HALP! Heavy Lifting Made Me SUPAH Bulky!!!
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quiksylver296 wrote: »I want to start heavy lifting... what is the best way to go about it, that is not to crazy expensive?
http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10332083/which-lifting-program-is-the-best-for-you/p1
Thank you very much, I hadn't yet asked the question, but got it answered.0 -
I love this thread. I started reading it 3 years ago and then I've just had to catch up on the last 2 years worth of posts, haha! Still fighting my fear of the free weights section at my gym though, I know it's psychological but I can't seem to get past it. I'm hoping that I can at least make a small difference with the machines and hopefully move to the free weights when I'm ready2
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(First day at gym) - (maintenance) - (1 year at gym)
Lifting the whole year. Can't wait for year 2. Really need to take some flexing photos, and some bikini photos...32 -
rontuueyeslikeafox wrote: »I love this thread. I started reading it 3 years ago and then I've just had to catch up on the last 2 years worth of posts, haha! Still fighting my fear of the free weights section at my gym though, I know it's psychological but I can't seem to get past it. I'm hoping that I can at least make a small difference with the machines and hopefully move to the free weights when I'm ready
Aww, Likeafox, I want to tell you to just go for it! You belong in the free weights section as much as anyone else. We all pay a membership!
That being said, I still am intimidated by the squat racks. So now I try to do my leg days first thing in the morning - like at 6:30 am because then I don’t have to elbow my way to it. I use a small university gym (since Sept) so there are lots of superfit sports players... most of the time I am totally ignored, but lately some of these super sports boys actually acknowledge my 44 year old presence. It’s like I passed a test! I don’t lift nearly what they do, but who gives a crap. do what you do. If I can do it you can.5 -
I saw this thread for the first time today, and my eyes rolled around in my head because I thought I’d be reading about girls getting too bulky. Phew! Now that I see the posts, I’m so glad this thread got bumped.
One of these days I will post some pictures, but I’m still trying to get back into it - the last year and a bit has been a doozy: a surgery with two months where I couldn’t really lift, two deaths in my family that made it hard for me to go to the gym without sobbing, I lost a friend around the same time too, got injured, and changed jobs (and gyms!) Trying to lose some grief weight now before I can focus on getting HUGE. 🙄6 -
This thread is so empowering, thank you!
Here's a pic of me when I was lifting a few years back. Sadly I've put on about 40 lbs and totally lost my muscle definition, but I'm working on getting it back! Just got NROLFW but I'm too impatient to read all of the background info before starting, so I'm just muddling along in the weights section for now17 -
Thanks to months of weightlifting and running, I just found out today that I am no longer in the “overweight” BMI category. I’m a huge fan of weightlifting. It’s a lot of fun! I’m going to keep lifting even after I reach target weight.
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Sorry to bump this thread again (although not really because it's super motivating to read/see) but I've started with a personal trainer to help me with my strength goals (and with my fear of the free weights section of the gym) so hopefully one day I can post properly in here, haha6
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rontuueyeslikeafox wrote: »Sorry to bump this thread again (although not really because it's super motivating to read/see) but I've started with a personal trainer to help me with my strength goals (and with my fear of the free weights section of the gym) so hopefully one day I can post properly in here, haha
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I have a question about deadlifts, I'm hoping some of you strong lasses might help. The last few times I have tried deadlifts I have found my grip on the bar isn't strong enough. I was trying to lift 40kg/88 lbs and although my hamstrings, back, shoulders felt fine at this weight, I was only able to do six lifts before I could feel the bar slipping out of my grasp and had to stop. Similar problem with squats in that I can squat 35kg/77 lbs but struggle to clean and press this weight to get the bar onto my shoulders. I have tried a smiths machine but didn't like the angle of travel. Any suggestions? Thanks1
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39flavours wrote: »I have a question about deadlifts, I'm hoping some of you strong lasses might help. The last few times I have tried deadlifts I have found my grip on the bar isn't strong enough. I was trying to lift 40kg/88 lbs and although my hamstrings, back, shoulders felt fine at this weight, I was only able to do six lifts before I could feel the bar slipping out of my grasp and had to stop. Similar problem with squats in that I can squat 35kg/77 lbs but struggle to clean and press this weight to get the bar onto my shoulders. I have tried a smiths machine but didn't like the angle of travel. Any suggestions? Thanks
Yes that is a common problem.
I have the same.
Keep at it and do some separate wrist exercises when you can.
Good luck!1 -
for dead lifts you can use wrist straps (loop over your wrists and then wrap round the bar - helps my rubbish little tendonitis-prone arms a lot!)0
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Pipsqueak1965 wrote: »for dead lifts you can use wrist straps (loop over your wrists and then wrap round the bar - helps my rubbish little tendonitis-prone arms a lot!)
Brilliant thanks, I have just ordered some straps!0 -
39flavours wrote: »I have a question about deadlifts, I'm hoping some of you strong lasses might help. The last few times I have tried deadlifts I have found my grip on the bar isn't strong enough. I was trying to lift 40kg/88 lbs and although my hamstrings, back, shoulders felt fine at this weight, I was only able to do six lifts before I could feel the bar slipping out of my grasp and had to stop. Similar problem with squats in that I can squat 35kg/77 lbs but struggle to clean and press this weight to get the bar onto my shoulders. I have tried a smiths machine but didn't like the angle of travel. Any suggestions? Thanks
Are you holding the bar with a double over hand grip? My grip is much stronger when my right hand is over
hand and my left hand is underhand.
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quiksylver296 wrote: »39flavours wrote: »I have a question about deadlifts, I'm hoping some of you strong lasses might help. The last few times I have tried deadlifts I have found my grip on the bar isn't strong enough. I was trying to lift 40kg/88 lbs and although my hamstrings, back, shoulders felt fine at this weight, I was only able to do six lifts before I could feel the bar slipping out of my grasp and had to stop. Similar problem with squats in that I can squat 35kg/77 lbs but struggle to clean and press this weight to get the bar onto my shoulders. I have tried a smiths machine but didn't like the angle of travel. Any suggestions? Thanks
Are you holding the bar with a double over hand grip? My grip is much stronger when my right hand is over
hand and my left hand is underhand.
This is how I deadlift(highest for me is only 250lbs but working on it). I don’t like straps as they just make the bar more bulky and harder to hang onto. You may or may not have the same issue but I could not get used to it. I felt the same about gloves. I prefer to alter my grip, am getting used to hook grip as well, and do things like farmer carry’s for distance to help with my grip on alternate days.
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quiksylver296 wrote: »39flavours wrote: »I have a question about deadlifts, I'm hoping some of you strong lasses might help. The last few times I have tried deadlifts I have found my grip on the bar isn't strong enough. I was trying to lift 40kg/88 lbs and although my hamstrings, back, shoulders felt fine at this weight, I was only able to do six lifts before I could feel the bar slipping out of my grasp and had to stop. Similar problem with squats in that I can squat 35kg/77 lbs but struggle to clean and press this weight to get the bar onto my shoulders. I have tried a smiths machine but didn't like the angle of travel. Any suggestions? Thanks
Are you holding the bar with a double over hand grip? My grip is much stronger when my right hand is over
hand and my left hand is underhand.
Thanks, I've seen this grip on a few sites but they always seem to say that it's a bad grip due to uneven strain put on the shoulders by the over/under placement of the hands. But if you find it effective then that's a good endorsement as from what I gather you're quite experienced with free weight exercises, so I'll give it a go!
I also saw the hook grip described (where the thumbs press against the underside of the fingers?) but it was said to be only effective with larger (man's) hands.1 -
youngmomtaz wrote: »quiksylver296 wrote: »39flavours wrote: »I have a question about deadlifts, I'm hoping some of you strong lasses might help. The last few times I have tried deadlifts I have found my grip on the bar isn't strong enough. I was trying to lift 40kg/88 lbs and although my hamstrings, back, shoulders felt fine at this weight, I was only able to do six lifts before I could feel the bar slipping out of my grasp and had to stop. Similar problem with squats in that I can squat 35kg/77 lbs but struggle to clean and press this weight to get the bar onto my shoulders. I have tried a smiths machine but didn't like the angle of travel. Any suggestions? Thanks
Are you holding the bar with a double over hand grip? My grip is much stronger when my right hand is over
hand and my left hand is underhand.
This is how I deadlift(highest for me is only 250lbs but working on it). I don’t like straps as they just make the bar more bulky and harder to hang onto. You may or may not have the same issue but I could not get used to it. I felt the same about gloves. I prefer to alter my grip, am getting used to hook grip as well, and do things like farmer carry’s for distance to help with my grip on alternate days.
Bloody ek! 250 pounds! That's massive! I've got some working to do!0 -
39flavours wrote: »quiksylver296 wrote: »39flavours wrote: »I have a question about deadlifts, I'm hoping some of you strong lasses might help. The last few times I have tried deadlifts I have found my grip on the bar isn't strong enough. I was trying to lift 40kg/88 lbs and although my hamstrings, back, shoulders felt fine at this weight, I was only able to do six lifts before I could feel the bar slipping out of my grasp and had to stop. Similar problem with squats in that I can squat 35kg/77 lbs but struggle to clean and press this weight to get the bar onto my shoulders. I have tried a smiths machine but didn't like the angle of travel. Any suggestions? Thanks
Are you holding the bar with a double over hand grip? My grip is much stronger when my right hand is over
hand and my left hand is underhand.
Thanks, I've seen this grip on a few sites but they always seem to say that it's a bad grip due to uneven strain put on the shoulders by the over/under placement of the hands. But if you find it effective then that's a good endorsement as from what I gather you're quite experienced with free weight exercises, so I'll give it a go!
I also saw the hook grip described (where the thumbs press against the underside of the fingers?) but it was said to be only effective with larger (man's) hands.
I can (moderately comfortably) hook grip about 1.5x my bodyweight right now. I use alternating grip for weights heavier than that, switching hands each set. I do things like one arm dead hangs and farmers carries to build grip strength.3 -
mom23mangos wrote: »39flavours wrote: »quiksylver296 wrote: »39flavours wrote: »I have a question about deadlifts, I'm hoping some of you strong lasses might help. The last few times I have tried deadlifts I have found my grip on the bar isn't strong enough. I was trying to lift 40kg/88 lbs and although my hamstrings, back, shoulders felt fine at this weight, I was only able to do six lifts before I could feel the bar slipping out of my grasp and had to stop. Similar problem with squats in that I can squat 35kg/77 lbs but struggle to clean and press this weight to get the bar onto my shoulders. I have tried a smiths machine but didn't like the angle of travel. Any suggestions? Thanks
Are you holding the bar with a double over hand grip? My grip is much stronger when my right hand is over
hand and my left hand is underhand.
Thanks, I've seen this grip on a few sites but they always seem to say that it's a bad grip due to uneven strain put on the shoulders by the over/under placement of the hands. But if you find it effective then that's a good endorsement as from what I gather you're quite experienced with free weight exercises, so I'll give it a go!
I also saw the hook grip described (where the thumbs press against the underside of the fingers?) but it was said to be only effective with larger (man's) hands.
I can (moderately comfortably) hook grip about 1.5x my bodyweight right now. I use alternating grip for weights heavier than that, switching hands each set. I do things like one arm dead hangs and farmers carries to build grip strength.
Good idea to switch hands each set, I'll try that. I saw someone doing farmer's carrys at the gym yesterday. I thought it looked good for obliques, didn't think of how it could help with grip too, thank you!0 -
39flavours wrote: »I have a question about deadlifts, I'm hoping some of you strong lasses might help. The last few times I have tried deadlifts I have found my grip on the bar isn't strong enough. I was trying to lift 40kg/88 lbs and although my hamstrings, back, shoulders felt fine at this weight, I was only able to do six lifts before I could feel the bar slipping out of my grasp and had to stop. Similar problem with squats in that I can squat 35kg/77 lbs but struggle to clean and press this weight to get the bar onto my shoulders. I have tried a smiths machine but didn't like the angle of travel. Any suggestions? Thanks
I second (or third) mixed/alternating grip.
Use double overhand as much as you can. Warm ups, lighter sets, and as many of your working sets as you can. What is happening is that the bar is rolling out of your hands. Using a mixed grip will stop the roll because as it rolls out of one hand it rolls more into the other hand.
I had to switched at 135/140, but I continue to use double overhand for all warm ups and any lighter sets. I can now do double overhand up to about 160. Doing other things that use your grip will help as well, farmer's carries and what not. I also alternate the hands, so they both get the even strain.
Your grip is often the limiting factor on deadlifts, especially for women. The posterior chain can handle much more.
Do you have access to a squat rack or the ability to purchase one? It will be hard to continue to progress on squats without a rack. I figure if you have access to a Smith machine, you probably could access a rack, but I may be wrong.
I've never tried straps, but I figured I could go with my grip (using mixed grip when needed) as long as possible.
I wear gloves, little bitty ones that just cover the base of my fingers and the very top of my palms. Keeps my skin from ripping on deadlift day. I've tried chalk and I just prefer the gloves for now, but I may try chalk again in the future.0 -
I hope it's OK to bump this (again)! Getting much more into lifting and this thread is amazing, there are some incredible transformations and it's super inspirational1
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I had a boyfriend tell me I was getting ‘man arms’ and should do yoga.
I headed straight to the gym and used it for fuel.
Years later, I still do.
I dropped a kitten-ton of bulk when I unloaded his sorry kitten.
I’m currently a bit shrunken, dealing with dualing crappy injuries and surgeries.
Finally posting here to remind myself that I’ll be back. I’ll be dominating gravity. I’ll be feeling strong as all get-out. I’ll have my fun veins back. (No, not everyone gets them or likes them. I do and I do.)
Meantime, I’m doing yoga. Not for sleek arms, for mobility and flexibility. So I can return from injury and pick up the heavy stuff that makes my heart sing.46 -
purplefizzy wrote: »
I had a boyfriend tell me I was getting ‘man arms’ and should do yoga.
I headed straight to the gym and used it for fuel.
Years later, I still do.
I dropped a kitten-ton of bulk when I unloaded his sorry kitten.
I’m currently a bit shrunken, dealing with dualing crappy injuries and surgeries.
Finally posting here to remind myself that I’ll be back. I’ll be dominating gravity. I’ll be feeling strong as all get-out. I’ll have my fun veins back. (No, not everyone gets them or likes them. I do and I do.)
Meantime, I’m doing yoga. Not for sleek arms, for mobility and flexibility. So I can return from injury and pick up the heavy stuff that makes my heart sing.
Daaaaang!!! I want those arms!!! 🙌2 -
mom23mangos wrote: »purplefizzy wrote: »
I had a boyfriend tell me I was getting ‘man arms’ and should do yoga.
I headed straight to the gym and used it for fuel.
Years later, I still do.
I dropped a kitten-ton of bulk when I unloaded his sorry kitten.
I’m currently a bit shrunken, dealing with dualing crappy injuries and surgeries.
Finally posting here to remind myself that I’ll be back. I’ll be dominating gravity. I’ll be feeling strong as all get-out. I’ll have my fun veins back. (No, not everyone gets them or likes them. I do and I do.)
Meantime, I’m doing yoga. Not for sleek arms, for mobility and flexibility. So I can return from injury and pick up the heavy stuff that makes my heart sing.
Daaaaang!!! I want those arms!!! 🙌
Trade you for those gorgeous quads of yours2 -
I wish I had those arms!!! Beautiful!!!!purplefizzy wrote: »
I had a boyfriend tell me I was getting ‘man arms’ and should do yoga.
I headed straight to the gym and used it for fuel.
Years later, I still do.
I dropped a kitten-ton of bulk when I unloaded his sorry kitten.
I’m currently a bit shrunken, dealing with dualing crappy injuries and surgeries.
Finally posting here to remind myself that I’ll be back. I’ll be dominating gravity. I’ll be feeling strong as all get-out. I’ll have my fun veins back. (No, not everyone gets them or likes them. I do and I do.)
Meantime, I’m doing yoga. Not for sleek arms, for mobility and flexibility. So I can return from injury and pick up the heavy stuff that makes my heart sing.
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Laviegurl25 wrote: »I wish I had those arms!!! Beautiful!!!!
Yeah that's basically my goal as well, I'd love to be that strong!
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Sorry it's blurry
And for comparison, this was February and May of last year. The February picture was the trigger that got me started losing weight and getting healthy. The May picture was my goal swimsuit for last summer, I was super proud of that suit. By the end of the summer, it was too large to wear.
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This thread is so inspiring!
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ExistingFish wrote: »
Sorry it's blurry
And for comparison, this was February and May of last year. The February picture was the trigger that got me started losing weight and getting healthy. The May picture was my goal swimsuit for last summer, I was super proud of that suit. By the end of the summer, it was too large to wear.
Looking so good! Keep it up6
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