"MILF"... it is offensive?

GorillaEsq
GorillaEsq Posts: 2,198 Member
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The colloquial acronym "MILF" (mom I'd like to f**k), a term typically utilized to describe a sexually attractive older woman, was most notably interjected into the American vernacular when it was scripted into the 1999 movie American Pie.

I personally find the term mildly annoying for no other reason than it has become so cliche' throughout the Internet and pop culture.

Some women find it offensive.

Some women wear it as a badge of honor.

Thoughts?

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  • Scottish_charlene_84
    Scottish_charlene_84 Posts: 986 Member
    When i became a Mum i got called a MILF and i took it as a compliment. lol
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    I find that it is misused far too often.
  • TadaGanIarracht
    TadaGanIarracht Posts: 2,615 Member
    The allure behind being a "MILF" has eluded me.

    ETA: IT'S TOTALLY OFFENSIVE! HOW DARE YOU DECLARE YOUR DESIRE TO F**K ME WHEN YOU KNOW THAT YOU WOULD NEVER ACT UPON IT!
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
    I don't usually think of compliments as being offensive. But that's just me.
  • SassyCalyGirl
    SassyCalyGirl Posts: 1,932 Member
    VERY!
  • genefabes
    genefabes Posts: 132
    if I ever have kids, I'll gladly take the compliment.
  • Lyssa62
    Lyssa62 Posts: 930 Member
    wearing the badge and the t-shirt proudly ..at 50 years young I'll take any form of compliment :drinker:
  • jboccio90
    jboccio90 Posts: 644 Member
    As cliche and unoriginal as it is, it's suppose to be a compliment and I take it as such.
  • GorillaEsq
    GorillaEsq Posts: 2,198 Member
    I'm curious as to why some women would find it offensive. Though juvenile, the person using the term is in essence saying that the woman is "hot."

    Is it the age thing?

    As in, "Wow, you're really hot to be so old.."


    (typos, sorry)
  • TheMissingSock
    TheMissingSock Posts: 89
    that term is right up there with Cougar. it depends on the context it's used, if i find it offensive or not. Usually it's a pretty funny comment, so I don't get bothered by it :)
  • ahadj
    ahadj Posts: 257 Member
    Compliment. Not offensive.

    I'm not a mom, but if someone called me a LSILF (law student I'd like to...) I would take it as a compliment.

    So yeah.
  • raven3lise
    raven3lise Posts: 107 Member
    Um, if I was old and someone called me that, then yeah, I'd be a little pissed and flattered at the same time.
  • Claremarie1987
    Claremarie1987 Posts: 40 Member
    Not as offensive as GILF
  • TamaraGraceS
    TamaraGraceS Posts: 273 Member
    I find it not only offensive to me..but also my husband. Our 16 year old daughter always tells me the guys she goes to school with call me that. I think she should be offended but she is not. It makes me uncomfortable and when they say is your Mom picking you up? I just sit it the car! How would you like it if they were saying that about your Mom?
  • GorillaEsq
    GorillaEsq Posts: 2,198 Member
    I don't usually think of compliments as being offensive. But that's just me.
    Right, that's what I was asking before... is it the "backhanded" nature of the compliment? Like, "Wow... she would be really pretty if she wasn't so fat..." Ergo... "She's hot, even though she's old."
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    I find it not only offensive to me..but also my husband. Our 16 year old daughter always tells me the guys she goes to school with call me that. I think she should be offended but she is not. It makes me uncomfortable and when they say is your Mom picking you up? I just sit it the car! How would you like it if they were saying that about your Mom?

    My mom looks awesome so I would be flattered lol
  • GorillaEsq
    GorillaEsq Posts: 2,198 Member
    Compliment. Not offensive.

    I'm not a mom, but if someone called me a LSILF (law student I'd like to...) I would take it as a compliment.

    So yeah.
    Lawyers are terribly unattractive. Trust me. ;)
  • genefabes
    genefabes Posts: 132
    I don't usually think of compliments as being offensive. But that's just me.
    Right, that's what I was asking before... is it the "backhanded" nature of the compliment? Like, "Wow... she would be really pretty if she wasn't so fat..." Ergo... "She's hot, even though she's old."

    if a chick reads into anything that far, just run.
  • TadaGanIarracht
    TadaGanIarracht Posts: 2,615 Member
    I curious as to why some women would find it offensive. Though juvenile, the person using the term is in essence saying that the woman is "hot."

    Is it the age thing?

    As in, "Wow, you're really hot to be so old.."

    "I curious"... You Tarzan?
  • farmgirlsuz
    farmgirlsuz Posts: 351 Member
    A few years ago I had met an attractive younger man who had sent me a message that said "Got MILF". I had no idea what it meant and assumed the worst so I didn't pursue him any further. WOW was I wrong! Too bad I didn't know then what I know now!
    I do find it mildly offensive in general, but if the right guy refers to me that way.....well, I can't stop him from having those thoughts now can I? :wink:
  • Rianneew8
    Rianneew8 Posts: 10
    I prefer to call myself a MYLF....Mom You'd Like to F*k ;-)
  • TadaGanIarracht
    TadaGanIarracht Posts: 2,615 Member


    if a chick reads into anything that far, just run.

    What chick DOESN'T read that far into anything??
  • GorillaEsq
    GorillaEsq Posts: 2,198 Member
    I find it not only offensive to me..but also my husband. Our 16 year old daughter always tells me the guys she goes to school with call me that. I think she should be offended but she is not. It makes me uncomfortable and when they say is your Mom picking you up? I just sit it the car! How would you like it if they were saying that about your Mom?
    Your husband is offended that they call you a MILF, or that they call him a MILF?

    I think I would be somewhat concerned if my daughter's friends called me a MILF. (Ha.)
  • kimosabe1
    kimosabe1 Posts: 2,467 Member
    Hey ladies...it's a compliment! If a man calls you a MILF, he's not saying you are ugly so that's better, right?
  • jjc17
    jjc17 Posts: 23 Member
    I am a mum and I would definitely take it as a compliment!!!
  • Lyssa62
    Lyssa62 Posts: 930 Member
    LOL I am betting my 89 year old mom has been called that and I'm like GO MOM!!! For 89 she's still one hot old lady!
  • genefabes
    genefabes Posts: 132


    if a chick reads into anything that far, just run.

    What chick DOESN'T read that far into anything??

    me and plenty of other calm, level headed women.
  • JenKillough
    JenKillough Posts: 474 Member
    MILF. Yeah, it doesn't sit well with me at all.
  • Molly_Maguire
    Molly_Maguire Posts: 1,103 Member
    Is it offensive? Hell naw! For me, it most definitely is a compliment and badge of honor. Having a child wreaks the most unspeakable horror on a woman's body, some women NEVER physically recover from it. It is an testament of hard work, determination and true grit to be able to train your body into something men still find f*ckable after that baby is done with you, and all women should be flattered as hell to be given the title "MILF"!
  • pullipgirl
    pullipgirl Posts: 767 Member
    I'm just sick of hearing milf and cougar
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