Guys say they want a Nice/Good girl but go for Sl*ts?
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The one saying that drove me nuts was that stupid song "Where Have All The Cowboys Gone". All the cowboys disappeared because women decided they all wanted to be men. Guys want their women to be women. If I wanted an "equal", I'd hang out with my guy friends.I generally go for the girls that don't waste their time b****ing and moaning on internet forums about 'where have all the good men gone' because they have better things to do with their time, sex drive aside.
That's just me though.
Maybe I'm a freak or something.
And I thought this thread couldn't stoop any lower...
Oh MFP how you've proved me wrong again.
seriously. because wanting to be treated as a human being is somehow a rejection of being a woman?? No it's because YOUR Definition of "woman" involves us being less than human. I call bull$hit on this one too.0 -
Hey man, let's all take a minute and remember the summer of love, man. We are all like, one with the universe man, and should just love each other and not pass judgement man... mkay?0
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I'm sure not all guys but it's kind of upsetting.
Guys who claim to be God fearing, guys claiming to want a nice girl and etc
but then go after and flirt with skanks........
I mean women who take naked pictures and are rolling blunts....... come on.
Maybe these guys are not "men" but what the hell
who are these girls you speak of? I MUST FRIEND THEM IMMEDIATELY!
Come and get me!!!! I'm a sl** you don't even have to send a message as to WHY you want to friend me...I'll accept it...I'm so sl**ty
Errr yerhsh. That half naked bear pic you got - mmmm betty
how you like me now, baby? lol How YOU doing? :smokin:
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Hey man, let's all take a minute and remember the summer of love, man. We are all like, one with the universe man, and should just love each other and not pass judgement man... mkay?
sounds like a plan...:flowerforyou:0 -
I find it offensive that you have divided girls up into good/nice and slut/skank.
I don't believe the terms slut and skank should be used for anyone. Women can find liberation covered up or revealing skin, in abstinence or many partners. It's an individual choice and no one else's business.
Sorry honey, but if you are sleeping with multiple guys you are devaluing the female gender as a whole. That is why other females get mad at you for it. Sex is a currency, the more there is in circulation the less it is worth. Men are the consumers and they want the value to go down so they have to invest less to get what they want. Investing less hurts society as a whole. We are a monogamist species because we women developed the ability to hide our ovulation so men couldn't just come around while we are in heat. This meant that if a man wanted a woman he had to work for it all the time in the hopes he could have a shot when the time was right. By giving it away for free you train the males that there is always a woman willing to give it up so there is no need to stay faithful to any one female. You in a very real sense cause the breakdown of the family unit and that is the downfall of society.
Wow. The idea that sex is a currency is part of the entire reason why women are oppressed. It's why women get categorized as objects as opposed to people. Men aren't "considered a currency" because their sexual habits are not limited by social expectations. By allowing women to be free to do as they desire, they will actually gain value because they will be equals as opposed to objects. Ever watch those apocalypse movies they make? The first thing that happens is women become objects for trade. Why? Because there is less available in the market and the men are strong enough to control it. Freeing women from these kinds of names, allowing them to partake of whatever sexual choices they choose and legalizing prostitution are the steps necessary to be taken if women ever want any real chance at equality. Otherwise it will just be a bandaid there only to placate us and cut back our whining. Double standards and abused patriarchy are why women are in the social position that they are. I'm sorry you feel that it's better to lock a victim up than listen to her fight for justice.
Can I just have sex when I feel like it, ya know for fun, and not worry about the bigger socioeconomic picture? Oh wait, that would make me a dude. I think.0 -
I'm sure not all guys but it's kind of upsetting.
Guys who claim to be God fearing, guys claiming to want a nice girl and etc
but then go after and flirt with skanks........
I mean women who take naked pictures and are rolling blunts....... come on.
Maybe these guys are not "men" but what the hell
who are these girls you speak of? I MUST FRIEND THEM IMMEDIATELY!
Come and get me!!!! I'm a sl** you don't even have to send a message as to WHY you want to friend me...I'll accept it...I'm so sl**ty
Errr yerhsh. That half naked bear pic you got - mmmm betty
how you like me now, baby? lol How YOU doing? :smokin:
you da bomb....lol 0 -
So doing housework, cooking, and taking care of our children makes you less than human? Thousands of years of "traditional gender roles" would beg to differ...seriously. because wanting to be treated as a human being is somehow a rejection of being a woman?? No it's because YOUR Definition of "woman" involves us being less than human. I call bull$hit on this one too.0 -
Many, many of the people on this thread just validate the overarching belief that women's bodies are public property. Excuse me while I throw up under my desk.0
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So doing housework, cooking, and taking care of our children makes you less than human? Thousands of years of "traditional gender roles" would beg to differ...seriously. because wanting to be treated as a human being is somehow a rejection of being a woman?? No it's because YOUR Definition of "woman" involves us being less than human. I call bull$hit on this one too.
You're the moron who called it not being an "equal"0 -
Sorry honey, but if you are sleeping with multiple guys you are devaluing the female gender as a whole. That is why other females get mad at you for it. Sex is a currency, the more there is in circulation the less it is worth. Men are the consumers and they want the value to go down so they have to invest less to get what they want. Investing less hurts society as a whole. We are a monogamist species because we women developed the ability to hide our ovulation so men couldn't just come around while we are in heat. This meant that if a man wanted a woman he had to work for it all the time in the hopes he could have a shot when the time was right. By giving it away for free you train the males that there is always a woman willing to give it up so there is no need to stay faithful to any one female. You in a very real sense cause the breakdown of the family unit and that is the downfall of society.
Im pretty sure the person that said this is someone I have on ignore that just now showed up with a hundred pound loss and the answers to everyone's problems, BUT - I still have to comment.if you are sleeping with multiple guys you are devaluing the female gender as a whole. That is why other females get mad at you for it.
If this was actually a problem, why is it the woman's fault and why are women the ones angry? Shouldn't men say to themselves - why am I sharing this woman with other men? Im out. Very similar to how society says - Dont get raped! As opposed to Dont Rape! You cant decide that having multiple partners as a consenting adult over 20 years after reaching adolescence and harming no one is a pandemic to blame on the girls....Sex is a currency, the more there is in circulation the less it is worth. Men are the consumers and they want the value to go down so they have to invest less to get what they want. Investing less hurts society as a whole.
Im a consumer. Not a product. When a man and woman have sex, they both have sex. One doesn't leave with a smaller inventory while the other leaves with an orgasm. Hopefully, they both leave feeling amazing. If not, something is WRONG.We are a monogamist species because we women developed the ability to hide our ovulation so men couldn't just come around while we are in heat. This meant that if a man wanted a woman he had to work for it all the time in the hopes he could have a shot when the time was right.
we are a monogomous (Christian/Hebrew Idea) because we evolved(Science) into one? I cannot hide it when Im ovulating, in heat (ridiculously most offensive term) or whatever you want to call it. Men are not indentured servants, they dont spend all their time earning the right to have sex with us. Sex is something special, enjoyable, healthy and intimate between two people. It's not a platform to manipulate the other gender. People who believe that also tend to have alot of problems in bed. You dont withhold it as punishment and you dont associate it with economics or guilt. It's sex. It's its very own thing.By giving it away for free you train the males that there is always a woman willing to give it up so there is no need to stay faithful to any one female.
Just because I dont charge for sex (cause to me that is the line between having a healthy sexual apetite and actually being a prostitute) whether it is monetarily or any other way, does not mean Im giving it away for free. Having sex does something to you.
"And once you start doin’ this stuff (sex), you’re not gonna wanna stop. You gotta know that it means something. It’s doing something to you, to your heart, to your self-esteem — even though it feels like you’re just havin’ fun. …when you’re ready, I want you to use it as a way to connect to another person. Don’t throw yourself around like you don’t matter. Cause you matter.”
The "something" that it means, that it does to you on the inside, that's what Im in it for. That's what I get out of it. Im not giving it away for free, Im connecting with another human being in a big lonely scattered isolated judgmental world. I feel like what I get out of it is so much more than the other person, that I feel like Im robbing them of something, not the other way around. it recharges my spirit.You in a very real sense cause the breakdown of the family unit and that is the downfall of society.
:frown: That is not my mission in life.0 -
So doing housework, cooking, and taking care of our children makes you less than human? Thousands of years of "traditional gender roles" would beg to differ...seriously. because wanting to be treated as a human being is somehow a rejection of being a woman?? No it's because YOUR Definition of "woman" involves us being less than human. I call bull$hit on this one too.
Dude you forgot sandwiches!0 -
Hey man, let's all take a minute and remember the summer of love, man. We are all like, one with the universe man, and should just love each other and not pass judgement man... mkay?
sounds like a plan...:flowerforyou:
Free love for everyone!
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Many, many of the people on this thread just validate the overarching belief that women's bodies are public property. Excuse me while I throw up under my desk.
Thank you.
I'll hold your hair back if you'll hold mine.
The right to be and do as you please without being judged for it because you are a woman is all I ask for. That means I don't have to have a baby if I don't want to. I can get equal pay if i want to. I can stay home with the kids while my husband works IF I WANT TO (and he agrees of course).
It's not rocket science. Really. It isn't.0 -
absolutely agree.lets live and let live.The real problem here isn't the guy involved or the lady involved, but why you give a cr*p about them doing their thing.
Focus on you. Your life, your health, your mind. Let other people focus on themselves and whatever they want/need/etc.0 -
I'm sure not all guys but it's kind of upsetting.
Guys who claim to be God fearing, guys claiming to want a nice girl and etc
but then go after and flirt with skanks........
I mean women who take naked pictures and are rolling blunts....... come on.
Maybe these guys are not "men" but what the hell
who are these girls you speak of? I MUST FRIEND THEM IMMEDIATELY!
Come and get me!!!! I'm a sl** you don't even have to send a message as to WHY you want to friend me...I'll accept it...I'm so sl**ty
Errr yerhsh. That half naked bear pic you got - mmmm betty
how you like me now, baby? lol How YOU doing? :smokin: you da bomb....lol
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I find it offensive that you have divided girls up into good/nice and slut/skank.
I don't believe the terms slut and skank should be used for anyone. Women can find liberation covered up or revealing skin, in abstinence or many partners. It's an individual choice and no one else's business.
Sorry honey, but if you are sleeping with multiple guys you are devaluing the female gender as a whole. That is why other females get mad at you for it. Sex is a currency, the more there is in circulation the less it is worth. Men are the consumers and they want the value to go down so they have to invest less to get what they want. Investing less hurts society as a whole. We are a monogamist species because we women developed the ability to hide our ovulation so men couldn't just come around while we are in heat. This meant that if a man wanted a woman he had to work for it all the time in the hopes he could have a shot when the time was right. By giving it away for free you train the males that there is always a woman willing to give it up so there is no need to stay faithful to any one female. You in a very real sense cause the breakdown of the family unit and that is the downfall of society.
Anyone that confuses sex, gender roles, and relationships with capitalist economic models has a sad sad view of what it means to be human. The premise of your view is all women have an equal sexonomic value, and you are exchanging your body for social and financial stability-- what could be more objectifying than that? What could devalue a woman as an individual more than that? How limited. How souless. How profoundly, profoundly sad.
Agreed.
Patriarchy and capitalism are so intimately linked, they reinforce and justify each other. So unfortunately, perceptions and practices of sex, gender and relationships are very much shaped by these systems.0 -
Some big Myan Godzilla is gonna come and bite the earth in half on Friday, so why are we saving it ladies. Get it out there. And then call my wife and tell her to participate.0
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So doing housework, cooking, and taking care of our children makes you less than human? Thousands of years of "traditional gender roles" would beg to differ...seriously. because wanting to be treated as a human being is somehow a rejection of being a woman?? No it's because YOUR Definition of "woman" involves us being less than human. I call bull$hit on this one too.
Please tell me that you didn't just use gender roles as proof that women are treated equally. Gender roles are a social convention. They are just a list of common expectations of a particular gender in society and a list of the ways that they are treated in society. Lets list some of these gender roles you feel support equality:
-women being expected to sit at home INSTEAD of pursuing an education or career
-women being considered sluts if they try to have the same sexual freedom as men
-women being paid less for doing the same job as a man
-women being considered currency
-women being expected to have a certain stereotypical aesthetic appearance, then being trashed if they embrace it
-women, in several cultures/countries are actually blamed and punished when THEY are raped
Should I really continue listing these?0 -
Clearly Yoovie has eaten at McDonalds and while she doesn't do it all the time, is occassionally satisfied by a big mac.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA I have never actually had a (nonsymbolic) BigMac
BUT - I have indulged in fast food in the past and it did leave my tummy kind of queasy lolol live and learn. Decide on a nice, big, healthy, homemade, full course, take your time, big kind of meal instead.... the kind that leaves you in a sort of coma afterwards.0 -
I'm sure not all guys but it's kind of upsetting.
Guys who claim to be God fearing, guys claiming to want a nice girl and etc
but then go after and flirt with skanks........
I mean women who take naked pictures and are rolling blunts....... come on.
Maybe these guys are not "men" but what the hell
Agreed
they are just looking for sex.
but when the time comes to find a girl to marry and have kids with, the sl*ts will not ever be considered.0 -
So doing housework, cooking, and taking care of our children makes you less than human? Thousands of years of "traditional gender roles" would beg to differ...seriously. because wanting to be treated as a human being is somehow a rejection of being a woman?? No it's because YOUR Definition of "woman" involves us being less than human. I call bull$hit on this one too.
I'm pretty sure that the 'traditional gender role' encompassed by men does not include going on the HCG diet to lose weight.
My biggest problem with this thread is that I'm going to have to wait a bit before sending out FR's to all the 'sluts' or they'll know why I'm adding them!0 -
So doing housework, cooking, and taking care of our children makes you less than human? Thousands of years of "traditional gender roles" would beg to differ...seriously. because wanting to be treated as a human being is somehow a rejection of being a woman?? No it's because YOUR Definition of "woman" involves us being less than human. I call bull$hit on this one too.
Please tell me that you didn't just use gender roles as proof that women are treated equally. Gender roles are a social convention. They are just a list of common expectations of a particular gender in society and a list of the ways that they are treated in society. Lets list some of these gender roles you feel support equality:
-women being expected to sit at home INSTEAD of pursuing an education or career
-women being considered sluts if they try to have the same sexual freedom as men
-women being paid less for doing the same job as a man
-women being considered currency
-women being expected to have a certain stereotypical aesthetic appearance, than being trashed if they embrace it
-women, in several cultures/countries are actually blamed and punished when THEY are raped
Should I really continue listing these?
I"M SO MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU. I just wanna lick your sexy brain.0 -
So doing housework, cooking, and taking care of our children makes you less than human? Thousands of years of "traditional gender roles" would beg to differ...seriously. because wanting to be treated as a human being is somehow a rejection of being a woman?? No it's because YOUR Definition of "woman" involves us being less than human. I call bull$hit on this one too.
Please tell me that you didn't just use gender roles as proof that women are treated equally. Gender roles are a social convention. They are just a list of common expectations of a particular gender in society and a list of the ways that they are treated in society. Lets list some of these gender roles you feel support equality:
-women being expected to sit at home INSTEAD of pursuing an education or career
-women being considered sluts if they try to have the same sexual freedom as men
-women being paid less for doing the same job as a man
-women being considered currency
-women being expected to have a certain stereotypical aesthetic appearance, than being trashed if they embrace it
-women, in several cultures/countries are actually blamed and punished when THEY are raped
Should I really continue listing these?
Please do, but talk louder as I can't hear you from that HUGE soapbox.0 -
I'm sure not all guys but it's kind of upsetting.
Guys who claim to be God fearing, guys claiming to want a nice girl and etc
but then go after and flirt with skanks........
I mean women who take naked pictures and are rolling blunts....... come on.
Maybe these guys are not "men" but what the hell
who are these girls you speak of? I MUST FRIEND THEM IMMEDIATELY!
Come and get me!!!! I'm a sl** you don't even have to send a message as to WHY you want to friend me...I'll accept it...I'm so sl**ty
Errr yerhsh. That half naked bear pic you got - mmmm betty
how you like me now, baby? lol How YOU doing? :smokin: you da bomb....lol now stop that!!! you're making my clothes fall off! 0 -
Smoking weed makes you a slut?I mean women who take naked pictures and are rolling blunts....... come on.
Yeah that's what I was wondering too! :huh: Guess I'm just a big ole slut! lol0 -
First off, your immediately gravitation toward name-calling reflects your apparent intelligence level.You're the moron who called it not being an "equal"
Secondly, just because both members of a family unit do not work outside the home and bring home a 6-figure salary does not mean that one of them is less than human or provides less to the household than the other.
My statement simply meant that I don't want to be married to someone that works outside the home. I've got that taken care of. I want someone to take care of the "home front" while I finance the operation.
I'm not the only one that feels this way either:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/11/26/fox-news-women-suzanne-venker-arent-women-anymore-war-on-men_n_2193234.html0 -
Be thankful for those types of guys that show their true behavior. Now you know what you DON'T want.
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So doing housework, cooking, and taking care of our children makes you less than human? Thousands of years of "traditional gender roles" would beg to differ...seriously. because wanting to be treated as a human being is somehow a rejection of being a woman?? No it's because YOUR Definition of "woman" involves us being less than human. I call bull$hit on this one too.
Please tell me that you didn't just use gender roles as proof that women are treated equally. Gender roles are a social convention. They are just a list of common expectations of a particular gender in society and a list of the ways that they are treated in society. Lets list some of these gender roles you feel support equality:
-women being expected to sit at home INSTEAD of pursuing an education or career
-women being considered sluts if they try to have the same sexual freedom as men
-women being paid less for doing the same job as a man
-women being considered currency
-women being expected to have a certain stereotypical aesthetic appearance, than being trashed if they embrace it
-women, in several cultures/countries are actually blamed and punished when THEY are raped
Should I really continue listing these?
This.
And to the person above you talked about traditional gender roles as valuable, I agree. Being a feminist, an equalist, pro-feminism, pro-woman (whatever you want to label these particular values), is NOT an attack on housework and childrearing. The point is that these things should not be expectations and they should not be undervalued. In our society they are. Women should be able to make choices without external pressure (including feminist pressure); however, in our society it is usually expected that women should be the primary caregivers. And the role is also undervalued in terms of social status and financial recognition. The point is to get rid of these expected gender roles and make activities gender neutral and all valuable.0 -
girls say that want a nice guy and go for *kitten*0
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