Nice guys vs Bad boys
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The hottest is a bad boy with a private, sweet, soft tender side...best of both worlds... ;-)
You rang ?!?!
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Now it seems to mean you are immature *kitten* that rides a crorch rocket, have a fohawk and a few cookie cutter tats or a wannabe thug.
Yeah, and they treat women like crap...and the women think they are somehow amazing. Maybe it is that silly desire to be the girl that changes them. They love the excitement, no matter how bad it is for them.
Women are silly.
I agree Chaelaz.. its like i find that they put themselves in tough situations and they like thrive off it.0 -
I have been with a lot of bad boys but I married a good guy and I wouldn't trade him for anything.0
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its like i find that they put themselves in tough situations and they like thrive off it.
Don't we all at some point though. Just in different areas of life. The hope is we learn and find what is better for us.
Cheers.0 -
I have no love for players. I have never been the girl to say, oh it will be different with me.
A lot of people think of my bf as a "bad boy." He is the kind of guy that sees a rule and looks for a way to bend it. It drives me nuts sometimes, but it's always an adventure. He's not a bad person though. He is always the first one to help out a friend in need and looks after an older guy who has Alzheimer disease just because the man's family lives too far away to do it. I guess it depends on your definition of bad. If you have a criminal record does that make you bad or do you have to be a douche to qualify?0 -
its like i find that they put themselves in tough situations and they like thrive off it.
Don't we all at some point though. Just in different areas of life. The hope is we learn and find what is better for us.
Cheers.
TRUE! CHEERS!! :drinker:0 -
Didn't read through everything but what I think it is: the bad boys are agressive, the nice guys too passive and end up in friend zone.
So for all the nice guys, make her laugh, show her how great you are and then strike haha if you want her, take her.0 -
The bad boy that turns out to be a nice guy.. Fairytale maybe?
At first sight always the bad boys to be honest. Just something about them. However, I always end up with the nice guys!
i have been known to run around with scissors in my hand
but do so with the safety blade on0 -
Ultimately I want to marry a good boy, but unfortunately I keep noticing myself gravitate to the bad boy T__T
However I refuse to date a bad boy once I realize he's bad.0 -
Hubby was a real bad boy when we were growing up. Just all kinds of shenanigans
Once we actually started dating in adulthood, I fell in love with both sides of him. He was a bad boy that finally grew up. He carpools, he doesn't forget our anniversary, he stays up with sick kids, and he's pretty much the most charming dude in any social setting. However, an individual would not want to do any harm (mental, physical, slight or major) to me or our kids in his sight. He's nice and only "bad" when he has to be so that's my ideal there I guess. 0 -
I thought id have a change in men seems as though bad boys are complete ****s
and got with someone completely different! Little did i know he was a bad boy in disguise pretending to be good to blag girls what a douchhhh! But still here 4 and a half years later ahhaha 0 -
Bad boys! I'm sure you're thinking, of course, at that age, I'd think so. But I know a totally bad boy isn't a good idea (haven't really fallen for anyone); it's rather a nice guy, who can bring out the wild side on occasion that's the perfect medium.
I guess you could say I still do prefer the 'bad' guys, who are pretty playful seeing as that's how it is with this one guy friend, but hey! I can't help it... Bad guys have this thing that really makes them hot. (As my ticker pic shows xD)
So that's my opinion. Interesting to hear y'alls 0 -
A good man is one who treats his woman with respect and does whatever he can to make her happy, but he isn't afraid to disagree with her because he knows what he believes and why, and he knows that if she loves and respects him, she wouldn't ask or want him to be less than he is.
Exactly this.
There is a famous saying "Marriage isn't about finding the right person, it is about being the right person".
I believe that many interactions are decided before they even begin. If you have a strong sense of self and grounded confidence then people pick up on some level that you have value. It makes life and relationships much easier.
i did this last night... i didn't think something was fair and i called it out and it ended really bad lol0 -
As Tim McGraw says a real bad boy can be a real good man....0
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Hubby was a real bad boy when we were growing up. Just all kinds of shenanigans Once we actually started dating in adulthood, I fell in love with both sides of him. He was a bad boy that finally grew up. He carpools, he doesn't forget our anniversary, he stays up with sick kids, and he's pretty much the most charming dude in any social setting. However, an individual would not want to do any harm (mental, physical, slight or major) to me or our kids in his sight. He's nice and only "bad" when he has to be so that's my ideal there I guess.
Isant that what every girl wants in a man hahha x0 -
The bad boy that turns out to be a nice guy.. Fairytale maybe?
At first sight always the bad boys to be honest. Just something about them. However, I always end up with the nice guys!
^this!! But, I'm dating a nice guy right now and it's wonderful! I just need to be a nice girl too and it'll work out! O:)0 -
As Tim McGraw says a real bad boy can be a real good man....
hahahah Love this0 -
I fell in love with a bad boy a while ago. Acted like a real *kitten*, dark, moody. I had a feeling that there was much more to him and he turned out to be the most amazing guy I had ever met. Fell for him like a ton of bricks, head over heels, like never before. BUT... at the end he turned out to be a real douche. He wasn't who he said he was. He was still angry at the world and was looking for something wrong with me so he could hate me too. He succeeded.
This is my story in a nutshell...
nothing like a person on a mission to find a way to hate you too...especially when they worked so hard to win you in the first place.
I'm in love with a nice guy now....and where it matters...he's very very bad0 -
There is some evolutionary behavior perspective for this basically women choose the bad guy because the are the better hunter, but after he is killed off find the nice guy to take care of the bad guys offspring. It's not fair and yes the nice guys do finish last.
I guess find a nice girl because they finish last too.
I often wonder why guys go for the crazy head cases with 3 kids and baggage to the ceiling while the quiet nice wall flower with no drama sits at home alone?
Guess it goes both ways.0 -
I married the nice guy, but the bad boys were way better at $ex.0
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I've always liked the really, really nice guys. I think the reason I'm like that is because I'm not the nicest person, so it's always good to have somebody who will even me out.0
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Im a nice guy, with a bad attitude };)0
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I often wonder why guys go for the crazy head cases with 3 kids and baggage to the ceiling while the quiet nice wall flower with no drama sits at home alone?
'Cause crazy head cases are freak-nasty amazing in bed.
The people I like the best are conflicted. Maybe they look tough, but have a heart of gold. I'm the opposite, on the outside I'm all clean-cut. Only those people closest to me get to see my bad streak.0 -
Sometimes the nice guys can turn out to be the bad guys......0
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Im a nice guy, with a bad attitude };)
I think that means you aren't really a nice guy lol0 -
There is always lots of judgment to go around here :drinker:there's no judging here
Wrong. Passive guys finish last.And what's your take on the old saying that "nice guys always finish last"?0 -
What if the nice guy can beat up your bad boy?0
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I often wonder why guys go for the crazy head cases with 3 kids and baggage to the ceiling while the quiet nice wall flower with no drama sits at home alone?
'Cause crazy head cases are freak-nasty amazing in bed.
The people I like the best are conflicted. Maybe they look tough, but have a heart of gold. I'm the opposite, on the outside I'm all clean-cut. Only those people closest to me get to see my bad streak.
No no havent you heard that saying "its always the quiet ones."0 -
Im a nice guy, with a bad attitude };)
I think that means you aren't really a nice guy lol
I likey you both. Mine.0 -
A guy that knows how to respect a girl, but also knows how to protect her. If I feel safe with him. He's a bad *kitten* to me.0
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