conclusion that it's because you lack intelligence and self esteem. Obviously you don't know how to make these decisions for yourself because any man/woman that enjoys hearing that somebody may like to "bang" them is some sort of pervert, degenerate or has daddy

jonnythan

The problem with this thread is that a woman who clearly has no interest in being objectified then gets met with calls along the lines of "you need to get laid more" or "I'll take one for the team and bang her" all the while being egged on by a crowd and this seems to be tacitly seen as acceptable behaviour.

It's amazing to see, isn't it?

People who are denying the existence of rape culture or a culture of objectification as a problem are here, en masse, dismissing a woman's idea..... by treating her as a throwaway sex object.

twelfty

rape culture?! wtf man...

myofibril

The problem with this thread is that a woman who clearly has no interest in being objectified then gets met with calls along the lines of "you need to get laid more" or "I'll take one for the team and bang her" all the while being egged on by a crowd and this seems to be tacitly seen as acceptable behaviour.

It's amazing to see, isn't it?

People who are denying the existence of rape culture or a culture of objectification as a problem are here, en masse, dismissing a woman's idea..... by treating her as a throwaway sex object.

It's all just harmless fun...

Apparently.

LassoOfTruth

2) everyone lies on those anyway, so it's not 'training' anyone to objectify anyone.

Hold it! Everyone lies on those posts?!?! Well, there goes my self-esteem. Le sigh. And, here I based my whole day on the fact I was a "bangable 7.5!"

Lolz. :P

drchimpanzee

rape culture?! wtf man...

LOL don't comment on how dumb it sounds. They're going to pounce on you.

twelfty

The problem with this thread is that a woman who clearly has no interest in being objectified then gets met with calls along the lines of "you need to get laid more" or "I'll take one for the team and bang her" all the while being egged on by a crowd and this seems to be tacitly seen as acceptable behaviour.

It's amazing to see, isn't it?

People who are denying the existence of rape culture or a culture of objectification as a problem are here, en masse, dismissing a woman's idea..... by treating her as a throwaway sex object.

you're so inteligent you lack the ability to see humour... sheldon?

diodelcibo

rape culture?! wtf man...

Inb4 the lock 3...2...1

BeinAwesome247

Who says SOME women don't treat men like throw away sex objects?

I like to keep my toys on rotation so I don't get bored personally ....

iAMsmiling

The problem with this thread is that a woman who clearly has no interest in being objectified then gets met with calls along the lines of "you need to get laid more" or "I'll take one for the team and bang her" all the while being egged on by a crowd and this seems to be tacitly seen as acceptable behaviour.

It's amazing to see, isn't it?

People who are denying the existence of rape culture or a culture of objectification as a problem are here, en masse, dismissing a woman's idea..... by treating her as a throwaway sex object.

Can't believe it took this many pages to get to "rape culture."
Knew it was coming.
It's like Hitler. Eventually, someone's going to make the connection.

So there you go boys and girls. Every one of you out there that thought you were just having a little harmless fun with your bang/date/marry silliness...YOU are part of the problem.
Rape Culture.

twelfty

rape culture... yeah it's like these damn murder babies and sodomy states.... you just get em :huh:

FireEngineRedHead

This thread was amusing until rape culture came up and men started making a$$e$ of themselves.

BurtHuttz

Can't believe it took this many pages to get to "rape culture."
Knew it was coming.
It's like Hitler. Eventually, someone's going to make the connection.

So there you go boys and girls. Every one of you out there that thought you were just having a little harmless fun with your bang/date/marry silliness...YOU are part of the problem.
Rape Culture.

Exactly. And then when someone has the bravery to post a scathing diatribe, all these rapists come along and perpetuate rape culture even further by making JOKES about the subject of her sensitivity. Since things like this only happen to women, clearly it's a manifestation of gender inequity, and thus, is what is wrong with the world today.

EatClean_WashUrNuts

Do postings like swallow, spit, or gargle objectify oral hygiene or awesomeness?

jbutterflye

Diplomacy may be wise in moderation. Too much so and it becomes a ploy for approval and people pleasing, at the cost of integrity. Rejection of diplomacy may be wise when the truth calls for it and can find no better means of expression. However such rejection may also be used as justification for unkindness or even downright abuse. The form that speech may take is not nearly as relevant as the intent and motivation behind it. And yet the form will still invite consequences, for better or worse, depending on how it's interpreted. We cannot control the outcome of our words, and to place too much concern on how those words are received is to diminish the power and honesty of our communication. It takes courage to speak the truth in the face of criticism, and even more so to be willing to be shunned and alienated in the process. To the extent we fear being ostracized, we become dishonest, with both ourselves and with others. To be alone is one of the greatest human fears. It is understandable why so many hold back or skew their communication.

drchimpanzee

The problem with this thread is that a woman who clearly has no interest in being objectified then gets met with calls along the lines of "you need to get laid more" or "I'll take one for the team and bang her" all the while being egged on by a crowd and this seems to be tacitly seen as acceptable behaviour.

It's amazing to see, isn't it?

People who are denying the existence of rape culture or a culture of objectification as a problem are here, en masse, dismissing a woman's idea..... by treating her as a throwaway sex object.

Can't believe it took this many pages to get to "rape culture."
Knew it was coming.
It's like Hitler. Eventually, someone's going to make the connection.

So there you go boys and girls. Every one of you out there that thought you were just having a little harmless fun with your bang/date/marry silliness...YOU are part of the problem.
Rape Culture.

To me the phrase dumbs down men and makes the assumption that we behave one way, all the time, under all circumstances no matter what. Judge a woman (who asked to be by the way) in a thread and obviously you must do this all the time right? Obviously as a man you apply this thinking to every single female interaction you have. There's no way you could possibly be a multi-layered individual capable of behaving differently based on the situation you're in.

BurtHuttz

This thread was amusing until rape culture came up and men started making a$$e$ of themselves.

^ sexist comment
LOTS of people, of both genders, are making *kitten* of themselves in this thread.

FireEngineRedHead

This thread was amusing until rape culture came up and men started making a$$e$ of themselves.

^ sexist comment
LOTS of people, of both genders, are making *kitten* of themselves in this thread.

Now I feel bad because you are 3495648354298% correct.

FitnessCharl

Wow....Rape culture???? :noway:

In the words of Peter Jones "I'm out...."

(Because you sucked all the fun out of it anyways, you know who you are)

IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym

I don't take it too seriously. Sometimes its good for an ego boost, but honestly, its not going to make a difference one way or the other with me, because I'm confident enough in my own skin and thoughts that what anyone else says doesn't really phase me.