WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR NOVEMBER 2012

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  • junekaatz
    junekaatz Posts: 119 Member
    Bump.... just when I 'm feeling good..... I feel bad, think its a touch of the flu or an invisible mule kicked me in the breaad basket!

    Kate
  • tiarapants
    tiarapants Posts: 1,015 Member
    Good morning ladies - Is it Wednesday? I'm so confused with the days! That's what comes of working every day instead of only 3 or 4 days a week.

    Barbie - I looked at those bugaboots and I'm definitely getting some! Maybe you can advise - is the sizing true or do you need to adjust up or down?

    My dad was in 'Eeyore mode' this morning. He hates it when I am working and can't have my full attention. I try to be as sympathetic as I can, but somedays I just struggle. It makes me feel very mean-spirited, but I really am doing my best.

    I have a heap of Latin translation to work through when I get home tonight so I will only be able to pop round to see dad for about an hour - otherwise I'll get no sleep at all.

    Anyway my friends, must get some work done.

    Love to all.
    Amanda x
  • DeeDee2211
    DeeDee2211 Posts: 1,133 Member
    Good morning beautiful ladies:flowerforyou:

    ChrisHanselma:smile: Glad you`re feeling better:flowerforyou: !!!!

    Calmrose:smile: Yay for staying "on plan"!!! Just keep doing it and it will become second nature!!!

    Barbie:smile: I thought I dressed warm, you have me beat!!!! It`s a shame you didn`t get to see the movie, I don`t go very often to the movies, if I sit that long wihtout talking I go to sleep:yawn: :laugh: !

    Michele:smile: I`m hoping to find the red okra next year, I can`t wait to try it! This Pat person sounds...well, how do I put it nicely....mean! Isn`t it still the holiday season between Christmas and New Years:huh: ? You can always tell her your MFP friend is coming by:bigsmile: .

    Kathy:smile: It just hit me yesterday, Thanksgiving is next week:noway: , I thought I had another week, I have somehow lost a week in Nov.:ohwell: !!!! Good for those chair exercises making you sweat!!!

    Eileen:smile: Sounds like your party was wonderful, and what a perfect day to have it!!!! I laughed about you walking around your living room, I run up and down the stairs several times a day to get a few more steps in!

    Nancycaregive:smile: Welcome to the group! Come in often and chat with us!!!

    JaneMartin:smile: How cute Violet thought the dog was driving:laugh: !!!

    Lin:smile: Glad you`re back! How`s your dad doing?

    DebA:smile: Did you get all your "stuff" done?

    Lila:smile: I don`t know how talented I am with decor, I do like to decorate though, and I`ll post a pic of the tree once I get it done! I`m hypothyroid too and my Dr. goes more by the way I feel and less by the so-called normal range of numbers, as long as my bp is good and heartrate is normal!!! It`s time for me to go in a get it checked again too, she usually has me in there every 6 months!

    Kate:smile: I sure hope you get to feeling better:flowerforyou: !!!

    Amanda:smile: Remember to take a little time for yourself:flowerforyou: !!!

    I`m having lunch with my best friend today, haven`t seen much of her this summer since her hubby had the stem cell surgery and massive chemo, I`m really looking forward to it!!! We both eat pretty heathy so I`m not worried about lunch out today!! Hope you all have a wonderful day!!! Drink your water:drinker: :drinker: :drinker: and log your food!!!!

    Hugs,
    DeeDee
  • DMOMofTHREE
    DMOMofTHREE Posts: 55 Member
    Good morning!

    saving my spot for later

    :drinker:
  • lizmil79
    lizmil79 Posts: 566 Member
    Bump for later!! Time to get ready for work-- Have a great day everyone!

    Liz
  • carojrrn
    carojrrn Posts: 69 Member
    Marking my spot for later....Wishing all a Wonderful Wednesday!!! :flowerforyou:

    Carolyn
  • mwheatcraft54
    mwheatcraft54 Posts: 235 Member
    Good morning – Wednesday, right? My head is still a little awhirl from the traveling :smile:. My diet is too – finding myself wanting to reach for cookies or chips a little too frequently. But today I’m drinking my protein shake after working out my arms and shoulders and abs. It’s sunny and clear although cold out, so I’ll go for a walk a little later. Start out as you mean to go, right?

    Bjmcq, there’s no doubt there’s a calorie discrepancy between guesstimating what you’ve burned and what you’ve eaten. A lot of ladies here wear fitbits (measure steps and calculate calories) or heart rate monitors when they work out (that’s what I do). It gives a more accurate estimate of calorie burn, and food’s pretty standard for calculating. I plug in most of my recipes to get an accurate count of the calories and then stay under by a few hundred/day. MFP already has me down 1200 calories from my total basal rate, so under or overestimating by a couple hundred isn’t going to “blow” my diet, but undereating because I’m adding in a bunch of exercise calories but not fueling my body for that will send it into a stall. Bodies are cool machines like that :wink:. Don’t forget to keep a good dose of healthy fat in your diet too – your body needs it.

    Donica, hi and welcome! My grandfather had Parkinson’s and I watch for signs of it all the time. It’s a rough disorder. Good for you and your husband for trying to be healthier! Exercise will most definitely help. Let us know how it’s going.

    Skeezicks, good goals!

    Laura, if the 30DS is really only 30 days, you’ll see the changes closer to the end than the beginning. It took me a full six – eight weeks before I saw big changes – but they are coming, believe me! You’re right, the exercise really helps.

    JaneH, I’m surprised as well that your relatively light lunch turned out to be so calorie intensive, but I’ve seen that happen. It’s a bummer. My trip was only partially vacation – I did work out of the Phoenix office while I was there, but it was someplace warm, so that’s always better, right? We’ll be out your way next week but guess we’ll miss each other. I’ll be sure to hit the outlet malls for you :laugh:.

    DeeDee, I’m in the same boat – I had done a clothes purge a couple of years ago, so all of my old smaller clothes are long gone. Same thing with the bras too – I had myself fitted for a new bra before I went to France and think the shock of discovering how big my breasts had gotten is what really threw me into serious lose-weight mode. I had always been a comfortable C, so discovering I was a DD was a major shock. Now the bands keep getting bigger and my girls are swimming in their cups. Fortunately I kept the old bras, so I’m tossing the new ones, getting out the old ones and hoping the old sexy ones look sexy again one day :laugh:. Your Christmas tree idea sounds lovely! I don’t think we’re putting up a tree this year but will be getting out the Christmas decorations. We have a fake tree we put in the dining room so maybe I’ll decorate that one to the hilt. Have fun at your lunch with your friend!

    Calmrose, your diet plan sounds perfect! You’re right, as you can tick off the days it helps you see how far you’ve come – until you realize that’s how you always eat! It’s a great journey. Good luck!

    Michele, if you’re in a temperate climate you can grow rosemary as big as you want. In Phoenix they use it for shrubbery. Seriously, it grows into hedges. It’s kind of like a bramble that way.

    Eileen, your party for your son sounds wonderful. I’m so glad he’s here and you got to see him more before he heads back. Lol about the laps in the living room – it would take me about 500 to get a mile or so – we have a fairly small room :smile:.

    Hi, Nancy from TN. Welcome – feel free to pop by and comment whenever you want.

    JaneM, what a lovely day with your DGD. Good luck with the new job!

    Barbie, don’t you hate when you can’t get the right movie time? We try to use Fandango to get the times, but our local theater doesn’t participate in on-line ticketing, so sometimes they have the wrong listings. Grr. Let us know how the movie is though. I imagine Twilight is in my future – we still have a teen girl in the house :laugh:.

    Lila, I had my thyroid tested multiple times – bottom line is, it’s not my thyroid lol. I think a lot of us have gotten used to avoiding carbs, and in a pretty big way it’s good for us. I eat them because as a vegetarian it’s pretty necessary, but I try to make sure they’re “whole” and not processed. I don’t have white flour in the house, and we just ran out of sugar and I seem to keep “forgetting” to buy more :wink:. I always have almonds on hand, and I keep a bowl of apples on the counter. I don’t tend to eat a lot of pasta either, but we eat beans like crazy, along with some tofu. The one thing I won’t do is eat the meat substitutes. I just don’t like it for the most part, I have a little OCD thing that makes me reject “fake” foods, and I get plenty of protein in regular food anyway. It helps if I have a shake in the morning, but I rarely go over my carb count even on days when my protein is low. What book are you reading?

    Kate, hope you get over whatever you have soon! DD’s family had the raging stomach flu roar through their house a couple of weeks ago – it was a rough go for them.

    Amanda, lol about the confusion (you’ll note how I started my post). I didn’t know you did translation on top of your map store – is it for your husband? I seem to recall he does something with it . . . anyway, impressed.

    OK, off to the showers and work. I hope everyone has a productive Wednesday and a peaceful evening. I’m taking my sister to dinner tonight at a favorite Malaysian place – it has sushi and something for everyone. I haven’t decided what I’m having but I’ll eat light today regardless.

    Cheers,

    M.
  • kathyszoo
    kathyszoo Posts: 311 Member
    Happy Wednesday!

    Finally got a good nights sleep!:smile: I credit my evening workout for that. Also, to keep the momentum going, I planned my eating for the day ahead of time and will try to stick to it! Found a few new recipes on skinnytaste.com that I'm trying this week. Hope everyone has a great day!

    Kathy
  • mazaron
    mazaron Posts: 329 Member
    Hello all,

    Glad to be back into my regular morning routine. This will be a short week at school, only two days of regular classes. The student teacher has finished her two week practicum, so I have "my" students back. I will celebrate by getting busy with their fall reports!

    A new circuit class starts tonight, I wonder what the instructor will have in store for us? I've got my new shorts, so I'm ready for anything! (So terribly shallow! :blushing: :laugh: )

    What do I enjoy most about winter?

    Christmas! :love: I love everything about Christmas, the religious significance and ritual, the decorations, the special times with family and friends. the gift buying, wrapping, displaying, giving (and yes, getting), all of it!

    Skiing! Oh yeah. Curling. Sitting inside and watching the snow fall outside.

    My Pendleton blanket winter jacket. Colourful scarves. Wearing sweaters my mother knitted (or is it knit?) for me years ago.

    DeeDee, so glad to hear you took the shoes back and got re-fitted. :smile: There is nothing, nothing, worse than bad shoes or sore feet.

    Michelle, my HIIT at the hotel was on the treadmill – run fast as I can for 60 seconds, run slowly for 120. :explode: Sometimes I use the ropes and flap them around for 20-30 seconds, rest for the rest of the minute. At circuit training we do 45 seconds of an exercise flat out, then rest for 15 while moving to the next station.

    Jane, congratulations on getting the job! :flowerforyou: Here's knowing it will all come back to you and you'll enjoy yourself.


    We went to see the new 007 movie in IMAX while in Spokane. Very fun. :laugh: J’boy and I cheered and giggled our way through the whole thing.

    Amanda, is it English to Latin or Latin to English? I’m guessing the latter because what would a person need Latin for today? No, wait, someone translated at least the first Harry Potter book into Latin. :noway: I wonder if young students are using it for a text?

    Must go and get ready for school - new hip length black jacket, black leggings, wide black belt. All that black balanced by a happy coloured scarf and a big smile.

    Hasta (not haystack!) pronto,

    Nancy

    November Goals:

    Time for a mid-month check:

    Continue New Rules of Lifting – 3x week = I am on track with this.
    No second helpings, no evening snacks = I am doing well here too, if we disregard yesterday. I was dis oriented when we got home.
    Keep up the exercise & good eating routine when we go away for our November break. = Oh yeah! Two workouts in three days, took Monday off the diet to enjoy a fancy dinner.
    Add meditative prayer to my daily routine. = not happening. Hmmm.
  • jb_2011
    jb_2011 Posts: 1,029 Member
    Good morning. Just jotting down my W list for Wednesday.

    Winning. (No) Whining. Waning Weight and Waist :wink:

    Willpower. Water! :drinker:

    Withstand the Wet Weather. :tongue:

    Busy day ahead, I must get a move on. Have a good day everyone!

    :smile: jb
  • Laura80111
    Laura80111 Posts: 958 Member
    :flowerforyou: Happy Wednesday All,

    I think I'm caught up on the posts but my brain just didn't retain all of it:blushing:

    M- so I'm really looking at a 6wk 30DS? If that's the case then I will have to get moving on to the next level. Some parts are getting easier and then others I just am pushing to get it done because I dislike that particular exercise:wink: But I'm determined to finish it.

    Nancy-your clothes for work sounded really cute...maybe a picture of you in them so we can see:happy: I too love the holidays and am looking forward to "dressing up" the house.

    So last Thursday night I finally fixed the Shirataki Noodles. I followed the instructions Lin (I think it was Lin) gave to the letter and hubby and I really liked them:bigsmile: . I made chicken sauages with our family receipe of Spaghetti Sauce that I had in the freezer. I'm thinking I will keep those kind of noodles in the frig all the time because they would be a great add to any meal.

    Also on Friday when we were dressing to go to the football game we were needing to layer the clothes because of how cold and windy it was supposed to be. I pulled out a pair of my bigger pants and when I put them on over my exercise dancekins they were still plenty roomy. I just never thought I see the day and it's these little things that keep me eating right and exercising.

    To all of you newbies welcome:flowerforyou: this is the best place for encouragement, information and even a place to vent when needed. Come back often.

    Hubby is working Thanksgiving until 1pm but he does have Black Friday off before he works on Saturday...which will probably be just as busy. He's so much happier since he started working, even at such low wages and only part-time. But since he talks to people about what he's passionate about it makes his hours fly by...did I tell you he's working the gun counter at Gander Mountain:huh:

    Today I need to call DIL#2 and find out what the family is doing for Thanksgiving because I really have no idea if any of us have made a decision...all I know is that I have said we would host Christmas at our house..which will make a house full.

    I best get to the papers on the desk, it's hard to believe that this year is almost over which makes for more work as we close out one year and start another and it looks like we will be changing accounting programs so I will be a crazy person for the next couple of months as I try to keep up with my work load and try and figure out how to change all my reports over to the new system....should be challenging.:ohwell:

    Have a good day of exercise, drinking your water and don't forget to log your food:drinker:

    Laura80111:smile:

    PS I changed my ticker to show how many pounds I have lost since I've met my goal, it fun to see how many pounds have gone away:love:
  • rjadams
    rjadams Posts: 4,029 Member
    good morning ladies, marking my spot so I can continue my lurking ways.

    Robin, Bodi and Ritter.
  • megblair1
    megblair1 Posts: 1,226 Member
    Hi again. Today I’ll try to stay! Lots of gnashing of teeth around here LOL. Feeling somewhat better although I think I need another round of antibiotics. Still waiting to hear back from doc; I called again today. Not very happy with them right now. I did feel up to 10 minutes slowly on the elliptical yesterday, so that was good. I need to get back in the habit of being here each day; after being gone and being sick, it’s hard to get going again. I really want to lose that next 12 pounds so I can get my 30# reward! 

    DeeDee: this may sound simple, but when my toes have gone numb, I’ve tied my shoes too tight!

    Sue: OMG I read your post too fast and thought your horse ate the clothes off you while you rode him! My best friend has horses and they like to eat my hair.

    Jane: I’ll keep my fingers crossed for your job!

    Michele: ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ lol

    Chris: I hope you are feeling better by now!

    Liz: I agree with the protein…if I don’t eat it at each meal, I am starving in no time!

    M; I Love corn chowder. I have a great recipe that starts with boiling corn cobs in milk. OMG it’s to die for.

    MaryC: happy veterans day and thank you for your service.

    Jane: I think you have the things that count!!!

    Amanda: my dad does the same thing. He obsesses and rants and carries on and calls my poor brother dozens of times a day. We have told the nursing home staff to give him no prior warning for any event that is occurring. It’s difficult, I know. Hang in there.

    Jolene: your supervisor sounds like my twin!!!

    Janehadji: ok those gremlins had their day, now it’s your turn. Give them the boot!

    Boy with the new thread I am confused! I need to get back to work, but I know I haven’t said hi to everyone. Welcome to the newbies and come back often. The rest of us….keep plowing along! Take care and I’ll get better at this again. Too many interruptions at wokr! Meg
  • linder4866
    linder4866 Posts: 11,429 Member
    Hello ladies! Here I am after a little interruption---just recovered from a blue screen of death on my laptop. I just took time to install all the needed updates, updated my virus definitions, ran a virus scan and that's how I'm rewarded? Come on laptop and Microsoft. Grrrr. I know, I'm lucky the laptop recovered, could have BEEN THE BIG ONE! (Anyone remember Sanford & Son?)

    I've been reading and reading and I believe I'm caught up but once again, I'm going to have to skate along.

    I got lots accomplished for my dad yesterday. That was good. They've now told me they do not believe he will ever be free of c. diff. He's been through course after course after course of antibiotics. They've knocked it down once but it's back so now they say they will probably have to put him on antibiotics periodically indefinitely as the c. diff. will breakthrough from time to time. It's kind of icky though, no one touches him without gloves. There are 3 bins in his room with one taking half of his closet space. One is for institutional laundry (like their towels, etc.), one is for waste paper and other things (it's called infectious waste I think), and the last one is for his personal laundry. Anyone visiting is suppose to wash their hands before entering and then wash again when leaving. Anyone almost all the space in his room is taken up with this extra stuff.

    The partial hip replacement has really adversely affected his ability to function. Of the ADLs, he's now only capable of feeding himself. I took lots of chocolate goodies to staff on 2nd floor yesterday which improved everyone's mood for a little while. They told me no one ever brings them treats---I was surprised at that. Anyway, I'm not foolish enough to think that mood will last but I tried.

    Back to my chores. Tomorrow I need to get my vehicle in for service and I need to do something about replacing my glasses. The ones I got last year have never worked---I get a horrible headache each time I wear them. My older glasses are ok for using the computer but they don't work for longer distances now. I have to take them off and then my vision is clear. An even older pair of glasses again never worked, the progressive lens was set wrong (in my opinion) and they never got it corrected properly. I'm starting to think I'm really fussy! I really wish I could see well without them.

    Everyone take care. We seem to have a lot of viruses, coughs, and sniffles going around.

    Lin


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  • glendalight
    glendalight Posts: 127 Member
    Okay. I 'm back after a couple of weeks of busy, full days - grandchildren for a week, conference in the Rockies and a flight to Ottawa for mom's 80th birthday, with a bonus of son/daughter-in-law/grandkids visit.......now it is time to get back at it and find some routine! Oh wait, it is the beginning of the Christmas season!! Might not happen.....
  • LindaS175
    LindaS175 Posts: 186 Member
    Hi Lovely ladies,
    Just a quick note. I have had 2 physical therapy sessions now and hand.wrist and arm feeling somewhat better.:smile: This blog is getting so BIG these days! I will try to catch up on all the posts, find this takes a lot of seat time.:laugh:
    I wish I could get the blog on the I phone,but I just get the diary and home page, for this I am thankful.:drinker:

    Going to the gym today, or walk at the track while DD#1, has soccer practice. Walking is hard on knee,so I like to stick with recumbent bike and elliptical!:wink::wink: :flowerforyou:
    Hope everyone is having a nutritious and loving day! Hugs, Linda aka Sundance:heart:

    P.S- thanks for all the prayers and well wishes!
  • Laura80111
    Laura80111 Posts: 958 Member
    Okay. I 'm back after a couple of weeks of busy, full days - grandchildren for a week, conference in the Rockies and a flight to Ottawa for mom's 80th birthday, with a bonus of son/daughter-in-law/grandkids visit.......now it is time to get back at it and find some routine! Oh wait, it is the beginning of the Christmas season!! Might not happen.....

    Your last couple of weeks sound so much more fun than what I've been doing at work. Glad you had a good time.:flowerforyou:
  • Laura80111
    Laura80111 Posts: 958 Member
    Hi Lovely ladies,
    Just a quick note. I have had 2 physical therapy sessions now and hand.wrist and arm feeling somewhat better.:smile: This blog is getting so BIG these days! I will try to catch up on all the posts, find this takes a lot of seat time.:laugh:
    I wish I could get the blog on the I phone,but I just get the diary and home page, for this I am thankful.:drinker:

    Going to the gym today, or walk at the track while DD#1, has soccer practice. Walking is hard on knee,so I like to stick with recumbent bike and elliptical!:wink::wink: :flowerforyou:
    Hope everyone is having a nutritious and loving day! Hugs, Linda aka Sundance:heart:

    P.S- thanks for all the prayers and well wishes!

    So glad to read that the PT is working for you:flowerforyou:
  • wessecg
    wessecg Posts: 410 Member
    It hurts me to type so I've been avoiding it. I just ate 3 chocolate chip cookies. I'm still under my calories but hate that I was weak. Haven't had time to do the 30 day shred.

    I'm editing this - I just did the 30 day shred on a full belly. I did a very fast 40 minute walk at lunch today so I was going to skip the shred. So happy I did it. Can't let the husband get ahead of me!!:happy:
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,211 Member
    :bigsmile: :drinker: :flowerforyou: good evening to all my wonderful friends....Jake fixed lunch today (chicken breast on the George Forman grill and vegetarian baked beans topped with salsa):heart::drinker: :drinker: :drinker: I am extra thirsty this evening from the sodium:laugh:

    :bigsmile: we finally made plans for Thanksgiving and they don't include having me cook :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: yippee

    :bigsmile: thanks to all your gentle nudging and inspiration, I have my mammogram scheduled for tomorrow afternoon

    :heart: Barbie from NW Washington
  • mch1956
    mch1956 Posts: 62 Member
    Hello all -60 days of tracking on MFP! Time has passed so quickly. I am so grateful I found MFP And especially this great group of strong beautiful women. I would not have lost 8 lbs or tried new exercise plan or felt so successful. I had spent the past 12 months losing and gaining the same 5 pounds. One thing that is working for me now is eating more slowly. I eat a cheese sandwich and a pices of fruit every day for lunch at work. I cut the sandwich into 8 pieces and the fruit into slices. It takes me longer to eat that way so I am full by the time I finish eating, about 20 minutes. I do the same when eating something like a Fiber One bar, I cut it into 8 pices. If I dont't cut it up, I can eat it in 3-4 bites and it will be gone before I notice what it tastes like. I hope this may be helpful to someone struggling.
    Keep coming back
    MaryC
  • Sasha4427
    Sasha4427 Posts: 196 Member
    Hi all - hope Wednesday was kind to you. Read all the posts but am on the iPad so will have to wing it instead of using the trusty Word and the old memory isn't what it used to be.

    M - reading Lets Not Go to the Dogs Tonight by Alexandra Fuller; memoir of a childhood in Zimbabwe during the uprisings and expulsion of the whites. Didn't think I would like it but I'm finding it fascinating. I think I'll go back to mostly meatless. When my girls were home we ate vegetarian as both have been vegetarian since 10 years old. Me, I can take it or leave it but I know if I had to do my own butchering I'd be unable to (and I grew up in a farming family). How did your Malaysian meal turn out. About the only thing I've tried is Sambal Olek and I'm not sure about that spelling either.

    Meg - hope you don't need another round of antibiotics. Your posts sound more like you now.

    Linda - glad to hear the hand is responding to the PT. Love the ticker photo.

    Barbie - good for you for going for the mammo - hope its not too uncomfortable.

    Nancy - you rock those shorts girl!!! And thanks for all the winter inspirations. I like the sound of your new school outfit today.

    Glenda - sounds like you had a great time.

    Kate - sorry to hear you're under the weather and hope it passes quickly.

    JB - weirdly wonderful words

    Laura - I like the shiitake too, but prefer the thin ones to the fatter ones. Have fun with the program switchover - hope it goes smoothly.

    Lin - it sounds like the C Difficile is going to be a challenge. Your poor dad, not being touched skin to skin must be hard to understand. I hope that's not a permanent routine but I guess the threat of transmitting to other patients is a high risk. Hang in there. Your dad is so fortunate to have you.

    Anyway, I'm off to finish this book tonight (kind of a short read). Have a good evening and morning ladies.
    Lila
  • LindaS175
    LindaS175 Posts: 186 Member
    Hi Ladies,

    I am wondering why my home page is not updating the little saying that -"Linda completed her diary for today and she is under her calorie goal."? Seems like this has been happening for the last few days:grumble: ?

    Went to the gym at 8:30 pm and it is now 1145 pm, so I need to shower and go to bed. Another busy day with girls school , orthodontist,dermatologist apts and some shopping! I got my "ME" time in by going to the gym! Wipeee!:drinker: :drinker:

    Until tomorrow, Sweet dreams friends. May you have a nutritious Thursday! :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:
    Hugs, Linda:heart:
  • lizmil79
    lizmil79 Posts: 566 Member
    Hello Ladies,

    Yesterday at work wme home and was extremely hard so bother me I just came home and cried. I will spare you all the details I woke up this morning just dreading going in. Yet i know rarely are there 2 bad days in a row there. I just am upaet at me a bit normally I can spin it around and get a positive outlook and i know that what it takes but DH and i are planning on looking at budget to see if i can go extremely part time or quit. at my company no in betweens either very parttime or full time. Ohwell enough of this

    @Linda glad to hear your hand is doing better
    @Lin sorry for your Dad and sorry for you hang in there.
    @Meg hope no more meds will be needed
    @Lila sounds like an interesting read

    Well I need to go get ready for work. Wishing everyone a good day.

    Liz
  • tiarapants
    tiarapants Posts: 1,015 Member
    Hello my lovelies

    My nose is to the grindstone at present (good job it's not running!) I am trying to fit my Latin translation in when I get home, but it's making for some very late nights - which I could really do without at present (incidentally, it's 90% Latin to English, although I do get requests sometimes for English to Latin). DH is so busy with his book writing and we are almost competing to see who has the longest work day!

    My dad was crying again today on the phone. He is convinced that he has cancer and will not be optimistic about anything. It makes me pull my hair out sometimes.

    The next thing I'm about to say is really and truly horrible and I can't believe I'm going to type it - but I need to put it out there.... Last night we were driving back from visiting my father and making arrangements to visit MIL in the nursing home after work today and my DH came out with something that shocked me. He said "Our life will be so much easier when your dad and my mum are no longer around". I was shocked, yes - but the truth is, I understood what he meant and, just for a fleeting moment agreed with him - in an unspoken way.

    Now I just feel guilty for those thoughts of course.

    On that horrid note, I am going to press on with some work.

    Love to you all - from a nasty-thought-Amanda x
  • DeeDee2211
    DeeDee2211 Posts: 1,133 Member
    Good beautiful morning beautiful ladies:flowerforyou:

    I have very little time this morning:grumble: , but wanted to check in!

    Barbie:smile: Yay for you going to get your mammogram!!!

    Liz:smile: Hope you get to retire from your job!!!!! Sounds like you had a really BAD day...sending you hugs:flowerforyou: !!!!

    Amanda:smile: I, too understand what your hubby said, not pleasant thoughts, but they happen. My mom was in the hospital 6 weeks before she passed away, I was there everyday from 9am to 6pm, all the while trying to help my daughter and the wedding planner finish up the details on daughters wedding, I felt like a walking zombie! I miss my mom everyday and wish I had more weeks to spend with her, but I had those thoughts as well. You`re not alone:flowerforyou: !

    Must run now...will be back later to reply to more!! Drink yor water:drinker: :drinker: :drinker: and log your food!!!!

    Hugs,
    DeeDee
  • carojrrn
    carojrrn Posts: 69 Member
    Morning to everyone!

    Hope today is whatever you make it to be.....

    I bought a kettlebell yesterday at the Sporting Goods store and will try to learn correct technique before using it. Got some great advice from an MFP friend so I hope to boost my metabolism. I have been in a plateau for about three weeks....

    Yesterday I paid the vet bill for the kitten I rescued and found a home for. I miss him but know that he is well cared for. As my DH said, "You know another one will wander to our back door"...LOL

    Kathy- LOVE the skinnytaste recipes!!! Don't know what I did before I discovered that website!
    jb- Thanks for posting the soup recipe. I will try it this weekend. Thanks for your cute Wednesday words of Wisdom!
    Laura- Hope you get your desk cleared!!! I just push all the piles to the side! LOL!
    DeeDee- Hope you enjoyed spending time with your dear girlfriend...Priceless memories....
    Meg- Girl I hope you get on the road to recovery soon....You have been through the ringer...
    Lin- What a kind gesture bringing goodies for the staff caring for your Dad. Sorry about the C diff.
    Linda- Yay for PT!! Yay that it is helping!!! Glad you are feeling better!
    Wessecg- Oh the chocolate chip cookies...Girl I feel your pain. My downfall is cookies. BUT- You still got in a workout! Good for you!!
    Lila- Hope you enjoy your quiet time reading your book. Not enough time in the day to do that but getting lost in a book is a great place to be!
    Liz- Hang in there with work. I hope today is better and things fall into place soon. I hate workplace drama....
    Amanda- I am so impressed with your Latin translations!! Very cool! Hope you don't hold onto the guilt about what DH said. I know it is a challenging time but you guys will cope and manage the best you are able. It is very stressful but I know you will savor every moment and make new memories....
    Tigress- Hope you are feeling better. Germs, germs, GERMS!!! Rest your body and know we are thinking of you!!!

    I know I missed a lot of people, our group is enormous!!! Thinking of you all. Thanks for being here. The caring and support of this group is tremendous!

    Take care,
    Carolyn
  • vv523
    vv523 Posts: 429 Member
    to all the over 50 women you all look good keep up the good work!
  • linder4866
    linder4866 Posts: 11,429 Member
    Linda you wrote:

    I am wondering why my home page is not updating the little saying that -"Linda completed her diary for today and she is under her calorie goal."? Seems like this has been happening for the last few days:grumble: ?


    If you have not changed your settings that is a puzzle isn't it. That happened to one of my friends here on MFP for a few days and then magically it started to post again. She submitted her diary several times at the end of the day until she saw the message pop up on her newsfeed. I don't know if that helps. If you could type more I'd suggest contacting the technical people here and ask about it.

    And I hope you will be back to full typing speed again soon. Meanwhile, congrats on going to the gym and all the activity that you are doing.

    Lin

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  • mazaron
    mazaron Posts: 329 Member
    Hello all,

    Circuit workout last night was great, we did some new moves with medicine balls and bosu balls. :explode: Hip-hopping about.

    My students were very lethargic yesterday :yawn: I think four days off was long enough to get into holiday mood and not long enough to want to get back into the routine! I got them to go for a run around the school to wake them up. Today we start with a PE class, I am going to think of a game that keeps them moving so we can all be full of oxygen and energy when classes begin.

    JB, could we do a T for Thursday list? :ohwell: Hmm:

    Tenacious = focus on the long term goals.
    Terrific = because we are!


    Laura – a new accounting program?? Poor you.

    Lin, there is nothing, I repeat, nothing worse than the feeling when one sees “the blue screen of death”. :sad: So glad you recovered your computer. Though the news is not great, it does sound like your Dad is settling down a bit. I hope you are remembering to take care of yourself, too.

    Glenda, you will be on track with your routine, even during the Christmas season. I know it.

    Linida/Sundance, congratulations on making the gym, elliptical & recumbent bike, so much a part of your life these days. :drinker: Every you post you are on your way to the workout or just coming home from one, or planning the next one.

    Wessecg – No, you must not let the husband get more Jillian hours than you do. :noway: Show those chocolate chip cookies who’s boss!

    Liz, I’m sorry to hear you had a bad day. :flowerforyou: I do hope today is better and you can get your positive spin back.

    Amanda, facts is facts, and it doesn’t hurt to face them, it’s the way you face them that counts. You and your DH are giving your parents all the love and care you can and accepting all the stress and time it costs, :heart: that’s not nasty at all.

    Carolyn, I use kettle bells at the gym & it’s great fun. You will find lots of way to use it. Utube probably has lots of instructional videos.

    Curling tonight for fun, yeah!

    My green smoothie is calling me to the kitchen for breakfast…

    Hasta pronto,

    Nancy


    November Goals:

    Continue New Rules of Lifting – 3x week
    No second helpings, no evening snacks
    Keep up the exercise & good eating routine when we go away for our November break.
    Add meditative prayer to my daily routine
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