Guys say they want a Nice/Good girl but go for Sl*ts?

Tricia, women are useful for more than just sex. It doesn't all hinge on that.

You mean, for making sammiches and stuff?

I find it offensive that you have divided girls up into good/nice and slut/skank.

I don't believe the terms slut and skank should be used for anyone. Women can find liberation covered up or revealing skin, in abstinence or many partners. It's an individual choice and no one else's business.

Sorry honey, but if you are sleeping with multiple guys you are devaluing the female gender as a whole. That is why other females get mad at you for it. Sex is a currency, the more there is in circulation the less it is worth. Men are the consumers and they want the value to go down so they have to invest less to get what they want. Investing less hurts society as a whole. We are a monogamist species because we women developed the ability to hide our ovulation so men couldn't just come around while we are in heat. This meant that if a man wanted a woman he had to work for it all the time in the hopes he could have a shot when the time was right. By giving it away for free you train the males that there is always a woman willing to give it up so there is no need to stay faithful to any one female. You in a very real sense cause the breakdown of the family unit and that is the downfall of society.

WOW. You have to be kidding me.

Actually, I think that someone is just hurt that the guy they like chose to date someone else. And just because someone chooses to be intimate with who they are dating, that doesn't make them a slut. But, I guess the definition has changed and unless you save yourself for marriage then you are a slut. Who knows what makes one a slut these days

1. Waiting for this ignorant thread to be locked
2. Naked pics and rolling blunts seriously?
3. Don't want a man that is fearful. God fearing wtf?
4. I am a nice/good/slut/girl and my man loves it.

good girls are boring.

they are

Good girls are generally bad girls in bed.

Bad girls are usually just bad.

Good guys will put a ring on it, and finish you off first FOR. THE. REST. OF. YOUR. LIFE.

Bad guys will finish first, tell you it's been fun and call you in 6 weeks to hook up again.

Oh dear. This is just highly inaccurate. So called "bad boys" are generally exactly what they claim to be and they are typically very generous in the bedroom. So called "good boys" are so hung up on being what the christian world wants to see, that they put all their effort into looking "good" but behind it all, they are very selfish. I have never been left hanging by a bad boy. As for the good boys, they have no idea what they're doing.

I find it offensive that you have divided girls up into good/nice and slut/skank.

I don't believe the terms slut and skank should be used for anyone. Women can find liberation covered up or revealing skin, in abstinence or many partners. It's an individual choice and no one else's business.

Sorry honey, but if you are sleeping with multiple guys you are devaluing the female gender as a whole. That is why other females get mad at you for it. Sex is a currency, the more there is in circulation the less it is worth. Men are the consumers and they want the value to go down so they have to invest less to get what they want. Investing less hurts society as a whole. We are a monogamist species because we women developed the ability to hide our ovulation so men couldn't just come around while we are in heat. This meant that if a man wanted a woman he had to work for it all the time in the hopes he could have a shot when the time was right. By giving it away for free you train the males that there is always a woman willing to give it up so there is no need to stay faithful to any one female. You in a very real sense cause the breakdown of the family unit and that is the downfall of society.

Hi, my name is the 21st century. Clearly we have not met before. I see you've also not met my mom, the 20th century, either.

Amen

I find it offensive that you have divided girls up into good/nice and slut/skank.

I don't believe the terms slut and skank should be used for anyone. Women can find liberation covered up or revealing skin, in abstinence or many partners. It's an individual choice and no one else's business.

Sorry honey, but if you are sleeping with multiple guys you are devaluing the female gender as a whole. That is why other females get mad at you for it. Sex is a currency, the more there is in circulation the less it is worth. Men are the consumers and they want the value to go down so they have to invest less to get what they want. Investing less hurts society as a whole. We are a monogamist species because we women developed the ability to hide our ovulation so men couldn't just come around while we are in heat. This meant that if a man wanted a woman he had to work for it all the time in the hopes he could have a shot when the time was right. By giving it away for free you train the males that there is always a woman willing to give it up so there is no need to stay faithful to any one female. You in a very real sense cause the breakdown of the family unit and that is the downfall of society.

Hi, my name is the 21st century. Clearly we have not met before. I see you've also not met my mom, the 20th century, either.

*high-five*

I would like to point out that men have brains, and hearts in addition to penises.

And again women do (or should) enjoy sex too.

Silly me, thinking that if a man ever wanted to marry me it would be for my personality, brains, sense of humor, and because, you know, he actually enjoys my company. I'm worthless except for my vagina. Thanks for opening my eyes.

How is this confusing.

The "good" girls are hard to find and obviously harder to get in bed. The man wants sex. He gets easier girls in the meantime. Yes very confusing...

But aren't woman the same way. They will over look the nice guy to be with the bad boy? its pretty simple why people go after those types. They want someone who will make their day to day exciting with something new. Though there maybe headaches from time to time I think most seek adventure and need something crazy in their lives to make things feel alive.

I guess most do not want the plain Jane who won't kiss in public.

I find it offensive that you have divided girls up into good/nice and slut/skank.

I don't believe the terms slut and skank should be used for anyone. Women can find liberation covered up or revealing skin, in abstinence or many partners. It's an individual choice and no one else's business.

Sorry honey, but if you are sleeping with multiple guys you are devaluing the female gender as a whole. That is why other females get mad at you for it. Sex is a currency, the more there is in circulation the less it is worth. Men are the consumers and they want the value to go down so they have to invest less to get what they want. Investing less hurts society as a whole. We are a monogamist species because we women developed the ability to hide our ovulation so men couldn't just come around while we are in heat. This meant that if a man wanted a woman he had to work for it all the time in the hopes he could have a shot when the time was right. By giving it away for free you train the males that there is always a woman willing to give it up so there is no need to stay faithful to any one female. You in a very real sense cause the breakdown of the family unit and that is the downfall of society.

Doesn't that make you a prostitute?

As for hiding ovulation; well obviously my girlfriend didn't get that memo. If I didn't already have a rough idea the nigh-humping my leg gives it away.

I find it offensive that you have divided girls up into good/nice and slut/skank.

I don't believe the terms slut and skank should be used for anyone. Women can find liberation covered up or revealing skin, in abstinence or many partners. It's an individual choice and no one else's business.

Sorry honey, but if you are sleeping with multiple guys you are devaluing the female gender as a whole. That is why other females get mad at you for it. Sex is a currency, the more there is in circulation the less it is worth. Men are the consumers and they want the value to go down so they have to invest less to get what they want. Investing less hurts society as a whole. We are a monogamist species because we women developed the ability to hide our ovulation so men couldn't just come around while we are in heat. This meant that if a man wanted a woman he had to work for it all the time in the hopes he could have a shot when the time was right. By giving it away for free you train the males that there is always a woman willing to give it up so there is no need to stay faithful to any one female. You in a very real sense cause the breakdown of the family unit and that is the downfall of society.

Wow. The idea that sex is a currency is part of the entire reason why women are oppressed. It's why women get categorized as objects as opposed to people. Men aren't "considered a currency" because their sexual habits are not limited by social expectations. By allowing women to be free to do as they desire, they will actually gain value because they will be equals as opposed to objects. Ever watch those apocalypse movies they make? The first thing that happens is women become objects for trade. Why? Because there is less available in the market and the men are strong enough to control it. Freeing women from these kinds of names, allowing them to partake of whatever sexual choices they choose and legalizing prostitution are the steps necessary to be taken if women ever want any real chance at equality. Otherwise it will just be a bandaid there only to placate us and cut back our whining. Double standards and abused patriarchy are why women are in the social position that they are. I'm sorry you feel that it's better to lock a victim up than listen to her fight for justice.

wow... some people here are REALLY judgmental and clearly "spend" (read waste) more time preoccupied with the actions of others instead of themselves. Where to begin... maybe here.... news flash, the world is seldom black and white, women are not good girls OR skank/sluts. (I can't believe I actually had to write that). These labels are all subjective and putting them in total binary opposition further deteriorates the argument. Plenty of "good" people are playful and liberated, others perhaps go beyond some arbitrary line in the sand, but its just that, arbitrary; If something or someone is offensive to you... move on.

Perhaps the question is "men that say they want one type of girl yet pursue someone completely different" (<-- see, no angry judgement of people that don't fit into a narrow mold). And again... wake up... this is true of both sexes. Most of the time edgy is better than dull. And, by the way, edgy can be any number of things, not skanky and/or slutty.

Not touching the "sex as currency" part... not enough time...

And this is one of my favorites... Saying you read the bible DOES NOT make you a Christian. That's a whole other discussion there.
Even so, none of this makes a person "immune" to sexual attraction. In the end if people follow an ideal or a label, they're probably not going to find a real person. It's probably best to have a bit everything and not be confined to either end of the spectrum and look for someone that makes you feel good; probably someone that can be comfortable being both playfully naughty and nice!
What others say and look for... that's up to them.

Most of us prefer a "Lady in the streets, but a FREAK in the bed."