Girls wear certain clothes when they are looking
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well these posts def cured the case of the Mondays I have been dealing with.0
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WouldNOTbang/10
Pls stop. You aren't even hot.
Maybe you're right, for all I know I'm not hot in the slightest.
According to these women, all men are disgusting and shouldn't even comment on what women look like anywho so, it's all good.
Commenting on your physical attractiveness, or lack thereof, was a bit of a low blow in my opinion. Kind'of like when people comment on what other people wear.
I haven't read a single comment from women on here, saying that men are disgusting. What's interesting is that I also haven't read comments from men slut shaming either.
Men in thread reporting in.
All I said was if you got it, flaunt it.
I like to see a nice booty in a tight pair of pants.0 -
I'm apparently never looking to get any as I rarely shave my legs, wear Crocs all the time (I'm not allowed to wear high heels being diabetic), and almost consistantly wear jeans and T-shirts. My daughter wears that type outfit all the time too but apparently according to the teen boys she goes to school with she's looking. No, she's not. No, her outfits are no tighter than mine and often looser. She would prefer NOT to be looked at. Go figure. *SIGH!*0
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Maybe you're right, for all I know I'm not hot in the slightest.
According to these women, all men are disgusting and shouldn't even comment on what women look like anywho so, it's all good.
Commenting on your physical attractiveness, or lack thereof, was a bit of a low blow in my opinion. Kind'of like when people comment on what other people wear.
I haven't read a single comment from women on here, saying that men are disgusting. What's interesting is that I also haven't read comments from men slut shaming either.
You cannot choose what you look like. You can choose to cover yourself up in certain social situations.
Would you go to a job interview with hotpants?0 -
Nothing wrong with that. Now do you judge that a woman is a *kitten*/slut because she wears certain clothes that you would deem "whoreish/slutty"? If you do, entirely your opinion, but let me just say if you do as a fellow woman we get judged way to much and taking the time to get to know someone deeper then the shorts they wear or the top they put on might surprise you. Often enough many people have different ideas of what is appropriate and inappropriate and though your opinions may very you could be missing out on knowing a great person simply because you jumped to a decision based off of what you thought you saw.
So before I get annoyed I am going to ask this, you think that men and women having sex is wrong? Or do you simply think that people have to be married, or in a serious relationship to experience sex?
For me personally, I wouldn't have sex outside a relationship. Others can do what they want. Do I think it is ok to have an insane amount of sexual partners at once? No. But that is my opinion. I'm not telling everyone not to do that, I'm saying MY opinion on it. I think that is fair. There is nothing wrong about sex, everyone loves it. I just think it should be a private thing, no matter who you decide to have it with.
If your opinion is clothing does not dictate titles such as "*kitten* and slut" then I am with you. If not, what I said above applies. Just wondering.0 -
If your opinion is clothing does not dictate titles such as "*kitten* and slut" then I am with you. If not, what I said above applies. Just wondering.
I have already said, no, you MAY not be a slut for wearing a certain outfit. I am saying people WILL think you are, hence, look 'like'. That's the harsh reality, people will judge, there's nothing we can do. It doesn't make it right, but it still happens.0 -
I asked because I was too lazy to read, so much BS in this thread.
If your opinion is clothing does not dictate titles such as "*kitten* and slut" then I am with you. If not, what I said above applies. Just wondering.
I have already said, no, you MAY not be a slut for wearing a certain outfit. I am saying people WILL think you are, hence, look 'like'. That's the harsh reality, people will judge, there's nothing we can do. It doesn't make it right, but it still happens.
I agree with you, people will jump to conclusions. They have to get their work out somehow
All you can do is be better than the person doing all the leaps and bounds. Awesome that you are wise enough to see beyond. 0 -
I am not sure what the whole deal is... but if a girl is revealing too much leg, too much cleavage, stretchy clothing that absolutely reveals every curve... get over it and be prepared to be stared at by attracted men and admiring ladies. I don't get the idea that someone thinks they can wear whatever they want and get angry if dudes look.0
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I asked because I was too lazy to read, so much BS in this thread.
If your opinion is clothing does not dictate titles such as "*kitten* and slut" then I am with you. If not, what I said above applies. Just wondering.
I have already said, no, you MAY not be a slut for wearing a certain outfit. I am saying people WILL think you are, hence, look 'like'. That's the harsh reality, people will judge, there's nothing we can do. It doesn't make it right, but it still happens.
I agree with you, people will jump to conclusions. They have to get their work out somehow All you can do is be better than the person doing all the leaps and bounds. Awesome that you are wise enough to see beyond.
Thanks for taking the time to reply in a mature manner, without personally attacking my appearance (ironic) or telling me I need to get laid.0 -
I normally just wear a sign with my hourly rate on it? Isn't that what y'all do?
Nope, I had the rate stitched on to the butt of my jeans then shake it like a polaroid picture.
LMAO to both comments quoted above!
My preacher's wife is in her late 60s, shaves her legs and wears heels to church, I'm pretty sure she isn't looking to get some lol.
Wearing something that makes you feel pretty isn't necessarily the same thing as wearing something because you are trying to attract for sex, but for me, I wear things I want to look sexy for my man in private, and I like to wear things that make me look pretty in public, and I shave my legs because hairy is not my style.0 -
It's not the same thing. A job interview most likely requires professional attire. In my spare time, I wear whatever I want.
Maybe you're right, for all I know I'm not hot in the slightest.
According to these women, all men are disgusting and shouldn't even comment on what women look like anywho so, it's all good.
Commenting on your physical attractiveness, or lack thereof, was a bit of a low blow in my opinion. Kind'of like when people comment on what other people wear.
I haven't read a single comment from women on here, saying that men are disgusting. What's interesting is that I also haven't read comments from men slut shaming either.
You cannot choose what you look like. You can choose to cover yourself up in certain social situations.
Would you go to a job interview with hotpants?
To be completely honest, you are entitled to your opinions about sex, about what constitutes too much sex, or too many partners. I won't judge you for choosing to say marry a virgin, and wear clothes that always cover up whatever you feel needs to be covered.
But why the name calling? Why call a woman a *kitten*, because she dresses a certain way, or because she's more sexually active?0 -
I'll sum up this whole post for ya all...double standards are a bytch. Oh and zyzz gifs exsisted.0
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I am not sure what the whole deal is... but if a girl is revealing too much leg, too much cleavage, stretchy clothing that absolutely reveals every curve... get over it and be prepared to be stared at by attracted men and admiring ladies. I don't get the idea that someone thinks they can wear whatever they want and get angry if dudes look.
I'm with ya here. Basically what I said about 8 pages back...
Folks immediately took that to mean that guys then think they have the right to rape said woman...which is not what anyone said.
Guys are guys, we love sexy women...we love to hit on sexy women...if you is sexy...you is probably gonna get stares and hit on...
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It's not the same thing. A job interview most likely requires professional attire. In my spare time, I wear whatever I want.
To be completely honest, you are entitled to your opinions about sex, about what constitutes too much sex, or too many partners. I won't judge you for choosing to say marry a virgin, and wear clothes that always cover up whatever you feel needs to be covered.
But why the name calling? Why call a woman a *kitten*, because she dresses a certain way, or because she's more sexually active?
But would you wear the same outfit for clubbing out on the street? Point is, there's a time and place for every outfit. Sometimes it just isn't appropriate to wear something on the street where there will be kids/people who would rather not see your body. People that do want to see your body, go for it, but in the privacy of your bedroom.
Just because you choose and are ok with something, doesn't mean it's right to do. People choose to do a lot of things that aren't ok, it doesn't make it ok for everyone.
A '*kitten*' by definition, is a woman that sleeps with a lot of men. I don't personally think behavior like that should be praised, so I won't accept it. If you do, that's your choice, but I'm never going to see it as normal to have more than one partner at a time. There is no need for it, and ultimately, nine times out of ten, you will feel worse for it later in life that you choose to give yourself so freely to so many different people. I would feel a lot better sleeping with people I choose that are interested in more than just meaningless sex night after night. Men will say it themselves, if you only want sex, you will only be treated as a sexual object, and if that's what you want, then it's great. But most men and women want to find someone they love and get on with, not just sleep around forever.0 -
K I'm out.
http://finallyfeminism101.wordpress.com/2010/04/04/what-is-slut-shaming/
Apparently some people need to know exactly what it is I'm talking about. If you care about being a decent human being, educate yourself.
There's a good read.
Seriously though, Bates Motel time.
ALSO, chelledbrown, cookie dough forever.
No. I don't have to agree with you, and I am educated, just with a different opinion.
Feminism and womens rights have nothing to do with sleeping around. Don't try and turn it into something it isn't.
Not educated on this subject apparently, since you think women's rights have nothing to do with women's sexuality. It has.. a lot to with that.0 -
It's not the same thing. A job interview most likely requires professional attire. In my spare time, I wear whatever I want.
To be completely honest, you are entitled to your opinions about sex, about what constitutes too much sex, or too many partners. I won't judge you for choosing to say marry a virgin, and wear clothes that always cover up whatever you feel needs to be covered.
But why the name calling? Why call a woman a *kitten*, because she dresses a certain way, or because she's more sexually active?
But would you wear the same outfit for clubbing out on the street? Point is, there's a time and place for every outfit. Sometimes it just isn't appropriate to wear something on the street where there will be kids/people who would rather not see your body. People that do want to see your body, go for it, but in the privacy of your bedroom.
Just because you choose and are ok with something, doesn't mean it's right to do. People choose to do a lot of things that aren't ok, it doesn't make it ok for everyone.
A '*kitten*' by definition, is a woman that sleeps with a lot of men. I don't personally think behavior like that should be praised, so I won't accept it. If you do, that's your choice, but I'm never going to see it as normal to have more than one partner at a time. There is no need for it, and ultimately, nine times out of ten, you will feel worse for it later in life that you choose to give yourself so freely to so many different people. I would feel a lot better sleeping with people I choose that are interested in more than just meaningless sex night after night. Men will say it themselves, if you only want sex, you will only be treated as a sexual object, and if that's what you want, then it's great. But most men and women want to find someone they love and get on with, not just sleep around forever.
You might have valid points. Too bad you express them poorly and without regard for your audience...0 -
K I'm out.
http://finallyfeminism101.wordpress.com/2010/04/04/what-is-slut-shaming/
Apparently some people need to know exactly what it is I'm talking about. If you care about being a decent human being, educate yourself.
There's a good read.
Seriously though, Bates Motel time.
ALSO, chelledbrown, cookie dough forever.
No. I don't have to agree with you, and I am educated, just with a different opinion.
Feminism and womens rights have nothing to do with sleeping around. Don't try and turn it into something it isn't.
Not educated on this subject apparently, since you think women's rights have nothing to do with women's sexuality. It has.. a lot to with that.
In part, yes. But I'm pretty sure the movement of womens rights was not SOLELY started on the basis women should sleep around. You're undermining it if that is what you think. They fought for the right to work, vote, and be equal to men. Don't twist that for your own gain.0 -
It's not the same thing. A job interview most likely requires professional attire. In my spare time, I wear whatever I want.
To be completely honest, you are entitled to your opinions about sex, about what constitutes too much sex, or too many partners. I won't judge you for choosing to say marry a virgin, and wear clothes that always cover up whatever you feel needs to be covered.
But why the name calling? Why call a woman a *kitten*, because she dresses a certain way, or because she's more sexually active?
But would you wear the same outfit for clubbing out on the street? Point is, there's a time and place for every outfit. Sometimes it just isn't appropriate to wear something on the street where there will be kids/people who would rather not see your body. People that do want to see your body, go for it, but in the privacy of your bedroom.
A '*kitten*' by definition, is a woman that sleeps with a lot of men. I don't personally think behavior like that should be praised, so I won't accept it. If you do, that's your choice, but I'm never going to see it as normal to have more than one partner at a time. There is no need for it, and ultimately, nine times out of ten, you will feel worse for it later in life that you choose to give yourself so freely to so many different people.
We obviously have very different views of the world. To me having sex is not "giving yourself". It's just two people enjoying something they both want.
I was not asking you to praise or adopt such behavior for yourself. I was just saying that it's not your place to choose what's "normal" for other people, or to judge them for their choices. A woman who has slept with 25 guys is not less worthy than one who only had one partner.
If you were born in '93, like your name suggests, your "later in life" didn't happen yet.0 -
You might have valid points. Too bad you express them poorly and without regard for your audience...
Well, I put my points across as I see fit, there has definitely been worse on this thread than me calling a certain type of woman a *kitten*. Which I will remind you, not directly, just as a generalization for women that do not have respect for themselves. Every person in the world has thought 'wow, she's a bit promiscuous' at one point or other. Don't dwell on semantics, and don't act like I'm the first or last person to point out the obvious. I am not0 -
We obviously have very different views of the world. To me having sex is not "giving yourself". It's just two people enjoying something they both want.
I was not asking you to praise or adopt such behavior for yourself. I was just saying that it's not your place to choose what's "normal" for other people, or to judge them for their choices. A woman who has slept with 25 guys is not less worthy than one who only had one partner.
If you were born in '93, like your name suggests, your "later in life" didn't happen yet.
Yes, and that's what is so great about society, not everyone has the same view on life. I never asked otherwise, rather, everyone else wants me to agree with their lifestyle.
I gave you my personal definition of normal, everyone has a different once, do I need to clarify it anymore? Why take everything as a personal attack?
No, but I assure you when it does, I can look back and say I treated myself fairly and regarded sex as a special thing. There's worse regrets to have than taking consideration for who you give yourself to, which is what sex essentially is, even if you call it something else. It's an important thing, but it has now been degraded to something common, because people take it so lightly as if it is nothing. In this society, you're looked down on for having respect for your sexuality. You just have to look around to know, even on this site, that women and men who have been sexually active for a long time with many, many people feel some sort of regret that they didn't settle down with one person, instead of being used for please. Surely there's more to life than using each other for sex????0 -
K I'm out.
http://finallyfeminism101.wordpress.com/2010/04/04/what-is-slut-shaming/
Apparently some people need to know exactly what it is I'm talking about. If you care about being a decent human being, educate yourself.
There's a good read.
Seriously though, Bates Motel time.
ALSO, chelledbrown, cookie dough forever.
No. I don't have to agree with you, and I am educated, just with a different opinion.
Feminism and womens rights have nothing to do with sleeping around. Don't try and turn it into something it isn't.
Not educated on this subject apparently, since you think women's rights have nothing to do with women's sexuality. It has.. a lot to with that.
^this.0 -
maybe yall should watch this
www.youtube.com/watch?v=ktRTYNsLtGM&lc0 -
^this.
I feel a bit sad that people actually think the whole womens rights struggle was based on sexuality alone..
Guess you don't want to work, vote, be counted as an equal in society, as long as you can sleep with whom you please.
Just out of interest, why do some women with this opinion often condemn men for using women, and all men being *kitten*? We should look to end double standards, not encourage them.0 -
^this.
I feel a bit sad that people actually think the whole womens rights struggle was based on sexuality alone..
Guess you don't want to work, vote, be counted as an equal in society, as long as you can sleep with whom you please.
I feel it's a bit sad that. . .that's what you got out of people saying that womens sexuality is a PART of feminism. Not nearly all. Or are you one of those people who likes to deliberately misconstrue what other people say because you like the drama?0 -
^this.
I feel a bit sad that people actually think the whole womens rights struggle was based on sexuality alone..
Guess you don't want to work, vote, be counted as an equal in society, as long as you can sleep with whom you please.
I feel it's a bit sad that. . .that's what you got out of people saying that womens sexuality is a PART of feminism. Not nearly all. Or are you one of those people who likes to deliberately misconstrue what other people say because you like the drama?
No.
I'm simply saying women shouldn't be using it as an excuse to sleep around, nothing more or less.
Sexuality had a minor part to play in women having rights, and it still has a minor part today. We are equal in many ways, so why do some women feel the need to be 'liberated sexually' with many partners? You can be sexually liberated with one person. Not twenty.0 -
^this.
I feel a bit sad that people actually think the whole womens rights struggle was based on sexuality alone..
Guess you don't want to work, vote, be counted as an equal in society, as long as you can sleep with whom you please.
I feel it's a bit sad that. . .that's what you got out of people saying that womens sexuality is a PART of feminism. Not nearly all. Or are you one of those people who likes to deliberately misconstrue what other people say because you like the drama?
No.
I'm simply saying women shouldn't be using it as an excuse to sleep around, nothing more or less.
use what as an excuse to sleep around? feminism? why shouldn't they?
the point is, a woman (or a man, for that matter) is in control of her own body. she has the right to have as much, or as little sex as she chooses, with as many or as few partners as she likes. as long as it's safe and consensual. the point is, a woman should not be shamed for what she chooses to do with her sex life. period.0 -
We obviously have very different views of the world. To me having sex is not "giving yourself". It's just two people enjoying something they both want.
I was not asking you to praise or adopt such behavior for yourself. I was just saying that it's not your place to choose what's "normal" for other people, or to judge them for their choices. A woman who has slept with 25 guys is not less worthy than one who only had one partner.
If you were born in '93, like your name suggests, your "later in life" didn't happen yet.
Yes, and that's what is so great about society, not everyone has the same view on life. I never asked otherwise, rather, everyone else wants me to agree with their lifestyle.
I gave you my personal definition of normal, everyone has a different once, do I need to clarify it anymore? Why take everything as a personal attack?
No, but I assure you when it does, I can look back and say I treated myself fairly and regarded sex as a special thing. There's worse regrets to have than taking consideration for who you give yourself to, which is what sex essentially is, even if you call it something else. It's an important thing, but it has now been degraded to something common, because people take it so lightly as if it is nothing. In this society, you're looked down on for having respect for your sexuality.
I assure you, I did not take it as a personal attack, as I don't even fit your definition for the word "*kitten*". I may fit your definition for "dressing like a *kitten*" occasionally.
All I am saying is, sex is an important thing for you, you view it as a special thing, something you offer to the right partner. That's great, really, more power to you! That's your "normal". I will not judge you for it.
Holding other people to your standards and belittling them for not meeting said standards, is where you're wrong. You talk about a society where you're looked down for having respect for your sexuality, yet you look down on those who choose a path different than yours when it comes to it.0 -
^this.
I feel a bit sad that people actually think the whole womens rights struggle was based on sexuality alone..
Guess you don't want to work, vote, be counted as an equal in society, as long as you can sleep with whom you please.
I feel it's a bit sad that. . .that's what you got out of people saying that womens sexuality is a PART of feminism. Not nearly all. Or are you one of those people who likes to deliberately misconstrue what other people say because you like the drama?
No.
I'm simply saying women shouldn't be using it as an excuse to sleep around, nothing more or less.
use what as an excuse to sleep around? feminism? why shouldn't they?
Because its undermining something a lot more important than just getting sexual gratification, or at least it should be.
There are more important things in life than sexual pleasure.0 -
See the polyamorous side of me has a problem with this statement.
^this.
I feel a bit sad that people actually think the whole womens rights struggle was based on sexuality alone..
Guess you don't want to work, vote, be counted as an equal in society, as long as you can sleep with whom you please.
I feel it's a bit sad that. . .that's what you got out of people saying that womens sexuality is a PART of feminism. Not nearly all. Or are you one of those people who likes to deliberately misconstrue what other people say because you like the drama?
No.
I'm simply saying women shouldn't be using it as an excuse to sleep around, nothing more or less.
Sexuality had a minor part to play in women having rights, and it still has a minor part today. We are equal in many ways, so why do some women feel the need to be 'liberated sexually' with many partners? You can be sexually liberated with one person. Not twenty.0 -
Holding other people to your standards and belittling them for not meeting said standards, is where you're wrong. You talk about a society where you're looked down for having respect for your sexuality, yet you look down on those who choose a path different than yours when it comes to it.
Bingo!!0
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