BOOB OBSESSION!?

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  • byrdamy
    byrdamy Posts: 40
    Men vary in the woman body part obsession, my guy likes feet and calves, I did not know I had nice feet and had never thought about it. I did not notice peoples feet or shoes and now that I know it turns him on, I notice it all the time.

    I understand, every woman wants to be their partners object of desire, but at the end of the day most men don't make or break a situation on such objects, if they do they are not worth your time.

    All I can say is shake what ya mama gave ya...
  • Mceastes
    Mceastes Posts: 303 Member
    Men will look at breasts. It's in their nature. Has he specifically criticized yours?

    He has said they are really small like it's not really a good thing. He calls me flat chested.

    I don't like it. Calling you flat chested is NOT cool. You are too pretty to be with someone who doesn't make you feel like he appreciates your looks. You don't want to spend the next year, two years or fifty years worrying about this and wondering if you're good enough for HIM. Let him like big boobs, that's fine. And let him go be with someone that has them. I just don't see how this isn't going to keep affecting the relationship. You both have to be who you are and there are SOOOOO many guys that would absolutely love to be with you and make you feel like you were more than enough for them. Life is too short, girl, and there are too many other fish in the sea.
  • Nessiechickie
    Nessiechickie Posts: 1,392 Member
    <--- big boob blonde :drinker:
    Mine aren't huge huge but I'm a 32D.
    BF loves mine :flowerforyou: :love:
  • beach_please
    beach_please Posts: 533 Member
    Not ALL men are obsessed with big boobs. I tend to think mine are pretty damn fantastic but my husband loves long legs... but at 5' 4" I'm a bit of a shorty :ohwell:

    We can't have everything. You're adorable, make the most of what you have. He'll appreciate you for being confident in what you DO have.
  • supahstar71
    supahstar71 Posts: 926 Member
    I have large boobs.. I wish they were smaller. :(


    Every time these words are thought, said, or typed a baby kitten dies.

    True fact.

    :laugh:

    I'm 41 and petite on top. As you age, you'll likely develop a deeper appreciation for being small. My boobs are in the exact place they've always been and I'm pretty sure they'll still stand at full attention for the rest of my life. No saggage. :drinker: Would I choose to be bigger? Absolutely. But boobs are just one small (literally/figuratively) part of who I am.

    I love that everyone has been so supportive of you. You are an absolute doll and it's lousy that your bf has made you feel inadequate. You are young. There are plenty more men to meet. You're just getting started. :flowerforyou:

    And if he keeps harping about this, that's when you say "I'm OBSESSED with big d**ks " as you and your perky boobs walk out the door for good.
  • Iceman1800
    Iceman1800 Posts: 476
    I love boobs :)
  • Genem30
    Genem30 Posts: 431 Member
    I don't discriminate based on cup size. All are welcome here.
  • IronmanPanda
    IronmanPanda Posts: 2,083 Member
    I love all boobs.
  • tismyhardbody
    tismyhardbody Posts: 100 Member
    i have no boobs but got a whole lotta other great stuff going on.. who cares?
  • RainHoward
    RainHoward Posts: 1,599 Member
    yes you do, my goodness. Amazing body
  • Iceman1800
    Iceman1800 Posts: 476
    i have no boobs but got a whole lotta other great stuff going on.. who cares?
    you have an amazing body.
  • Iceman1800
    Iceman1800 Posts: 476
    If any females need a confidence boost, feel free to send me pics of your boobs :)
  • RainHoward
    RainHoward Posts: 1,599 Member
    If any females need a confidence boost, feel free to send me pics of your boobs :)

    I'd be happy to help with that as well.
  • CarrieQuiteContrary
    CarrieQuiteContrary Posts: 98 Member
    I think it depends on how you feel about the person. When I was with my ex wife she had large C's, and I felt more attracted to women with a small chest.

    Every woman I "knew" when single after we split up had a small chest. My current wife is a DD, and was a D when we met. I love them, and oddly enough no longer want small ones. Not because I have anything against a small chest. But because I love my wife.

    Small or big, it depends more on the person they are attached too.

    I like THIS!! Awe.
  • Grimlock69
    Grimlock69 Posts: 197
    Big, small
    I love them all
  • cms721
    cms721 Posts: 179 Member
    I love boobs..A-Z :) YAYYY BOOBIES!!!!! I didnt even read the post. I have no idea what its about. I just thought it would have boob pics :)
    JUST ABOUT EVERY FEMALE PROFILE WITH PICS HAVE SOME SORT OF BOOB SHOT.
  • SenshiV
    SenshiV Posts: 131 Member
    My way of thinking is: It's not how much you have but how you make them look nice. Cup D, C, etc can be as desirable as lower cups if you know how to make them look nice.

    Now why we like them, sorry, we don't want to be superficial or anything, it's just nature, really, is not a choice, there's nothing we can do about it.

    What we can do is, not become dics and say we love a woman and then say we feel we love them less because of that, that's not love for the person but for their bodies.
  • jplord
    jplord Posts: 510 Member
    I went to a very exclusive party as hired help and there were a lot of A-list socialites in the room. They had diamonds on their fingers the size of Bazooka Joe gum chunks. I asked a buddy if the rocks were real. "OH yeah," he said, "the rocks are real but the people are fake. In fact," he continued, "you are the only real boob in the room."
  • kytte
    kytte Posts: 323 Member
    i've seen a lot of great answers on here, like if he loves you for you it shouldn't matter what your bra size is, and you should never change yourself for a man.
    but honestly if it were me i'd probably give him a taste of his own medicine since he doesn't seem to care about expressing his obsession around you and how it makes you feel. it seems a lot of men are just as sensitive about their ****s as women are about their boobs. ;p
  • stfriend
    stfriend Posts: 256 Member
    I say keep the boobs you have and lose the azz (i.e. your boyfriend).
  • kytte
    kytte Posts: 323 Member
    oh, and then DUMP THAT SCUMBAG!
  • Bearman45
    Bearman45 Posts: 46
    I have an A cup ... It's making me so self conscious about my own I want to change myself. He says he is a 23 year old guy and he can't help but love big boobs. I just feel like I'm not attractive enough for him now.

    Is there anyone out there who doesn't care about boobs!? Why are they such a big deal to guys?? I don't get it.

    Anyone else have a guy who loves big boobs, but has small boobs?

    At the risk of sounding presumptuous, I will respectfully suggest that it is not your boobs that need to be re-evaluated, but rather your relationship. That, however, is for you alone to decide.

    As far as boobs in general go, I think all men are attracted to boobs by nature. It's how we're wired. Most of us have been "obsessed" at one time or another and generally speaking, we outgrow that. At 23... you'll likely need to be very patient.

    I dated a girl in college who had an A cup. She was a very attractive girl. So much so that a room would hush when we walked in. I'm pretty sure that wasn't because of ME. She had this insight about her boobs... "more than a mouthful is a waste". Mainly, she was simply confident in herself.

    Personally, I think big boobs make a girl look top heavy. I appreciate boobs of a certain shape, but size is rather irrelevant.

    In the end I will say this: You are a very attractive young woman. Look in the mirror and smile at yourself every day. Find your self confidence and let it show. You are not identified by your boobs, but rather by your heart.

    OK, that sounds corny... but I believe it!
  • Iceman1800
    Iceman1800 Posts: 476
    Agree with Bearman. Your boobs aren't the problem. Your bf isn't happy with you so he found an excuse. Seriously evaluate your relationship before you really get hurt.
  • tinabell153
    tinabell153 Posts: 292 Member
    I have an A cup ... It's making me so self conscious about my own I want to change myself. He says he is a 23 year old guy and he can't help but love big boobs. I just feel like I'm not attractive enough for him now.

    Is there anyone out there who doesn't care about boobs!? Why are they such a big deal to guys?? I don't get it.

    Anyone else have a guy who loves big boobs, but has small boobs?

    At the risk of sounding presumptuous, I will respectfully suggest that it is not your boobs that need to be re-evaluated, but rather your relationship. That, however, is for you alone to decide.

    As far as boobs in general go, I think all men are attracted to boobs by nature. It's how we're wired. Most of us have been "obsessed" at one time or another and generally speaking, we outgrow that. At 23... you'll likely need to be very patient.

    I dated a girl in college who had an A cup. She was a very attractive girl. So much so that a room would hush when we walked in. I'm pretty sure that wasn't because of ME. She had this insight about her boobs... "more than a mouthful is a waste". Mainly, she was simply confident in herself.

    Personally, I think big boobs make a girl look top heavy. I appreciate boobs of a certain shape, but size is rather irrelevant.

    In the end I will say this: You are a very attractive young woman. Look in the mirror and smile at yourself every day. Find your self confidence and let it show. You are not identified by your boobs, but rather by your heart.

    OK, that sounds corny... but I believe it!


    Thank you :)
  • oceanbigwater
    oceanbigwater Posts: 100
    You are adorable, can't tell you how many times the inner girl has won me over, physically peoples are drawn to things they like, but I have been involved with women with A's up to a D....talk to him about how it makes you feel when he says things that make you question his desire for you, if you still feel unappreciated get the **** out cuz there are millions of dudes who would love you the way you want to be loved.
  • linzee2207
    linzee2207 Posts: 28 Member
    If he loves you, then he will love you just the way you are, big boobed or small boobed! But just because he likes them big doesn't mean he doesn't think you are sexy! If he is really going to make this into an issue then you should probably find someone who takes you for who you are.
  • KaleidoscopeEyes1056
    KaleidoscopeEyes1056 Posts: 2,996 Member
    I'm a chick and I <3 Boobs, they don't have to be huge either...

    This. I like boobs, but they don't have to be big. As for huge boobs on a tiny body, is he playing too many video games? Tell him that those girls are few and far between in real life.
  • BamaBreezeNSaltAire
    BamaBreezeNSaltAire Posts: 966 Member
    I think it depends on how you feel about the person. When I was with my ex wife she had large C's, and I felt more attracted to women with a small chest.

    Every woman I "knew" when single after we split up had a small chest. My current wife is a DD, and was a D when we met. I love them, and oddly enough no longer want small ones. Not because I have anything against a small chest. But because I love my wife.

    Small or big, it depends more on the person they are attached too.

    ***LIKE*** :-)
  • BamaBreezeNSaltAire
    BamaBreezeNSaltAire Posts: 966 Member
    You are adorable, can't tell you how many times the inner girl has won me over, physically peoples are drawn to things they like, but I have been involved with women with A's up to a D....talk to him about how it makes you feel when he says things that make you question his desire for you, if you still feel unappreciated get the **** out cuz there are millions of dudes who would love you the way you want to be loved.

    ***LIKE*** this one too!
  • jshort152
    jshort152 Posts: 80
    *kitten* is better. Fact.
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