"MILF"... it is offensive?
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Oh do go away you ridiculous woman.
Does she even know if I'm a mom?0 -
I'd find it offensive for 2 reasons -- one I am not a mom, so there is an assumption going on with the person (IF someone) saying this to me and two, I've never been much on being told "I'd like to f'k you." I believe it objectifies women, haven't we protested that for 30+ years?0
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I am thoroughly entertained. Thank you all. I think the term is used mostly by High school boys showing off. Not offensive. Just juvenile. I don't mind ..... I get embarrassed though.0
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I know you're not looking for my approval. But that was a good one.0
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I like bacon0
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I'd find it offensive for 2 reasons -- one I am not a mom, so there is an assumption going on with the person (IF someone) saying this to me and two, I've never been much on being told "I'd like to f'k you." I believe it objectifies women, haven't we protested that for 30+ years?
This/\ I feel like we are going backwards at the moment with regards to attitudes to women.0 -
I've been called a DILF, it didn't offend me! :laugh:0
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I like bacon0
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Grats.
Want a cookie?
HELL YEAH!0 -
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I think it's tacky. I'd rather just be called pretty.
Of course, I'm not a mom. I'm a stepmother but smilf isn't any better. :noway:0 -
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I think it's tacky. I'd rather just be called pretty.
Of course, I'm not a mom. I'm a stepmother but smilf isn't any better. :noway:0 -
I think I might prefer NILF ( Nerd I'd Like to F...).0
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After four kids hell that's a compliment I gladly take, but I'm not sensitive about that I know its meant as a compliment and I take it as such!0
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Not sure who you have me mixed up with. I never said I was ignoring you. I don't recell ever posting in one of your threads before. They're all so very stupid. I just decided to finally comment in one, just for lulz.
In the quote above, the disgruntled poster said...I don't recell ever posting in one of your threads before.They're all so very stupid.
But wait... it gets better.
Interestingly enough, "he" only has three (3) "friends." And each of those three (3) friends are friends with each other. That by itself is strikingly interesting, but hold on...
All of those three (3) "friends" have commented on my threads in the past...
That's odd.
Here's where it gets fun...
All of "his" three (3) friends use the exact same grammatical context in "their" posts..
All of "his" three (3) friends use fake, pirated pictures as their avatars...
All of "his" three (3) friends misspell the same words, the same way...
Hmm.. that's devastatingly coincidental. Weird.
Would this be a true cross-examination, we would have subpoenaed the IP and ISP addresses for all three (3) friends... and I'm guessing they would all be... the same.
Which hurts worse creepy, fake account guy? The fact that you just got owned? Or the fact that you're going to now have to reevaluate your entire online life?
Next.
For someone who conjures up the art of cross-examination, I expect more attention to detail.
Stating "I've never posted in a thread of yours" is significantly different than stating "I've never read your posts."
The conspiracy theory stuff isn't going to play out. You are welcome to try, though. I do know zaph0d pretty well, have known him for awhile. We are not the same person. And I only know one of his other friends - who I only recently became friends with. I really try not to post misspellings.
I suppose I could be making all that up, but it's the truth.
Also, I have always had pictures of me in my profile. Always. Since I joined. I don't believe in anonymity on the Internet. Sometimes I choose a "fake" image as my main pic, which shows next to my posts. But my profile is open (always has been), and the pics of me are real. I'm not as handsome as you are.
As for the phrase "MILF" I don't think it's necessarily any more or less offensive than saying "Hey, that's someone I'd like to f&ck!" It's way overused, and kind of crude. But if I was describing a woman to you and I said she was "hot, in a MILF-y kind of way" you probably know exactly what I was talking about.
So maybe it's just laziness that we (meaning mostly men) aren't more creative. I could be talking to you about a woman and simply state "she is hot." If we discussed it further, I might say she was in her 40s, had kids, was obviously a mom, and also took care of herself.
But saying she was hot in a MILF-y way keeps more time open for high-fiving.0 -
wearing the badge and the t-shirt proudly ..at 50 years young I'll take any form of compliment :drinker:
^this, I'm 44. It kinda strokes my ego and makes me feel young & sexy:)0 -
I think I might prefer NILF ( Nerd I'd Like to F...).0
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I don't really think it's offensive, per se..
I DO think it's unoriginal and trite, because really, f*cking someone isn't all the unique; most of the adult population does it, and it doesn't take a whole lot of special qualities except the right body parts.
I'd prefer a personalized compliment that's directed at me and specific to individual things, because it's much more mature, but.. That's just me. If someone decided to call me a "MILF" like they genuinely thought it was a compliment I'd enjoy, we wouldn't get much past introductions.0 -
I do find it mildly offensive in general, but if the right guy refers to me that way
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This! It is ALWAYS who is giving the "compliment"0 -
all I can say is what does this have to do with my fitness pal, go on a porn site if you want to bring something up like this, this is all about losing weight and posts just for losing weight and helpful hints for people, get a life0
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LOL!!! I got called a MILF at work. I thought it was funny enough to share with my husband, who got mad enough to want me to report it. I guess different people translate it differently........ I don't get my feathers ruffled very often, so i dont really put too much thought into it.
............................ I just noticed............ there seems to be some type of wicked cat fight going on in this post....LMFAO!!!!!0
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