Is it your responsibility to stay in shape for your S/O...

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  • ernielaurie
    ernielaurie Posts: 80
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    It is your responsibility to stay in shape for yourself.

    YES!
  • wineplease
    wineplease Posts: 469 Member
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    If you were hot and in shape when you got married, then that's the person they were attracted to

    Shallow people only marry a person based on looks.
  • facilitators1334
    facilitators1334 Posts: 48
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    I stay in shape for my boyfriend.
    I don't care what my husband thinks.

    Hahahaha
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
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    The better I look, the better I am in bed..

    Im just sayin..
    ditto ^^

    so that's really a function of confidence no? Not necessarily the weight itself. And also more your issue than your SO's, no?

    for me it's a function of the legs and back disc in P90X. :tongue:

    oh, i see....left hip, right hip, put your back into it, uuuuuuuh!
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
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    If you were hot and in shape when you got married, then that's the person they were attracted to

    Shallow people only marry a person based on looks.

    So you believe that looks should have no bearing on choosing their potential mate?
  • chantelp89
    chantelp89 Posts: 590 Member
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    The better I look, the better I am in bed..

    Im just sayin..

    AGREE 100%...if I feel good and think I look good then I'm fantastic (at least in my head..haha).

    Yes yes yes
  • peachfigs
    peachfigs Posts: 831 Member
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    I stay in shape for my boyfriend.
    I don't care what my husband thinks.

    Gurl you sassy

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  • galenofedgewood
    galenofedgewood Posts: 146 Member
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    I'm not sure if it is a "responsibility" as much as it just makes sense. If you are wanting your SO to "accept you for who you are" but are unwilling to accept that they prefer the more "fit" yourself? That's screwed up and a completely unbalanced relationship, IMO.
  • melindasuefritz
    melindasuefritz Posts: 3,509 Member
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    they s hould accept u as u are. skinny or fat ...........
    but they met u fat or whatevr they knew what they was getting
  • Beezil
    Beezil Posts: 1,677 Member
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    I guess it depends on what's important to each person. You should, imo, at least have a responsibility to stay HEALTHY for them, so that you can be around as long as possible. :)

    Me personally, I think some effort is important. Beauty fades over time, they say, but it doesn't mean we have to stop putting effort into how we look.
  • MizzDoc
    MizzDoc Posts: 493 Member
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    It is your responsibility to stay in shape for yourself.

    ^^^^^ THIS.

    100% agree.
  • turboturtlepower
    turboturtlepower Posts: 79
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    You should *want* to stay in shape for your husband. I know I do.
  • eringrace10
    eringrace10 Posts: 135 Member
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    Stay in shape for you and you alone, attractiveness fades if that's all relationship is built on. The twilight years will be horrible at best .
  • jasmineconley
    jasmineconley Posts: 438 Member
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    So men don't really dig the sweatpants, wife beater, ponytail, and no makeup combo?
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
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    So men don't really dig the sweatpants, wife beater, ponytail, and no makeup combo?

    As long as you have a great butt, I could care less.
  • PaleoChocolateBear
    PaleoChocolateBear Posts: 2,844 Member
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    So men don't really dig the sweatpants, wife beater, ponytail, and no makeup combo?

    I don't mind if we're going to a Kid Rock concert
  • AlongCame_Molly
    AlongCame_Molly Posts: 2,835 Member
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    Who else's responsibility would it be? :huh:
  • jasmineconley
    jasmineconley Posts: 438 Member
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    So men don't really dig the sweatpants, wife beater, ponytail, and no makeup combo?

    As long as you have a great butt, I could care less.

    I've heard it's pretty amazing
  • jasmineconley
    jasmineconley Posts: 438 Member
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    So men don't really dig the sweatpants, wife beater, ponytail, and no makeup combo?

    I don't mind if we're going to a Kid Rock concert


    Bahaha I said ponytail not greasy hair!
  • xLexa
    xLexa Posts: 482 Member
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    It is your responsibility to stay in shape for yourself.

    This is exactly what I was going to say!

    However I think in a relationship we have a responsibility to be honest with each other as well as to ourselves. My husband always said he was attracted to me no matter what size I am, and he still says it. If I could turn back time I would ask him to tell me, I love you as you are, but the dryer really is not shrinking your clothes...

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