I need a girl's advice regarding a man's problem.

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  • npaverico
    npaverico Posts: 18
    Wow! If you respect her at all, you would keep your thoughts to yourself. If her body bothers you that much, then it sounds like you should focus on other areas of your own life. Unless you are concern for her safety.
  • lizziebeth1028
    lizziebeth1028 Posts: 3,602 Member
    The Troll is strong in this one!

    ^^:laugh: :laugh:
  • MonkRocker
    MonkRocker Posts: 198
    Dude! Don't listen to all the haters and naysayers!
    Just grab the skin and play with it. Surely it will come up in conversation then. Hope this helps. :flowerforyou:

    This. SO MUCH This. This times a million.


























    Take pics.
  • PantalaNagaPampa
    PantalaNagaPampa Posts: 1,031 Member
    Wow.


    A) I'm sure she's aware. I bet she has a mirror

    B) If you don't want a swift kick in the nuts, I'd keep your mouth shut.

    Soooo, when do we get to the swift kick in the nuts?
  • questiontheanswers
    questiontheanswers Posts: 170 Member
    Email the mods and ask this be removed.
    You are going to be eaten alive.
    Don't say anything to the lady.
    Apologize now....throw bacon....before this gets out of hand.

    I can't stop giggling at this reply. These are the words of a brilliant man. :laugh:
  • WifeNMama
    WifeNMama Posts: 2,876 Member
    This is a classic example of what I like to call "an inside thought."
  • skinnygurl02
    skinnygurl02 Posts: 176 Member
    Um... keep your mouth shut LOL! I am sure she already knows about the skin and you bringing it up will only make her MORE self conscious about it then she already is (I'm sure).

    Unless you are planning to get into a relationship with her, then MAYBE the subject could come up, but otherwise... some things are better left unsaid!

    THIS

    Women are already self conscience about our bodies....
  • valeriebpdx
    valeriebpdx Posts: 497 Member
    Just grab the skin and play with it. Surely it will come up in conversation then. Hope this helps. :flowerforyou:

    This. SO MUCH This. This times a million.

    This really was the winning response.
  • JenniBaby85
    JenniBaby85 Posts: 855 Member
    Usually I'd say not to say ANYTHING, but if you really care for her, maybe invite her to join you in the gym or other workouts?
  • holeshottdr
    holeshottdr Posts: 364 Member
    OP, did you eat paint chips when you were younger? :noway:
  • Linda_Darlene
    Linda_Darlene Posts: 453 Member
    SAY NOTHING ABOUT IT TO HER.

    NOTHING.. NOT ONE WORD!
  • Pudgebrownie
    Pudgebrownie Posts: 73
    Sounds like you are just nosey and just want to satisfy your own curiosity. Leave her alone. She doesn't owe you or anyone else an explination. If she is self-conscous about the skin you could really hurt her feelings. Even if she is not, it would be plain rude!
    +1


    Great post.
  • MacInCali
    MacInCali Posts: 1,012 Member
    You should start off the conversation like this ....

    "I am a total *kitten* ... trust me, you are way too good to be friends with someone like me ... " Then walk the hell away.

    Seriously, WTF??
  • cassiepv
    cassiepv Posts: 242 Member
    Loose skin is not always from not exercising . I have a co -worker who lost over 115 pounds . She works out like crazy and the loss took her over a year. She has a lot of excess skin .
  • tappleton17
    tappleton17 Posts: 29 Member
    no u shouldnt mention it. it could and may ruin ur friendship.
  • WifeNMama
    WifeNMama Posts: 2,876 Member
    OP, did you eat paint chips when you were younger? :noway:
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    Ahem. Sorry. Carry on.
    (My kid's looking at me funny now)
  • k8lyn_235
    k8lyn_235 Posts: 507 Member
    Just hit it and move on...

    this seriously made me laugh out loud
  • skada682
    skada682 Posts: 4
    Don't ask. Don't tell. That is the usual norm for approaching taboo subjects. And why exactly is it that important to you know? If you are planning a relationship-those answers will come in due time, when she is ready to discuss it SHE will bring it up. She has to look at herself everyday in the mirror and walk around with extra skin for whatever reason. She really does not need anybody asking her about it. Please don't do that. If she thought you were a close enough friend, I am sure she would have already explained everything.
  • HollywoodDJ
    HollywoodDJ Posts: 296
    No no no no no no no no no and NO!!!! AND THEN A BIG FAT NO AGAIN!!!!!

    DO NOT TALK TO HER ABOUT IT.....SMH!!!!!

    No!
  • iamshells
    iamshells Posts: 46 Member
    Agreed
  • Kenzietea2
    Kenzietea2 Posts: 1,132 Member
    How is this an important thing to bring up at all? The girl had the confidence to wear a bikini, something many of us do not have. Don't destroy her confidence for your own curiosity.
  • HMK3
    HMK3 Posts: 4
    If you are just curious about it, google it. If you want to get into a relationship with her, I would assume this 'loose skin' would not be an issue for you. If she's not complaining about it, why do you need to approach the subject? Leave it alone. If you want to get in a relationship with her and this is a problem for you, don't get in that relationship. Good Luck whatever you decide to do. :smile:
  • Hayesgang
    Hayesgang Posts: 624
    If you like your man-parts and want to keep them~Mind your own business!!
  • aproc
    aproc Posts: 1,033 Member
    Why the heck would you bring that up with her? =/ I'm sure she is very aware of it and doesn't need you commenting on her loose skin. Where on earth did you get the idea that you need to approach her about the subject? If a guy I knew did that to me, I'd probably never want to speak to him again. It's just not cool. We are well aware of our body flaws and don't need somebody else commenting on it as well. Thats just a way to make her resent you or feel even more embarrased about her body and around you.
  • p0kers0ph
    p0kers0ph Posts: 250 Member
    Do not mention it.
    Are you friends or what is your relationship between you?

    If she is someone you want to get to know, in time I'm sure the subject will come up.
  • ashleycball
    ashleycball Posts: 23
    I would mind my business and shut my mouth. It's really not your place on this one. and 9 times out of 10 with us ladieswe know when we look bad and may just not care and i'm sure she knows about the skin. Tread lightly my friend lol
  • runnerjenn0708
    runnerjenn0708 Posts: 400 Member
    If you are asking her cause you are worried for her health - ask subtly

    If you are asking cause you are merely curious - STFU!

    YEP
  • kstep88
    kstep88 Posts: 403 Member
    Curiosity killed the...blank!

    If she brings it up, be subtle and listen. Offer advice if she sounds like she wants it, or offer to workout together. ONLY if she opens up to you. That's a crazy sensitive subject for a woman. Asking how she got all that extra skin... not good.
  • AnnaMC1977
    AnnaMC1977 Posts: 241
    I have that due to GAINING too quickly. And I admit, it's terrible looking. What's worse is when my fiance gets o drunk and tells me how he really feels errr...how disgusting I look and how I should have surgery to get rid of the skin..as well as a breast lift to make everything proportional, it makes me feel like crap...and very insecure. Please leave her be. Let her bring the subject up...it's quite humiliating to be asked about it.
  • HMK3
    HMK3 Posts: 4
    This is a good comment. You're cracking me up. :laugh:

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