Nice guys vs Bad boys

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  • stitchtastic
    stitchtastic Posts: 182
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    Bad boys can be nice too! :wink:
  • ash8184
    ash8184 Posts: 701 Member
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    I love nice guys :)
  • stitchtastic
    stitchtastic Posts: 182
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    I love nice bad boys! :wink:
  • lithezebra
    lithezebra Posts: 3,670 Member
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    I have a thing for squares, but they can't be faking it. A lot of nice guys are not kind.
  • MamaCass30
    MamaCass30 Posts: 37 Member
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    Nice guy to me = responsible, makes me feel beautiful and loved, occasionally spoils me, lets me feed him healthy food :laugh: , good friend etc...

    BUT ALSO

    Nice guy = somebody who is not a pushover, who can stand up to me, who doesn't let me run all over him, someone I can respect and trust. Someone with just enough "bad" in him to keep it interesting, manly, etc

    This x's about a million!

    Nice guys are great as long as they're not so nice that they're asking "how high?" when I say "jump" As much as I may WANT to have a guy like that, they always end up boring me, I end up losing respect for them then it all goes down-hill from there.

    So, a nice bad boy is just perfect for me!
  • runner2runner
    runner2runner Posts: 1,937 Member
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    Nice guys finish last. I promise. I know from about ~10 years+ of experience.

    But - nice is who I am.. Can't change it. It sucks being brought up with proper morals and values :P

    I'm with you on that one. It's also personal experience with me. Don't get me wrong, I'm no push over, but I can definitely attest to the fact that being a nice guy/good man hasn't really worked out well for me most of the time. But this is who I am and I wouldn't change that for anyone. Yep, it certainly sucks to be brought up with proper morals and values!!!
  • sdereski
    sdereski Posts: 3,406 Member
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    Nice guy to me = responsible, makes me feel beautiful and loved, occasionally spoils me, lets me feed him healthy food :laugh: , good friend etc...

    BUT ALSO

    Nice guy = somebody who is not a pushover, who can stand up to me, who doesn't let me run all over him, someone I can respect and trust. Someone with just enough "bad" in him to keep it interesting, manly, etc


    This. A nice boy with a naughty side. :wink:
  • TheBaileyHunter
    TheBaileyHunter Posts: 641 Member
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    Nice guys with a bad boy charm. Flirty, kinda naughty, but knows when & where...

    Just like a good woman. Time & place for all things.
  • Mother_Superior
    Mother_Superior Posts: 1,624 Member
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    Nice guy, bad boy....*facepalm*

    It doesn't matter. I used to think that I had to be one or the other, and I tried so hard at both that I was alone the whole time. At some point I grew up and decided that I was just going to be who I was and try to figure out how to live whatever kind of life I had in a way that made me happy. It addition, I started getting out and meeting people. A lot of people. I put no assumed expectations on anyone, and didn't allow anyone to put any on me. Then one day, I met my wife and it all clicked into place.

    Moral of the story, just be yourself. Live the life you want to live, meet enough people, and you'll wind up finding someone you want to be with, who also wants to be with you. If it doesn't work the first time, rinse, and repeat.
  • kms1320
    kms1320 Posts: 599 Member
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    Nice guys end up in the friend zone.
  • runner2runner
    runner2runner Posts: 1,937 Member
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    Who cares, if you can make my inner slut come out Im all yours.

    Even if you end up with a broken heart? Or worse!!!
  • digitalbill
    digitalbill Posts: 1,410 Member
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    I think I have it right.
    I am a pretty nice guy....
  • k8eekins
    k8eekins Posts: 2,264 Member
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    Okay, I'll be a bit more specific. By bad boy I don't necessarily mean someone who's disrespectful or abusive, although those do fit the bill. I'm mostly referring to the player type guys. You know, those guys who are mostly good looking and very charming but are habitual heart breakers. Hope that's specific enough!

    Strictly as Friends Only for the Bad-Boys' Player sorts, seeing how they're too much like my male relatives who've hurt too many women over the years, most of which I'd seen ~ How they'd prep themselves ~ How they'd bait their targets ~ How they'd maneuver themselves in for "the subtle" collision ~ How out of sorts their women were and still are ~ Uh-uh!!

    Edited to add: That said, i confess that my exes all qualify as the Bad-Boys' Player types, women drop their knickers for variety, who'd all come off and generally carried themselves like Nice Boys.
  • dunadan
    dunadan Posts: 105 Member
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    Well. That sounds about right if you turn the tables too... like I the uncool kids are happy and awesome now, and the "cool kids" are all like alcoholics.
    Dunno about the cool kids all being alcoholics (that disease knows know social boundaries), but this uncool, awkward high school nerd is very happy and most definitely awesome. :wink: Got myself an incredible, smoking-hot wife, the most awesome daughter in the world, so I like to think that at least in my case, nice guys don't finish last. :smile:

    We have friends whose marriages and relationships have had their share of drama, cheating, abuse, douche-baggery, and other Springer-esque qualities. Many times we feel like we are the calm in the middle of the storm as people's lives spin into and out of control around us. As we like to say it, "boring is good". :happy:
  • KaleidoscopeEyes1056
    KaleidoscopeEyes1056 Posts: 2,996 Member
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    Nice guys end up in the friend zone.

    I'm not a "nice" girl and I always end up in the friend zone... *pouts*
  • No_Finish_Line
    No_Finish_Line Posts: 3,662 Member
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    all those nice girls that are into bad boys can cry all they want.

    its us good boys that love the bad girls that truly get taken advantage of lol
  • Silver_Star
    Silver_Star Posts: 1,351 Member
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    A nice guy who's a bad boy in bed. :laugh:
  • hrod215
    hrod215 Posts: 163 Member
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    I speak for just my self but I have realized after dating 'Bad Boys' that women don't generally know they are about to embark on a Bad Boy ride. Most bad boys tend to have more confidence, which is very attractive to women. A woman won't usually initiate a move and usually relies on a man to do so. And the chances of the bad boy making the first move, as opposed to the nice guy who is over-thinking his move waaaay too much are much higher. But once the woman finds out what the bad boy is all about, she'll go looking for that nice guy.
  • CorvusCorax77
    CorvusCorax77 Posts: 2,536 Member
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    Nice guy, bad boy....*facepalm*

    It doesn't matter. I used to think that I had to be one or the other, and I tried so hard at both that I was alone the whole time. At some point I grew up and decided that I was just going to be who I was and try to figure out how to live whatever kind of life I had in a way that made me happy. It addition, I started getting out and meeting people. A lot of people. I put no assumed expectations on anyone, and didn't allow anyone to put any on me. Then one day, I met my wife and it all clicked into place.

    Moral of the story, just be yourself. Live the life you want to live, meet enough people, and you'll wind up finding someone you want to be with, who also wants to be with you. If it doesn't work the first time, rinse, and repeat.

    I just absentmindedly and reactionarily thanked god twice that you were born.
  • lithezebra
    lithezebra Posts: 3,670 Member
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    Nice guys end up in the friend zone.

    Mine is littered with the remains of bad boys who don't know what hit them.

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