Embarrassed to go jogging because of pervs.
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I don't mean this to sound pervy, but it always baffles me when women talk about a time when they're "completely NOT attractive" as if this is a thing that exists.exactly what I reserve my middle finger for...
but in all seriousness I just find it funny that they're whistling etc when I'm hot and sweaty and completely NOT attractive :P
This. I personally think I'm at my hottest in my little running shorts, high ponytail, flushed cheeks and panting. 0 -
It's British slang, dude.
g'day to you too, friend!
It's "MATE". Get it right.0 -
Put some headphones on.
If you spend you life worrying about what other people are doing and thinking, you will have just wasted a good life.0 -
It's British slang, dude.
g'day to you too, friend!
It's "MATE". Get it right.
Whoa there! No one is asking to mate. Now you're the one being creepy. Slow down and get to know the guy first.
I run at 5:30 am and it's pretty rare for me to see much of anyone.0 -
awwwww too pretty to run.
and what are you scared of? people taking a piss?
... taking THE piss.
It's creepy guys that are the problem....
if that doesnt mean expelling urine from your body, then i have no idea what it does mean.
'Taking the piss'...How do you not know what that means?! I mean, okay it's not an American phrase but do you live in a cave with your fingers in your ears and your eyes closed or do you just pretend the rest of the world doesn't exist. Pfft!
its not considered a cave, per se, but it is dark...and damp.
oh i know the rest of the world exists, i guess i was busy practicing my spanish for the future instead of british slang. seems i wasnt au fait with that term. my apologies.0 -
I've been running outside several times a week for nearly a decade - I've never minded the occasional catcall. I just figure they like my legs - as they should. Is it really that big of a deal?
Last weekend my friend and I ran past a man pushing 80 ... he told us we were looking good and that the only reason he keeps running (shuffling) is that he likes to watch the pretty girls goes by. See? We're helping to keep him alive.0 -
It's British slang, dude.
g'day to you too, friend!
It's "MATE". Get it right.
Whoa there! No one is asking to mate. Now you're the one being creepy. Slow down and get to know the guy first.
I run at 5:30 am and it's pretty rare for me to see much of anyone.
srsly, i hardly know ye!0 -
When I ran outside, I found a park that was mostly mothers and the elderly. Every other runner was too interested in their own workout to bother with me. Find someplace comfortable, stick in your headphones, and zone out for your run.
I'm not sure that choosing to be totally oblivious to one's surroundings is the way to go. lol
Don't live in fear, it sucks. Run, but be aware and be prepared.0 -
I don't mean this to sound pervy, but it always baffles me when women talk about a time when they're "completely NOT attractive" as if this is a thing that exists.exactly what I reserve my middle finger for... but in all seriousness I just find it funny that they're whistling etc when I'm hot and sweaty and completely NOT attractive :P
Such a thing most certainly exists. I have race photos to prove it.
OP-it's far safer to run in busy, heavily trafficked areas.0 -
It's British slang, dude.
g'day to you too, friend!
It's "MATE". Get it right.
Whoa there! No one is asking to mate. Now you're the one being creepy. Slow down and get to know the guy first.
I run at 5:30 am and it's pretty rare for me to see much of anyone.
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IF and WHEN (notice the big if and when) I get any "attention" I take it as a compliment. I used to run in my neighborhood and the sidewalk near a busy street but I've been going to trails lately.
Also...I ALWAYS make sure I'm aware of my surroundings. That makes me feel more in control.0 -
Find a trail/path with no cars or maybe a school track that you can use
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awwwww too pretty to run.
and what are you scared of? people taking a piss?
... taking THE piss.
It's creepy guys that are the problem....
if that doesnt mean expelling urine from your body, then i have no idea what it does mean.
'Taking the piss'...How do you not know what that means?! I mean, okay it's not an American phrase but do you live in a cave with your fingers in your ears and your eyes closed or do you just pretend the rest of the world doesn't exist. Pfft!
its not considered a cave, per se, but it is dark...and damp.
oh i know the rest of the world exists, i guess i was busy practicing my spanish for the future instead of british slang. seems i wasnt au fait with that term. my apologies.
Your Mum's basement, entiendo!0 -
Dont be embarrased. I walk A LOT and I get the same thing. I put my music on, put my sunglasses on and mostly ignore it, but i do see it as a compliment. Of course men are going to look at me, I'm freaking hot!! lol!!0
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I used to feel the same way when running along a busy street.. I had no other option unless I wanted to drive somewhere to run, and I felt safer along a busy road than a trail with no people at all. Wear earbuds, turn up the music, and screw everyone else! Before you know it, you'll wonder why you ever felt embarrassed in the first place.0
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It's British slang, dude.
g'day to you too, friend!
It's "MATE". Get it right.
Whoa there! No one is asking to mate. Now you're the one being creepy. Slow down and get to know the guy first.
I run at 5:30 am and it's pretty rare for me to see much of anyone.
srsly, i hardly know ye!
We can fix that...
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I used to feel the same way when running along a busy street.. I had no other option unless I wanted to drive somewhere to run, and I felt safer along a busy road than a trail with no people at all. Wear earbuds, turn up the music, and screw everyone else! Before you know it, you'll wonder why you ever felt embarrassed in the first place.
Thank you! I'm just gunna go for it.... screw it. I'll turn my music up and it should be fine. 0 -
I've been laughed at while I'm running. I just smile and wave. It's not going to make me quit.0
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'Taking the piss'...How do you not know what that means?! I mean, okay it's not an American phrase
You just answered your own question. I'm sure many people have never heard of this phrase before (I hadn't until this thread). And I doubt most people in the threads jump straight to a person's profile to figure out what nationality they are. So its a perfectly logical remark to state that one does not know certain slang phrases at a given moment.
To the OP: I agree, take it as a compliment. You're one sexy mo-fo! Honestly its your health, you shouldn't let other outside influences so wholly unrelated to yourself hinder your weightloss journey!0 -
Oh and I crank up my music and sing (not loud but ya know) while running. I'm sure I look nuts so no one is going to mess with me!0
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Blasting your music in your buds while running on a street isn't safe, I always run with one out that way you can hear cars coming up behind you or that super creepy perv that might be following you.... I personally take it as a compliment but then again I'm an old lady so I take what I can get.0
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bring your mp3 player cant hear anyone & I look forward so I mean business I could not see someone waving because I am focused 0
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you crazy brits.
this is 'murica!
Haha, it's the internet not 'murica you silly 'murican!
OP Earbuds and pepperspray. Works like a charm 0 -
'Taking the piss'...How do you not know what that means?! I mean, okay it's not an American phrase
You just answered your own question. I'm sure many people have never heard of this phrase before (I hadn't until this thread). And I doubt most people in the threads jump straight to a person's profile to figure out what nationality they are. So its a perfectly logical remark to state that one does not know certain slang phrases at a given moment.
To the OP: I agree, take it as a compliment. You're one sexy mo-fo! Honestly its your health, you shouldn't let other outside influences so wholly unrelated to yourself hinder your weightloss journey!
I'm not American or British and I know it. And I'm not American and I still know American phrases. You need to travel more.0 -
'Taking the piss'...How do you not know what that means?! I mean, okay it's not an American phrase
You just answered your own question. I'm sure many people have never heard of this phrase before (I hadn't until this thread). And I doubt most people in the threads jump straight to a person's profile to figure out what nationality they are. So its a perfectly logical remark to state that one does not know certain slang phrases at a given moment.
To the OP: I agree, take it as a compliment. You're one sexy mo-fo! Honestly its your health, you shouldn't let other outside influences so wholly unrelated to yourself hinder your weightloss journey!
omg or telling people "no worries" (its like no problem) some reply back with a serious "I wasn't worried"???? lol0 -
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Ignore it and continue with your run. I'd understand your concern if people were jumping out of their cars and groping you, but a few whistles or a "yo, shawty, lemme get yo numba!" really isn't going to harm you in any way. Get some earbuds and relax a little bit.0
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I hate hate hate running in the city - BUT - have taken to it for practical reasons. While I don't get cat calls etc - I was embarrassed/shy among all the 'runners' that flank my park laden part of town - I found that wearing a ball cap and sunglasses makes me feel invisible to others and it has helped me get out there (i know its like a child covering their eyes and thinking no one can see them, but whatever works right)
- while I like wearing ear buds, I hate not being able to hear who is coming up behind me0 -
Have you considered ear buds?
This. With music coming out of them.
Um, yeah so you can't hear the guy with the rope and duct tape following you in the beat-up old van with darkened windows?! Not smart. Be alert at all times. So many people get hit by cars, bikes and mugged because they have ear buds and music playing - and can't hear or sense what is going on around them.
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Same thing happens here...even just walking with my kids all the maintenance truck guys will physically SLOW DOWN their vehicles...No shame...It's like, WTF?! Do I have to wear a trash bag and make myself up like a sea hag to enjoy some peace on my damn street?
They do it to anything with a vagina...so no, I am not trying to brag here.0
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