Girls wear certain clothes when they are looking
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And I still bet no one has read the material on how opinions such as that have A LOT to do with sexual abuse.
It's not my fault people have not read up on this subject. I have been for a few years.
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IAWTC!!!Wear whatever you want...but don't get pissy when you get hit on if it is sexy and appealing to the opposite sex. If it looks like you are "flaunting what you have", we're probably gonna want to see if you want more!
How about women can wear whatever the hell they like and it doesn't mean you or any other man is entitled to claim us.
It is not your god given right to 'hit on' women, and frankly it sounds like the kind of mentality that rape victim blamers have: 'she was dressed this way...she was asking for it'.
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Ok, look and make your comments but I also reserve my right to kick you in the nuts for being a sexist pig.
I can't help but find this hilarious. So you kick guys in the balls when you look hot and they are trying to "hit" on you?
Why wouldn't you simply just say "Not interested"? I think we're talking about two different things.
If you look good, you are more attractive to the opposite sex. I love it when a woman wears clothes that make her look good. I don't see a reason why I couldn't or "shouldn't" approach her with the intent of creating some kind of connection...I see no reason why I "shouldn't" stare at her with my jaw open..she looks hot.
You people that immediately take this to some extreme that goes past attraction, yea, neither I or anyone else advocates being "out of line"...
"Hitting" on you, isn't being "out of line"...it is simply approaching you with the hope that you are or will be interested as well.
Why all these weird conditions on being attracted to someone? I usually leave my "read your mind" glasses at home, and I honestly don't know whether or not you "want" to be approached until I approach you. But I guess, that warrants a kick in the nuts?
All I've said this whole thread is "wear what you want, just don't have this idea that dudes aren't going to take notice". Please don't get all upset just because someone saw you, you looked good, and they noticed...there's nothing sexist about it.
And yes, I reserve the right to hit on anyone, just as I believe you have that same right. I think we have a different fundamental view on what "hitting" on someone is.0 -
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I think more than clothes, it's attitude. Single women have a more free-spirited attitude about life...which attracts all you creepers...I mean, men...0
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And I still bet no one has read the material on how opinions such as that have A LOT to do with sexual abuse.
It's not my fault people have not read up on this subject. I have been for a few years.
SORRYNOTSORRY
This is why i don't participate in the forums. This had potential to be an enlightening and eye-opening discussion about how these types of opinions and stigmas only furthers rape culture, etc, and instead devolved into petty and immature barbs being thrown at one another over a message board. What does that accomplish??? You made some great points and I was disappointed that my earlier post didn't get more responses because again, those types of contributions (including yours) can create awareness and change. Unfortunately the general maturity level of this website is about 8 years old. Well, that's not true. The 8 year olds i babysit are much kinder, smarter, and interesting than what people have displayed here.0 -
IAWTC!!!Wear whatever you want...but don't get pissy when you get hit on if it is sexy and appealing to the opposite sex. If it looks like you are "flaunting what you have", we're probably gonna want to see if you want more!
How about women can wear whatever the hell they like and it doesn't mean you or any other man is entitled to claim us.
It is not your god given right to 'hit on' women, and frankly it sounds like the kind of mentality that rape victim blamers have: 'she was dressed this way...she was asking for it'.
NO
Ok, look and make your comments but I also reserve my right to kick you in the nuts for being a sexist pig.
I can't help but find this hilarious. So you kick guys in the balls when you look hot and they are trying to "hit" on you?
Why wouldn't you simply just say "Not interested"? I think we're talking about two different things.
If you look good, you are more attractive to the opposite sex. I love it when a woman wears clothes that make her look good. I don't see a reason why I couldn't or "shouldn't" approach her with the intent of creating some kind of connection...I see no reason why I "shouldn't" stare at her with my jaw open..she looks hot.
You people that immediately take this to some extreme that goes past attraction, yea, neither I or anyone else advocates being "out of line"...
"Hitting" on you, isn't being "out of line"...it is simply approaching you with the hope that you are or will be interested as well.
Why all these weird conditions on being attracted to someone? I usually leave my "read your mind" glasses at home, and I honestly don't know whether or not you "want" to be approached until I approach you. But I guess, that warrants a kick in the nuts?
All I've said this whole thread is "wear what you want, just don't have this idea that dudes aren't going to take notice". Please don't get all upset just because someone saw you, you looked good, and they noticed...there's nothing sexist about it.
And yes, I reserve the right to hit on anyone, just as I believe you have that same right. I think we have a different fundamental view on what "hitting" on someone is.
these women r wacked out of there minds. they think hitting on someone iz tha same as raping/sexual assault. WTF?? :laugh: they r mostly likely dealing with past trauma, that makez them so angry at the thought of some guy lookin at them. :indifferent:0 -
i absolutely want attention when i shave my legs and wear heels. i want to feel sexy, and i know the attention i get from packaging myself that way will do the trick. btw the best kind of 'attention' in this scenario is the kind that is played out mostly in the eyes and faces, not so much in the words or actions. ('attention' =/= comments, grab@ss, etc.) this is fun and good for a lark but 'keeping up appearances' is not *really* my thing so i don't put too much stock in it... conversely i don't give a fk if my legs are hairy or my shoes aint high--i'm still going to look good and feel good. so, meh. my legs are always covered with bruises and scrapes anyway. i wear a lot of opaque tights, leggings, and stockings.
that having been said, i never feel sexier than when i am earning those bruises and scrapes: covered with sweat, dirt on my hands and face, snot running out of my nose, hair fked up, in my dirty sk8 clothes toting around the 'big stick' i have. that is when i have the most power--if i had to trade the razor and heels for the board the the road, i'd do it in a heartbeat and never ever ever look back. if u do not find me sexy then, u do not want to know me, trust!!0 -
And I still bet no one has read the material on how opinions such as that have A LOT to do with sexual abuse.
It's not my fault people have not read up on this subject. I have been for a few years.
SORRYNOTSORRY
This is why i don't participate in the forums. This had potential to be an enlightening and eye-opening discussion about how these types of opinions and stigmas only furthers rape culture, etc, and instead devolved into petty and immature barbs being thrown at one another over a message board. What does that accomplish??? You made some great points and I was disappointed that my earlier post didn't get more responses because again, those types of contributions (including yours) can create awareness and change. Unfortunately the general maturity level of this website is about 8 years old. Well, that's not true. The 8 year olds i babysit are much kinder, smarter, and interesting than what people have displayed here.
Thank you! I've learned so much online from others, I find it so odd people can't take 10 minutes out of their day to read up on the subject they are attempting to argue about.
OH the glories of the internet, hahaha.0 -
There's classy then there's trashy, you can clearly spot the dfference.
It's like with other 'styles' of dress. I hate seeing people not exercising/going to the gym wearing in sweats especially grey ones. Also leggings - yuck, should not be worn by anyone no matter what size, especially when we can see what you are wearing underneath. The should be worn under a dress, skirt or with a long top to definitely cover the butt! Oh and please don't go to the shops in your night wear!
These are just my opinions, most people with disagree.0
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