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"MILF"... it is offensive?

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  • Clearly I'm missing something here.

    What did you do to make people hate you so much
  • Posts: 169 Member
    Only when people call my mum it... haha!

    She loves it though! She is 46 and I think it does make her feel good.. I like that it makes her feel good, just not when it is coming from my male friends! Keep it too yourself boys! lol!

    xx
  • Posts: 1,172 Member
    Clearly I'm missing something here.

    What did you do to make people hate you so much

    I love myself and that's all that matters.
  • Posts: 1,326 Member
    Ahh, someone needs a hug. No matter what anyone tells you, your completely off-topic post in no way came across as bitter and small.

    Related side note: It's somewhat ironic to criticize someone's grammar, with a post that is riddled with grammatical errors.

    Keep trying though. It's adorable.

    It is adorable. You know what isn't adorable or impressive though? You. You and your ridiculous threads, it's like a constant assault of mediocrity, these inane questions can't possible play on your mind because if that is truly the case you are in dire need of a life. Acquire one immediately if not sooner and give us all a break.
  • Posts: 28 Member
    Compliment, completely. If you think its offensive you need to lighten up a bit.
  • Posts: 2,198 Member
    Clearly I'm missing something here.

    What did you do to make people hate you so much
    Started forum discussions that they apparently didn't like.
  • Posts: 2,178 Member
    I don't think I'll ever be a mother. However, if I do, I'd love to be deemed a MILF.
  • Posts: 2,198 Member
    It is adorable. You know what isn't adorable or impressive though? You. You and your ridiculous threads, it's like a constant assault of mediocrity, these inane questions can't possible play on your mind because if that is truly the case you are in dire need of a life. Acquire one immediately if not sooner and give us all a break.
    Yet, you keep reading them. Weird.
  • Posts: 298 Member
    wow...i didn't read through all the responses so I hope I'm repeating this but if ANYONE (including my husband) said they would like to F**k me I would not take it as a compliment, it is objectively crass. A compliment is "you look beautiful". This is akin to cat calling in its lowest form, in other words, as a woman if you are walking by a construction site and a guy calls out to you "nice tits, I'd like to hit that!" you would be flattered ?! It seems like most women would think that was a jerk guy who needs socialization and doesn't get out much...WHat has happened to us that MILF is now a romantic line? Guess I'm just "old fashioned"...
  • Posts: 966 Member
    I don't find it offensive at all. Onedayillbeamilf.
  • I think it is a back handed compliment, i.e., "You're smarter than you look," "You drive very well, for a woman," or "I didn't recognize you; you look so good."
  • Posts: 51 Member
    offensive?
    probably.
    but if someone called me a milf would i secretly be high-fiving myself?
    probably.
  • Posts: 298 Member
    I find it sad that women want to be described with a vulgar acronym; it is usually indicative of poor self-esteem and lack of self-respect. Flame all you want, I care not.

    well said sister
  • Posts: 420 Member
    I'm not sure how I feel about it.
  • Posts: 627 Member
    <3 it. I mean it as a true compliment. I mean seriously to have children and/or be an older woman and have men continue to find you sexually attractive and desirable beyond belief. What is not to like?
  • Posts: 35 Member
    Offensive.
  • Posts: 188 Member
    Don't offend me, but it's lame, over used...
  • Posts: 188 Member


    I do like fart jokes.

    LMAO:)
  • Posts: 2,050 Member
    I don't think its offensive.

    I really don't think much of it.
  • I know that sentence made sense in your mind. Which amuses me.

    ha, I heart you
  • Posts: 2,615 Member
    But, does she think you're a MILF?

    Does she even know if I'm a mom?
  • Posts: 124 Member
    I'd find it offensive for 2 reasons -- one I am not a mom, so there is an assumption going on with the person (IF someone) saying this to me and two, I've never been much on being told "I'd like to f'k you." I believe it objectifies women, haven't we protested that for 30+ years?
  • Posts: 226 Member
    I am thoroughly entertained. Thank you all. :) I think the term is used mostly by High school boys showing off. Not offensive. Just juvenile. I don't mind ..... I get embarrassed though.
  • Posts: 2,198 Member
    I know you're not looking for my approval. But that was a good one.
    Thank you, thank you, thank you. Be sure to tip your waitresses.
  • I like bacon
  • I'd find it offensive for 2 reasons -- one I am not a mom, so there is an assumption going on with the person (IF someone) saying this to me and two, I've never been much on being told "I'd like to f'k you." I believe it objectifies women, haven't we protested that for 30+ years?

    This/\ I feel like we are going backwards at the moment with regards to attitudes to women.
  • Posts: 2,673 Member
    I've been called a DILF, it didn't offend me! :laugh:
  • Posts: 2,198 Member
    I like bacon
    BILF?
  • Posts: 2,615 Member
    Grats.

    Want a cookie?

    HELL YEAH!
  • Posts: 926 Member
    :indifferent:



    I think it's tacky. I'd rather just be called pretty.

    Of course, I'm not a mom. I'm a stepmother but smilf isn't any better. :noway:
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