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  • npaverico
    npaverico Posts: 18
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    Wow! If you respect her at all, you would keep your thoughts to yourself. If her body bothers you that much, then it sounds like you should focus on other areas of your own life. Unless you are concern for her safety.
  • lizziebeth1028
    lizziebeth1028 Posts: 3,602 Member
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    The Troll is strong in this one!

    ^^:laugh: :laugh:
  • MonkRocker
    MonkRocker Posts: 198
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    Dude! Don't listen to all the haters and naysayers!
    Just grab the skin and play with it. Surely it will come up in conversation then. Hope this helps. :flowerforyou:

    This. SO MUCH This. This times a million.


























    Take pics.
  • PantalaNagaPampa
    PantalaNagaPampa Posts: 1,031 Member
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    Wow.


    A) I'm sure she's aware. I bet she has a mirror

    B) If you don't want a swift kick in the nuts, I'd keep your mouth shut.

    Soooo, when do we get to the swift kick in the nuts?
  • questiontheanswers
    questiontheanswers Posts: 170 Member
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    Email the mods and ask this be removed.
    You are going to be eaten alive.
    Don't say anything to the lady.
    Apologize now....throw bacon....before this gets out of hand.

    I can't stop giggling at this reply. These are the words of a brilliant man. :laugh:
  • WifeNMama
    WifeNMama Posts: 2,876 Member
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    This is a classic example of what I like to call "an inside thought."
  • skinnygurl02
    skinnygurl02 Posts: 176 Member
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    Um... keep your mouth shut LOL! I am sure she already knows about the skin and you bringing it up will only make her MORE self conscious about it then she already is (I'm sure).

    Unless you are planning to get into a relationship with her, then MAYBE the subject could come up, but otherwise... some things are better left unsaid!

    THIS

    Women are already self conscience about our bodies....
  • valeriebpdx
    valeriebpdx Posts: 499 Member
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    Just grab the skin and play with it. Surely it will come up in conversation then. Hope this helps. :flowerforyou:

    This. SO MUCH This. This times a million.

    This really was the winning response.
  • JenniBaby85
    JenniBaby85 Posts: 855 Member
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    Usually I'd say not to say ANYTHING, but if you really care for her, maybe invite her to join you in the gym or other workouts?
  • holeshottdr
    holeshottdr Posts: 364 Member
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    OP, did you eat paint chips when you were younger? :noway:
  • Linda_Darlene
    Linda_Darlene Posts: 453 Member
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    SAY NOTHING ABOUT IT TO HER.

    NOTHING.. NOT ONE WORD!
  • Pudgebrownie
    Pudgebrownie Posts: 73
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    Sounds like you are just nosey and just want to satisfy your own curiosity. Leave her alone. She doesn't owe you or anyone else an explination. If she is self-conscous about the skin you could really hurt her feelings. Even if she is not, it would be plain rude!
    +1


    Great post.
  • MacInCali
    MacInCali Posts: 1,044 Member
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    You should start off the conversation like this ....

    "I am a total *kitten* ... trust me, you are way too good to be friends with someone like me ... " Then walk the hell away.

    Seriously, WTF??
  • cassiepv
    cassiepv Posts: 242 Member
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    Loose skin is not always from not exercising . I have a co -worker who lost over 115 pounds . She works out like crazy and the loss took her over a year. She has a lot of excess skin .
  • tappleton17
    tappleton17 Posts: 29 Member
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    no u shouldnt mention it. it could and may ruin ur friendship.
  • WifeNMama
    WifeNMama Posts: 2,876 Member
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    OP, did you eat paint chips when you were younger? :noway:
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    Ahem. Sorry. Carry on.
    (My kid's looking at me funny now)
  • k8lyn_235
    k8lyn_235 Posts: 507 Member
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    Just hit it and move on...

    this seriously made me laugh out loud
  • skada682
    skada682 Posts: 4
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    Don't ask. Don't tell. That is the usual norm for approaching taboo subjects. And why exactly is it that important to you know? If you are planning a relationship-those answers will come in due time, when she is ready to discuss it SHE will bring it up. She has to look at herself everyday in the mirror and walk around with extra skin for whatever reason. She really does not need anybody asking her about it. Please don't do that. If she thought you were a close enough friend, I am sure she would have already explained everything.
  • HollywoodDJ
    HollywoodDJ Posts: 296
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    No no no no no no no no no and NO!!!! AND THEN A BIG FAT NO AGAIN!!!!!

    DO NOT TALK TO HER ABOUT IT.....SMH!!!!!

    No!
  • iamshells
    iamshells Posts: 46 Member
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    Agreed

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