BOOB OBSESSION!?

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  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    How is it any different to a woman displaying preference to arms/ab's etc (heck MFP is full of half naked men threads)? You don't see too many men get up in bother if they don't have the attributes do you.
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    If you dislike each others personality or indeed bodies, you are with the wrong person.

    I think you can dislike one part of someone and still have a strong relationship. The problem here is a lack of sensitivity on his part. For example, I like muscular guys but my last bf was skinny fat. BUT I didn't check out ripped guys in front of him or talk about how much I liked that look. I just kept it to myself and loved him for who he was, which was more than enough.

    If its enough to vocalize and let the other person know? No, I believe its bothering you enough to tell them, upset them and thus you are with the wrong person.
  • _the_feniks_
    _the_feniks_ Posts: 3,412 Member
    Boobs, big or small, I love them all.
  • Midnight_Sunshine
    Midnight_Sunshine Posts: 369 Member
    he is a 23 year old guy

    There's your problem right there.
  • nothing1994
    nothing1994 Posts: 1,936 Member
    How is it any different to a woman displaying preference to arms/ab's etc (heck MFP is full of half naked men threads)? You don't see too many men get up in bother if they don't have the attributes do you.


    Says the sexy half naked man

    :smokin:
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    If you dislike each others personality or indeed bodies, you are with the wrong person.

    I think you can dislike one part of someone and still have a strong relationship. The problem here is a lack of sensitivity on his part. For example, I like muscular guys but my last bf was skinny fat. BUT I didn't check out ripped guys in front of him or talk about how much I liked that look. I just kept it to myself and loved him for who he was, which was more than enough.

    If its enough to vocalize and let the other person know? No, I believe its bothering you enough to tell them, upset them and thus you are with the wrong person.

    In the ideal world. I'm more inclined to believe it's just immaturity and disrespect.
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    How is it any different to a woman displaying preference to arms/ab's etc (heck MFP is full of half naked men threads)? You don't see too many men get up in bother if they don't have the attributes do you.


    Says the sexy half naked man

    :smokin:

    Not everyone wants a muscled guy, heck a lot of people find it repulsive. Thats just natural choice. I draw no issues with it :)
  • nothing1994
    nothing1994 Posts: 1,936 Member
    How is it any different to a woman displaying preference to arms/ab's etc (heck MFP is full of half naked men threads)? You don't see too many men get up in bother if they don't have the attributes do you.


    Says the sexy half naked man

    :smokin:

    Not everyone wants a muscled guy, heck a lot of people find it repulsive. Thats just natural choice. I draw no issues with it :)


    Hahaha i didnt have a problem with it, i was complimenting you. But Okaaayyy :bigsmile:
  • AESprouse
    AESprouse Posts: 112 Member
    I once dated a girl who had 2 different size breasts. One was an A cup and the other was a C cup. Once she realized that I didn't care, our relationship was so much better. :) BOOBIES RULE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    How is it any different to a woman displaying preference to arms/ab's etc (heck MFP is full of half naked men threads)? You don't see too many men get up in bother if they don't have the attributes do you.


    Says the sexy half naked man

    :smokin:

    Not everyone wants a muscled guy, heck a lot of people find it repulsive. Thats just natural choice. I draw no issues with it :)


    Hahaha i didnt have a problem with it, i was complimenting you. But Okaaayyy :bigsmile:
    :flowerforyou:

    Honey I realised that but I was just drawing a similie for the thread :)

    Different strokes for different folks, thats all.

    And thank you
  • b1g_tun4
    b1g_tun4 Posts: 48
    *kitten* man...sorry
  • MDawg81
    MDawg81 Posts: 244 Member
    I like boobs, but size doesn't matter. Just as long as they look nice and are fun to play with. lol And if your boyfriend only likes big boobs and is making you feel inferior, he's an *kitten* and needs to go.
  • lucythinmint
    lucythinmint Posts: 239
    Honestly, I love boobs.

    I had huge lovely ones lost a *kitten* ton of weight and now they are little bitties.

    I'm looking in to a breast augmentation, I need bigger boobs in my life, on my chest. :drinker:

    But on other people, I love all size boobs. They are all beautiful.
  • nothing1994
    nothing1994 Posts: 1,936 Member
    :flowerforyou:

    Honey I realised that but I was just drawing a similie for the thread :)

    Different strokes for different folks, thats all.

    And thank you


    Ohhhh, ok! haha your welcome :bigsmile:

    thanks for the flower!
  • eig6
    eig6 Posts: 249 Member
    ooo that sucks! my other half is happy with my body as it is at the moment but also understands that i am unhappy with my body so is cool with the fact that i want to lose weight (as long as i don't starve myself etc). as for the boob situation he likes my boobs the way they are as long as they are there, whether they get bigger or smaller as long as i don't have plastic surgery ( i have often threatend to get them reduced as i feel they are too big), tho saying that he is more of a bum and legs kinda guy.

    as for you, i think you are a very pretty girl with a lovely personality and your boyfried should appreciate what he has with you, you shouldn't feel like your not attractive enough :flowerforyou:

    OP This. He should appreciate you let him see your boobs at all.

    Charlottery- I totally get where your coming from! Its sad though- Im almost at my goal weight and I've only lost one cup size. My BF doesn't care but I do. Wish they werent so uncomfortable... Sometimes I feel a little bit like I'm the only one on this site who feels that way!
  • xxxray
    xxxray Posts: 301 Member
    I used to have a cleavage fixation so big and saggy were great for me as it was all about the length of the cleavage. Then I met someone with a thyroid complaint who had the body of a catwalk model and I discovered that I really liked very small ones too. I'm just glad they're not all the same.

    If your bloke makes you feel bad because of your body then let him find someone that he actually is attracted to. Seriously, get rid of him before he strips all your confience away and leaves you feeling nobody else will want to be with you ... I know far too many women in crappy relationships like that who settle for it through fear of being alone. Good luck finding someone decent to spend the rest of your life with ...
  • sunnyshine1313
    sunnyshine1313 Posts: 112 Member
    I love boobs..A-Z :) YAYYY BOOBIES!!!!! I didnt even read the post. I have no idea what its about. I just thought it would have boob pics :)

    That is too funny! :laugh:
  • stagegoddess
    stagegoddess Posts: 101 Member
    i'm nearly 6 ft tall and a size 14/16 currently but have had huge boobs since is graduated h.s. during my last weight gain they went from 36DD to 38DD and its not okay. i want them back to my old size if not a little bit smaller. huge boobs (unless they're fake) tend to sag and make dents in your shoulders and cause a lot of pain. if your bf only wants big boobs tell him to look in the mirror bc he's a boob. luv yourself for who you are and if you really really want bigger boobs then do it, but for you----not anyone else. and don't go overboard, they should be proportionate to your frame
  • mandy_mae1989
    mandy_mae1989 Posts: 6 Member
    I'm barely a B cup and my husband loves them! I tell him they may get smaller if I lose weight, he says that's fine! I also tell him they may get bigger when we have kids, he says that's fine! My husband loves me for me, not for my boobs.

    I hope you can find a guy that loves YOU and not what is on your chest!
  • mandy_mae1989
    mandy_mae1989 Posts: 6 Member
    I'm barely a B cup and my husband loves them! I tell him they may get smaller if I lose weight, he says that's fine! I also tell him they may get bigger when we have kids, he says that's fine! My husband loves me for me, not for my boobs.

    I hope you can find a guy that loves YOU and not what is on your chest!
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    The funny thing about this thread that I just remembered - all my ex's in the last 7-10 years have had boob jobs. No deliberate, just has oddly happened that way. Anyway whenever I get chatting with anyone and they ask about or see ex's they all notice this and get weird because they feel they can't compete with the boobs and make up etc.

    I'm doomed to be single forever now I think until another girl with fake or ample boobs comes across me as the smaller boobed ones get scared off and think I don't like smaller boobs, when its not further from the case! I just like boobies! LOL
  • nothing1994
    nothing1994 Posts: 1,936 Member
    Anyone that likes huge ones...

    PLEASE MOVE HERE.


    :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: PLEASE
  • ster81
    ster81 Posts: 249
    Guys like boobies... period. Big, small, whatever... as long as they are boobies we are good to go :laugh:
    Yup!!! Any size boobs as long as they're boobs :P In the booty category though it's a whole new ball game. Gotta be big, firm, and juicy lol
  • shaynak112
    shaynak112 Posts: 751 Member
    I love boobs.
    My boyfriend loves my Ds. (As do many random guys out there :p lol)

    But there actually are guys who are more attracted to smaller ones ... really! :)
  • Iceman1800
    Iceman1800 Posts: 476
    I love boobs.
    My boyfriend loves my Ds. (As do many random guys out there :p lol)

    But there actually are guys who are more attracted to smaller ones ... really! :)
    I love your d's too :)
  • CarolinaGirlinVA
    CarolinaGirlinVA Posts: 1,508 Member
    The person they are attached to is what makes for a great pair of boobs. A big rack on someone with a nasty personality is not appealing to me. Breasts, whatever the size, are the bonus on the rest of the package. It's all about the nipple anyway!

    I haven't even read all of the replies...but that one made me tingle. :blushing:
  • LovelyLathrop
    LovelyLathrop Posts: 106
    I LOVE BOOBIES <3
  • Janet9906
    Janet9906 Posts: 546 Member
    My boobs have shrunk, but i still love them....boobies rock!
  • dizzydi1968
    dizzydi1968 Posts: 564
    Had Gs now got Ds never had any complaints.

    Men just like boobs
  • ashleyxxxo
    ashleyxxxo Posts: 41 Member
    My bf is an *kitten* man... and I have C cups.. lol fml. Oh well! We love each other anyways..
    More to life than breasts;) fo sho.

    EDIT::

    Oh! And I honestly like my boobs somewhat smaller (Bish) I hate when you can't wear cute tanks cuz your tits hang out and guys oogle em. Its not something I want to be noticed for! haha.
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