another fat shaming post

thatsillyshana

(my computer crashed the first time I typed this out, so hopefully it wont this time)

Do you consider progress pics and before and after shots a form of fat shaming? I read a blog post about it on tumblr where the author was a heavy woman who hates the idea that the fat version of someone is not good enough for everybody. Most of the comments that agreed were from heavier people who say we should love ourselves no matter what size we are and that getting thin is a way to keep women weak and helpless (lol at weak and helpless). Another comment stated that she stopped posting progress pics because the best progress is what you cannot see. Do you agree?

Do you think it's a form of fat shaming or do you think it's motivating?
Why do you post or dont post progress pictures?

quirkytizzy

Motivating. Shows me what other people can do, and if they can do it, so can I.

ldrosophila

i agree but I'm angry and bitter

jennaworksout

Its motivation!!! and proud of my accomplishment and hard work.

Seaglass1123

It is motivation for others and myself to never go back there.

dsmpunk

People want to boast when they lose weight and perhaps show others that may be in despair that it IS possible to change.

Some folks are just oversensitive and insecure so they hate.

Siekobilly

I don't think it's fat shaming at all. I actually just posted my progress picture of what I've accomplished so far. People use it for motivation to see what others can accomplish, as well as what they themselves have accomplished. That's like saying posting times from two different runs, where you do better in the second, is a form of jog shaming. It's progress, not an insult.

kagenw

I truly think that it's a great show of the effort and work that the individual has gone to and the accomplishment that they've reached. I say, let them show of their work, they've earned it.

alglenn2013

I love the pics everyone posts!

I don't currently have any progress to show, but the people who have worked so hard, some for years, to attain a body that they are proud of and a story that will hopefully motivate others. I DO NOT think this is fat shaming. I think it is encouraging people to eat healthy and a chance to show off a little. When you have worked so hard at something and achieved so much you want to shout it from the rooftops!

_AllieCat_

I see your point about the fat shaming but progress photos should be more about health than vanity and looks. It's simple: carrying around too much extra fat is unhealthy. In a way, yes that is shameful. Not towards the individual that is overweight, but pertaining to their health extra body fat negative.

UsedToBeHusky

Whether or not it is motivating is dependent upon an individuals goals. We all came her to shed weight, therefore, your responses will pretty much resonate with motivating. However, apparently this lady who made these comments intends to stay big. But rather than her being demotivated, because she really isn't motivated in the first place, it's more likely that it is causing her to feel some measure of guilt for treating her body so badly.

RunHardBeStrong

People want to boast when they lose weight and perhaps show others that may be in despair that it IS possible to change.

Some folks are just oversensitive and insecure so they hate.

This. I have found most haters are reflecting their feelings about themselves onto the person they are jealous of.

kluedesigns

i don't think its either shaming nor motivating.

when people put up progress pics or just a post that states how much they lost i'm genuinely happy and thrilled for them. i don't read into their motivation for losing the weight or whether they have body issues or not. i've known people of every size with body image issues - so size means nothing to me.

as far as myself, i have always believed in my self worth and it never had anything to do with my size or weight. i've been super skinny, healthy weight, and overweight - none of that changed my opinion of myself.

we all, if you live long enough, will age, suffer hardships, and experience health issues - all of these things can cause you to gain weight and exercise less - it doesn't mean your weak, lack motivation, or have no self worth.

synthomarsh

totally motivating, why shouldn't someone be proud of their accomplishment. I don't think anyone wants to get fat we are all here with goals of loosing weight or building muscle I haven't found the group that is trying to add fat. If a heavy person gets offended by someone else changing their body, they need to grow up, and instead of hating on someone else's happiness because they didn't accomplish it for themselves yet. sounds like simple case of jealousy

Pixi_Rex

I do not see how it is fat shaming. It does make me a little sad when I read "here are the before pictures, I am so grossed out, ashamed, disgusted etc. etc. etc. about them so be nice." While I understand how people are not happy with where they come from I do think they need to be nicer to themselves - yes they WERE fat but look at them now you know?

I personally find them very encouraging and I use them myself, no shaming its nice to see the progress that i do not see myself everyday.

silvergurl518

i always feel that before/during or before/after pics are motivating and inspirational. yes, husky mentioned that since we're on a fitness site, we're here to lose weight/get healthy. that usually dictates the nature of the responses one sees on threads relating to weight loss.

JennKie1

I think it's very motivating. I'm guessing that the people who consider it "fat-shaming" are people that secretly are ashamed of how they look and that they've not successfully done anything to change it. I look at my before photos and it reminds me that I need to keep pushing forward because I don't want to be that person anymore. :noway:

I agree that we should love ourselves no matter how we look. However, I decided that I love myself enough to get back to a healthy weight so I can live a better life.

I haven't posted any of my photos simply because I am technologically challenged and can't figure out how to use photo bucket to get them on here........:blushing:

thatsillyshana

O.O this is my first post that didn't die right away!!!
I don't think that they're fat shaming either because I don't see a problem with people wanting change. But if I was overweight and loved it, I would probably hate that society couldn't view me as more than a before picture.

SusanLovesToEat

If one considers that the photos show a person's personal progress toward their individual goal and are not necessarily a depiction of a "non-fat" person (whatever that is) then it is in no way a "shaming" but an affirmation.

Personally, my "thin" weight and "thin" photos are probably someone else's "fat" photos...and visa versa.

tenajh

If I knew how to post photos, I would. It's like this for me: There is a pure and awesome beauty in a transformation and people like to see progress. We are capable of a wide array of feelings and emotions and YES opinions, but most of us appreciate progress and desire to feel content. I feel empowered to see such progress with before and after photos. Self love shouldn't only be about appearance, if it is; then I would say that is a shallow person.

iulia_maddie

I find those inspiring. They are usually proof of hard work and determination.

McButtski

Drivel.

Of course it is better to be healthy as apposed to unhealthy. So, obviously it is better to be a healthy weight as apposed to being over-weight or obese. It's better to be a non-smoker than a smoker. Better to drink moderately than be an alcoholic.

That blog is nonsense and I can live happily in my eye rolling world without ever clicking on it.

saxmaniac

Do you consider progress pics and before and after shots a form of fat shaming?

No.

I read a blog post about it on tumblr where the author was a heavy woman who hates the idea that the fat version of someone is not good enough for everybody. Most of the comments that agreed were from heavier people who say we should love ourselves no matter what size we are and that getting thin is a way to keep women weak and helpless (lol at weak and helpless).

It's true we should love ourselves no matter what size we are. But the idea of losing excess body fat some sort of Dr. Evil mustachioed conspiracy to keep women weak (MUAHAHAHA) is really stupid.

It honestly sounds like some people who'd rather not face up to the fact that there are solid risk factors for being very overweight. I'd never shame an overweight person, I don't even like it when people fat-shame themselves. But when some people reverse it and loudly insist that they're perfectly healthy, and everyone else who gets fit is stupid and making them feel bad, is when I stop listening.

Another comment stated that she stopped posting progress pics because the best progress is what you cannot see. Do you agree?

That's up to her.

For me, even posting a progress pic would mean that my mental state has improved so much, that I could actually post one. So neener-neener to her.

Do you think it's a form of fat shaming or do you think it's motivating?

I find other people's pics very motivating.

Why do you post or dont post progress pictures?

I don't post them, because nobody really cares.

BioMechHeretic

Fat people being angry and bitter they're fat and lazy. That's all there is to it, as harsh as it sounds.

Progress pics are excellent, and anytime somebody loses fat off their body in a healthy and safe manner, it is a definite positive and an improvement, regardless of what someone else who hasn't made a change wants to hear.

There has to be some benchmark everyone agrees upon if we can say what is "better". In the case of physical strength and health and appearance, the benchmark we have and use as a society is fitness and health test numbers. The person who eats right and exercises will perform better in every single one of those fitness tests every single time, and have better health test numbers than the form of themselves that had lots of fat stored on their body and was way overweight, out of shape and did not exercise. Every. Single. Time. Which means that by that benchmark, they are in fact "better".

So no, it isn't fat shaming. They have actually improved themselves and are "better" physically, fitness wise and health wise and they should be proud of that. An overweight person who is lazy and unmotivated and doesn't want to hear it with their hands over their ears crying about it doesn't make the fit person's accomplishments any less great

highmaintnance

Personally, when I congratulate someone on their progress, I'm not saying "wow you were fat and disgusting before and now you're skinny and pretty". I'm really saying "you've worked your *kitten* off to achieve a goal and you are doing it / have done it, excellent job". That's the difference.

bunbunzee44

I just see them as a motivation..
as far as 'loving yourself the way you are', I think it's fine, but I also think people should consider their health too and not just the outside..

Jacwhite22

(my computer crashed the first time I typed this out, so hopefully it wont this time)

Do you consider progress pics and before and after shots a form of fat shaming? I read a blog post about it on tumblr where the author was a heavy woman who hates the idea that the fat version of someone is not good enough for everybody. Most of the comments that agreed were from heavier people who say we should love ourselves no matter what size we are and that getting thin is a way to keep women weak and helpless (lol at weak and helpless). Another comment stated that she stopped posting progress pics because the best progress is what you cannot see. Do you agree?

Do you think it's a form of fat shaming or do you think it's motivating?
Why do you post or dont post progress pictures?

Let me ask this? Is it good enough? Is the "fat version" as you put it ok? If so then why lose weight? Why not just let everyone be/stay fat?

Amy106Days

Aside from being harder to pick up and toss into say..a van I was more weak and helpless at 5'5" 227 then at 105. I wasn't a fit 105 I was hangry and ready to kick off at the slightest thing. At 227 I was more docile and couldn't run to the phone. I love the before and after pics. I like to see peoples faces change, the way they dress change. I like to see people getting healthy it gives me hope. I don't want to be skeletal again or have my neck and face combine into one part. I want to find a happy healthy place somewhere in the middle where I feel good and look good and when I get there just try and stop me from posting pictures!

berejeaa58

not fat shaming as i have a hard time looking at myself and realizing I have lost 151 where as i can look at my before pic at 409lbs to my progress of 258lbs.and actually see it. I really have trouble seeing myself smaller, in my mind's eye i still see myself way heavier but the pictures of the weight loss helps me keep thing in perspective

JenniferMary_9169

It's totally motivation for me. Whenever I see a before & after pic, and the person used to be as heavy as I am now, I see that it CAN be done with hard work and dedication. These are also the peeps that I like to friend so I can follow their posts on threads and gain a lot of valuable information from them. I have never thought of it as fat shaming, I see the pics as like a light at the end of the tunnel.

odusgolp

Wow. People can be offended by anything....