'No, I don't date BIG girls'

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  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    I have rarely been attracted to a woman based solely on her looks. I don't want to date carnival side show fat lady, but I'm a lot more interested in a woman that is comfortable with her own appearance. That is sexy. And, by the way, it is rarer than one would think.

    There are a lot of people that project a confident air without feeling it. That's unfortunate.

    I want a self suffiient, confident person. One that doesn't need me to bolster her, but wants me by her side.

    Already found her 25 years ago. She can operate just fine without me in her life, but chose me to be with her. I am sure I could live my life without her, as well, but I couldn't imagine doing so.




    Ya, that's why the date, marry, etc threads ARE TRULY BAFFLING!

    I only think "what you people have never dated or married someone crazy?!"

    If Kate Upton wanted to date me, but liked to argue over senseless nonsense I would have nothing to do with her.
  • Bankman1989
    Bankman1989 Posts: 1,116 Member
    You wouldnt want to date an A-hole anyway so dont even trip! Everyone has their preferences. Im black and even though I may SOUND caucasian im 100% brotha and some women wont touch me with a 10 foot pole..but thats their loss not mine! You look great and keep striving toward your goal! When youre skinny and he asks you out just tell him you are prejudice against pompous jerks who treat women badly!!! :-)
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member

    :huh: :huh: Um...what the hell is a "carnival side show fat lady"???? Frankly your comment doesn't sound all that different than the OP's comment about the other dudes way of putting it.

    Is 20 lbs. a carnival side show fat lady? Is is 50 lbs.? smh...:noway: :frown:

    That was a joke. Pick a fight with someone else.
  • nikilis
    nikilis Posts: 2,305 Member
    YOU KNOW WHAT I AM NOT!?!?!

    THIS:

    9996ocean_shell.jpg

    THATS RIGHT, A SHELL!
  • eric_sg61
    eric_sg61 Posts: 2,925 Member
    I have rarely been attracted to a woman based solely on her looks. I don't want to date carnival side show fat lady, but I'm a lot more interested in a woman that is comfortable with her own appearance. That is sexy. And, by the way, it is rarer than one would think.

    There are a lot of people that project a confident air without feeling it. That's unfortunate.

    I want a self suffiient, confident person. One that doesn't need me to bolster her, but wants me by her side.

    Already found her 25 years ago. She can operate just fine without me in her life, but chose me to be with her. I am sure I could live my life without her, as well, but I couldn't imagine doing so.




    Ya, that's why the date, marry, etc threads ARE TRULY BAFFLING!

    I only think "what you people have never dated or married someone crazy?!"

    If Kate Upton wanted to date me, but liked to argue over senseless nonsense I would have nothing to do with her.
    I could think of something to do with her. Dated plenty of crazy girls and they are very good at one thing ;)
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    I have rarely been attracted to a woman based solely on her looks. I don't want to date carnival side show fat lady, but I'm a lot more interested in a woman that is comfortable with her own appearance. That is sexy. And, by the way, it is rarer than one would think.

    There are a lot of people that project a confident air without feeling it. That's unfortunate.

    I want a self suffiient, confident person. One that doesn't need me to bolster her, but wants me by her side.

    Already found her 25 years ago. She can operate just fine without me in her life, but chose me to be with her. I am sure I could live my life without her, as well, but I couldn't imagine doing so.




    Ya, that's why the date, marry, etc threads ARE TRULY BAFFLING!

    I only think "what you people have never dated or married someone crazy?!"

    If Kate Upton wanted to date me, but liked to argue over senseless nonsense I would have nothing to do with her.
    I could think of something to do with her. Dated plenty of crazy girls and they are very good at one thing ;)



    FACT
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    I have rarely been attracted to a woman based solely on her looks. I don't want to date carnival side show fat lady, but I'm a lot more interested in a woman that is comfortable with her own appearance. That is sexy. And, by the way, it is rarer than one would think.

    There are a lot of people that project a confident air without feeling it. That's unfortunate.

    I want a self suffiient, confident person. One that doesn't need me to bolster her, but wants me by her side.

    Already found her 25 years ago. She can operate just fine without me in her life, but chose me to be with her. I am sure I could live my life without her, as well, but I couldn't imagine doing so.




    Ya, that's why the date, marry, etc threads ARE TRULY BAFFLING!

    I only think "what you people have never dated or married someone crazy?!"

    If Kate Upton wanted to date me, but liked to argue over senseless nonsense I would have nothing to do with her.
    I could think of something to do with her. Dated plenty of crazy girls and they are very good at one thing ;)

    *signed*

    Crazy girls are awesome. I do love me some crazies!
  • 1223345
    1223345 Posts: 1,386 Member
    People have their preferences. It is what it is. Some people don't date brunettes, or smokers, drinkers, short people, religious people, black people, white people, Asian people, skinny people, lazy people, smart people,bald people, dumb people and so forth and so on. I do not care if someone is not attracted to "big" people.
  • nikilis
    nikilis Posts: 2,305 Member
    I have rarely been attracted to a woman based solely on her looks. I don't want to date carnival side show fat lady, but I'm a lot more interested in a woman that is comfortable with her own appearance. That is sexy. And, by the way, it is rarer than one would think.

    There are a lot of people that project a confident air without feeling it. That's unfortunate.

    I want a self suffiient, confident person. One that doesn't need me to bolster her, but wants me by her side.

    Already found her 25 years ago. She can operate just fine without me in her life, but chose me to be with her. I am sure I could live my life without her, as well, but I couldn't imagine doing so.




    Ya, that's why the date, marry, etc threads ARE TRULY BAFFLING!

    I only think "what you people have never dated or married someone crazy?!"

    If Kate Upton wanted to date me, but liked to argue over senseless nonsense I would have nothing to do with her.
    I could think of something to do with her. Dated plenty of crazy girls and they are very good at one thing ;)

    *signed*

    Crazy girls are awesome. I do love me some crazies!

    they're also very good at changing your Facebook status to engaged and hitting you with their bag in public crying, shouting "ME OR YOUR FRIENDS, YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE"

    I guess I didn't abort quick enough.

    Edit: I forgot threatening to GBH from their chinese mafia family if you don't treat her good.

    winner. such a winner.
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    I have rarely been attracted to a woman based solely on her looks. I don't want to date carnival side show fat lady, but I'm a lot more interested in a woman that is comfortable with her own appearance. That is sexy. And, by the way, it is rarer than one would think.

    There are a lot of people that project a confident air without feeling it. That's unfortunate.

    I want a self suffiient, confident person. One that doesn't need me to bolster her, but wants me by her side.

    Already found her 25 years ago. She can operate just fine without me in her life, but chose me to be with her. I am sure I could live my life without her, as well, but I couldn't imagine doing so.




    Ya, that's why the date, marry, etc threads ARE TRULY BAFFLING!

    I only think "what you people have never dated or married someone crazy?!"

    If Kate Upton wanted to date me, but liked to argue over senseless nonsense I would have nothing to do with her.
    I could think of something to do with her. Dated plenty of crazy girls and they are very good at one thing ;)

    *signed*

    Crazy girls are awesome. I do love me some crazies!

    they're also very good at changing your Facebook status to engaged and hitting you with their bag in public crying, shouting "ME OR YOUR FRIENDS, YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE"

    I guess I didn't abort quick enough.




    LOL....YA that's what I mean.

    I'm good. I guess I'm just over all of the crazy.
  • Nutella91
    Nutella91 Posts: 624 Member
    i don't date big boys. unless they're rich.

    How YOU doin'?

    sup

    Nothing. Just sitting around being rich. You?

    just sittin around looking for a sugadaddy.

    people probably think i'm joking..
  • MudRunLvr
    MudRunLvr Posts: 226 Member
    I could think of something to do with her. Dated plenty of crazy girls and they are very good at one thing ;)

    *signed*

    Crazy girls are awesome. I do love me some crazies!

    they're also very good at changing your Facebook status to engaged and hitting you with their bag in public crying, shouting "ME OR YOUR FRIENDS, YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE"

    I guess I didn't abort quick enough.

    Edit: I forgot threatening to GBH from their chinese mafia family if you don't treat her good.

    winner. such a winner.

    Pfft. Amateur hour.

    Talk to me when you wanna hear about REAL crazy.

    I miss her sometimes. But the cops never come by anymore and the dog has stopped twitching.
  • nikilis
    nikilis Posts: 2,305 Member
    I could think of something to do with her. Dated plenty of crazy girls and they are very good at one thing ;)

    *signed*

    Crazy girls are awesome. I do love me some crazies!

    they're also very good at changing your Facebook status to engaged and hitting you with their bag in public crying, shouting "ME OR YOUR FRIENDS, YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE"

    I guess I didn't abort quick enough.

    Edit: I forgot threatening to GBH from their chinese mafia family if you don't treat her good.

    winner. such a winner.

    Pfft. Amateur hour.

    Talk to me when you wanna hear about REAL crazy.

    I miss her sometimes. But the cops never come by anymore and the dog has stopped twitching.

    yeh, thats level one, slightly above normal crazy. your talking about bat**** crazy.
  • ratherbeskiing
    ratherbeskiing Posts: 847 Member
    I don't date *kitten*.
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    So it IS true.

    There is always a "one-upper" in every group. LOL:laugh:
  • thesupremeforce
    thesupremeforce Posts: 1,206 Member
    I'm not shallow, nor am I a massive ****head, so I'm safe from this particular issue.
  • skinnyinnotime
    skinnyinnotime Posts: 4,078 Member
    Well I haven't and wouldn't date a big guy, just not my taste in anyway whatsoever. But that's where it ends, I can't help whom I'm attracted to.
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    sucks, but there is someone for everyone and that person isn't your one or one for big girls.
  • nikilis
    nikilis Posts: 2,305 Member
    Well I haven't and wouldn't date a big guy, just not my taste in anyway whatsoever. But that's where it ends, I can't help whom I'm attracted to.

    I'm sexually attracted to fire, like you I cant help it.

    also I AM NOT A SHELL!
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    sucks, but there is someone for everyone and that person isn't your one.




    Not true.
  • tbodega
    tbodega Posts: 186
    Everyone has their preference.

    For example I've had many female friends who are very short (like 5 feet) who will only want to date guys who are over 6 feet tall.

    Many people that I know only date within their race/culture.

    Some like darker skin tones, other like light...

    Etc.

    At least weight is something that one has some control over. =-)
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    Everyone has their preference.

    For example I've had many female friends who are very short (like 5 feet) who will only want to date guys who are over 6 feet tall.

    Many people that I know only date within their race/culture.

    Etc.



    Ya it's just reality.
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
    I only date cartoons.
  • Jennisin1
    Jennisin1 Posts: 574 Member
    I'll move right along if someone says "I don't date fat/big/chubby women" in a dating profile.... but if they say something along the lines of...

    If you don't participate in an active lifestyle and eat mostly healthy, it is just not going to work. I might just fall in lust a little. It's just classy.
  • tbodega
    tbodega Posts: 186
    Everyone has their preference.

    For example I've had many female friends who are very short (like 5 feet) who will only want to date guys who are over 6 feet tall.

    Many people that I know only date within their race/culture.

    Etc.



    Ya it's just reality.

    Exactly. I will share that one time I dated an obese girl who was a lot of fun. She moved away, worked out and lost ALL the excess weight...and when I saw her again a few years later...she was (and still is) smoking hot. Very Alicia Keys looking. lol

    Still friends with her to this day. I'm always impressed when I think of all the hard work she put in to get to where she is.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    This is my take on the matter.

    Everyone has a right to be attracted to whatever they are attracted to. Anyone who can make a physical feature a deal-breaker on the other hand, is not someone that I could be attracted to. Not because I don't meet their requirements physically, but because mental and emotional stimulation is more important to me, and obviously it is not to them. Therefore, there is no chemistry.

    NEXT!
  • kuntry_navy
    kuntry_navy Posts: 677 Member
    country boys like em big ;)
  • liftingheavy
    liftingheavy Posts: 551 Member
    why do people need to be politically correct about who they are sexually attracted to?

    Because who really cares? Date who you want but do not put other people down. Why would anyone want to do that?
  • seanezekiel
    seanezekiel Posts: 228 Member
    I think everybody has preferences and deal breakers, period.

    This.
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    sucks, but there is someone for everyone and that person isn't your one.




    Not true.

    Well, sure. Date the guy who doesn't prefer your type. That makes sense.